Topic: Gambling and Behavioral Change!!! - page 3. (Read 3434 times)

Of course I agree with you that gambling irresponsibly is not good for anyone. I mean if a rich person loses money gambling his family doesn't have to suffer as much as a middle class family person loses money gambling. A middle class family man who wastes the amount of money by gambling causes his family to face many problems. Gambling is definitely harmful for everyone. It is not right for anyone to gamble irresponsibly, be it rich, poor or middle class, it is not right to gamble with addiction.

Those who are wealthy are smart enough not to gamble all the money. Otherwise they will never became wealthy. Dont think that wealthy people are stupid and would continue gambling when they see they have already lost a lot. They gamble for different reasons than those who are poor and gamble. However, their behavior is more stable (dont know the proper word). They will show less emotions if they win or lose. Of course there are individuals in each category of people, but wealthy people are more responsible gamblers.

If a wealthy person becomes addicted and plays gambling irresponsibly he will likely become broke, except he realizes himself earlier and see the destruction that it will lead to. So all class of person will go broke if they irresponsibly play gamble, majority of the time, we loss more than our winning, but the few wins in which we get from gambling  makes us excited and at that moment we forget about all the losses in which we have encountered during our gambling.

Generally, those who gamble, if they can win money, then they are happy in their minds. People lose twice as much money as they get from gambling. Gambling Usually people who have billions of money may not have any problem if they lose a lot of money due to temporary gambling but middle class family people who play gambling as an addiction will have a lot of trouble to make up the money they lose. So people of such family never have to gamble. If middle class family people are addicted to gambling then their family has to suffer because of gambling usually there is no peace and happiness in any family.

I also understand that. That's why, we can be said to be more able to control ourselves when gambling. It's good to at least motivate and mediate for our own friends who don't have anything like that.

If we talk in general, it's very important to give our thoughts to other people, especially those we don't know. However, it is different from our own friends. At least we have saved our friends or people we know from doing careless things that could ruin their lives from gambling.

They will feel sorry for the impact of the big risks in gambling if they really lose happiness in their lives and if they are willing to accept just a little advice and advice from other people it will reduce many problems in their lives.
In fact, if you think about it, how important other people's advice is for the good of our lives because it could be that these people don't want to see us experience misery due to bad behavior in excessive gambling.

I don't know if what you said makes any sense because it's not clear what you are trying to say. Responsibility is gambling is about the use of money, of course, who denies that? But, it's a fact that it's not easy for every gambler to become responsible since they don't have it in their nature. Those who are responsible themselves can't see things from the perspective of an irresponsible gambler, they only think the way they think, not how an irresponsible gambler would think.

So if I, you, or anyone else is a responsible person or a responsible gambler, we might say or think that there is nothing that difficult in being responsible, but we say that only because we got control, but an irresponsible person doesn't have that.

Losing is never been that an appealing or a good thing and this is why we do really just that making out those kind of reactions on which it is really that something very casual for a human being,
since we dont really like on losing money. You would really be normally having those kind of acts which would be showing up your stress and disappointment on the time that you do lose up money.
You wont really be able to avoid up such impulsive reactions because we dont really like on losing money on which it would really be that a common approach.This is why on the time
that you would really be having some plans on dealing up with gambling then better your make yourself that prepared with those situations so that you wont really be
ending up yourself being too impulsive.

Deal and bare up with those loses so that on the time that you do able to encounter it along the way then you wont really be that making such actions which it might be causing up that
the situation becomes even more worst. Handle yourself with outmost control and discipline.If you do find out yourself not really that good on handling out your emotions then
i would really be telling you that gambling isnt for you. There are ones who could be able to control their emotions but majority would really be able to fail on doing so
because losing up money is never been a pleasing thing, this is why we do have this kind of approach on things.

          -   I understand what you are saying. Sometimes there are times when we are stressed, and usually the emotion we have is that we cannot control it right away. And sometimes, when we suddenly scream, we also feel guilty, especially if it was done to our child. So I feel what you are saying.

So even if we lose gambling, we should no longer carry the stress we feel if we lose gambling. Let's just keep being relaxed and calm all the time.

That was a normal mode change but what we are trying to see is how it changes your behavior. Some get easily angry after losing and some are too generous as well when they win - this is a usual change that we see. The impact of gambling has a moderate to severe mental impact and sometimes some gamblers can't take control of their feelings and fall into addiction.

That is why it is very important we have to limit our time in gambling and must take it easy. The more we focus on gambling, the more it affects our mentality and behavioral changes.

Losing will affect everyone who playing gambling excessively and without realizing what happened to them, they will gets the other losses and that can become bigger if they don't stop their gambling activity. That can affect our behavior to other people and we can yell to them and even worst, we can beat them if they don't obey what we want. Yeah, negative emotions will comes if we lose control and will impact to other people arounds us. That's the bad impact that will happens to us if we can't calms down ourselves after we lose some money.

Everything we gets from gambling can impact our behavior to other people and they can accept or reject what happen to us and if they reject, they will do the same thing as what we did to them. If he can't manages his emotions properly, he will have many people that doesn't like him and will not stay close to him because he can't calm down himself if he gets something.

Yes, they don't think that the impact can be bigger than what they got so they continue playing gambling without thinking much. When they decide to continue playing gambling, they just increase their lose and will change their behavior without they realize. It needs acceptance from them to listen to other people's advise because it hard for them to realize what they already did. Maybe they need to gets the worst that can makes them realize the mistake so they can understand and wants to change it.

A gambler's behavior will change is a normal process especially when a gambler gets a profit from a gambling bet a happy change and behavior change will be noticed. Moreover, a gambler is always in a state of excitement as he always has an exciting situation in his mind about what will happen in the betting and what is going to happen. Especially when a gambler loses a gambling bet, a kind of upset attitude or change is seen in him. It is quite normal in a process where the opposite happens when a gambler makes a profit instead of a loss in gambling.
But I think it is always important or should be good with family members. A gambler will keep himself under control and always treat his family members well is considered the behavior of an ideal gambler. Being an ideal and ethical gambler is only possible if you can control the situation and treat everyone well when you lose in gambling.

Based on the impact they receive, there are also gamblers who cannot just stop because they feel that this impact is part of gambling and therefore simply underestimate the impact. In fact, it seemed normal because he had experienced it before.
Yes, that's right, if gamblers are willing to listen to other people's advice, of course they can reduce their excessive gambling activities and try to change their behavior for the better.

Sorry but I don't quite understand what you mean there.
Did you mean you sometimes bet or gamble from your workplace? Or perhaps you meant you gamble or bet before going out in the morning to your workplace?
Regardless of it, you should be careful on how gambling affects your personal relationships with you co-workers, people would not understand at first you may be mistreating them because of how you feel because of your losses.
Actually, if you take a look at this sub-section of the forum, you will find we already have a whole thread dedicated to gambling from your workplaces, and in the most of the posts there, we all agree gambling while working is not a good idea at all. If you believe gambling could be affecting your work negatively, you are not supposed to do it so often or with so much money as you have done it before.
Unless I have misunderstood your post in some way?

What I can say from my own personal experience is definitely win or lose in gambling but what I understand is that when I go to any work I am in a good mood and treat everyone well but if I am in a job or a betting site or I lose a lot of money on any other sideAutomatically I change my mind and overreact to any man's little words and get very upset. .In this case, it can be said that it is not only in my case, but it is the same in the case of everyone, so it must be observed that these changes of mind or behavior do not occur, and if they are defeated, then they must take care that very little money is spent.

Natural feelings as it is, we do have that emotions and it affects one person's behaviors, swing mood and other after effects from both sides, if you win then you'll have a happy and if you lose there's regrets and if the amount is not something that you can afford to let go, it has a big impact to your attitude as acceptance is not as easy as it is, you'll always have that sentiment and it affects your behaviors.


It should be like that, if you lose you need to let it go and move forward, there's nothing you can do to change that outcome, you involve yourself into gambling there's always a big risk that you need to handle if ever the outcome won't favor your side, it's tough to face that frustration but you need to overcome to avoid any behavioral changes.

This is true because it will make us a bad person. We get sad or frustrated, but that's it; we have to move on and continue gambling if we still can. But if we are still in the situation many times that we are having a hard time to move on, then accept early that gambling is not for us; otherwise, it will only destroy our lives and people around us.

We have to view gambling as entertainment, not a way to take us out of poverty, as although it's possible, it's hard to achieve such a goal through gambling, and most of the time, it will only lead to more problems. It happened to some gamblers, so it's not impossible to happen to us. The key here is to determine its risk and prevent things that might result in regret in the end.

I think that losing would definitely affect me and I could behave very badly towards the people around me, probably even yell at someone. It turns out that this is similar to the fact that we transfer negative emotions to these people, in turn, they will then transfer these negative emotions at work or at school. Therefore, we must control ourselves even if we lose. It is probably worth considering reducing the size of the bet so that it does not greatly affect our psychological state.

On the other hand, some balance is maintained here in the emotional behavior of the player. If he shouted at his loved ones after a loss, then after winning he can rejoice and give gifts to his loved ones and say kind words. It turns out that this is a kind of emotional swing, I think that this gradually unbalances a person, which ultimately, after 10 years, will make him emotionally unstable and require treatment.

Yes, they will gets the affect of what they do and if they can feel that, they will regret by not listening other people who advise them. But we know that advising a gambler who already playing gambling too often is not easy because they gets many experience that they feel it's exciting. That's why they still want to continue playing gambling and will used much money than before because they want to winning the games. If they want to listen advise from others, at least they can introspect of what they already did so they will know that they almost playing gambling excessively that should stop right away before they lose control. Not many gamblers accepts other people advised as gambling can tempted them to continue playing without stop.

The difference in losses also matters, and the reason for telling gamblers to wager what they're able to lose. Developing a behavioral change only explains that the gambler wagers a substantial amount of money, that got him thinking about why he's lost such an amount, which could have been used to settle other troubles. However, anger management as you said, helps in bypassing this type of attitude. The gambler also needs some time to handle his mood swing after losing money, gambling.

It's all a gradual process to heal or change, but the trouble doesn't end there, due to the pains the gambler has inflicted on his loved ones. The end result still boils down to the bullied child or person getting depressed or emotionally unstable. That's the most important need to take gambling gradually. The cause of the problem can be solved, but the damages it caused, could stay forever. It's embarrassing, getting angered over the result we get while gambling to an extent of harming somebody else. The gambler needs a serious help and shouldn't neglect it.