Topic: Gambling by financial dependents. - page 13. (Read 4204 times)

It is natural for his mother to worry about him because gambling is really dangerous. First, he doesn't have his own money for his hobby and only relies on savings, if he neglects it, what his mom says that her son will learn to steal from her so that he can have more gambling might come true.
So maybe while it's still early, tell the child properly and make him understand what gambling really is, the child will understand properly because he is 18 years old, but the rebel starts at this age, so while it's still early, take action immediately to it will not reach what you fear.

That makes a little bit of sense, and let's discuss that usually a wife or a woman when they are married then their job is to manage the finances that are earned by their husband for the needs of the kitchen or their children, and if only her husband told her about his bad habits then obviously I think even his wife might be angry, because of course that activity will interfere with their economy, simply put, the money for economic needs will be disrupted because her husband allocates some of the money to gambling, and also in addition as you said that the viewpoint of gambling in the eyes of society in general is negative.

Yes, you may have good intentions in telling your wife with the aim of finding solutions or good ideas in terms of money management, but I think at least your wife will be angry at that time because you have entered a vicious circle, basically no matter how good your self-control is, usually other people including your wife will not fully trust and maybe they will have a lot of suspicions. If you want to stay safe then yes it's better like the advice you said that they should find their own solutions in terms of managing their money and also learn to control themselves slowly before it's too late, I think it can still be a good alternative.

If a gambler shares his gambling concerns with his wife there may be rather different picture. That is, the gambler may be hindered in his gambling. Because we know that most gamblers don't even tell anyone about their gambling. This is because most people view gambling in a negative light. Moreover, a gambler's wife may not be able to give good ideas about money management. Because not everyone has a good idea about gambling especially in the case of woman. So I think we should take control of our self. Of course, if a gambler acquires a good knowledge of gambling before becoming addicted, he will be able to control himself greatly in any disaster.

if anyone can control their inner themselves, then there's no problem. But a person need spacific time to become mature to understand such things properly, and before that controlling could be difficult for themself while they are early stage of their age. And society people judge quickly cause they are eyewitness of many bad activities by gamblers while they are out of money for gambling. That's the fact. And i also saw but less people who leave gambling after realize that they are losing more than winning. But they are few in number. Most of losers try to recovery money & they face loss again. Otherwise gambling could be great fan and source of entertainment

The gambling is not the easy game like the other game,because the gambling addicted person can become the violent in their real life because of their loss to the game.It’s essential to manage their emotion into the gambling,the people who can’t able to mange their emotions in the gambling.They should forgot the gambling game,because they are not the fit for gambling.The good gambler will mange their emotion and doesn’t depend on the money from the other gamblers.If the gambler get their loss,he should share too their wife.So his wife will teach his money management into the gambling.Because the woman are best at handling the emotions and the helping their husband to made the big win in the gambling.

Young minds are impressionable. Like moths to a flame, they're drawn to something shiny and thrilling. Gambling is a big, big trap, not just sport. Once inside, they're hard to get out. Addiction is no joke

You're on the perfect path. Good, steady guidance is what he needs. Show him the hard truth of gambling. All the losses, pain, and destruction are there. Maybe your words will reach him if his mom's don't. You're knowledgeable and insightful. Dive deep into gambling to find the unpleasant truths. It's difficult, but I know you can do it. Let's face reality and save our kids

Young minds are very prone to gambling. Even your nephew is not yet stealing. Once addiction comes, out there are many things that this
child can do. It's something that is very hard to resist when lust already conquers his young minds.

I go with what you said, guiding him with good guidance about what can happen if he continues his participation with gambling is necessary.

He needs additional inputs and knowledge about the possibilities and if he's not listening to his mom, maybe chances that he might
listen to you if you provide details about what might be the possibilities that he needs to take place.

People often make bad life decisions at such ages, if they get into trouble and find no solution, they might even take steps that will leave everyone in sorrow for a long while. There was an incident where a college boy gambled with his and his roommate's fees and lost it and then committed suicide because of that. So, it's obviously a sensitive age.

That's right, one needs to make sure that they are handling the situation very well so that it doesn't get out of hand. If things seem to go wrong even more after you try to make someone understand what they are doing isn't right, you should take a step back and rethink and change your plan and the way you are trying to make them realize.

Hopefully, your nephew really didn't steal from his mother. But your nephew should stop gambling as his mother said. Even though he is 18 years old, in case something bad happens to your nephew. The age of 18 is not very stable and can still be unstable, especially if there are invitations from friends to gamble.

However, you should talk more closely with your nephew so that he doesn't feel like you are judging him. And hopefully, he can understand why his mother insisted he stop. It's all for his good.

Your parents taught you to use money well and told you that earning money is not easy, so you must appreciate our hard work. I applaud you and the people who take the time to keep trying. So children already know that earning money is very difficult so they will not waste money and can use it for their own good. This teaches children so that they understand the meaning of hard work to earn money and will appreciate the function of money.

This means that parents' basic education greatly influences their children's development so that they can understand what is good and what is bad. This will carry over until they grow up and they can understand that they must always be careful in socializing because it can positively and negatively influence them. With good education from parents, their children will stay on the right path.

That age is still very vulnerable to knowing gambling, although the OP says that he considers what the person is doing gambling responsibly, but with the age that is still in the stages of mental development and the principle of life will have a bad impact on the future they have The child after he grew up when accompanied by gambling.

Yes, we must be how the end of the story about people who are equipped with gamblers from the age of growth, and especially to steal, even though it is his right but such a way is not a good thing for being done by a child at his age.
There is no bet man, and there is no way to beat the house, unless you are really lucky, it is the most difficult thing. Parents must have more attention to their children so that something does not happen to their children and only think about defeating the house, including gambling at an unstable age and growth period, they really have to be monitored.

Gambling and its consequences can convert a life into a dangerous gamble of hard effort, bet, lose, repeat. A carousel with flashing lights that makes you dizzy and poorer after each trip. A terrible lottery where you lose part of yourself each time, no?

Education, a royal flush idea. How about crash lessons on taming that itchy betting finger? Adding knowledge to the game to prevent the house from winning. Parents and society must build barriers to protect children from gambling so they dont get caught in it. A safe bet?

Stealing? Of cos it will get to that point, it's what most gamblers who have no source of income would do, even those that have and spend it all on gambling still result into forcefully taking things from strangers, especially when they have a debt to pay up.

What is most scary about gambling is the hunger you feel even after it almost ruined you, imagine having to work any job just to spend it all on gambling, thinking that you will escape poverty if you keep trying your luck, and yet you always end up doing the hard job over and over again.

Gambling can turn you into a slave without you knowing, this is why people need to be at their most alerted awareness state to make sure that gambling don't take over their lives, it's even more scary to see children between the age of 15 and 19 using all they have to gamble when they don't have any source of income, it will be harder to stop an addict at such age.

Luckily, since school, my parents taught me how to earn money, he even told me to trade after school or sell food at school, that's what made me understand how to appreciate money because I knew how to earn it when I was at school, it was very difficult, but the great thing was My parents don't care how much the snacks I sell sell. What they want to see is how I can sell them and have the desire to trade.

Actually, bad influences come from those around us, for example friends or parents. If all parents in the world were willing to provide important education to their children, it would certainly have a positive impact on their children so that they would not mix wrongly with their friends. In essence, the role of parents is very important in influencing their children's future and also helping their children prevent all bad things, for example gambling or using drugs.

I don't know if any other person has observed that the children of this age matured earlier than we did. They tend to learn so many things we understood when we were already adults at a very tender age. Those days you can never see an underaged in gambling houses they were filled with only adults. At eighteen many of us don't have an understanding of how gambling works, but this is not the case today. I suspect that the introduction and spread of information technology have contributed to the early maturity of the children of this dispensation. They can easily learn anything online and can give fake dates of birth to pass KYC.

Regarding drug addiction, my country is in a terrible state. Recently a teacher of a secondary school was attacked and inflicted with life-threatening injuries by a group of students because he reported them to the school authorities after he caught them using drugs in the school restroom.   

This percentage is quite significant for a gambling business carried out by children aged between 14 and 18. And that is already sad because, at a young age, you are already familiar with gambling, so it can trigger a problem of gambling addiction in your country because we know that the more often someone gambles, the more it can impact gambling addiction. And if that happens to children at that age, they may already become gambling addicts before they are 20.

At that age, they should still enjoy fun times with their friends while learning and playing. But it was all because of the wrong association with his friends, which resulted in them getting into a worse situation and gambling with their friends. These children who do not have an income and only depend on their parents are also vulnerable to committing other crimes just to be able to have money. And that will provide more cases for kids that age.

When a person becomes addicted to gambling he will be forced to do any kind of work. Meanwhile, the OP mentioned here is a student who doesn't always have money on him, it's not unbelievable that he'll be forced to steal if he doesn't have money to participate in betting. Here are some suggestions to stop this student from gambling, he should be monitored all the time. He will never be allowed to use a cell phone since he is not 18+. He is a student, he will have books, notebooks, pens, why was he bought a cell phone? A student will gradually deteriorate with a cell phone. A student can never be bought a mobile phone. Especially here, if this student is to be stopped from gambling, he should be sent to a residential dormitory where he can refrain from this gambling if he continues to study hard. Because Sir will always keep an eye on him and will always pressure him to study. When there is always pressure to study then this student will avoid gambling by himself.

There are a lot of people who are students and even underage that end up gambling unfortunately. In my nation 7% of the kids aged between 14-18 are gambling, that is not a terrible number but the best number would be zero, it is illegal for them to gamble and they still do it and that's a big problem.

When you are that old, that means more often than not you are not going to get any money yourself, you are getting money from your parents and you still end up gambling anyway. That's not a smart move and it ruins their future because they gain an addiction at that age which could harm their adulthood. The even bigger one is 19% of them smoke as well, and that's even worse than the rest which would be very hard to break later on.

That means the parents are too strict in supervising their children to the point that they control their lives, environment and activities. It is indeed burdensome for children because they do not get the freedom to do what they want and cannot live their lives comfortably. Maybe the parent's intentions are good, but parents must see that their children also want to do something like other children. I also see these children want to get freedom and it is through gambling that they can get it. But many of these kids also become drinkers or even sell drugs or other bad things because they want to do something they want. But unfortunately, what they did was not right.

You have touched on a topic that I have wanted to talk about for a long time, I often watch interviews of various dependent gamblers, there are often young people among them. And it is obvious that many of them are from families that are experiencing financial difficulties, but at the same time many of them are very well off. These are children who have always received what their parents wanted, usually successful businessmen. And the main reason why they went into Gambling, these children call the fact that their parents completely controlled their lives, surroundings and activities. And it was through gambling that these guys wanted to get freedom, that is, they tried to earn money to become financially independent from their parents. But, unfortunately, addictions do not lead to freedom.