Does your family past incidents effect you? - page 7.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

In my family, no one was involved with gambling but I do gamble sometimes for fun. I do not think having someone in the family in past as gambler makes any difference. It is obvious that the other family members will stop your friend from gambling. He can play on casinos where no money is involved. Another option is to hide these activities from families but it requires certain conditions to be fulfilled.

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Quote from: btc-facebook on February 07, 2018, 10:51:50 AM

It will be nice if people are explain the worst first when they try to do something risky but eventually the decision is made by himself since the gambler already mature and rational enough to think the best for his life.
It's always be a circle of life because gambling always exist and attract every people in this world except you're live in the "jungle"

Quote from: Xenrise on February 07, 2018, 05:01:40 PM

It really doesn't affect my gambling game because my mom is not disproving my gambing game. In fact whenever I won a pot, my mom and dad are very happy. So I think that it is healthy for me to gamble. Although sometimes I wins a lot, sometimes I don't. So it is just a self regulation.

What do you mean by past incident? What do you mean is a family matter? Or a financial problem in the family? Of course the past will definitely affect us all. Whether it's a family issue or a financial problem. For example my family, a lot of family problems arising from financial problems, one of which is home. Until now my family still lives in my grandparents' house, and I do not have my own house yet. So many problems arose with my cousin. And also there was my cousin who had gone bankruptcy business, so I got scared if told to work with him.

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Quote from: pixie85 on January 28, 2018, 05:32:46 PM

I don't have such problems because I haven't had any problems with gambling and none of my family members had. I can relate to this in a way because I had some addicts in my family, mostly alcoholics, and this made the rest of them really watchful and scared of any excessive drinking on my part. The only way to battle this is to keep your gambling a secret because they will never stop worrying otr trying to stop you.

Same with my part too.Most of my family are really hard drinkers so eventually they are called addicts on liquors already.But when it comes to gambling,the only person i knew is my father but he's not addict on it.So i would not hide to my family already if i gamble occassionally,i'll just seek an advice from my father how to deal with it.After all i'll only gamble primarily for fun and not making it as a living.

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Seeking advice isn't bad but on general speak even yourself awareness would already know on what you must do since you are already aware on the possible cases that would happen if you do let your self fall into gambling addiction. We do all have vices or addiction into a particular thing but there are things that should really be avoided since from the start because possibilities on wrecking you and messing your entire life is there.If we don't like to suffer such consequences then we should really be responsible with our actions.

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It really doesn't affect my gambling game because my mom is not disproving my gambing game. In fact whenever I won a pot, my mom and dad are very happy. So I think that it is healthy for me to gamble. Although sometimes I wins a lot, sometimes I don't. So it is just a self regulation.

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It will be nice if people are explain the worst first when they try to do something risky but eventually the decision is made by himself since the gambler already mature and rational enough to think the best for his life.
It's always be a circle of life because gambling always exist and attract every people in this world except you're live in the "jungle"

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Quote from: pixie85 on January 28, 2018, 05:32:46 PM

I don't have such problems because I haven't had any problems with gambling and none of my family members had. I can relate to this in a way because I had some addicts in my family, mostly alcoholics, and this made the rest of them really watchful and scared of any excessive drinking on my part. The only way to battle this is to keep your gambling a secret because they will never stop worrying otr trying to stop you.

Same with my part too.Most of my family are really hard drinkers so eventually they are called addicts on liquors already.But when it comes to gambling,the only person i knew is my father but he's not addict on it.So i would not hide to my family already if i gamble occassionally,i'll just seek an advice from my father how to deal with it.After all i'll only gamble primarily for fun and not making it as a living.

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If they have past issues about gambling in the past,maybe you should stop it,if you cannot manage it and be responsible in your finances or family obligations even though you are playing gambling.It is based on your decisions and there are some issues that lots of millionaires loose their money because of getting addicted in gambling.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Even how many times you keep on telling them that I'm sure they will never believed you since they have their trauma already. And in my own opinion as I am an observer I have many seen gamblers ends in losing their money in a million or their properties because of gambling. So how come that gambling is good? Where's the good effect from bitcoin? So better for him to be bared from gambling because his parents know what is good for him.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich).

So they are rich enough and doesn't want to lose more with gambling? They don't want your buddy to gamble, why they mind it if its not their money, is your friend that old enough or still a young lad?

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think,

Don't protect your buddy or explain anything to his family, you are out of the family circle so don't try to interfere with their decision. Help your friend to understand why his relatives are talking that way because they don't want history repeat itself.

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

anyone else faces such issues?

I'm not in this situation.

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Quote from: pixie85 on January 28, 2018, 05:32:46 PM

I don't have such problems because I haven't had any problems with gambling and none of my family members had. I can relate to this in a way because I had some addicts in my family, mostly alcoholics, and this made the rest of them really watchful and scared of any excessive drinking on my part. The only way to battle this is to keep your gambling a secret because they will never stop worrying otr trying to stop you.

Even if you have had issues with your family in the past regarding gambling addiction i don't think its should negatively affect the way you think or approach gambling because chances are that your relative might have been doing the wrong things and gambling without plan or psychology and was thus thrashed into addiction or something worse but you can have a different approach and get things done in gambling the way you want it and not what family history tells you. With the introduction of bitcoin i think you can be guaranteed anonymity and so if you keep it from your family it will be great too.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Scenarios like this shouldn't be a trauma on anyone, something like this should be take as a lesson, because if you are not going to learn from your mistakes and keep on insisting what you should not do will just lead you to madness and you will continue losing a huge amount of money in gambling. I knoe that there are some people out there who are making a lot of money in gambling but this doesn't mean that it could be also happen to us if we tried gambling.

Take this mistake in a good way, instead of worrying on how to win all back what you have lost in gambling, think of another way where it is more safe than gambling that you know you could earn money most of the time.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

The good thing I think is that even if my family and my relatives have all been taking part and playing various gambling games I still can honestly say that there is no gambling problem in me and my family. Though my immediate family would like to practice caution against these games and would rather have me invest on other skall ventures than play

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

if this issue were right,i favored the situation as this point helped your friend get away from trouble,though gambling was made for fun,to enjoy and treasure the moment given us on betting win or lose,most of the gamblers becomes addicted and sooner turns into greedy that no one can stop them even their family.so i think your friend must be lucky.in time he will realize those things that saved him

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I don't have such problems because I haven't had any problems with gambling and none of my family members had. I can relate to this in a way because I had some addicts in my family, mostly alcoholics, and this made the rest of them really watchful and scared of any excessive drinking on my part. The only way to battle this is to keep your gambling a secret because they will never stop worrying otr trying to stop you.

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Quote from: Nahl on January 28, 2018, 10:42:41 AM

the gambling effect will be perceived by every people because some people consider gambling will always bring bad influence for people and their families and i think his family was fear he would be the next victim from negative effect from gambling and this is normal that if his family does not allowed him to gamble but if he still insist to gamble i think there is no problem regarding that because he still able to gamble unnoticed by his family use cryptocurrencies

It may have some financial as well as psychological effect on your family, but still if you have quit gambling for ever then it is good for you. You need to start a good and profitable business wich can also help you to stop gamblng for ever, because once you become addicted to gamboling then it iwll really be too much hard to stop gamblng for ever.

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Quote from: Shenzou on January 28, 2018, 12:40:59 PM

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

If it is real life gambling that you are trting to convince them to let him do it, than they have a point, i know that he is free to do what he wants and his luck won't be like his uncle, but family comes first if they don't want him to do it they probably have reasons, but if it is online gambling he could easily do it without them knowing he could buy bitcoin or any other cryptocurrency and put them in an online cassno, and they won't even know about it.

What happens to families does not have to happen to other family members, everyone's gambling skills are so different and now gambling is so familiar and comfortable online, I'm sure everyone has strong speculation and just needs refinement, if it is strictly forbidden by family, play without them knowing, but do not get caught up with something you can not control, at least you know the limits and ethics of your own gambling.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

If it is real life gambling that you are trting to convince them to let him do it, than they have a point, i know that he is free to do what he wants and his luck won't be like his uncle, but family comes first if they don't want him to do it they probably have reasons, but if it is online gambling he could easily do it without them knowing he could buy bitcoin or any other cryptocurrency and put them in an online cassno, and they won't even know about it.

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Quote from: Baoo on January 28, 2018, 09:33:16 AM

Everything is in your mind, that's means when you think of negative things ( like, I cannot win , I'm a loser ) then it will adversely affect your destiny and the same is true for gambling. Moreover, Of course, the fate of a family member ( in gambling) does not affect other individuals . but the problem that many people imitate their family members in many things, especially in negative things .

Furthermore, It is very important to deal with the truth and for example, if you lose a big amount of money in gambling, You must accept this loss and deal with this problem, learn from this experience and start over, then the financial loss will be compensated with substantial profits.

You should never expect to have a steady income, a continuous profit from gambling, that's the matter. When you expect nothing but to play a game and just to get unexpected huge rewards at some point you might would be fine to gamble no matter what was happened to other people in the past, just keep in mind to stick on what you've planned.

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Quote from: Nahl on January 28, 2018, 10:42:41 AM

the gambling effect will be perceived by every people because some people consider gambling will always bring bad influence for people and their families and i think his family was fear he would be the next victim from negative effect from gambling and this is normal that if his family does not allowed him to gamble but if he still insist to gamble i think there is no problem regarding that because he still able to gamble unnoticed by his family use cryptocurrencies

Stopping him would be completely meaningless if the mind is already fixed on having the motivation on playing gambling then no matter how they hold or advised that person he would definitely play gambling no matter what since there are lots of ways which you can able to play without even their awareness which means the only thing that can stop himself on playing is on his mind decision where if he would be sensible to see possible scenarios happen when he do try to engage.

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the gambling effect will be perceived by every people because some people consider gambling will always bring bad influence for people and their families and i think his family was fear he would be the next victim from negative effect from gambling and this is normal that if his family does not allowed him to gamble but if he still insist to gamble i think there is no problem regarding that because he still able to gamble unnoticed by his family use cryptocurrencies

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