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June 16, 2018, 05:41:12 AM
Some Men and some Women just do not even like the thought of gambling, Some treat it as an addiction, Some will simply not put up with it, If your significant other is against gambling, doing it will cause some issues. All you can do is treat it like drinking or anything else and use it responsibly, do not invest your life savings into a game of cards, respect that some days you are going to lose!!!!

Sometimes gambling becomes a reason for a broken relationships. It is a big issue to some spouse specially if their partners are addicted in gambling and forget the importance of being a father, a husband and all responsibilities will be taken for granted. A gambler should know how to managed his time to avoid family problem and eventually lead to a bigger problem in the future.

And please don't wait before it gets too late to quit and change for good. Don't wait that one day you'll wake up all by yourself and your family was no where to be seen and that's because they already leave you. I have seen this kind of story from my friend that didn't know that he almost forgot he have some stomachs needed to fed so in the end his wife and kids leave him and now he's living in a miserable life and don't know how to put back all the things that's get broken.
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June 16, 2018, 04:26:33 AM
Some Men and some Women just do not even like the thought of gambling, Some treat it as an addiction, Some will simply not put up with it, If your significant other is against gambling, doing it will cause some issues. All you can do is treat it like drinking or anything else and use it responsibly, do not invest your life savings into a game of cards, respect that some days you are going to lose!!!!

Sometimes gambling becomes a reason for a broken relationships. It is a big issue to some spouse specially if their partners are addicted in gambling and forget the importance of being a father, a husband and all responsibilities will be taken for granted. A gambler should know how to managed his time to avoid family problem and eventually lead to a bigger problem in the future.
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June 15, 2018, 10:33:02 PM
Some Men and some Women just do not even like the thought of gambling, Some treat it as an addiction, Some will simply not put up with it, If your significant other is against gambling, doing it will cause some issues. All you can do is treat it like drinking or anything else and use it responsibly, do not invest your life savings into a game of cards, respect that some days you are going to lose!!!!
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June 06, 2018, 01:24:15 AM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Yes i believe that i have met someone that they both are gamble in casino and i think there are no any problems that they have encountered with that because they are very responsible when they are playing that they can control each others bet, so they could not get bankrupt when they get home. I also see them very happy because it became their bond when they are gamble with each other.

As I have said, it both of them are responsible and know the consequences I'm sure that relationship can exist and be a healthy one. I also known a lot of my friends gambling together and cheering one another. But at the end of the day, it is still gambling and they have to go home and look for their families. Both of them knows how to prioritize things so I don't see any problems or issues between husband and wife going into a casino to play together.
If both the persons who are relative to each other play gambling while going to casinos, it can harm their relation according to their bond relation. If they would be having a strong bond between them, nothing can separate them as they will be fully satisfied with each other but if the bond is weak, there are more chances separation between them because they both wouldn’t be willing to sacrifice for the other.
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June 02, 2018, 02:37:29 AM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Yes i believe that i have met someone that they both are gamble in casino and i think there are no any problems that they have encountered with that because they are very responsible when they are playing that they can control each others bet, so they could not get bankrupt when they get home. I also see them very happy because it became their bond when they are gamble with each other.

As I have said, it both of them are responsible and know the consequences I'm sure that relationship can exist and be a healthy one. I also known a lot of my friends gambling together and cheering one another. But at the end of the day, it is still gambling and they have to go home and look for their families. Both of them knows how to prioritize things so I don't see any problems or issues between husband and wife going into a casino to play together.
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May 25, 2018, 07:35:29 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.
Yes i believe that i have met someone that they both are gamble in casino and i think there are no any problems that they have encountered with that because they are very responsible when they are playing that they can control each others bet, so they could not get bankrupt when they get home. I also see them very happy because it became their bond when they are gamble with each other.
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May 25, 2018, 07:42:31 AM
No.
But just can't really imagine that. Like, do people go to the casino and stuff with their girlfriend?
That justs looks kinda messed up to me lmao. Yea, maybe for fun, but two partners being addicted? Damn.
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May 25, 2018, 07:27:21 AM
I agree. It was a hard experience and it was painful to see someone who was addicted to gambling suffer. We all know that gamblers always have this attitude that they never give up and they will sell everything they have just to have another chance to gamble again. My uncle have this issue and he should be the riches guy in our family but all of it asset was gone because of gambling.
  I think this shouldn’t be a hard thing for one to see someone suffering just because of gambling because it was up to him that whether he wants a good life or a bad life at the end and I know everyone in gambling is clever enough and mature enough that he can easily understand what consequences gambling have at the end. I think that person deserves to suffer that’s why he is suffering.
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May 24, 2018, 06:42:52 AM
In the country where I live, it's not so visible or prominent that many peoples like that, who marry and then gamble together, or one family all do gambling together, well., I think this depends on the gambling popularity in each country certain I guess, I think it would be a ordinary thing for a country that's already familiar with gambling.
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May 24, 2018, 05:15:55 AM
Why is it strange for you? Friends, couples and even friends like to play together at casinos. I have seen on the movies people going together to Las Vegas casinos to play. It seems very normal for me, it's like people who go to amusement parks, clubs together to have fun.

Absolutely right mate. I don’t think there is something wrong for a couple to gamble together. Me and my wife do gamble together occassionally. It is like our date night, the only time we’ve got without our kids because usually when we out always be together with oir children like watching movies or going to a shopping malls or having out of town and since we do not do clubbings anymore, so our date night alone goes to a casino and played at the same table. I guess it is unsual but what is important is we had fun.
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May 23, 2018, 10:40:36 PM
Anyone who has ever been or are in a committed relationship or marriage where both people gamble? Or in a relationship with a gambler with a friend, best friend, family related etc...  Knowing you are in it together is weird comforting and gives me some sort of undefined explanation.

What does that look like for you? Your experience needs to be heard.

You have a good point but there are some instances specially a partners who came from rich family their bonding is gambling with friends to entertain them but the fact that they will be addicted and lost controlling themselves that is not good from they family. Bonding with gambling is not need to make it daily if you and your partner's know how to gamble, it is good if they do that occasionally like my cousin and his husband did they invite their friend they play offline gambling while drinking beer but it is once in a quarter or once every 6 months.
I think this is something unique if someone can get a partner and have the same hobby that both have gambling habits. if both do the proper activities and do not harm many people, such as drunk while playing gambling and making trouble it is obviously very bad. but if both are able to play gambling in a professional manner, if both win the game then it will get a bigger double advantage.
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May 23, 2018, 09:50:44 AM
I agree. It was a hard experience and it was painful to see someone who was addicted to gambling suffer. We all know that gamblers always have this attitude that they never give up and they will sell everything they have just to have another chance to gamble again. My uncle have this issue and he should be the riches guy in our family but all of it asset was gone because of gambling.
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May 23, 2018, 07:25:36 AM
the other side of gambling is for relationship as well. because the world is vast, and we also need a broad insight as well. no exception gain insight from our relationship in the gambling world. because some of them, must have a good background. so it's good to start a business, or a new job.
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May 22, 2018, 11:40:53 PM
Ive never been in a relationship, where both are gamblers, my gf, lets me gamble she sometimes complains when I loose but never when I win???  She goes to casinos with me to just have a drink and have fun though!
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May 20, 2018, 02:03:13 PM
This depends on the geographical location. In some developed countries of west, you can easily find couple, friends or best friends who gamble and support each other fully as the people there are open to such things. Whereas in some countries like that of Asia, it’s very rare to find such combination of couples or best friends as gambling is considered a bad habit and therefore the gamblers hide this from their families.
In my opinion, they really don’t give much importance to any relation that’s why they don’t really care about their friends even their family members that what they are doing with their lives. If we see in this aspect, I love the people of Asia because they really do care about their friends and family members and they also are well aware about what is happening in their lives and are also present to guide them.
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May 19, 2018, 12:40:30 PM
This depends on the geographical location. In some developed countries of west, you can easily find couple, friends or best friends who gamble and support each other fully as the people there are open to such things. Whereas in some countries like that of Asia, it’s very rare to find such combination of couples or best friends as gambling is considered a bad habit and therefore the gamblers hide this from their families.
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May 07, 2018, 11:13:30 AM
Gambling at the same table with a close friend may not be a problem for me as long as my friend able to keep the secret regarding my habit. But if I have  to gamble with relatives, this for sure will bring another problem when I came home and I won't allow it to happen.

It would not be a problem for you if all your friends do not want anyone else to know they're gambling. So also when you gamble with your brother, if they want it to be a secret, you all can keep a secret. The secrets that will be safe as long as nobody takes you gamble.
We can keep it a secret if we are enjoying gambling but once we are addicted and gambling is not giving us positive results anymore
that is the time where we need to be honest to our friends and family so we could seek some help to quit gambling for good.

I don't know why people are hiding their bad habits to their love ones, there is no reason for that, because in the first place you committed such thing that you know that is bad for yourself and could affect the relationship you have with your family or even friends if you get addicted on gambling. It is not bad to play gambling if you could control yourself, in some point, but the majority would say that gambling is not really a thing that you should do.
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May 07, 2018, 07:57:19 AM
I have no experience in this matter and I think gambling is not related to the relationship and it's only about the games. and if we play the games with our friends, we need to tell them that what we have to get in the end will not disturb our friendship and it's only to have some fun with them. I guess if we can explain to them that we are playing gambling is to get fun in the games and not chase the money, I think they will understand.

Gambling and relationship is very important, just thinking ourselves and not thinking about other people that we love might affect our relationship to them. Look, if you are paying too much attention in gambling, and only spending your little time that you have to your family, you might come to a point where you are completely into gambling, the feelings of your love ones is not important to you anymore because of your addiction.

It must be 80:20, 80% time for you family, and just 20% time for playing gambling.
It hurts. Really we have so many stories of different gamblers who have lost their relationships. Not only with their girlfriends but with the families they were coming off. Their parents had cut out with them just because they were not listening to them and leaving that harmful game. So better is to leave this before your relations start leaving you and keeping you at arm’s distance.
Families are more important than girlfriends and if someone is left alone due to his gambling addiction, he should never put the blame on his close ones because he forced them to take such hard steps. No parents in this world want to kick out their children from their lives but sometimes, there is only one solution. Even if the decision is a bitter one, it has to be made for the safety of others.
Well if the kid needs to learn his lessons then parents needs to be strict and firm with their decisions if that's the only way they know their kid will realize his mistake then they should do it. And when things goes in the right place again parents will always willing to open their doors for their children.
But for giving lessons to your kids, you must be pure enough to withstand your statement with you practical experience. What if a father start talking to his child and asking him to stop gambling while the father himself is a gambler. In this case, do you think the father’s statement would have any effect on the kind? No, a big no. because what you haven’t proved practically don’t have any importance.
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May 04, 2018, 06:44:10 AM
Gambling at the same table with a close friend may not be a problem for me as long as my friend able to keep the secret regarding my habit. But if I have  to gamble with relatives, this for sure will bring another problem when I came home and I won't allow it to happen.

It would not be a problem for you if all your friends do not want anyone else to know they're gambling. So also when you gamble with your brother, if they want it to be a secret, you all can keep a secret. The secrets that will be safe as long as nobody takes you gamble.
We can keep it a secret if we are enjoying gambling but once we are addicted and gambling is not giving us positive results anymore
that is the time where we need to be honest to our friends and family so we could seek some help to quit gambling for good.
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May 04, 2018, 04:49:21 AM
Gambling at the same table with a close friend may not be a problem for me as long as my friend able to keep the secret regarding my habit. But if I have  to gamble with relatives, this for sure will bring another problem when I came home and I won't allow it to happen.

It would not be a problem for you if all your friends do not want anyone else to know they're gambling. So also when you gamble with your brother, if they want it to be a secret, you all can keep a secret. The secrets that will be safe as long as nobody takes you gamble.
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