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Quote from: Baoo on January 28, 2018, 10:33:16 AM

Everything is in your mind, that's means when you think of negative things ( like, I cannot win , I'm a loser )

Yes that negative think may turn you a loser forever, in doing gambling you must have a positive energy or having a good vibes.
If you don't have these things much better to stop gambling or else you may lose all your money.

Frankly speaking gambling is not good to us, why do we need to gambled our money besides, we all both know that gambling is 99% risky.
Does your family past incidents effect you?.. That's a case to case basis you may gambled even they did not know, or you may gambled at some gambling site that they don't know. There's many way if you want not just because of your past family do.

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Everything is in your mind, that's means when you think of negative things ( like, I cannot win , I'm a loser ) then it will adversely affect your destiny and the same is true for gambling. Moreover, Of course, the fate of a family member ( in gambling) does not affect other individuals . but the problem that many people imitate their family members in many things, especially in negative things .

Furthermore, It is very important to deal with the truth and for example, if you lose a big amount of money in gambling, You must accept this loss and deal with this problem, learn from this experience and start over, then the financial loss will be compensated with substantial profits.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Well the elders who have lost in Gambling will never want their siblings or anyone close to them lose or face such difficulties which they have experienced. They are right in one sense but thing may not be same for every person.

Perhaps your friend luck is better than his uncle and he can be a millionaire in short time, but there is no grantee . Risk of losing still resides.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I don't see how anyone can stop him for doing what he wants to do if he is 18+, as it is not your family you really should stay out of it.

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

anyone else faces such issues?

Yes but not in gambling. When two are fighting it is best to step aside Wink

That's true , besides as long as he is old enough to being responsible on whatever he wanted , you cannot do much with that fact but give some suggestion is necessary.
Everyone with this similar cases won't let their family member to do the same mistake.
for sure you are the only one who can decide , but yeaa it has an effect to change your decision.

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For me i would suggest no to try it, you know they have bad history in gambling they losses huge amount of money not only 1 family member experience that but 2, i feel that their family has no luck in gambling much better to find alternative way to make them self entertain and used his money in other method that he can able to earn much better income.

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Due to their past experiences they are aware of the possible consequences that might happen to your friend and so he should take that advise from them and forget about gambling. There an alternative ways if he just want to have fun, they are just afraid your friend commit the same mistakes that probably they wish didnt do.

Better to do other activites with your friend instead of proving them wrong about gambling. You might be put in a hard situation if you interfere in their stance.

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I think you should stay away from his problem because that is his not yours. It is your duty to back him up, but do not waste your time convincing his parents they are on the wrong foot. Believe me, they will never be convinced because parents in general think they always are right.

Plus, I do not understand why your friend wants to gamble so bad. It is really a waste of time and money. Instead, convince your friend to stop gambling and fulfill his time with various activities.

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Quote from: eternalgloom on January 26, 2018, 11:20:49 AM

How old is the person you're talking about? If he's an adult, I don't really see how his family could really stop him from gambling with his own money.
It's understandable though that they're trying to prevent him make the same mistakes as his uncle, but if he's older than 21 they can't.

I'm not really sure if an addictive personality is hereditary, but I've found one source that says it is.
So he might be smart to abstain from gambling.

Source:
http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/addiction/genes/

In the end, it's really up to him if he want to roll the dice on becoming addicted or not, seems like he would have an increased chance of that happening.

I didn't even expect that addictive personality can be passed on into younger generations.The actions been made by his family isn't bad at all because they are just preventing to lose up even more money not only on money matter but also they are really avoiding on getting addicted because it is much more a serious problem if this thing attached to yourself but I do believe that it is really just matter on ones personality if you do able yourself got hooked into it. No one can able to control yourself no matter how hard they would try to avoid.

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Quote from: machinek20 on January 26, 2018, 09:30:07 AM

I think the best way to deal with this problem is to stay away from it, they have a good reason to forbid your friend from gambling, and they forbid gambling because they dont want to repeat the same history, if you keep convince them wrong and in the end they lost a lot of money, then you will be blamed

If someone is forbidding you from gambling, believe me he is sincere with you. We should learn from others or at least pay a little attention to their words, especially close ones because they are the people who feel more pain by watching you in trouble. And for those who have friends persuading them to play gambling, I really pity such guys and I hope they find a good rather intelligent company soon.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

They may very well be right in restricting him from gambling. They've seen first hand how gambling can drain a person's money so they're restriction comes from a valid point. It can also be a general lesson not only for your friend but anyone who's trying to gamble

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

I don't see how anyone can stop him for doing what he wants to do if he is 18+, as it is not your family you really should stay out of it.

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

anyone else faces such issues?

Yes but not in gambling. When two are fighting it is best to step aside Wink

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

The reason behind that isue is the luckyness because they believed in the bad aura that you have when your relatives have misfurtune in gambling. So that they could'nt allow that kind of terrible thing to enter because they believed that they may lose all because of you and you are the only one to be blame for. Thats what the reason and also they would not want to be with you because you have a misfutune that be enherit to your relatives. For me i think that its not true maybe we have some reason except of that.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Tell him to tell them to fuck off and then to go on a week-long trip to Las Vegas having fun like it's his last day on Earth Grin

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Don't stand between your friend and his relatives or you'll be the one who will be in trouble and receive the consequences. Don't explain anything if there's a tie between relatives, you don't put yourself any among of them. Been into that the same situation but not with gambling and in the end, I blamed myself trying to help others.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

If you are helping him explain to them that they are wrong, you had better just give him your own money to gamble with then see how it goes. This is a family who not only have evidence based on hearsay, but witnessed it first hand and I am sure your friend must have met one or two of the people reference is being made and there is no amount of explanation you will do that will make the family change their mind.

If he is bent on gambling, just tell him to go make his own money, gamble with it, make tons of more money then come back to shame his family on how wrong they are by banning him from gambling. Its that simple.

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What is the sense of encouraging your friend from doing gambling? Even you explained already to the family of your friend you still can’t convinced them because they experienced a lot i think compared to you. Just listen to them and you will not loose much money. Don’t pass the greed to people who you really care for.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 05:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

It would be wise if he listens to his family and doesn't gamble at all, there is nothing to prove that what happened to his uncle or grandfather might or might not happen to him but to be on the safe side, It would be okay if he doesn't and end up following what seems to be a family trend.

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They didn’t loose that amont in just 1day is seems like they are addict on gambling. You have to agree on that, because in the first place they already experienced it, and imagine you have a lot of money yet you ended up nothing. Why still encourage your friend to do gambling, this should not be tolerated because gambling is too risky specially when you do this for a living so learn from the expert who loose big money in the casinos.

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Well if it's in their blood, its probably going to continue or be passed on in some way. Those uncles that he has perhaps got too addicted to gambling that he didn't control himself and continues to think that he was still a lot of money, but those amounts are hard to come by, especially if you don't have a business or something.

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Quote from: eternalgloom on January 26, 2018, 11:20:49 AM

How old is the person you're talking about? If he's an adult, I don't really see how his family could really stop him from gambling with his own money.
It's understandable though that they're trying to prevent him make the same mistakes as his uncle, but if he's older than 21 they can't.

I'm not really sure if an addictive personality is hereditary, but I've found one source that says it is.
So he might be smart to abstain from gambling.

Source:
http://learn.genetics.utah.edu/content/addiction/genes/

In the end, it's really up to him if he want to roll the dice on becoming addicted or not, seems like he would have an increased chance of that happening.

There is a good chance it can be inheritable. And personally, it's a bit curious a person who had an uncle in a desastrous situation like that, and now is wanting to gamble too... Why is this young enchanted for gambling knowing it was very harmful for his family?

At first point it can be his own decision to gamble or not, but it's necessary to keep in mind that if he is an addicted person the problem won't be only his, but the whole family will suffer again... To not be radical, a family member could go with him to a casino or stay with him during an online casino game, observing his behavior until reaching to the conclusion he is safe to play by himself or not.

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