Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 20. (Read 3434 times)

Wether we like it or not, there will always be a behavioral change with gamblers each time they are gambling and not getting the expected outcome from it, this is more of an inherent actions that is common to everyone of us even in real life, we tend to be more remorseful when we pass through any stage of being disappointed, but we cannot deny that some gamblers don't actually mind or take it serious even when this happens because they are not playing to earn but to make fun.

This is not only the case with you, but every gambler, when gambling loses their money, then only anger works in their head. After losing money they lose their balance completely and get angry at the slightest thing. That's normal, because at that time we just get angry and stubborn and completely messed up. At this time we should go somewhere, where there is a lot of wind and open air, like across the river. When we visit such places our mind calms down and brain becomes light. As a result, you will find yourself back to normal. So gamble carefully, always play with what you can afford to lose so that you don't get into big trouble later on.

That's right, we control ourselves when we gamble in the casino. Especially if we are experiencing a loss here, hopefully, and as much as possible, we do not show our emotions that are not good for our children to see just because we lost playing gambling.

Because if we only know how to control our emotions, it is certain that our children will not see the bad effects of gambling when we play it, whether it is online or not.

The behavior of getting angry at every slightest thing after winning as well as been very happy and in good spirit when a gambler loses is one of one trait that I think is found among 85% of gamblers but the ability to manage one's emotional feelings during those times as not to allow them cause you issues that you'll later regret is what makes a gambler a responsible and matured one.

Whenever I lose in gambling, my best approach is to avoid my close friends and family at the very moment until I've finally gotten over my loss and that has helped to control my potential excess reactions to things that I might not even react to when I didn't lose money. It's absolutely unwise to for one to allow his emotions to get the better of him and as gamblers, we are supposed to always regulate our behaviors when we lose in gambling as well as when we are winning.

If we do not try to gain control over ourselves, we will not be able to imagine what will happen to us. I admit that it was very difficult when I wanted to try it because there was an urge that was trying hard to get me to keep gambling. But I remembered all the bad events I experienced, and that's what made me try hard to fight it again. That's what I also conveyed to my friend who almost had the same problem as me, and fortunately, he wasn't as serious as I experienced, so he was able to come back well and can now enjoy his gambling activities as entertainment. Yes, it is better not to think about how much loss we have experienced because as long as it is the amount of money we can afford, it means we are ready for all the risks and can accept them well. We just need to enjoy the gambling game and stop when we have had enough gambling.

That's why we have to be able to allocate a certain amount of money for gambling and always stay within that limit so that we don't gamble excessively. By having a budget for gambling, we will try not to violate it because if not, we could experience problems in our family finances, and this will definitely have an impact on the allocation of funds for other needs. Someone may have experienced this to the point that they have to adjust the amount of money they still have to be able to meet their daily needs, and that is really hard to do. But by having limits in the gambling budget and also having good self-control, we will always stay within reasonable limits for gambling and will not try to exceed those limits.

I have no idea how can such person exist in this world since destroy or damage his own stuff because of emotion is completely dumb. He forget if make money isn't easy and it's pointless to did that, it's better if he spend it by buying foods, beer, or other thing that can make him happier.

Seek a professional is really need in this case, not only an addict need to seek a professional.

The approach that you apply to handle losses in gambling is commendable. Keeping a level head and not expressing anger or frustration towards those around you is a sign of maturity and self-control. Recognizing the potential impact on those close to you, especially children, is something important in maintaining healthy relationships. Your advice on maintaining discipline in gambling is valuable. Setting clear limits on the funds you are willing to risk is a practical strategy to avoid unnecessary stress and frustration.

Gambling with money that you can afford to lose helps in preventing financial strain and emotional distress if things don't go as planned. Learning to control emotions is a key aspect of responsible gambling. Emotions like anger and frustration can cloud judgment, leading to impulsive decisions. Your awareness of these issues and the steps you take to mitigate them not only contribute to yourself but also create a positive environment for those around you. Responsible gambling is not only about winning or losing but also about how you handle the entire experience.

I had a behavioral change when I was starting and looking back it's natural, like you I have tantrums also I easily get angered every time I lose and very jolly when I win, we're just human we attach our behaviors based on the outcome of our gambling, which for me back then are all wrong.
Gamblers are also going through these phases of their gambling journey, you can be at your worst or you can improve and be better.
The hardest is trying to change your ways because you are becoming annoying to your loved ones and you cannot concentrate on your work anymore.
It's a big struggle when you are hooked on gambling and you want to change and become the same guy again before you become hooked on gambling.

I believe so, the change of mood makes the change in behavior, it happens to me all the time especially if you sleep the next morning will be based on your mood when you win or lose. Basically it is the same with trading, ask a trader what their mood is after losing or winning a trade.

I agree, it's part of our emotions that is still persisting even how hard we try not to connect it with to. At the end of the day, we are all humans that has an emotion which is very likely can be affected by everything we do.

Every gambler has experienced that. If you do/shown negative behaviour in front of your kid just because you lose in gambling, other gamblers can do much worse than that. I know someone who completely lost himself after having a huge loss. He unintentionally destroyed his laptop due to his anger.

Having a change in our behaviour is completely normal, we just have to realise that we should always control our emotions to avoid unnecessary bad things around us. I know it's not that easy, but it is also not easy if we possibly hurt someone physically or emotionally due to our anger. We can also unintentionally destroy our expensive things which is no one likes to happen.

Correct, since sometimes even if we know how to be a responsible gambler still there are instances that we fail to execute it since we made a lot of fun playing especially joining on the contest held by a casino.

Maybe if this scenario came we need to prepare to lose since for that we can minimize the exact mental damage brought up by losing and we cannot get affected much if we already know how not to expect something with this.

But even though we are still facing this situation even if we are considered as experience gambler we should settle up all things to make all things fine at our end. Also what's more important there is we didn't experience any huge lose since we already know how to settle up things and we already have separated funds to use for gambling especially on those big events held by a casino on any especially season.

easy said that done right? we can easily say to control self when in gambling but if we are the one who is playing ?truly we cannot act like that.
exactly , being responsible is what we all need , stop the negativity and start possibility .
if all gamblers are responsible ? al gambling sites or many of them are dying easily because of Lack of players.

Controlling yourself when gambling is a basic requirement, regardless of the size of your bankroll or the amount you're willing to risk.

It's important to recognize the consequences of being irresponsible in gambling. Actually, even if you are a regular gambler, there may be times when you find it challenging to control your emotions. However, being responsible means learning from your experiences, especially the negative, to ensure your safety while still enjoying gambling.

In fact, if all gamblers were responsible, gambling addiction would be much less likely to exist.

This is truly relatable. I do feel down whenever i loss in gambling but one thing i try not to do is to make it obvious to people around me or start expressing anger towards them. I feel it is unprofessional to do that. A gambler should learn this so that he won't get anyone hurt. Because the way you express yourself from the OP it is certain that your child will notice and start being afraid of you.

There are ways to avoid these behavioral changes. Which is to maintain discipline when gambling. You can start with not gambling with funds you don't want to lose. This is because if you loss those funds you will feel angrier because you never wanted to use them to gamble in the first place. Another way to avoid behavioral chances is to learn how to control emotions.

It's quite understandable that their is nobody that will lose gambling that the emotions will remain the same, so basically if you lose money your attitude will automatically change because your emotions will just change and I believe that people is different their is some people who has lose several gambling and the thing has mastered them and whenever they lose gambling they still maintain and pretend that nothing happens because they have experienced such thing in different occasions but like me when I win gamble I always be excited and you most the joy and smile all over  my face but when I lose I will be emotionally angry, I don't know for any other person

I know some people who are badly addicted to gambling and they relate a story for us back then, when his friends told him while they were inside his house, "Look what else we can sell here". this is how they become if they cannot control their emotions because of the hype they currently feel and this happens often mostly to those who engage in gambling without any source of income. Unfortunately, those people are not really aware of their conditions until they no longer have the means to play. Actually, this can be prevented if only they know which road they will end up if they pursue this habit. A wise man will think twice before he does something while a common person will not care about whatever result of his actions will lead him to.

Yes, that's right, that's why it's not recommended to gamble when you're together with your family, because of course the effect of changes in behavior can make the atmosphere not good, so avoid places that are really not good for gambling, at least gamble in another room in the house and make sure it's when the family is together. are asleep so the most appropriate time to gamble is at night

Nights are actually synonymous with active gamblers because in my opinion playing gambling alone and in silence makes me more focused on gambling and also enjoying the game so that when I lose there is no one to blame for the change in behavior in question, so I can control my behavior when I experience it. whether you lose or win when gambling, the point is to never take gambling games too seriously.

Gambling usually affects behavior. If a person loses often, he may fall into severe depression or, on the contrary, become irascible and aggressive. Each win can lead to unreasonable euphoria, foolish wastefulness, carelessness in financial matters. Therefore, it is extremely important for the player to fully control himself

That will happen of you don't know how to handle emotions when in gambling , but I think it is normal for people when we lose money(even not in gambling e.g Business and investment) our behavior and attitude will change and yes it will be uncomfortable  and un easy ,  so I think many can relate to that post(those true gamblers and not those pretenders)

Our Behavior is depending in our Mood and our status , if our pocket is full even when we are tired yet our behavior is happy but when we are no money? surely we are getting angry easily .

I think that is the main disease for someone who will soon enter the addiction zone, simply put they want to win but do not want to lose, and one of the reasons why they dare to put their last money on gambling is because they are frustrated enough with all the defeats they experience so at that time they act like someone who has surrendered by saying "this is my last money and hopefully in this last chance there is luck", none other than all of that is still driven by their hopes that always assume "hopefully" but still the casino will not care whether it is your last money or not.

The point is if you are involved then it is very likely that you will become one of the casino targets to experience defeat. Simply put "start with hope and end with emotion" there is no regret there because awareness is still quite far away, especially for beginners who are still serious and ambitious. Yes it is clear, the rich already have a lot of financial resources so they will not worry too much if in that session they lose because they already have the right and easy way to make money, while we? obviously losing is a big problem because of our lack of income sources. That's why we should gamble with money that we can afford to lose without any expectations at the end of the session.