A yes and no. Yes, since our family is a generation of Gamblers from our great grandfather to our generation. Well, a number of our relatives became so addicted to gambling that costs there family, work, business, relationship, and life. So our elders tend to limit us to gamble and tons of advise were handed to us. No, given the fact that we are prone to addiction I still chose or decide to gamble anyway for the sake of acceptance.
You people haven’t done anything wrong here because you people have got gambling as a generation gift. But one thing here which I would oppose here is that no matter if you have generation of gamblers but still you people can easily change your way of living with gambling and if you people don’t change, then this is your mistake and you people would have to face the consequences of gambling in your future. 
Topic: Does your family past incidents effect you? (Read 770 times)
Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
My explanation about this,that gambling is not like a disease that incurable,so there is nothing wrong in gambling as long you know your limits of when you should stop to play the games,and you know how to divide your time of your family and to your habits or recreation of yourself,in other words you know how to control yourself,so that you would not become addicted in gambling so that you dont be like your uncle become lossing of his entire asset.
that knowing how to control and setting up limitations will allow us to avoid such things, but considering the numbers of addicted gamblers, its really
not that easy so better to always look beyond and those possible outcome of your actions, experience of someone can give us some light in order not
to do the same mistake.
Family past incidents will always play an effect in the minds of those who may want to consider gambling since they could have seen some family members that gambling has had an adverse effect on before and hence use that in their own decision making when it comes to gambling.
When family members do hide such incidents for the reason of shame or not encouraging then new generation of people get fail to make use of those incidents. I am saying this because my father hides his many frustrating gambling incidents. If he would have shared then that might have given me a change. Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
My explanation about this,that gambling is not like a disease that incurable,so there is nothing wrong in gambling as long you know your limits of when you should stop to play the games,and you know how to divide your time of your family and to your habits or recreation of yourself,in other words you know how to control yourself,so that you would not become addicted in gambling so that you dont be like your uncle become lossing of his entire asset.
that knowing how to control and setting up limitations will allow us to avoid such things, but considering the numbers of addicted gamblers, its really
not that easy so better to always look beyond and those possible outcome of your actions, experience of someone can give us some light in order not
to do the same mistake.
Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
My explanation about this,that gambling is not like a disease that incurable,so there is nothing wrong in gambling as long you know your limits of when you should stop to play the games,and you know how to divide your time of your family and to your habits or recreation of yourself,in other words you know how to control yourself,so that you would not become addicted in gambling so that you dont be like your uncle become lossing of his entire asset.
When you see your uncle and your grandfather lose everything by gambling, do you still want to gamble? If you still want to gamble, please gamble but you should be prepared if if you fail and end up like your uncle and grandfather. When you are forbidden to gamble by your family, you can still gamble in secret, but you must accept the consequences if you get caught.
This even happens in different families that if the elders lost everything in gambling, they often advice their juniors not to involve in gambling ever. Really if anyone have been to this stage where he once had everything and now he is just zero status person, such people always advice others to keep themselves away from gambling. They know it better that it is nothing but a trap. 
If you forbid something to a kid then kid will find that even more attractive. Forbidding anything will have contra effects in most situations.
I believe people hear many bad stories about gambling generally, sometimes with family members involved, that's always makes situation more complicated.
I'm not affected by any of this stories because I started to gamble with sports betting with friends from soccer, more seriously gambling came after. I build my way alone, and I know how to handle with gambling. Its something you need to learn. When we are about that its important for very life aspect you can think off, you need to know how to handle with good and bad times, and to not let something to lead you in crash or disaster of any kind. Gambling is special because you can climb fast, but you can fall even faster, don't fool yourself its like that in everything just time for climbing and falling is different.
Learn kids how to control their emotions and how to properly decide what is good and what is bad, if you try with forbidding kids will try to find a way to skip your bans and to try that sweet forbidden things.
If you do not forbid it anyway and keep quiet about it, the kid will still find it attractive if he or she wants to. However, it is better to forbid it in a wise way than not to forbid it at all. A lot of people have forbidden things without even explaining why it is wrong. Paint a very bad picture of what gambling does to a kid, and you will surprise it would never leave their head for the rest of their life.I believe people hear many bad stories about gambling generally, sometimes with family members involved, that's always makes situation more complicated.
I'm not affected by any of this stories because I started to gamble with sports betting with friends from soccer, more seriously gambling came after. I build my way alone, and I know how to handle with gambling. Its something you need to learn. When we are about that its important for very life aspect you can think off, you need to know how to handle with good and bad times, and to not let something to lead you in crash or disaster of any kind. Gambling is special because you can climb fast, but you can fall even faster, don't fool yourself its like that in everything just time for climbing and falling is different.
Learn kids how to control their emotions and how to properly decide what is good and what is bad, if you try with forbidding kids will try to find a way to skip your bans and to try that sweet forbidden things.
I remember how my dad used to tell me how my granddad ruined his life from being a wealthy man to a pauper as a result of gambling. That shit stuck. Gambling itself is not usually the problem anyway, it is always us and most times, those who are greedy naturally are always the ones who usually end up falling into the trap of addiction when it comes to gambling.
Family past incidents will always play an effect in the minds of those who may want to consider gambling since they could have seen some family members that gambling has had an adverse effect on before and hence use that in their own decision making when it comes to gambling.
Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
My family does not experienced that kind of incidents. Actually your friends family has the valid reason why your friends they dont want him to play as you can see his family experienced failure and even got broke because of losing in gambling. Just give him a piece of advice to divert gambling into sports so he won't think or feel the eagerness to gamble so the incidents that happened to his uncle and grand father won't happen to him.
My family doesn't really care at all if I'll gamble, they just let me gamble. I'm grown up and they are just supporting me with what I do. What's good here is that I'm the only one that gambles in our family so my parents are good with it and there's no past bad experience from gambling.
When you see your uncle and your grandfather lose everything by gambling, do you still want to gamble? If you still want to gamble, please gamble but you should be prepared if if you fail and end up like your uncle and grandfather. When you are forbidden to gamble by your family, you can still gamble in secret, but you must accept the consequences if you get caught.
That's definitely a sight that you won't want to see especially if you are close to your father, uncle or anyone who you respect. I think you should be prepared for everything, not just in gambling. There are a lot of things to consider especially if you have managed to create your own way to gamble, probably strategies. Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
My family does not experienced that kind of incidents. Actually your friends family has the valid reason why your friends they dont want him to play as you can see his family experienced failure and even got broke because of losing in gambling. Just give him a piece of advice to divert gambling into sports so he won't think or feel the eagerness to gamble so the incidents that happened to his uncle and grand father won't happen to him. 
When you see your uncle and your grandfather lose everything by gambling, do you still want to gamble? If you still want to gamble, please gamble but you should be prepared if if you fail and end up like your uncle and grandfather. When you are forbidden to gamble by your family, you can still gamble in secret, but you must accept the consequences if you get caught.
Yes i am also, have uncle addict in gambling. From what was originally a millionaire is now a rough-handed worker in an iron factory. When i tried to gamble, he rebuked me. He said: "I saving you, doesn't want to fall poor like me and enough me, not my nephew."
It is good to learn from other's experience but it is still your own choice whether to gamble or not after looking the fact of your uncle. As long as you can control yourself, gambling would never make you poor. Someone get into poorness because of gambling means that he/she could not control and manage him/herself while gambling. There is one key to avoid the worst thing "KNOW YOUR LIMIT".
If he cannot learn from his uncle's mistake on how he ended up screwing up himself with his gambling issue, I wonder who else he is going to end up learning from. If gamblers start learning their lessons from others then the suffering rate of gamblers may get slow down. It is not possible for anyone to learn from the first day of gambling. But must get practice to learn afterwards at least.
A yes and no. Yes, since our family is a generation of Gamblers from our great grandfather to our generation. Well, a number of our relatives became so addicted to gambling that costs there family, work, business, relationship, and life. So our elders tend to limit us to gamble and tons of advise were handed to us. No, given the fact that we are prone to addiction I still chose or decide to gamble anyway for the sake of acceptance.
I don't face such thing as this one but I can understand the lesson that he needs to stop or else he may face the same consequence and experience.
I agree, once we are involve to gambling it was not easy to stop it. As the time passed by it was like gambling controlling us and getting our attention to give on it. It can really destroy one realtionship like family, so if you dont want to destroy your family better to stop it and do your best for it. Family over money must you need toYes it really affects me my past incidents in gambling. It's really difficult to be addicted in gambling because you might lost you're family as well.This situation affects me until now l can't move on.
You have to move on or else you will be chase up by that situation that you are facing. Better to lose money rather than to lose your loved ones because of gambling.Put in your mind.
Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
His friend is a good person and teaches that gambling is a bad thing. The fact playing gambling is a bad and unhelpful act. We all know that playing gambling has a bad impact on our lives, one of the worst points is that we get a bad addiction, and that addiction will make us not think well. Believe that when you decide to play gambling then you have agreed to enter the ruin of your life. You will destroy your life when you have tried to believe in the gambling game. Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?
Are there any reasons prior to why he wants to gamble? I mean, from the information you provided it proved that he still owns tons of assets despite his grandfather losing some cash. Is it a form of entertainment for him? Does it provide refuge or does gambling cushion him from feeling depress? I am also confused to this ambiguity and quite perplexed.
In adherence to those things that I mentioned, gambling can never be profitable in the long-run. It would only aggravate his situation since he might let his frustrations take over his decision making skills. Tell your friend to NOT gamble and to focus on the things that are paramount to their family's success rather than resorting to a method that may lead to his downfall.
Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.
Yes I agree, he must listen coming from experience gambler who do really wanted not to experience the same situation again. If I were him I must follow and never make a decisions into gambling because others got addicted because of this feeling urge to play. Much better to get rid of this gambling since other members of his family loses a lot of assets, so he should not do the same incidents again and it might affect the person. Biggest loss in gambling when we have lost everything like assets, this situation come when we have become addicted and in this time, no one convince them, because it is very hard to convince the addicted gambler. For me, addicted gambler is like a disease patient and he has a last stage, where he will die and useless. When we can't learn from our bad experience then it means we do mistake every time in our life. So, it is happened with him, because he couldn't learn from his gambling bad experience.
Well one of the most foolish mistakes one can make is to disregard the lessons of past experiences whether it's yours or it's other people's. Especially when it's about gambling where it can be a make or break experience in your life.
If your friend's family banned your friend on gambling then that means he/she is still dependent on them? Because if not, he/she is free to visit any casino and gamble. But past family experiences served as a lesson to remember that gambling is for entertainment purposes and avoid risking money you cannot afford to lose.
I see people start gambling for entertainment but later on they forget it and play gambling with full of risk. You are right if we play gambling without taking the risk then gambling definitely become us only for enjoyment. But some family members have ban to their kids becasue they have some bad experience from gambling. So it is normal thing, just like Why we advice to others, don't take big risk in gambling?
Because we all know that gambling in a minute destroy us so every senior family members care us, that's why they ban on us to play gambling.
But i have one solution of it that play online bitcoin gambling, no one can judge in your family that you are playing gambling or not. Like me, i am playing bitcoin online gambling but my family doesn't know about it.
Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.
Yes I agree, he must listen coming from experience gambler who do really wanted not to experience the same situation again. If I were him I must follow and never make a decisions into gambling because others got addicted because of this feeling urge to play. Much better to get rid of this gambling since other members of his family loses a lot of assets, so he should not do the same incidents again and it might affect the person. Biggest loss in gambling when we have lost everything like assets, this situation come when we have become addicted and in this time, no one convince them, because it is very hard to convince the addicted gambler. For me, addicted gambler is like a disease patient and he has a last stage, where he will die and useless. When we can't learn from our bad experience then it means we do mistake every time in our life. So, it is happened with him, because he couldn't learn from his gambling bad experience.
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