Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 6.

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Quote from: boyptc on February 25, 2024, 05:29:20 AM

When a person is in a bad mood, even you're kindest that's ever living, you'll definitely change your attitude.

This is the reality that we can't please everybody and we're all human that we have these different behaviors that we're showing to everyone.

We're in good mood now and then after losing, we change and that mood changes that makes us angry and lose our temperance.

It's understandable that we are in a bad mood when we lose money; that's normal because we are human, and we don't like giving away money. It's like we are being challenged, and we want to win back our losses. However, losing our temper is not good; it shows our real character, that we can't accept losses. Most likely, because we let our emotions dictate to us, we'll end up losing more than we did earlier, and the next thing that will happen is regret.

We don't want to be in that situation if, from the very beginning, we already understand that losing and winning are regular occurrences when gambling. So, we should not be surprised, and regardless of what happens, we should stay disciplined.

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When a person is in a bad mood, even you're kindest that's ever living, you'll definitely change your attitude.

This is the reality that we can't please everybody and we're all human that we have these different behaviors that we're showing to everyone.

We're in good mood now and then after losing, we change and that mood changes that makes us angry and lose our temperance.

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Quote from: romero121 on December 06, 2023, 11:12:28 PM

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

- When you lose a large amount of money gambling, of course most of the time emotionally, you stress. You think and feel regret about the amount you lost in the casino, so sometimes when we still bring our emotions to our home, we suddenly heap our annoyance on our son or your wife.

In which it should not be brought to our home and left inside the casino gambling platform. That's why it's important that we can control our emotions and discipline ourselves somehow.
Because we can avoid this situation like this for sure if you face this one.

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Quote from: romero121 on December 06, 2023, 11:12:28 PM

Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.

It is a common thing among Gamblers when they win they are always happy but when they loose for often they become more agresive expecially when they have staked a huge sum of money on it. It is a usual case, but for me I don't easily get provoked to that extent of forwarding my agression on siblings or my partner because you losing game might creat an enemity between you and you siblings all in the name of gambling. Gambling might come and go but you relationship with your brother, sisters or friends will always be there. Gambling should not cause agression to an extent of transferring it to people around you.

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Quote from: Russlenat on December 06, 2023, 11:24:35 PM

Most of us gamblers probaly have experience that, but it's a bad attitude mate, it's like we aren't good in accepting our losses and that we would involve other people with our disappointment in gambling. It normally happen when we aren't gambling for entertainment only and we do risk money more than our budget, I would not use "money you can affor to lose", as there are times you can afford to lose the money you are gambling but it's already out of your budge, so in the end, it will have a big effect on your emotion.

I agree that sometimes even if someone has choose to gamble with money they can afford to lose, it's still possible for them to become emotionally attached to the outcome of the game, the disappointment is inevitable when the outcome takes a negative turn and the money is lost. So it's not just about gambling with money one can afford to loose but also gambling with the right mindset and attitude.

Yes, gambling money has a lot to do with behavior change. When the game becomes more than fun it is no longer just a game it is an uncontrollable urge to continue gambling despite the loss of your life. It is not right to spend more money on gambling but willing to risk something valuable in the hope of getting something of greater value gamblers bet more money to win more. Gambling is also different with different levels of behavior. As soon as the word gambling is heard a kind of negative reaction starts in the mind.

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Quote from: zuzie on February 25, 2024, 12:05:45 AM

Yes, apart from having this bad feeling, gamblers also think it is not important to tell other people about it, because whether it is good or bad, the ones who feel it are us, the gamblers, not other people, but most people also take their own perceptions. it was true that someone they knew liked them. . If you gamble, the impact will be very detrimental and this is clearly proven when a gambler often experiences defeat, he looks sad and regrets will come at the end so many people make fun of him at that time.

Because of they think it is not important makes them late to realize that the addiction become bigger and can't control it. If they still not telling to other people, the help will be too late and it's hard to heal them while they are denied of what happen to them. When someone feels getting lose money from gambling too many times, they must talk to other people and ask for the advice. It will help them to start reducing their gambling activity because they realize that they used too much money to playing gambling. They should introspect themselves to search what has changed so they can try to fix it before it's too late.

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Quote from: Russlenat on December 06, 2023, 11:24:35 PM

Most of us gamblers probaly have experience that, but it's a bad attitude mate, it's like we aren't good in accepting our losses and that we would involve other people with our disappointment in gambling. It normally happen when we aren't gambling for entertainment only and we do risk money more than our budget, I would not use "money you can affor to lose", as there are times you can afford to lose the money you are gambling but it's already out of your budge, so in the end, it will have a big effect on your emotion.

I agree that sometimes even if someone has choose to gamble with money they can afford to lose, it's still possible for them to become emotionally attached to the outcome of the game, the disappointment is inevitable when the outcome takes a negative turn and the money is lost. So it's not just about gambling with money one can afford to loose but also gambling with the right mindset and attitude.

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Quote from: Onyeeze on February 24, 2024, 12:21:43 PM

Only thing I know in gambling is that when you addicted in gambling it will surely change your behaviour, so that is why I do emphasise on someone having a limitations in gambling, because when you have a limitations gambling will not change your behaviour, its noticeable for someone who have family or have wife, so the attitude use to change because all its attention is in gambling, so it's better and understanding that you have to know your limits and control it so that gambling will not really affect you that much, and including someone who have a family

Gambling could change you on the time that you are already spending that too much money and this is something that you should really be that trying out to control because if you dont then
gambling activity would really be turning out to be a stressful activity and this is something that we must avoid. We do hate up on losing money and it would be always reflecting out with our
behavior on the time that we would really be making out those plays on which everytime we do lose up then we do get impulsive and made out some actions on which arent supposed to be done.
Gambling should really be fun and not something that could make you having those kind of reactions because its never been that giving a good impact on you.

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Quote from: tbterryboy on February 24, 2024, 09:23:42 AM

Wise and responsible gamblers don't let themselves reach a point where they make mistakes that they wouldn't want to repeat, it barely happens that a responsible and wise gambler would lose all their money and don't stop gambling at the right time because a wise person would think twice before taking the next step so that they don't have to face severe negative consequences of their actions and they can steer clear from any sort of situation.

So such gamblers would always stay in control no matter what happens. They will have their budget and time fixed and they won't cross the limits they have set up for themselves in any situation, they have enough self-control to be able to control the urge to gamble.

Yes, because a wise and responsible gambler must have the right thoughts and correct behavior when he wants to make a decision, he uses his mind clearly so that the decision he will take must be in accordance with a plan that has been well thought out, and I agree with him. you, that gamblers are wise and responsible people, they will not take big risks according to their own beliefs because they are supported by strong self-control, they are not easily rash and careless in every decision they make.

Quote from: ethereumhunter on February 24, 2024, 10:27:24 AM

It's normal if gambler don't want to opens their gambling activities to other people because they don't want to feel bad. Many time people just judges other people from what they see without think what is their reason doing that. And because gambling have a bad names in many places, people will easy to says that a gamblers will becomes addicted to gambling.

Yes, apart from having this bad feeling, gamblers also think it is not important to tell other people about it, because whether it is good or bad, the ones who feel it are us, the gamblers, not other people, but most people also take their own perceptions. it was true that someone they knew liked them. . If you gamble, the impact will be very detrimental and this is clearly proven when a gambler often experiences defeat, he looks sad and regrets will come at the end so many people make fun of him at that time.

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Only thing I know in gambling is that when you addicted in gambling it will surely change your behaviour, so that is why I do emphasise on someone having a limitations in gambling, because when you have a limitations gambling will not change your behaviour, its noticeable for someone who have family or have wife, so the attitude use to change because all its attention is in gambling, so it's better and understanding that you have to know your limits and control it so that gambling will not really affect you that much, and including someone who have a family

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It is not necessary that everyone knows that a person is an inveterate gambler, because those around them often treat it negatively. Then there are many stories about how someone lost a fortune, and, as they call it, "carp" on luck and brings down the mood, which plays a very important role in making gambling decisions. The less people around you know about it, the better for the player.

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Quote from: Fredomago on February 23, 2024, 10:52:41 AM

Once you made that adjustment, the chance of having stable attitude towards gambling can be achieved, I like the idea of maintaining what you can afford to let go and not to exceed as it can be the start of losing your control and being dominated by your emotion, if you can limit your gambling and treat things accordingly, there's no need to change mood each time you end your sessions.

In gambling, we must use the money we can afford to stay away from the big loss. We don't have to playing gambling excessively because that will only gives us a big loss. We know what gambling are and will always carefully spending our money and will not place a big bet. We also control our minds and prevent from being dominated by our emotion because once we lose our minds, that will be our time to gambling with much money. We will prevent changing behavior because of the outcomes that we accept in gambling by manage our emotion.

Quote from: zuzie on February 24, 2024, 12:02:37 AM

It's true, sometimes there are gamblers who don't want to open or hide their gambling activities to other people because many of them keep it a secret for the reason that people don't judge or embarrass them when they lose and also when they need it. attention and advice from others that they think is not the case. important to him.

It's normal if gambler don't want to opens their gambling activities to other people because they don't want to feel bad. Many time people just judges other people from what they see without think what is their reason doing that. And because gambling have a bad names in many places, people will easy to says that a gamblers will becomes addicted to gambling.

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Quote from: zuzie on February 21, 2024, 09:09:40 PM

Quote from: Fredomago on February 21, 2024, 07:41:41 AM

Yeah, it's the best solution for him to re-assess whatever mistake he made during that failed session, instead of pushing his way to keep playing and most of the time the outcome will be against him, you need to be wise to keep that emotion and treatment towards your gambling participation, having that kind of understanding will let you to keep yourself in shape.

By introspecting ourselves on the mistakes we have made before, this will certainly motivate us to be more careful in every decision and action we take in the future. For wise and responsible gamblers, have good thinking because opportunity does not come a second time and this can be applied in gambling so that we remain consistent in maintaining good control.

Wise and responsible gamblers don't let themselves reach a point where they make mistakes that they wouldn't want to repeat, it barely happens that a responsible and wise gambler would lose all their money and don't stop gambling at the right time because a wise person would think twice before taking the next step so that they don't have to face severe negative consequences of their actions and they can steer clear from any sort of situation.

So such gamblers would always stay in control no matter what happens. They will have their budget and time fixed and they won't cross the limits they have set up for themselves in any situation, they have enough self-control to be able to control the urge to gamble.

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Quote from: kotajikikox on February 23, 2024, 02:33:43 AM

Mistakes is the best teacher , but that is we know how to admit it and use to be our guidance in next decisioning because there are mistakes that have been used as bitted way and instead of admittance being used to be in negative ways.
Gamblers must know when to stop and when to start , and also know how much to lose and how much to win and that is what being responsible means.

If a gambler can realize the mistakes he has made then these mistakes will make him continue to learn to be better, but if he cannot realize his mistakes then the gambler will act more brutally and unstable because of the conditions he is experiencing.
It is true that we as gamblers must be able to exercise good control and behave responsibly so that we can limit when we gamble and when it is time to stop gambling.

Quote from: ethereumhunter on February 23, 2024, 09:34:41 AM

His closest people can realize his change in his behavior but without an openness and admitting from the gambler, they can't ask or getting close to him. They could only watch from far and wait for the gambler's reaction. If the gambler doesn't say anything, they will still watch out but sometimes they will ask the gambler if everything is okay or not. I guess his closest people will react based on the situation and if necessary, they can try to getting close and talk to the gambler to find out for more. They hope the gambler can receive advice from them and try to introspect himself.

It's true, sometimes there are gamblers who don't want to open or hide their gambling activities to other people because many of them keep it a secret for the reason that people don't judge or embarrass them when they lose and also when they need it. attention and advice from others that they think is not the case. important to him.

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Quote from: Quidat on February 23, 2024, 10:55:48 AM

Self control would be the key but not all people would really be having that kind of control towards themselves on the time that they do gamble since not everyone is really that prepared when it comes on losing money in gambling. People do play for the sake of money and not for the sake of leisure and this is the biggest mistake that they do have since from the beginning. If you do find yourself
playing up with these kind of terms and mindsets then you are already doing it wrong from the start and sooner or later you would really be finding yourself committing mistakes and errors due to
wrong decisions that you've been applying which arent supposed to be on this way because gambling was really that meant for leisure and not for money making.

Gambling is not a money-making machine and everyone knows it but greed makes them ignore that concept and they have made mistakes that make it difficult to control themselves in gambling, their focus is only on chasing winning bets to increase income and they are not ready to accept losing money from betting, even though they not realizing that they have lost a lot of money due to gambling involving the desire to get high wins.

Even though gambling can change us for the worse, we still have self-control to be able to improve to return to the initial stage to gamble wisely, all decisions depend on ourselves to start gambling with several rules that can avoid factors of greed and financial loss.

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Gambling can really affect us, where we can become overly emotional because the gambling we do is not in accordance with our own expectations, gambling will result in defeats more often than wins, and if we cannot accept the reality of the fact that we will lose more often then It's clear that it can trigger our emotions, it's true what you said, we should stop for a moment to calm our minds and calm our emotions, because gambling done with emotions will trigger big losses and everything will become a mess. It's not surprising that many people get emotional about the gambling they do because they themselves can't respond to gambling properly.

You can further discover how many will be gambling and transferring of the aggression in it on other people around them maybe because they are not winning and they are getting more annoyed with that, those around them will be affected because they will not be given attention to, instead they are more likely to begin to see the anger side of them all because of gambling loss, we have to deal with the way we behave while gambling, we must not put pressure on all things that much as if our life depends on it and we forget about the relation we have with the people around.

Of course, if they are addicted to gambling it is because they are wrong to respond to gambling and with their wrong response to gambling it can trigger their emotions to peak because they tend not to be able to accept defeat and that should not happen, with the obvious fact that defeat is certain to occur, it should be possible to accept defeat properly, not to have a grudge because of the defeat in gambling. Obviously people who cannot accept their defeat will be upset when they don't win, because their goal of gambling is the victory that must be obtained.

Therefore, we must be able to deal with the way we behave when gambling, including being able to accept the defeat that will certainly occur. It's true what you said, depending on gambling is not right. It is not the right thing to do if we depend on gambling that will only bring disaster.

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Quote from: Fredomago on February 21, 2024, 07:41:41 AM

Yeah, it's the best solution for him to re-assess whatever mistake he made during that failed session, instead of pushing his way to keep playing and most of the time the outcome will be against him, you need to be wise to keep that emotion and treatment towards your gambling participation, having that kind of understanding will let you to keep yourself in shape.

By introspecting ourselves on the mistakes we have made before, this will certainly motivate us to be more careful in every decision and action we take in the future. For wise and responsible gamblers, have good thinking because opportunity does not come a second time and this can be applied in gambling so that we remain consistent in maintaining good control.

Mistakes is the best teacher , but that is we know how to admit it and use to be our guidance in next decisioning because there are mistakes that have been used as bitted way and instead of admittance being used to be in negative ways.
Gamblers must know when to stop and when to start , and also know how much to lose and how much to win and that is what being responsible means.

When the gambler has an overall idea of his gambling he can control it. A gambler can exercise self-control if he can pause his gambling at any time, regardless of his condition. Unless the gambler knows when and under what circumstances to stop, or can control himself at that point, even if he wins from gambling, he will fail to keep the winnings. In gambling many may win but not everyone can keep the winnings. I think self-control is a good quality of the gambler. Those who possess such characteristics must be able to engage in responsible gambling.

Self control would be the key but not all people would really be having that kind of control towards themselves on the time that they do gamble since not everyone is really that prepared when it comes on losing money in gambling. People do play for the sake of money and not for the sake of leisure and this is the biggest mistake that they do have since from the beginning. If you do find yourself
playing up with these kind of terms and mindsets then you are already doing it wrong from the start and sooner or later you would really be finding yourself committing mistakes and errors due to
wrong decisions that you've been applying which arent supposed to be on this way because gambling was really that meant for leisure and not for money making.

I don't think I can agree with this since, of course, we should have an understanding of how our lives will be affected by our gambling activities before we gamble and make that decision. Even if the outcome is uncertain and we might be at our lowest point, I think you should be ready for what is about to happen if you solely bet for financial gain as compared to gambling for enjoyable activities.

I mean, as a gambler, you should be reminded and know the risks involved, because when you just go beyond your limit, gambling can make you emotionally intense and it can break your mind.

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Quote from: Fredomago on February 23, 2024, 10:52:41 AM

Hoping that the person will listen and follow whatever they've observe that's needed to be change, those close people that's sorround the person will be an additional key not to fall into addiction, just need to take the advise as positive criticizm and help himself to adjust or quit away if it's needed.

Acceptance of other people's advice from gamblers also depends on the personality of the gambling addict himself. Some people are easy to approach or conversely, some people find it very difficult to accept advice from other people, even those closest to them.
I see that some gambling addicts are difficult to advise. Telling them about their outrageous activities in gambling will only fuel the fire of quarrels. sometimes we just need to pay attention to them and approach them when they need advice.

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Quote from: Fredomago on February 21, 2024, 07:41:41 AM

Yeah, it's the best solution for him to re-assess whatever mistake he made during that failed session, instead of pushing his way to keep playing and most of the time the outcome will be against him, you need to be wise to keep that emotion and treatment towards your gambling participation, having that kind of understanding will let you to keep yourself in shape.

By introspecting ourselves on the mistakes we have made before, this will certainly motivate us to be more careful in every decision and action we take in the future. For wise and responsible gamblers, have good thinking because opportunity does not come a second time and this can be applied in gambling so that we remain consistent in maintaining good control.

Mistakes is the best teacher , but that is we know how to admit it and use to be our guidance in next decisioning because there are mistakes that have been used as bitted way and instead of admittance being used to be in negative ways.
Gamblers must know when to stop and when to start , and also know how much to lose and how much to win and that is what being responsible means.

When the gambler has an overall idea of his gambling he can control it. A gambler can exercise self-control if he can pause his gambling at any time, regardless of his condition. Unless the gambler knows when and under what circumstances to stop, or can control himself at that point, even if he wins from gambling, he will fail to keep the winnings. In gambling many may win but not everyone can keep the winnings. I think self-control is a good quality of the gambler. Those who possess such characteristics must be able to engage in responsible gambling.

Self control would be the key but not all people would really be having that kind of control towards themselves on the time that they do gamble since not everyone is really that prepared when it comes on losing money in gambling. People do play for the sake of money and not for the sake of leisure and this is the biggest mistake that they do have since from the beginning. If you do find yourself
playing up with these kind of terms and mindsets then you are already doing it wrong from the start and sooner or later you would really be finding yourself committing mistakes and errors due to
wrong decisions that you've been applying which arent supposed to be on this way because gambling was really that meant for leisure and not for money making.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on February 23, 2024, 09:34:41 AM

Quote from: Fredomago on February 22, 2024, 10:27:04 PM

If we can adjust well then yes it can be done, more on your self reflection and how to find the best adjustment that will work for your attitude towards gambling, like what I've said, re-evaluate yourself and think about that previous mistake in order for you to bring the right strategy when you think that you are ready again to play the game, though not all can do that and will just repeat the same mistake and the sure thing is it will affect his attitude and his behavior especially when the person is on the losing streak.

That's why we must introspect ourselves related to our gambling activity to check what we have done and fix the mistake that we made. With realizing what the mistakes can make us become better gamblers that is not just chase the win or recover the lost, but we will just playing gambling without excessively. We know the consequences of gambling excessively that can change our behaviour and breaking the rule and limits that we made before. We don't want to get more trouble because of gambling excessively and will try to use gambling as an entertainment.

Once you made that adjustment, the chance of having stable attitude towards gambling can be achieved, I like the idea of maintaining what you can afford to let go and not to exceed as it can be the start of losing your control and being dominated by your emotion, if you can limit your gambling and treat things accordingly, there's no need to change mood each time you end your sessions.

Quote from: zuzie on February 23, 2024, 02:10:55 AM

Only the people closest to him will judge that he has experienced a change in his behavior so far and perhaps the people closest to him will try to advise the gambler so that he tries to be patient and aware of the mistakes he has made before. and if gamblers can receive advice from other people then they will learn to introspect themselves so that in the future they can behave well again.

His closest people can realize his change in his behavior but without an openness and admitting from the gambler, they can't ask or getting close to him. They could only watch from far and wait for the gambler's reaction. If the gambler doesn't say anything, they will still watch out but sometimes they will ask the gambler if everything is okay or not. I guess his closest people will react based on the situation and if necessary, they can try to getting close and talk to the gambler to find out for more. They hope the gambler can receive advice from them and try to introspect himself.

Hoping that the person will listen and follow whatever they've observe that's needed to be change, those close people that's sorround the person will be an additional key not to fall into addiction, just need to take the advise as positive criticizm and help himself to adjust or quit away if it's needed.

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