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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

They are only trying to protect him, while there is nothing wrong with gambling occasionally and as a way to get some recreation if there is a past history in the family of losing a substantial amount of money with gambling then I think it's normal that his family is worried for him, in fact I do think that it will be a bad idea for him to gamble at all since he is more likely to repeat the very same mistakes.

If you forbid something to a kid then kid will find that even more attractive. Forbidding anything will have contra effects in most situations.
I believe people hear many bad stories about gambling generally, sometimes with family members involved, that's always makes situation more complicated.
I'm not affected by any of this stories because I started to gamble with sports betting with friends from soccer, more seriously gambling came after. I build my way alone, and I know how to handle with gambling. Its something you need to learn. When we are about that its important for very life aspect you can think off, you need to know how to handle with good and bad times, and to not let something to lead you in crash or disaster of any kind. Gambling is special because you can climb fast, but you can fall even faster, don't fool yourself its like that in everything just time for climbing and falling is different.
Learn kids how to control their emotions and how to properly decide what is good and what is bad, if you try with forbidding kids will try to find a way to skip your bans and to try that sweet forbidden things.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

They are only trying to protect him, while there is nothing wrong with gambling occasionally and as a way to get some recreation if there is a past history in the family of losing a substantial amount of money with gambling then I think it's normal that his family is worried for him, in fact I do think that it will be a bad idea for him to gamble at all since he is more likely to repeat the very same mistakes.

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I don't face such thing as this one but I can understand the lesson that he needs to stop or else he may face the same consequence and experience.

Quote from: Panchum on April 01, 2018, 04:00:09 PM

Yes it really affects me my past incidents in gambling. It's really difficult to be addicted in gambling because you might lost you're family as well.This situation affects me until now l can't move on.

You have to move on or else you will be chase up by that situation that you are facing. Better to lose money rather than to lose your loved ones because of gambling.

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Yes i am also, have uncle addict in gambling. From what was originally a millionaire is now a rough-handed worker in an iron factory. When i tried to gamble, he rebuked me. He said: "I saving you, doesn't want to fall poor like me and enough me, not my nephew."

This is the perfect example of how gambling can destroy the dreams or your present scenario and make your future in a dark. This happens when you do gamble for money and now for entertainment and enjoy the game. If people understood the difference between the 2 things it will be more valuable for them to gamble at times only.

I wonder how someone would have something good going for them and then all of a sudden will carelessly and greedily lose it all. I feel if you work hard for your money and you are not looking for money in the wrong places, you should not even fall for stuffs like this.

From a millionaire to a rough handed worker is really a crazy one for anyone to easily learn from to know gambling is just one crazy path to take for those who are thinking it would make it increase their wealth.

It really happens with the people, especially at that time of life when everything is going well because at that of life, the people are thinking that everything is going well and by thinking this they take a step which is wrong but according to their point of view, that is for more security purpose and the consequences of taking that step come very soon in front of them in some disastrous shape which they can’t afford.

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Quote from: Panchum on April 01, 2018, 04:00:09 PM

Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes it really affects me my past incidents in gambling. It's really difficult to be addicted in gambling because you might lost you're family as well.This situation affects me until now l can't move on.

Why will your future be affected by the past of your past relatives? That should never be the case as that would mean that you can no longer do anything for yourself if the past dictates you. If you think about it, what if one of your great grandfathers lost money in a vending machine, will that mean you should never ever use a vending machine since your past relatives was a victim of a vending machine? That is just illogical to do.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Yes it really affects me my past incidents in gambling. It's really difficult to be addicted in gambling because you might lost you're family as well.This situation affects me until now l can't move on.

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Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.

There is a saying goes, “if the mistake is repeated, it doesn’t become mistake anymore rather a sin”. So if someone goes in gambling even he has seen some alarming situations that his family have been in, he is doing a sin. Best thing for a gambler is to know as soon as possible that how bad it is for him. How evil this thing is creating and making his wealth useless and worthless within no time.

Gamblers should care about their family and they should not avoid this fact that family is the most important part of life. Without your family support, you cannot do anything in life. If what is meant to meet the basic needs of your family is getting invested into gambling, you are definitely doing a sin. Is you are unable to come out of this situation, go and consult some professional psychologist.

that's what many gamblers should be, "gamble as long as nobody you hurt" most of us gamble regardless of the situation, ignoring the family's need to gamble is a very silly act .. we have to adjust the needs and wants, if we have to meet the needs in the family, we can only be allowed to spend some money to gamble, and remember something in gambling "do not harm anyone"

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Quote from: joebrook on March 25, 2018, 09:07:45 AM

Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.

There is a saying goes, “if the mistake is repeated, it doesn’t become mistake anymore rather a sin”. So if someone goes in gambling even he has seen some alarming situations that his family have been in, he is doing a sin. Best thing for a gambler is to know as soon as possible that how bad it is for him. How evil this thing is creating and making his wealth useless and worthless within no time.

Gamblers should care about their family and they should not avoid this fact that family is the most important part of life. Without your family support, you cannot do anything in life. If what is meant to meet the basic needs of your family is getting invested into gambling, you are definitely doing a sin. Is you are unable to come out of this situation, go and consult some professional psychologist.

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Quote from: joebrook on March 25, 2018, 09:07:45 AM

Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.

There is a saying goes, “if the mistake is repeated, it doesn’t become mistake anymore rather a sin”. So if someone goes in gambling even he has seen some alarming situations that his family have been in, he is doing a sin. Best thing for a gambler is to know as soon as possible that how bad it is for him. How evil this thing is creating and making his wealth useless and worthless within no time.

People continuously keep repeating this type of mistakes which leads to become a gambling addictive and ruins their career and also their family life. As they would like to gamble every time, will lose the money so will borrow from others and may not even return the money.

People mostly gambling with the bitcoins or other crypto currencies not a poor people. Because of they have the high amount of bitcoins only they go with the gambling investment else they would go to invest on the any gambling site at all.
None of the gamblers will not inform to the family if they make the profit or loose the money with it.
If you already loose the big money you need to stay away from the gambling completely.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

That's normal, his family loves him to keep him out of trouble in the future due to gambling.
If he has a good strategy and a bit of luck then he can have many advantages of gambling, but if it is otherwise he will just lose his money. Even if he becomes addicted to gambling it will add new problems.

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Quote from: joebrook on March 25, 2018, 09:07:45 AM

Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.

There is a saying goes, “if the mistake is repeated, it doesn’t become mistake anymore rather a sin”. So if someone goes in gambling even he has seen some alarming situations that his family have been in, he is doing a sin. Best thing for a gambler is to know as soon as possible that how bad it is for him. How evil this thing is creating and making his wealth useless and worthless within no time.

People continuously keep repeating this type of mistakes which leads to become a gambling addictive and ruins their career and also their family life. As they would like to gamble every time, will lose the money so will borrow from others and may not even return the money.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

mistake of peter. Is not a mistake of paul..but since their family is vulnerable about what had happen in the past maybe they were just preventing him from making the same mistakes that i believe is beneficial to your friend,imagine he is safe from this addicting vises..as we know year after year the incident of crime that cause by gambling addiction is getting worst,if im not mistaken in the Philippines theres a case when a gambling addict burned the casino befoe killing him self resulting to dearh of many people..your friend is one lucky guy

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Quote from: joebrook on March 25, 2018, 09:07:45 AM

Well if all that has happened to members of his family, i really think he should really learn something from that so that he doesn't go through the same trend as well. It may not be a family trait but i don't think he should make the same mistake that others in the family have already made.

There is a saying goes, “if the mistake is repeated, it doesn’t become mistake anymore rather a sin”. So if someone goes in gambling even he has seen some alarming situations that his family have been in, he is doing a sin. Best thing for a gambler is to know as soon as possible that how bad it is for him. How evil this thing is creating and making his wealth useless and worthless within no time.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Your friend's family is totally right and lets say they have their point they are just thinking for your friends good and they don't want to happen to him also.
Okay let's back to your question ,No I never faced that such issues and I am not addicted in gambling but if I gamble my family don't mind it or get mad they let me play since I don't asked money to them.

yeah, it is good for him that his family member reminds him to not gamble because his uncle and his grandfather have lost their money. actually, this will makes him think that he doesn't have to gamble and better do another thing. learn from his uncle and his grandfather mistake and don't make the same experience like them.

I think my family doesn't know if I am a gamble or not because I use my own money but I know that playing gambling cannot make me get the money and I only lost the money. so I decided to not gamble too often and even if I playing gambling, I do not spend a big money.

True, it is always great to have our love ones care for us, especially when it comes to gambling. It is always good to have someone reminding us of what is good and what is not. With regards to family experience, I can say they always remind me not to lose myself when I am playing gambling games since they had an experience regarding people who have gone broke because of losing control especially on betting or playing gambling games.

Gambling might cause the relationships to get broke especially when the one doesn't want to have such activity. It will only be good if they enjoy both the activity, if they both know their limits then there will be no problem. If it will refer for what the common practice family influence in a way they go away from it due to the experiences.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Your friend's family is totally right and lets say they have their point they are just thinking for your friends good and they don't want to happen to him also.
Okay let's back to your question ,No I never faced that such issues and I am not addicted in gambling but if I gamble my family don't mind it or get mad they let me play since I don't asked money to them.

yeah, it is good for him that his family member reminds him to not gamble because his uncle and his grandfather have lost their money. actually, this will makes him think that he doesn't have to gamble and better do another thing. learn from his uncle and his grandfather mistake and don't make the same experience like them.

I think my family doesn't know if I am a gamble or not because I use my own money but I know that playing gambling cannot make me get the money and I only lost the money. so I decided to not gamble too often and even if I playing gambling, I do not spend a big money.

True, it is always great to have our love ones care for us, especially when it comes to gambling. It is always good to have someone reminding us of what is good and what is not. With regards to family experience, I can say they always remind me not to lose myself when I am playing gambling games since they had an experience regarding people who have gone broke because of losing control especially on betting or playing gambling games.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Your friend's family is totally right and lets say they have their point they are just thinking for your friends good and they don't want to happen to him also.
Okay let's back to your question ,No I never faced that such issues and I am not addicted in gambling but if I gamble my family don't mind it or get mad they let me play since I don't asked money to them.

yeah, it is good for him that his family member reminds him to not gamble because his uncle and his grandfather have lost their money. actually, this will makes him think that he doesn't have to gamble and better do another thing. learn from his uncle and his grandfather mistake and don't make the same experience like them.

I think my family doesn't know if I am a gamble or not because I use my own money but I know that playing gambling cannot make me get the money and I only lost the money. so I decided to not gamble too often and even if I playing gambling, I do not spend a big money.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

Your friend's family is totally right and lets say they have their point they are just thinking for your friends good and they don't want to happen to him also.
Okay let's back to your question ,No I never faced that such issues and I am not addicted in gambling but if I gamble my family don't mind it or get mad they let me play since I don't asked money to them.

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No,Any of my family circumstances doesn't affect me from the gambling like family situations,because if I want to gamble I will and never look for anyone's permission.
But most of the players are still continue to gamble if their family is in bad financial situation,maybe in the thought that they can increase it by winning a jackpot on someday but it is a bad idea.

It's really a very big mistake when we are leaning to gambling in terms of getting instant fortune, gambling should be taken as a source of short time
enjoyment and nothing should be greater than that, we also need to consider our financial capability as gambling really affecting this factor in our life
if we do have spare money then we are good to go, not risking our saving for our family needs would allow you to enjoy your stay without any problem
quitting and thinking of others opinion.

A pretty huge one and the main reason a lot of people get addicted. If gambling will make everyone a fortune, how on earth are the casino owners and gambling site owners making their money and living large. It still baffles me if some people really do not think or they just end up allowing their greedy self to take full control of them. Anyone looking for an income would be better off doing something else, if they cannot cope with the idea of losing all their funds.

Honestly, you really just said it all. The fact is that a lot of people over imagine seeing themselves getting a good result from gambling without remembering the fact that the casino owners make money from them failing and their getting screwed. We cannot blame them as it is their business model and when entering to gamble we do accept all their norms even withing take time to know them.

For example, this guy’s uncle wrecked himself only to make the casino owner richer and that is what most addicts always end up doing. Best is to always learning self-control or not even gamble at all.

Gambling is basically nothing but just a cheating to your own self. Where people cheat themselves that the money they are losing is very small in front of the pleasure they get from it. I think it sometimes adds a little rationalization. Though it is not a good practice but people who are into it will never listen to it.
Like as said the family don't want the boy to gamble because they know the consequences better as they have experienced it earlier with the other family members. But a gambler friend want to drag him to it despite his family will. It is addiction and of such a high level that you want all the people around you to be involved within it for your sake.

I think people give more importance to money from gambling rather than the pleasure coming from gambling because if they really are playing gambling for fun, they can play by putting little amounts of bets but they have in their mind that we have to earn lots of money from this gaming trend and this is the only reason they play by putting huge amounts of bets. No one will let his children to play gambling whether he has faced it in his life or not.

True story and why most gambler do able to experience bad consequences because of such act. Aiming for profits on the very first time while we are playing gambling could really push us to bet bigger amounts.We do risk bigger because we put it on our minds that we might able to win even more bigger.If luck sat on our side then making profits would be easy almost in an instant and as a parent i would never tend to show my siblings that i do play gambling,we do know the risk and this is why i dont like for them to follow.

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Quote from: Juggy777 on January 26, 2018, 04:59:06 AM

Hi, i have a question for my gambler's buddies as i'm perplexed by this. I have a friend who really wishes to gamble, but he is not allowed to because his uncle lost his entire assets and some million's and his grandfather to lost another million or so (they're filthy rich). So due to this facts he is barred from gambling, they believe he'll loose money to, they're stopping him on past incidents and i'm really tired of explaining them they're wrong, what do you'll think, anyone else faces such issues?

If i were you i will not meddle. Your friend’s parents and grand parents are right in warning and preventing him from following the same path. Experience is the best teacher, has their experience of losing not been enough for your friend not to believe them? If he wants to have the same fate it is his choice.

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No,Any of my family circumstances doesn't affect me from the gambling like family situations,because if I want to gamble I will and never look for anyone's permission.
But most of the players are still continue to gamble if their family is in bad financial situation,maybe in the thought that they can increase it by winning a jackpot on someday but it is a bad idea.

It's really a very big mistake when we are leaning to gambling in terms of getting instant fortune, gambling should be taken as a source of short time
enjoyment and nothing should be greater than that, we also need to consider our financial capability as gambling really affecting this factor in our life
if we do have spare money then we are good to go, not risking our saving for our family needs would allow you to enjoy your stay without any problem
quitting and thinking of others opinion.

A pretty huge one and the main reason a lot of people get addicted. If gambling will make everyone a fortune, how on earth are the casino owners and gambling site owners making their money and living large. It still baffles me if some people really do not think or they just end up allowing their greedy self to take full control of them. Anyone looking for an income would be better off doing something else, if they cannot cope with the idea of losing all their funds.

Honestly, you really just said it all. The fact is that a lot of people over imagine seeing themselves getting a good result from gambling without remembering the fact that the casino owners make money from them failing and their getting screwed. We cannot blame them as it is their business model and when entering to gamble we do accept all their norms even withing take time to know them.

For example, this guy’s uncle wrecked himself only to make the casino owner richer and that is what most addicts always end up doing. Best is to always learning self-control or not even gamble at all.

Gambling is basically nothing but just a cheating to your own self. Where people cheat themselves that the money they are losing is very small in front of the pleasure they get from it. I think it sometimes adds a little rationalization. Though it is not a good practice but people who are into it will never listen to it.
Like as said the family don't want the boy to gamble because they know the consequences better as they have experienced it earlier with the other family members. But a gambler friend want to drag him to it despite his family will. It is addiction and of such a high level that you want all the people around you to be involved within it for your sake.

I think people give more importance to money from gambling rather than the pleasure coming from gambling because if they really are playing gambling for fun, they can play by putting little amounts of bets but they have in their mind that we have to earn lots of money from this gaming trend and this is the only reason they play by putting huge amounts of bets. No one will let his children to play gambling whether he has faced it in his life or not.

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