Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 21. (Read 3205 times)

This is truly relatable. I do feel down whenever i loss in gambling but one thing i try not to do is to make it obvious to people around me or start expressing anger towards them. I feel it is unprofessional to do that. A gambler should learn this so that he won't get anyone hurt. Because the way you express yourself from the OP it is certain that your child will notice and start being afraid of you.

There are ways to avoid these behavioral changes. Which is to maintain discipline when gambling. You can start with not gambling with funds you don't want to lose. This is because if you loss those funds you will feel angrier because you never wanted to use them to gamble in the first place. Another way to avoid behavioral chances is to learn how to control emotions.

It's quite understandable that their is nobody that will lose gambling that the emotions will remain the same, so basically if you lose money your attitude will automatically change because your emotions will just change and I believe that people is different their is some people who has lose several gambling and the thing has mastered them and whenever they lose gambling they still maintain and pretend that nothing happens because they have experienced such thing in different occasions but like me when I win gamble I always be excited and you most the joy and smile all over  my face but when I lose I will be emotionally angry, I don't know for any other person

I know some people who are badly addicted to gambling and they relate a story for us back then, when his friends told him while they were inside his house, "Look what else we can sell here". this is how they become if they cannot control their emotions because of the hype they currently feel and this happens often mostly to those who engage in gambling without any source of income. Unfortunately, those people are not really aware of their conditions until they no longer have the means to play. Actually, this can be prevented if only they know which road they will end up if they pursue this habit. A wise man will think twice before he does something while a common person will not care about whatever result of his actions will lead him to.

Yes, that's right, that's why it's not recommended to gamble when you're together with your family, because of course the effect of changes in behavior can make the atmosphere not good, so avoid places that are really not good for gambling, at least gamble in another room in the house and make sure it's when the family is together. are asleep so the most appropriate time to gamble is at night

Nights are actually synonymous with active gamblers because in my opinion playing gambling alone and in silence makes me more focused on gambling and also enjoying the game so that when I lose there is no one to blame for the change in behavior in question, so I can control my behavior when I experience it. whether you lose or win when gambling, the point is to never take gambling games too seriously.

Gambling usually affects behavior. If a person loses often, he may fall into severe depression or, on the contrary, become irascible and aggressive. Each win can lead to unreasonable euphoria, foolish wastefulness, carelessness in financial matters. Therefore, it is extremely important for the player to fully control himself

That will happen of you don't know how to handle emotions when in gambling , but I think it is normal for people when we lose money(even not in gambling e.g Business and investment) our behavior and attitude will change and yes it will be uncomfortable  and un easy ,  so I think many can relate to that post(those true gamblers and not those pretenders)

Our Behavior is depending in our Mood and our status , if our pocket is full even when we are tired yet our behavior is happy but when we are no money? surely we are getting angry easily .

I think that is the main disease for someone who will soon enter the addiction zone, simply put they want to win but do not want to lose, and one of the reasons why they dare to put their last money on gambling is because they are frustrated enough with all the defeats they experience so at that time they act like someone who has surrendered by saying "this is my last money and hopefully in this last chance there is luck", none other than all of that is still driven by their hopes that always assume "hopefully" but still the casino will not care whether it is your last money or not.

The point is if you are involved then it is very likely that you will become one of the casino targets to experience defeat. Simply put "start with hope and end with emotion" there is no regret there because awareness is still quite far away, especially for beginners who are still serious and ambitious. Yes it is clear, the rich already have a lot of financial resources so they will not worry too much if in that session they lose because they already have the right and easy way to make money, while we? obviously losing is a big problem because of our lack of income sources. That's why we should gamble with money that we can afford to lose without any expectations at the end of the session.

       -  I am happy that you immediately saw the signs that happened to you, mate; you controlled and stopped it immediately. The good thing about what you did is that you found out what your priorities are. And that happened when you tried to gamble. At least at that point, you learn and know what you should do better.

That's good, and I also believe what you said: that gambling is fun in the beginning, but once you manage it properly and correctly, any day you think of gambling, it's fine as long as you know how to control it. yourself in such situations.

Gambling, like clay in a potter's hands, changes minds. But dont we all create our own fate? We gamble to ride this uncertainty. We reveal our temperament's frailty.

Doesnt each dice roll or card flip mirror life's unpredictability? Despite this, we blame the game, not the player. But dont we, the players, own our decisions and reactions? The joy, sorrow, generosity, and anger are part of our multifaceted selves. What about those around us? They're not bystanders but members of our complicated web. Are we gambling with more than money? Possibly gambling with our essence, relationships, and peace of mind. The real cost of this gamble?

The effect of such cantankerous behaviour and transferred aggression to the family is that the children will be avoiding the father and even the wife too will be trying to stay away from him because she never knows what he is going through at any point in time. Such behaviour for a gambler means such person is only depending on gambling for income and when he doesn't get it, he gets angry.

The act of addiction is also responsible for this when a player only have the mind that only winning is what can happen in his bet and he has not assume losing his game. Of course children don't know how to understand such harsh behaviour, if you get unfriendly to children you are sure to see that they will start keeping distance from you and that is not good for a parent.

The experience varies alot and another thing I've learned over the years is that these emotions mainly erupt when we use the last cash we have to go and gamble, losing it we get agitated thinking of the penury the loss have made of us, but when you see the rich guy gambling he hardly get that emotionally aggressive even after losing reason being that he's conscious of what is left in his bank account and sonhe doesn't have to worry a bit about the loss and it's just a little piece loss. So it will be appropriate people don't go gamble with the last cash in their possession to dodge getting emotional if lost.

You are taking gambling too seriously and it is not good for yourself and your family as well. It will affect your life negatively if you don't change yourself soon. You are addicted to gambling because only a gambler who is addicted to gambling and gambles to earn money will have such behavioral changes a normal gambler wouldn't care much about their losses because they know that one can win or lose and both of these are a part of the process and there is nothing new in losing and one shouldn't take it that way.

So, you will have to start working on yourself, build your character differently, and make yourself better in terms of patience and self-control so that even when you lose, you don't take it too seriously and you accept your losses gracefully and move on. Remember that gambling is not a way for you for earn money, and also remember that your family is the most important thing for you, they are the ones you work for to earn money so that you can provide the best life for them.

I also think that it is normal, I believe that everything you are doing has an effect to you especially if it is something that you are really into it. There are people who tend to have a fluctuation in their emotion when they are currently doing gambling, these kind of people are the one I think can possibly have a massive behavioral changes after they had done gambling. The behavioral changes would depend on the capacity of the gambler but one thing is for sure, you giving a hard time to the people around you just because of the gambling vices you have is definitely not OK.

The behavioral changes differs to gamblers, there are some who show low self-esteem, aggressiveness, generous, joyful, it depends on the gambler and the result of the gambling session that they have. The only thing that makes it bad is when it can negatively affect us or others when things go bad. 

Of course gambling can make someone change their attitude and behavior as well as their mindset, which is unfortunate that this change is not a positive change but the change that will be experienced is a negative change. and of course this is detrimental to themselves, where they can get into debt, because a gambler who is addicted and when he runs out of capital maybe he will borrow money here and there to be able to return to gambling, and with the belief that gambling can restore their losses and get a win to cover the losses they have got as well as to pay off their debts. also they can lose many responsibilities, because gambling like this can make someone forget about time and other things that should have been their responsibility. and health, especially in the mindset which of course this is very fatal because gambling can make someone experience a lot of debt. also they can lose a lot of responsibilities, because gambling like this can make someone forget about time and other things that should have been their responsibility. and health, especially in the mindset which of course this is very fatal because gambling can make someone crazy if they are already heavily addicted, where their mindset is no longer healthy by only thinking about gambling in their life.

 Obviously gambling can make a person's life a mess, and there are also examples like we all know about what people who are addicted to gambling are like, even in relationships can be affected. and there are also many other things that will be harmed only because of gambling. there are also many changes that a person will experience if they are addicted to gambling. even if someone is gambling with all their might, it will not be easy to win, it does not rule out the possibility that they will lose, and defeat is also a factor that causes someone to experience changes in themselves.

Behavior changes after losing from gambling because at that rate a lot of money is lost. Moreover many people borrow this money and sell their assets. I personally cannot be happy when losing money from gambling. And when i gain i celebrate those happy moments with everyone. However you should pay more attention so that the effects of gambling do not affect your family and if you can't fix yourself in those losing moments then gambling is not for you.

Gambling, as an activity does have its fair share in the behavioral change of an individual. That’s if you allow it to have such an effect.
I think It’s only human nature to be happy when the good times comes rolling and quite sad and annoyed when it’s not so rosy anymore. That’s fine and expected. What isn’t expected or fine is taking out your annoyance on someone else(your family). This happens when you allow your emotions overwhelm you. We’re human and have/feel emotions whether you like it or not. It’s left for us to decide how best to show/channel such emotions.

You(OP) should get some help. You said it yourself that you’re addicted. If you want to keep your family happy and together, get some help that would help you quit your addiction.

I believe this is a common human psychology, not just among gamblers. However, for gamblers, the emotional rollercoaster can be more intense. We could be elated by a winning trade, only to be immediately frustrated by missing the next opportunity or facing a loss. The emotional shifts happen faster and more frequently compared to non-gamblers. Additionally, when gambling or engaging in short-term trading, emotions like FOMO (fear of missing out) or frustration often impact our mood.

A few years ago, when I entered the cryptocurrency market, these emotions often took control, especially when trading futures. I even found myself getting angry at those around me just because I missed an order due to a phone call or some other distraction. Now, although those emotions still linger, I've learned to control and not let them burst out like before. However, complete elimination is nearly impossible unless I stop engaging in these activities entirely.

I'm better now than when I had just started, I just realized my priorities and my priorities are my jobs and my relationships with people I am close with, gambling takes away my priorities, back then I spent a lot of time and money which is not right because you eventually forget what matter most in your life, glad that I overcome it after so many months of struggling.
Gambling is good in the first few weeks but once addiction starts that will cause a lot of dissatisfaction and depression, so every new gambler should watch out for the warning signs, or you will struggle to get back, to the life you once enjoyed.

I mean, this is quite the obvious that a person would feel irritated if they lost a certain amount of money when they lost; and if the person won, they would feel generous and kind to others.

This is nothing but natural human behaviour that we are more kind, happy, and respectable if we experience a good/positive outcome. In the contrary, a negative outcome would most likely affect our mood, thereby making us more aggressive and sensitive at the same time.

This natural human behaviour applies to gambling which is purely dependent on the outcome of the game. If a certain gambler won, then he would feel happy; if he lost, then he has the potential to be aggressive to his surroundings (though this also depends on the goal of a person if they gamble for money VS if they gamble for entertainment).

Stress could change tour behavior especially frustration wherein you'd be easily irritated with things. This happens a lot after a huge loss in gambling wherein even the slightedt inconvenience would negatively change your mood. This is also a sign that you are already being consumed by this activity. One reason why we should be preventing ourselves to bet across the amount or loss tolerance. In my case, I am anticipating loss and never disregarding the possibility of it in order to safeguard myself from regrets and frustration. This helped me control and lessen negative emotions after gambling and have improved my gambling expenses as well. Going all out in gambling will make us broke for sure; you could win a one time big time jack but it won't be enough to cover all of your losses eversince.