Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 9. (Read 3202 times)

Responsible behavior is very important for a person to have in all his activities, because it is with this sense of responsibility that a person tries to make decisions wisely and correctly, especially in gambling. A gambler who has good responsibility will think about what things he can do and what he shouldn't do.




What you say is very true, a gambler who often loses will be very angry and even depressed and will also change his behavior to become very aggressive towards anyone, venting his emotions on other people according to him is to reduce the burden of problems. in his life, but he did not expect that his behavior would make other people feel hurt and distance themselves from him.
Therefore, a sense of responsibility is very important here to perfect self-control to be optimal.

Kids are emotional sponges. They soak up everything, the good, the bad, and the ugly. So, if your gambling takes over, it can mess with the vibe at home, making things tense and stressful for your son. Not cool. Plus, nobody wants their kid to think yelling and gambling are normal, right? Imagine him growing up thinking that's how things work – yikes!

The good news is, you can change the script. Seeking help for your gambling isn't about being weak, it's about being a freaking awesome dad who prioritizes his family's well-being. Think of it as giving your son the best gift ever – a stable, happy home with a dad who's present and in control. There are tons of resources out there, online and in your community, ready to lend a hand. You don't have to go it alone, bro.

By working on yourself, you're not just fixing a problem, you're building a brighter future for everyone. Imagine the memories you can create with your son when you're free from addiction and focused on being the best dad you can be. That's a win way bigger than any gambling jackpot.

I agree with your view. Most people are aware of the implications of gambling every day and are still caught in the web of addiction. So, addiction doesn`t mean prevention or an escape route. Pete Rose, a former professional baseball player and manager, is one of the most well-known cases of gambling addiction in the sports world. Despite being banned from baseball for betting on games, Rose continued to struggle with gambling addiction for many years. One might wonder how but it did happen. Does it mean Pete Rose doesn`t have an understanding? To me he does but that didn't prevent him from being addicted.

A similar story is that of Archie Karas who is a famous gambler known for his incredible winning streak in the 1990s when he turned $50 into $40 million through high-stakes poker and pool hustling. However, Karas’ story took a dark turn when he lost all his winnings due to his gambling addiction. This is another story to justify that addiction is not a lack of understanding.

Addiction is not always because of a lack of understanding. Sometimes, people who know that gambling is all about possibilities and luck and there are no guaranteed gains get addicted to it and the reason behind that is that they do it excessively, maybe not at the initial stage but later on when they have seen that they can win money from it but it's just not guaranteed but their minds keep telling them to try again, what if you win this time?

When they keep trying, again and again, to see if they can win something significant, this thing makes them addicted eventually, along with the fact that they might keep trying to recover their losses each time they gamble and we know what happens to those who try to recover their losses.

Behavioral change moves along with pains. When a gambler is in pains of losing his money, he'd easily get aggressive towards his loved ones. The right way to solve such problem is by being very attentive to our mood, knowing when to stop after a win or lose, is quite important. Many feel this way after winning big and end up losing the whole money again. The human brain reacts to such experience, and the gambler will be so sad on the face. Even, in the physical casino, gamblers wear frowned face out of the vicinity, after losing lots of money. Wagering limited amount of money helps the gambler to stay away from this type of behavior. At least being in love with the kids and having a good chat with them is quite very crucial as a father. Gambling shouldn't be the reason why a family should be in violence. In a nutshell, as you both said, accepting responsibility helps a gambler to be focused and know the actual moment to end his gambling session. Those who fail to accept the responsibility, end up chasing losses, thinking that they are up against the house, trying to win the house.

Responsibility is something that is always recommended in any case especially if you are involved in gambling, let's discuss the points where gambling is an activity that provides two possibilities of winning or losing and one of these two things you will always find at the end of each session, simply put if you win it means you are lucky and if you lose it means luck is away from you, and responsibility itself means you are able to accept defeat at the end of the session, however gamblers are advised to have responsibility in themselves and if not then maybe I would say that you are a loser who only wants to win but is not ready to lose. On the other hand there are many benefits of being a responsible gambler and one of them you have said here is that you will be able to have full control over yourself especially in terms of emotions, as we know that most gamblers have difficulty in accepting the fact of losing, I understand that losing money is a frustrating situation but do you realize that this is a betting activity? If you do then I think you will be able to be a responsible gambler because after all gambling is a risk taking activity which means you can never completely avoid the possibility of risk, and by having responsibility then you will be able to minimize emotions which of course will also be able to minimize the amount of significant losses due to uncontrolled emotions.

What you have just said is very true, responsible behavior also has a positive side in controlling ourselves when we gamble. By being responsible, a gambler tries to behave well and not be hasty in making every decision and not only that, by behaving responsibly the gambler plays with full control. good and can limit the amount of betting and when it is time to stop gambling. Therefore, every gambler has a responsibility to prevent addiction resulting from excessive gambling.
Yes, that's right, without responsible behavior in gambling, sometimes someone cannot accept the defeat they experience and is carried away by emotional outbursts, gamblers experience unstable changes in behavior.

I think that we all think that money is the cause of a gambling addiction, and that to me is the most logical thing, because if I force you to think when we are in a situation like that, what are we looking for? well apart from what everyone knows that it is fun, enjoyment and all that, Money, without money there is no enjoyment in a casino, if we enter a higher casino we are not going to do without money unless we enter an online casino and We decide to play with play money, which is possible but it turns out to be something very boring, and this is something that we do not do, generally I do recommend playing with play money but only for those games that we do not know well, and this It serves to learn, to know what each function of things is for, so given these things I recommend it, but money itself is very important in a casino.

In fact, I have always repeated that when we enter a casino and we run out of money, we are in bad shape. What we always need is to find a way to do things better to win more, or at least multiply the money we have, and that is the core of all the problems, because we can enter a casino with good money, and suddenly If we don't take care of ourselves we end up with nothing and that is the worst of all mistakes, because we must manage the casino's money very carefully, and the rest is for our expenses, but I really like the part you say about the "opportunities" "or rather the little traps we see that we do not recognize within the game, but rather we get our hopes up and everything then turns out to be like an mirage, that is what we must see well, if we are thinking that things can be based on opportunities Yes there are, but it turns out that when we bet a lot of money, it happens that we lose, but when we bet little, then we win, that is a dilemma so I don't know what to call the opportunities in that sense.

Self realizations would really be able to felt out or would be able to be done on the time that you would be experiencing hardships and those consequences or risks.People wouldnt be normally
be able to realize things not until they would really be able to experience hardship. Behavioral change is really just that normal or something that typical when dealing up with gambling.
We dont tend to changed up or realize things when we are not on tough condition on which as long you do have the funds or money then you would definitely be continuing on what you are doing.
This is why it would really be that best that you should really be making those realizations at first and would really be that making yourself get away with the risks.

The gambler who want to make big money in the gambling site should control their emotions in the gambling site.The family was more important then the gambling because the gambling loss will loss the peace in the family.So the gamblers who loss funds in the gambling site surely get their hate towards their family.Because gambling site where we can’t share our emotions to the gambling site,If the gamblers made money from gambling site.They can uplift their entire family,because they know the money from the gambling site can be multiple using the real business.The gamblers who make money from gambling should help their family members.

Gambling has a way of affecting our lives, most especially our emotions. That's why it is worst when someone gets addicted to it. If one is too emotional, gambling can be a death sentence to such a person, the impact being felt by the environment is primary. Such a person might consider even worse situations, like transferring aggression towards the immediate friends and family.

Having known this, it will not be out of place to say that it is normal to get angry when you lose a bet and get happy when you win as well.

your emotions are very unstable, you don't deserve to gamble, because it disturbs the harmony in your family, try to rest for a moment and get closer to your family, enjoy the moment together, and think about how beautiful it is to share time with your family and think about it. how important family is in your life, when you return to gambling, remember the good times with your family, you will feel more comfortable with your gambling

Being responsible also will helps you to maintain your characteristic like both of you said losing control can ends up losing your money and with that concept chances that you'll have a change  in emotion will take place, though some gamblers can still dictate what is needed  and can act normally while  most of those who can't control their emotions have a difficulty to accept their failures and mistake that leads them to lose their money.

The chance that you will see emotional swings with those types of gambler,  they have a hard time accepting and admitting  that it was their fault that they lose when playing.

Why people are so amazed that during gambling persons behavior changes? It is obvious thing to happen, as person goes through different kind of emotion, and does gambling to get them on first place. Amazing thing is that person behavior and emotions are easy to predict, as they are only some basics as happiness and anger.

Yes, winning is true, winning or losing at gambling cannot be handled by everyone properly and correctly, because these two factors have their own attraction where they can become addicted because they feel one or even both of these things. It's not surprising that many people are addicted to gambling because it is very difficult to refrain from gambling if we don't have self-control.

with those who are addicted to gambling then of course they will always prioritize their gambling because all they think about is winning, and even if they have a number of debts I think when they have a certain amount of money they will not think about paying off the debt but they will think about used in gambling because it is included in their needs So it is clear that gambling can change their behavior, becoming more sensitive irritable and emotional or stubborn.

But if we gamble well and have responsibility and self-control then it is clear that we will be able to have fun without regrets, just use money that we can afford to lose and never try to have excessive desires.
This will greatly influence what we get at the end of the game session, if gambling is with the intention and aim of making money and then there is excessive ambition then it is clear that there will always be money that cannot be accepted to be lost.
In the end we get the equivalent consequence of not being able to control ourselves and feeling like gambling every day is necessity, they will only get various complicated problems that make it difficult for themselves.
Obviously this will change everything and the changes can really be very significant and be shown to anyone because gambling addict will never care about other people unless it can help them in gambling.

You are right, we have to be aware of it and we need much better understanding of the approach and point of view towards gambling with the aim of minimizing bad things happening.
Only we ourselves can do it and it all starts from the awareness we have.

It is true that when a gambler loses control, it greatly affects changes in the character of his behavior and feelings, so that the gambler cannot use his mind well because it is influenced by greed and emotional instability. Furthermore, when a gambler experiences defeat, he cannot take it for granted and he will play continuously without stopping until he is satisfied with what he expected.
I agree with you, playing gambling must have good control so that we don't experience big losses due to our carelessness and greed.

The pleasure of gambling is only temporary, but the regret we get as a result of losing at gambling will be there. If we cannot control ourselves, the defeats will multiply and we will regret more. It will only make us deeper into gambling if we really lose self-control and will only destroy us at any time and we will only become addicted to gambling. We won't be able to enjoy gambling anymore if we become addicted to gambling because in our minds, we will only think about gambling.

We must remember that gambling is just entertainment that we do not need to use to get pleasure. We can do other things to avoid problems arising from gambling. Even though we know that gambling can make money, we should not pursue it because it will only get us into trouble. We have to decide that gambling is just an activity that can entertain and we have to be able to control ourselves while gambling and don't let ourselves become addicted to gambling.

Your emotional level is quite unstable, if that's what you feel when gambling, try stopping for a few moments, but if you insist on gambling, try gambling with little capital, and you are willing to lose, slowly you will feel that gambling is just Just for entertainment, don't let it disturb your relationship with your family

Yes because the object of victory in gambling is money and on the other hand everyone needs money to keep their lives so obviously this is what makes gambling can make anyone addicted, and people who are addicted are those who always expect to win or multiply the amount of money they bring, most gamblers think that they will be able to get instant wealth just by gambling, when in reality it is NOT at all, gambling is a trick of hope wrapped in opportunities.

What is the problem and what causes a person to be addicted is the lack of understanding of what gambling really is, they only underline that gambling is a place to change the fate in life by utilizing opportunities, but they do not understand that opportunities are just "possibilities" which means there is absolutely no certainty to become a reality and it will really happen when you are lucky. I understand that gambling provides opportunities for you to earn money, but the fact that there is no certainty means that you won't be able to win that often, and it means that only "chance" situations can lead you to victory, and this is one of the reasons why gambling is not a place to earn.