Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 24. (Read 3435 times)
I tend to experience changes in my mood, even over small mistakes made by my loved ones when I lose in gambling. This sensitivity often leads me to isolate myself, to avoid any misunderstandings with them, as I understand that it's not their fault that I lose in gambling. However, sometimes I can't help myself and easily get angry with them. Later, when I feel better, I feel guilty about getting angry and always make the first move to apologize, since it's ultimately my fault.
Same. I am kind when I win and the smile won't just go away in my face. 
When I am at a loss I get mad easily but I always try to control it, especially in front of the kids. Better, I try to still feel happy and just laugh whatever happened. Because what can we do about it? Nothing. Let's not make one trouble and add another by being unkind to the people near us just because we lose our balance in gambling.
I think these kinds of emotions are normal and that's what makes gambling fun. Without those emotions, I doubt we will be going back and forth to our favorite gambling sites just to get our revenge or win more. Greed and regret are both part of gambling and it's better if we understand that as early as possible.
When I am at a loss I get mad easily but I always try to control it, especially in front of the kids. Better, I try to still feel happy and just laugh whatever happened. Because what can we do about it? Nothing. Let's not make one trouble and add another by being unkind to the people near us just because we lose our balance in gambling.
I think these kinds of emotions are normal and that's what makes gambling fun. Without those emotions, I doubt we will be going back and forth to our favorite gambling sites just to get our revenge or win more. Greed and regret are both part of gambling and it's better if we understand that as early as possible.
Yes, I really felt that, and this change was very evident when for the first time I lost a considerable amount of money. Where I became someone who was angry and easily offended whoever it was. it was an incident of my past, because at this time I was quite good at controlling my emotions and finances.
And it turns out that after I thought back at this time, it was not the amount of the bet that was too big, it was just our mentality that was not ready to accept defeat in that amount. Because maybe for rich people, the biggest amount I spend to play gambling, it is the smallest bet amount for people who have enough money.
So in conclusion, if we are mentally unable to accept a loss then never try to bet that we cannot afford to lose.
And it turns out that after I thought back at this time, it was not the amount of the bet that was too big, it was just our mentality that was not ready to accept defeat in that amount. Because maybe for rich people, the biggest amount I spend to play gambling, it is the smallest bet amount for people who have enough money.
So in conclusion, if we are mentally unable to accept a loss then never try to bet that we cannot afford to lose.
You can't control yourself from your emotions so you feel a change in your behavior after playing gambling. You may be the type of gambler who is always obsessed and wants to make money there so you get carried away by your emotions when you experience defeat so that's what happens. You will feel a change in your behavior. To be honest, I never felt that change because I think it's not good to bring emotions to our family, let alone our own wife and children.
I have never felt like you feel, maybe because I can control it, so I gamble without any behavior changing me, whether I win or lose, everything is the same, my behavior remains the same with my family, I will have fun with them, enjoy happy days, for example playing with my children or hanging out with them for dinner when I get home from work, usually I gamble when they are really fast asleep and that's only on weekends so I never take out my losses on them with bad behavior. Enjoy your gambling like you are at an entertainment venue to have fun. that is the correct mindset when gambling so change your mindset
I have never felt like you feel, maybe because I can control it, so I gamble without any behavior changing me, whether I win or lose, everything is the same, my behavior remains the same with my family, I will have fun with them, enjoy happy days, for example playing with my children or hanging out with them for dinner when I get home from work, usually I gamble when they are really fast asleep and that's only on weekends so I never take out my losses on them with bad behavior. Enjoy your gambling like you are at an entertainment venue to have fun. that is the correct mindset when gambling so change your mindset
Yeah man that felling is general, I don't usually gamble to win a lot of money, which means I gamble with small stakes but yet the feeling of having a straight 3 or 5 strike win is different from when you have experience some loses in strike. despite the amount I used in gambling, whenever I experience loss, my mood changes and it obvious to anyone I have contact with that period, for like an hour I'll still be feeling moody. But the interesting part is that I am looking forward to stop that behavior, and I think it's actually helping me now. After gambling I try to interact with lively persons so as to keep the good vibe going, and this practice has really been helpful when it comes to my mood change after gambling.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
Usually it's okay for your mood to change or mood swings when you're in loss, but for me, I really don't let my loosing days affect my behavior or cause any sort of behavioral changes in me, yeah I may feel bad at the moment but I always comport myself and don't let it affect my behavior towards others. Maybe it's because I prepare and anticipate every loss before it even comes, so when it comes, it doesn't affect me that much. I think the only reason it can cause such behavioral changes is when gamblers don't anticipate the losses.
Yes that's right, one of the causes that we can use as a reason why they can change their attitude seems to be a mistake in the approach at the beginning, like what you said about their unpreparedness in accepting the risk of losing which is very likely to make them very emotional at the end of the session and not applying any limits or self-control so that their emotions are unstoppable and cause unconscious loss of control and behavior to become more aggressive, it makes sense.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
You do really have that severe addiction mate or some emotional abnormality or having that impulsive kind of emotion on which it do suddenly changes up basing on the situation you are facing but actually i couldn't blame you out since we are really just that humans on which these kind of reactions because we dont really like to lose money but it isnt really just that right on which you are really that putting all that frustration into other peoplewhich it is really bad. If you do find that you do have that kind of behavior then try to assess out emotion and try to control it next time because you would really be hurting your loved ones if you would really be having
that kind of treatment to them when you are on losing condition.
It is really just that fine when you are winning on which it is really just that normal but when you are losing then this is where things turns out to be bitter on which your emotion cant really be controlled
might really be able to involved some physical hits or something like that when your temper reaches out of control. This is why you should really be
careful when it comes to this.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
Usually it's okay for your mood to change or mood swings when you're in loss, but for me, I really don't let my loosing days affect my behavior or cause any sort of behavioral changes in me, yeah I may feel bad at the moment but I always comport myself and don't let it affect my behavior towards others. Maybe it's because I prepare and anticipate every loss before it even comes, so when it comes, it doesn't affect me that much. I think the only reason it can cause such behavioral changes is when gamblers don't anticipate the losses.
I might be doing incorrectly, but I try to hide my emotions when I win or lose in gambling. Maybe I am not perfect at it, as I smile more when I win, but I am sure I can do stone face when I have lost. In my mind, gambling is individual. Emotions gambler get must stay with him. No matter how much we want to share emotions, better have some time after gambling session, have a rest and then go to people. People dont need gamblers negative emotions, energy. They dont deserve it.
An advice - when you make a deposit, I advice to say goodbye to your money right away. Consider it as a purchase of experience. It will help to stay focused.
An advice - when you make a deposit, I advice to say goodbye to your money right away. Consider it as a purchase of experience. It will help to stay focused.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
I think most of the gamblers has already experiencd this kind if episodes in their life, you will realized that you're just like a different person, that's how gambling affects your emotion and mental health. Due to lack of sleep, completely and continously losses, tendency is they can feel the annoyancs in every little thing because they are out of focus.You will develop the anger issue because of what you've experience in gambling.Denial comes first since you provably think that you are fine but you didn't realize that you are gambling to much and telling lies to your family or to those people around you then you do some crazy things which you think normal but if you look at so deeply its totally damaging. We experience this scenario in life especially when we are just newly starting up since expectation is so high that's why we think all of those possibilities that came up on our mind is really possible but we realize later on that we are losing to much and to many people affected on what we are doing. That's why we need to understand ourselves and see if there's changes happening since if we can't control everything we do especially on gambling for sure we would face all those negative implication about the actions we do.
If money is what dictates your happiness man you are fucked up, it means you are doing something based on anxiety and that's not good for your health, this is why I rely more on something that's a certain, like jobs or businesses, if I am working, my monthly salary is $400 and I know that every month is when I get paid, all my live spendings is shaped around this $400, brother you will be fine this way rather than, it may happen or it may not.
I don't want to be spending my life with mixed reactions, when I win some money I feel fine and happy and when I lose some money I lose myself, get mad and angry with people around me, you don't even have to say a lot, I have seen this happening before, some people are very good at controlling their emotions and feelings but if you have problem doing this you should not get involved with things that can mess your feelings up.
Like I've said already, you are messed up if money is what's dictating your feeling, it's a very wrong way to live, gambling is gambling and you should get involved with only what you can afford to lose, your mood won't change if you lose your small money, you are a irresponsible gambler that's why your feelings get ruined when you lose money.
I don't want to be spending my life with mixed reactions, when I win some money I feel fine and happy and when I lose some money I lose myself, get mad and angry with people around me, you don't even have to say a lot, I have seen this happening before, some people are very good at controlling their emotions and feelings but if you have problem doing this you should not get involved with things that can mess your feelings up.
Like I've said already, you are messed up if money is what's dictating your feeling, it's a very wrong way to live, gambling is gambling and you should get involved with only what you can afford to lose, your mood won't change if you lose your small money, you are a irresponsible gambler that's why your feelings get ruined when you lose money.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
I think most of the gamblers has already experiencd this kind if episodes in their life, you will realized that you're just like a different person, that's how gambling affects your emotion and mental health. Due to lack of sleep, completely and continously losses, tendency is they can feel the annoyancs in every little thing because they are out of focus.You will develop the anger issue because of what you've experience in gambling. 
I mean, it is obvious gambling and the fact one could be either losing or winning money can affect the behavioral patterns one has when comes to interacting with others in the household and in the street. There are people who are more sensitive than others and people react in a different way when comes to losing money to bad luck streaks. Some get angry and lose patience like you, others are more prone to fall into sadness and won't feel like doing anything.
In my personal case, I can easily tell me behavior changes for the worse when I am losing and I get sad when happens.
Also, since you admitted to have problems with addiction to gambling, you ought to be careful with it and try to control yourself, be responsible...
In my personal case, I can easily tell me behavior changes for the worse when I am losing and I get sad when happens.
Also, since you admitted to have problems with addiction to gambling, you ought to be careful with it and try to control yourself, be responsible...
It depends on your behavior and your mindset on gambling if you're looking to profit from gambling then whenever you lose you will be upset and every time you win your behavior is very jolly, so your result will set up the moods for the entire day or night and this will have a very bad impact with your relationships with your family and your office mate that will result in a strained relationship and in the end will have a psychological impact on your character.
This is not good if you continue doing this, you will eventually lose your job and a broken family, if it turns worse your wife will eventually divorce you, these are the signs that gamblers should avoid and this is the result of treating gambling as a way to make money, but if you treat gambling as a form of entertainment you will have a good relationship with your family and your co-worker, so don't treat gambling as a source of income and it will do you good.
This is not good if you continue doing this, you will eventually lose your job and a broken family, if it turns worse your wife will eventually divorce you, these are the signs that gamblers should avoid and this is the result of treating gambling as a way to make money, but if you treat gambling as a form of entertainment you will have a good relationship with your family and your co-worker, so don't treat gambling as a source of income and it will do you good.
maybe you have entered an aggressive stage where you can no longer control your emotions because of gambling. i think you should immediately correct this behavior because your gambling has affected your behavior and it can worsen your attitude towards the people around you. if you don't correct it, maybe your family will get fed up with your attitude which could lead to new problems.
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I experienced a change in my gambling activities, and now I don't think too much about gambling. I don't gamble as much now because I have more responsibilities to fulfill and more needs to meet. That makes me have to use money to meet my needs rather than using the money to gamble. What is certain is that I can control myself more in gambling and am still within reasonable limits and that is different from what I experienced in the past. I am grateful that I was able to change my gambling activities to not gambling too often because of the factors I mentioned above. And now, when I gamble, I can decide when I have to stop gambling and I don't want to lose a lot so I really limit my gambling.
I wouldn't say that it's normal though, but there are chemicals being released in our body when we win and that's why we feel good and in the mood for everyone. Same with when we lost, chemicals in our body that feels us irritated to everyone around us.
And this is very dangerous and not healthy feeling specially if you are mad at your kids because of you losing money in gambling.
Obviously losing money alters our brain neuro responses and we feel stressed and we just get out it through others, like the people in our environment.
And this is very dangerous and not healthy feeling specially if you are mad at your kids because of you losing money in gambling.
Obviously losing money alters our brain neuro responses and we feel stressed and we just get out it through others, like the people in our environment.
If I am not mistakenly there are forces that controls a man whenever s/he is at lost why because at then all their countenance has changes at the moment they are being engulfed with greed and annoyance when they are on lost. Naturally no man loves wasting their money to something that is not bring profit and when is on lost they gets provoke to everyone including themselves because at then they have reasons what they should have gotten from that bet but since it turns the other way round they channel the aggression to family. It's usual most times it affects me especially when they are requesting money from me it gets me angry the more because I have lost online and they wants to take away from me - so it's like a double Lost.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
- When I experienced winning gambling, I told my husband, and of course he was happy that I won 160 dollars. I took out 120 dollars and left the rest at the gambling casino where I played. Someone also helped, and I bought a delicious dish for us the next day.
Sometimes I thought that when you win gambling, you can't say that gambling is bad because you won, and what we won helped us. But it didn't lead me to have an addiction; it's just at a moderate level that I'm still a gambler.
Does any of feel behavioral change in you based on the win/loss in gambling. Myself had experienced it, and personally I used to be happy and I used to be polite with my family members and kid whenever I am on profit. On the day of losing it changes exactly in the opposite way, even for simple things I get much anger. Particularly while giving food to kid patience is must. On winning days I let him take his own time and eat. On the losing days I used to shout at him. I'm addicted, and I want fellow gamblers to make a self analysis at regular interval and be on the safer side.
This is common among gamblers; it might not appear to be a good thing, but the truth is, almost everyone feels the same way. No one ever feels completely happy for losing money, be it just 1 cent or millions of dollars, depending on the status of the person. We don't completely feel happy for losing, and then again, there is this joy we all get from winning money from casinos. Credit alert has it on the way of adding a smile to someone's face, so it's a natural thing.
But the only place where I find it not right is to transfer aggression. I mean, when you lose in your gambling games, instead of leaving the casino, go back home. If your mode is completely ruined, you can take a bath and walk straight to your room. Getting a sleep can cool things down, but instead you choose to pour that anger on your siblings and loved ones. Such an attitude is what is highly classified as bad gambling behaviour because if you don't control that now, that's still in anger and shouting mode. Who knows what it will escalate to next time?
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