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Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes, in a way seeing a part of my family getting addicted to gambling. Hearing a female family member rant that his husband or partner is spending most of his time with friends and betting on cockfighting. He may also do it in a way, that slowly he may be choosing obssessively and that creates a negative impression on excessive gambling and that is effective to me

Actually gambling not suit for everyone, but you have lesson from your family member's past bad experience of gambling. So same here in this thread asking us. But i aware you that everyone has his own luck and different luck, it is not fact that everyone will be fail in gambling.

I do agree, but everyone think gambling is for them Cheesy

me included lol. But the bitter truth is, if we failed to control ourselves or take lesson from the people around us, we will failed to see what is waiting for us at the end when we become addicted to gambling. That is why, there should be an effect when there is incidents around us especially within family/relative members have a failed result because of gambling. We do not need to experience stuff to learn, we can set other experience as example.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

What your friends' family do in my opinion is true. They do not want their family members to suffer the same fate as them, in regards with gambling. You should tell your friends to follow his family's suggestions.

I had never been in a situation like this since all of my family members are not into gambling,but maybe for vices like being alcoholic.They always warn me not to drink too much everytime there are occassions i attended.But in your case,do not make it as a major problem.Let your friend follow his family's suggestions and advices because they are just thinking for his own good.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes, in a way seeing a part of my family getting addicted to gambling. Hearing a female family member rant that his husband or partner is spending most of his time with friends and betting on cockfighting. He may also do it in a way, that slowly he may be choosing obssessively and that creates a negative impression on excessive gambling and that is effective to me

Actually gambling not suit for everyone, but you have lesson from your family member's past bad experience of gambling. So same here in this thread asking us. But i aware you that everyone has his own luck and different luck, it is not fact that everyone will be fail in gambling.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

What your friends' family do in my opinion is true. They do not want their family members to suffer the same fate as them, in regards with gambling. You should tell your friends to follow his family's suggestions.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Don't bother their problem, maybe their family is not really good in gambling so maybe it is okay for your friend not to gamble so he will not making another loss for their family. It is not also good that you push your friend to an activity that is no assurance that he will really win. You all both know that gambling is just a matter of luck and if you don't have luck you will not gain profit in gambling.

You are right maybe tell to his friend that gambling is need a luck to win and much better tell him that gambling is not good especially that his history are losing all their money. Tell him to stop gambling than he can lost also everything he has.

Giving advices specially to your friend might able to convince him or not on playing gambling but it would really be worth a try since we do have already the idea on the possible things might happen ahead on playing too much gambling but if he do insist on playing or proceeding and taking aside all of your advices then its his choice as long we wont be blamed because we did already tell him on the possible things might be experienced.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes, in a way seeing a part of my family getting addicted to gambling. Hearing a female family member rant that his husband or partner is spending most of his time with friends and betting on cockfighting. He may also do it in a way, that slowly he may be choosing obssessively and that creates a negative impression on excessive gambling and that is effective to me

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Don't bother their problem, maybe their family is not really good in gambling so maybe it is okay for your friend not to gamble so he will not making another loss for their family. It is not also good that you push your friend to an activity that is no assurance that he will really win. You all both know that gambling is just a matter of luck and if you don't have luck you will not gain profit in gambling.

You are right maybe tell to his friend that gambling is need a luck to win and much better tell him that gambling is not good especially that his history are losing all their money. Tell him to stop gambling than he can lost also everything he has.

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Quote from: Nivir on February 08, 2018, 01:49:10 AM

If your friend's family banned your friend on gambling then that means he/she is still dependent on them? Because if not, he/she is free to visit any casino and gamble. But past family experiences served as a lesson to remember that gambling is for entertainment purposes and avoid risking money you cannot afford to lose.

It’s obvious that if the friend of mine is banned from going out to casinos means that he is dependent on his parents that’s why he cannot come to the casino to continue gambling even if he likes the most. But I think it is good for him not someone else because at that age, he would be not so mature to understand the side effects of anything but later on when he will remember these thing, he would thank God that his parents saved his life before it became like a prison.

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There some are family like that who is looking to your future they did not want you to involved gambling in your life because they know that gambling turns you nothing. Maybe they have done in gambling and they see that maybe it is the cause some gamblers turns to addiction.

My mother always tells me that I need to gamble to earn any money. She says that it is better for me to remain poor than to become rich by gambling. I know that we can have difference of opinion but it is nice to have someone concerned about your life.

I think you have missed a “don’t” in your statement because it took me two minutes to understand this statement as this is a vague statement without one don’t. Still yes, your mother is saying it so true. It is quite better to be poor than to be rich by gambling. Because this is unlawful in our society and you don’t need to get indulged into this harmful game that can make you unhealthy.

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I would surely stop him if someone in my family had lost his assets in such i would make sure he doesn't end up like him.

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

They are correct gambling isn't any form of investment it is based on pure luck if you have a chance to earn money there is a chance to lose also , i might allow him to gamble occasionally

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes my family past affect me, it's the the way that I become strong because l have to be matured inspite of the circumstances passes by l have to face it.l grow up with my grandmother no parents.Problems makes me strong, l look for my parents that they should be on my side in times l need them. But l don't have choice but to stand up alone. My grandma support me financially but emotionally l can't tell her all about me. So l just keep on my own until l recover.

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Quote from: ajochems on February 13, 2018, 03:30:47 PM

Ya it surely affect them to involve in gambling. If any of the family member is died at low age due to drug or alcohol addiction means, the children in their family will not use to take the alcohol or drugs.Like wise,if any of the gambler family member lost their property or asset in gambling, the gambler will not ready to participate in gambling.

influence in addiction mostly inherited by their family memberor closes one if this addiction helped them to live a life,just for example those addict that became a drug pushers.if this is theyre bread and butter,the family will be the next to handle this business as theyre become dependent unto this

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

If ever I am part of the family of your friend then I would suggest not to gamble too. They already lose millions because of it but if your friend still wanted to try gambling then he can try it using his own money not from his family so that if ever he lose his money then his family cannot say that he wasted their assets. Your friend would eventually realize too the importance of money if he works hard to earn it and then gamble.

Gambling is not bad if it is money you can afford to lose but if it is for your needs then definitely there is something wrong with it. Your friend can just try gambling through crypto since this can be done anonymously and if ever he won then he can show to his family that not every one can be a loser but if he lose, then he would just prove to his family that they are right.

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Ya it surely affect them to involve in gambling. If any of the family member is died at low age due to drug or alcohol addiction means, the children in their family will not use to take the alcohol or drugs.Like wise,if any of the gambler family member lost their property or asset in gambling, the gambler will not ready to participate in gambling.

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Quote from: Lionidas on February 11, 2018, 07:59:52 PM

My father was a gambler so I would think I take after him. He did only bet on the cities small lottery with buying $2 tickets at a time. But then it grew to $10 and then finally to $50 a week on lotto.
You do see it as a small problem but then it grows into a larger one if they are doing it day after day after day.

Eventually it moved on to the land based casinos.
So yes, it did affect me and my family with him doing this cause it took off the food of our dinner table with him spending it at the casino all day long.

I did start to go to the casinos as well when I was of age.
So I did take after him.
But I do not go there anymore after losing my entire paycheck one day.
I said I had it and vowed never to be drawn into that life style ever again. Embarrassed

It always grows. It has a way of enticing you to put more and more. The truth is that human mind is naturally greedy and it takes a lot of discipline and principles to be able to control those greed impulses. You are already in the lifestyle really, just that you are being wise about yours and trying as much as possible to learn from the mistakes of the older generation so you won't make the same. However, you still need to be very careful as long as you are in the world, and see every of your actions like you are just having fun to help place your mind exactly where it needs to be.

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Addiction of gambling is not a big issue because if people gable and get good experience they will like bitcoin gambling and people bet and get profit; if you have any family trust issue with bitcoin then you will have to consult with them so that they wilt hell you the good and bad of Gambling not all people are able to have profit from gambling, so if we will learn before we get in gambling is will prevent us to have any kid of serious lose as learning from other people experience is the best experience.

I disagree that gambling addiction is not a big issue. And there is no good experience once you are addicted in gambling. All your controls, moderations, will be nothing since, when you are addicted all you care about is how you can play the game without thinking any circumstances that might happen. Gambling moderation is the way to go, learn, observe and control your self. Learn to manage your cashflows in a casino.

Actually even not the family past incidents will affect us, if your neighbor loses witnessed by you or your parents, they will definitely tell you to avoid gambling. It is the experienced by the people around us that have effect on us not only our family past experience.

But to me i also think that addiction is not such a big issue. To me i think the big issue is that how you are playing gambling. And the issue is that either you have control over your emotions or not. If you are addicted to gambling and still if you have good control over your emotions no doubt that you can play gambling in a good way and it will never effect you so much.

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If they have past issues about gambling in the past,maybe you should stop it,if you cannot manage it and be responsible in your finances or family obligations even though you are playing gambling.It is based on your decisions and there are some issues that lots of millionaires loose their money because of getting addicted in gambling.

The wisest person is who learns from the mistakes and experience of others, who observes, listen to others and think before taking a step. Even if there was no one in the family who has suffered due to gambling in the past, still my suggestion would be to stay away from this game.

It is very addictive and destructive. Many people have lost their lives due to this by attempting suicide. Like you said, better to not get involved into it.

If you are enough the make the money more than your enjoyment on real time. You have to check the your complete asset before you go to invest on betting or other gambling options. You said that people going to commit suicide also sometime but the fact they are completely loose all the money they enjoyed and that takes his decision to like that.
Keep stay when you loose your initial investment also when the time you started onwards.

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Quote from: syamster on February 09, 2018, 02:16:48 PM

Addiction of gambling is not a big issue because if people gable and get good experience they will like bitcoin gambling and people bet and get profit; if you have any family trust issue with bitcoin then you will have to consult with them so that they wilt hell you the good and bad of Gambling not all people are able to have profit from gambling, so if we will learn before we get in gambling is will prevent us to have any kid of serious lose as learning from other people experience is the best experience.

I disagree that gambling addiction is not a big issue. And there is no good experience once you are addicted in gambling. All your controls, moderations, will be nothing since, when you are addicted all you care about is how you can play the game without thinking any circumstances that might happen. Gambling moderation is the way to go, learn, observe and control your self. Learn to manage your cashflows in a casino.

Actually even not the family past incidents will affect us, if your neighbor loses witnessed by you or your parents, they will definitely tell you to avoid gambling. It is the experienced by the people around us that have effect on us not only our family past experience.

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Quote from: Saveplus on February 07, 2018, 08:53:36 AM

If they have past issues about gambling in the past,maybe you should stop it,if you cannot manage it and be responsible in your finances or family obligations even though you are playing gambling.It is based on your decisions and there are some issues that lots of millionaires loose their money because of getting addicted in gambling.

The wisest person is who learns from the mistakes and experience of others, who observes, listen to others and think before taking a step. Even if there was no one in the family who has suffered due to gambling in the past, still my suggestion would be to stay away from this game.

It is very addictive and destructive. Many people have lost their lives due to this by attempting suicide. Like you said, better to not get involved into it.

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Quote from: lili song on February 13, 2018, 05:32:56 AM

It doesn't effect me, but I can learn and aware from their experience for my future. I hope it will happen again in me.
For gambling we must can control our emotional and set the budget for play the gambling. If not will lose much money.
So that the important and simple things before do gambling.

That's a good thing for you to do especially that you could control yourself with it. The past is really for experiences and you have no other sources of knowledge than that. I agree with you that you need to control your emotions in gambling and it would be a better experience with that.

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