Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 6. (Read 3205 times)

IMO, the fact is that gambling can actually make money instantly. unfortunately, gambling is all about probability. yeah, the possibility of losing or losing a lot of money. or, the possibility of us getting a win or what people say is a jackpot. however, I won't deny what you say on the main point. It's just that everyone has different patterns and perspectives. yeah, it depends on how someone defines gambling for themselves.
but in essence we agree, if we consider gambling as a means like a money machine and only focus on pursuing profits, especially without being equipped with knowledge, insight, experience and everything related to gambling. almost all such gamblers tend to lose more than they win. That's why it's very important to know what we're gambling for. if the focus is as we say, yeah, the results are usually as we mutually agree.

At the same time, gambling can change behavior. and yeah, I can say that it's true. whether we realize it or not, our psychology will usually be affected by patterns or habits without being balanced with wisdom and self-control. that's why it's important for beginners to know the risks involved in gambling first. the point is, know the limits of what we can afford and also include responsibility which ultimately creates self-control. unfortunately, this is not as easy as I say.

You claim responsible gambling? It goes beyond budget and clock. Understanding the beast within. Yes, intelligent ones set limitations. But why? Because they know temptation waits, not sleeps

Virtue: self-control. It's not a switch you turn on and off. Battles occur daily. A wise and responsible group? They go beyond "not lose all their money." They know the game is meant to seduce. Know the depths from which you may recover, not never descend. This is key: it's not about avoiding mistakes. No, learning from them. Wisdom-seeking people perceive mistakes as lessons, not failures. Well, they control the temptation to gamble, but not because they're perfect. Because they know they're fallible

It's normal for every human to have some form of emotional attachment to them loosing or not winning a game, so it's not a big deal if they get emotional at some point regardless of the amount that has been staked on the game but then what will really matter would be the reaction of such person after getting emotional for the losses, do they allow it get to them such that they now have to do some unhealthy practice and also somethings that will result to more losses.

Our reaction some times matters a lot a d that's why it's good to be disciplined and have self control, some persons have got this issues where they will loose a huge amount of funds and ywt they will be able to still cope and not behaving as if they lost a life and would want to perish along side with the person they must have lost, it's very important that we exercise some kind of restrain when we have situations as such so that we don't eventually get to suffer from the after consequences of such situations, we can try to see how to control ourselves regardless of the amount we lost be it small or big because our reactions there after has got a lot to do with the effects this will get on us in the nearest future.

It's understandable that we are in a bad mood when we lose money; that's normal because we are human, and we don't like giving away money. It's like we are being challenged, and we want to win back our losses. However, losing our temper is not good; it shows our real character, that we can't accept losses. Most likely, because we let our emotions dictate to us, we'll end up losing more than we did earlier, and the next thing that will happen is regret.

We don't want to be in that situation if, from the very beginning, we already understand that losing and winning are regular occurrences when gambling. So, we should not be surprised, and regardless of what happens, we should stay disciplined.

When a person is in a bad mood, even you're kindest that's ever living, you'll definitely change your attitude.

This is the reality that we can't please everybody and we're all human that we have these different behaviors that we're showing to everyone.

We're in good mood now and then after losing, we change and that mood changes that makes us angry and lose our temperance.

         -   When you lose a large amount of money gambling, of course most of the time emotionally, you stress. You think and feel regret about the amount you lost in the casino, so sometimes when we still bring our emotions to our home, we suddenly heap our annoyance on our son or your wife.

In which it should not be brought to our home and left inside the casino gambling platform. That's why it's important that we can control our emotions and discipline ourselves somehow.
Because we can avoid this situation like this for sure if you face this one.

It is a common thing among Gamblers when they win they are always happy but when they loose for often they become more agresive expecially when they have staked a huge sum of money on it. It is a usual case, but for me I don't easily get provoked to that extent of forwarding my agression on siblings or my partner because you losing game might creat an enemity between you and you siblings all in the name of gambling. Gambling might come and go but you relationship with your brother, sisters or friends will always be there. Gambling should not cause agression to an extent of transferring it to people around you.

Yes, gambling money has a lot to do with behavior change. When the game becomes more than fun it is no longer just a game it is an uncontrollable urge to continue gambling despite the loss of your life. It is not right to spend more money on gambling but willing to risk something valuable in the hope of getting something of greater value gamblers bet more money to win more. Gambling is also different with different levels of behavior. As soon as the word gambling is heard a kind of negative reaction starts in the mind.

Because of they think it is not important makes them late to realize that the addiction become bigger and can't control it. If they still not telling to other people, the help will be too late and it's hard to heal them while they are denied of what happen to them. When someone feels getting lose money from gambling too many times, they must talk to other people and ask for the advice. It will help them to start reducing their gambling activity because they realize that they used too much money to playing gambling. They should introspect themselves to search what has changed so they can try to fix it before it's too late.

I agree that sometimes even if someone has choose to gamble with money they can afford to lose, it's still possible for them to become emotionally attached to the outcome of the game, the disappointment is inevitable when the outcome takes a negative turn and the money is lost. So it's not just about gambling with money one can afford to loose but also gambling with the right mindset and attitude.

Gambling could change you on the time that you are already spending that too much money and this is something that you should really be that trying out to control because if you dont then
gambling activity would really be turning out to be a stressful activity and this is something that we must avoid. We do hate up on losing money and it would be always reflecting out with our
behavior on the time that we would really be making out those plays on which everytime we do lose up then we do get impulsive and made out some actions on which arent supposed to be done.
Gambling should really be fun and not something that could make you having those kind of reactions because its never been that giving a good impact on you.

Yes, because a wise and responsible gambler must have the right thoughts and correct behavior when he wants to make a decision, he uses his mind clearly so that the decision he will take must be in accordance with a plan that has been well thought out, and I agree with him. you, that gamblers are wise and responsible people, they will not take big risks according to their own beliefs because they are supported by strong self-control, they are not easily rash and careless in every decision they make.


Yes, apart from having this bad feeling, gamblers also think it is not important to tell other people about it, because whether it is good or bad, the ones who feel it are us, the gamblers, not other people, but most people also take their own perceptions. it was true that someone they knew liked them. . If you gamble, the impact will be very detrimental and this is clearly proven when a gambler often experiences defeat, he looks sad and regrets will come at the end so many people make fun of him at that time.

Only thing I know in gambling is that when you addicted in gambling it will surely change your behaviour, so that is why I do emphasise on someone having a limitations in gambling, because when you have a limitations gambling will not change your behaviour, its noticeable for someone who have family or have wife, so the attitude use to change because all its attention is in gambling, so it's better and understanding that you have to know your limits and control it so that gambling will not really affect you that much, and including someone who have a family

It is not necessary that everyone knows that a person is an inveterate gambler, because those around them often treat it negatively. Then there are many stories about how someone lost a fortune, and, as they call it, "carp" on luck and brings down the mood, which plays a very important role in making gambling decisions. The less people around you know about it, the better for the player.

In gambling, we must use the money we can afford to stay away from the big loss. We don't have to playing gambling excessively because that will only gives us a big loss. We know what gambling are and will always carefully spending our money and will not place a big bet. We also control our minds and prevent from being dominated by our emotion because once we lose our minds, that will be our time to gambling with much money. We will prevent changing behavior because of the outcomes that we accept in gambling by manage our emotion.

It's normal if gambler don't want to opens their gambling activities to other people because they don't want to feel bad. Many time people just judges other people from what they see without think what is their reason doing that. And because gambling have a bad names in many places, people will easy to says that a gamblers will becomes addicted to gambling.

Wise and responsible gamblers don't let themselves reach a point where they make mistakes that they wouldn't want to repeat, it barely happens that a responsible and wise gambler would lose all their money and don't stop gambling at the right time because a wise person would think twice before taking the next step so that they don't have to face severe negative consequences of their actions and they can steer clear from any sort of situation.

So such gamblers would always stay in control no matter what happens. They will have their budget and time fixed and they won't cross the limits they have set up for themselves in any situation, they have enough self-control to be able to control the urge to gamble.

If a gambler can realize the mistakes he has made then these mistakes will make him continue to learn to be better, but if he cannot realize his mistakes then the gambler will act more brutally and unstable because of the conditions he is experiencing.
It is true that we as gamblers must be able to exercise good control and behave responsibly so that we can limit when we gamble and when it is time to stop gambling.


It's true, sometimes there are gamblers who don't want to open or hide their gambling activities to other people because many of them keep it a secret for the reason that people don't judge or embarrass them when they lose and also when they need it. attention and advice from others that they think is not the case. important to him.

Gambling is not a money-making machine and everyone knows it but greed makes them ignore that concept and they have made mistakes that make it difficult to control themselves in gambling, their focus is only on chasing winning bets to increase income and they are not ready to accept losing money from betting, even though they not realizing that they have lost a lot of money due to gambling involving the desire to get high wins.

Even though gambling can change us for the worse, we still have self-control to be able to improve to return to the initial stage to gamble wisely, all decisions depend on ourselves to start gambling with several rules that can avoid factors of greed and financial loss.

Of course, if they are addicted to gambling it is because they are wrong to respond to gambling and with their wrong response to gambling it can trigger their emotions to peak because they tend not to be able to accept defeat and that should not happen, with the obvious fact that defeat is certain to occur, it should be possible to accept defeat properly, not to have a grudge because of the defeat in gambling. Obviously people who cannot accept their defeat will be upset when they don't win, because their goal of gambling is the victory that must be obtained.

Therefore, we must be able to deal with the way we behave when gambling, including being able to accept the defeat that will certainly occur. It's true what you said, depending on gambling is not right. It is not the right thing to do if we depend on gambling that will only bring disaster.

I don't think I can agree with this since, of course, we should have an understanding of how our lives will be affected by our gambling activities before we gamble and make that decision. Even if the outcome is uncertain and we might be at our lowest point, I think you should be ready for what is about to happen if you solely bet for financial gain as compared to gambling for enjoyable activities.
 
I mean, as a gambler, you should be reminded and know the risks involved, because when you just go beyond your limit, gambling can make you emotionally intense and it can break your mind.