There are many different problems on OP description
Gambling as an underage and even stealing money to gamble
Parents should probably talk to the kid and seek help from a professional
A psychologist with experience in this matter can probably help
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If I am to be among the parents of the boy I will not give him money anymore because he's not ready yet.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
I see this option as a very strict one that might have some negative consequences. This strategy might work in some occasions especially if the cause of his addictions is because of access to funds. It is also important to know that there are still other reasons why dependents engage in gambling. It could be peer pressure which will not definitely be stopped by stopping his funds. These youths might seek for alternative source of funds if the parents do not identify and deal with the main cause of the gambling.
Recently, a young boy stole the family's electric generator sets because he wanted to service his addiction. And I heard from a source that the parents stopped giving him funds for his upkeep, so he decided to engage in such a shameful act. These young people could even go to the extent of engaging in illegal activities just for the sake of gambling. Therefore, I think starving them of funds might not be the ideal solution.
This is a possible alternative to not give him money anymore, because he might be out of control and end spending that money with gambling, while in fact he should be spending money with his basic needs, school's demands and rides with his friends. However, to not give him money will difficult his life a lot, because this way his parents will have to give him the items he needs, instead of fiat. At some point it will be impractical and too time consuming for his parents as well to give him access to everything he needs in real time.
A more practical solution would be to monitor his banking account app through the history of transactions. If he deposits any money at casinos, his parents will know about it, so they can punish the son for his disobedience. It's not possible to say he is going to learn the lesson and stop acting against his parents' wishes, but that is something they must try to do, as there isn't easy alternative here for a rebel individual, who is unable to control his impulses.
A more practical solution would be to monitor his banking account app through the history of transactions. If he deposits any money at casinos, his parents will know about it, so they can punish the son for his disobedience. It's not possible to say he is going to learn the lesson and stop acting against his parents' wishes, but that is something they must try to do, as there isn't easy alternative here for a rebel individual, who is unable to control his impulses.
That's a better alternative than not handing out some dollar bills to him. Such problems are not resolved with any form of aggression. Following up gradually and trying to discuss it with him could be faster therapy, than looking for a strict means of stopping him. Provided the child goes out of the house, nobody would be able to tell exactly what he's done. A child could be smart enough to trick his parents not to figure out he's still gambling. So, while tracing his transaction logs, it's important to check up on him and talk. His reactions when gambling is raised up, can help the parents to know how intrigued the child is towards gambling. Does he get upset and doesn't want to talk about gambling or excited to hear his parents talking about gambling. The strength of the conversations would determine the best solution for the child's gambling addiction.
If I am to be among the parents of the boy I will not give him money anymore because he's not ready yet.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
This is a possible alternative to not give him money anymore, because he might be out of control and end spending that money with gambling, while in fact he should be spending money with his basic needs, school's demands and rides with his friends. However, to not give him money will difficult his life a lot, because this way his parents will have to give him the items he needs, instead of fiat. At some point it will be impractical and too time consuming for his parents as well to give him access to everything he needs in real time.Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
A more practical solution would be to monitor his banking account app through the history of transactions. If he deposits any money at casinos, his parents will know about it, so they can punish the son for his disobedience. It's not possible to say he is going to learn the lesson and stop acting against his parents' wishes, but that is something they must try to do, as there isn't easy alternative here for a rebel individual, who is unable to control his impulses.
It's true that if parents don't give them money then they will have difficulties and I'm sure parents won't bear to see their children not having snacks with their friends, but if parents give them money then other worries will arise, namely about gambling. The solution you provide is quite good, but the problem is, don't all goods or snacks for a child always provide digital payment? This means they still need fiat money because the school also has a rule that a child is prohibited from using a cell phone and with their finances stored in an account it could make it difficult for them to buy food during break times. I understand that however this is a solution that leads to goodness but I think not everyone can do it easily.
I agree with his mother that he should stop gambling, because gambling is quite dangerous for a person if it is not controlled by oneself. Moreover, the effects of gambling addiction can unintentionally affect a person so it is better to avoid it.
A person who gamble without structuring out solid plans will end up losing everything, the exact same thing apply to trading. Gambling can not make one break free from financial instability because its very volatile and our odds of winning consistently will be reduce to its minimum term. Everything in the system is risky, the moment or day we decides to fund our account and states our intentions to gamble, we ought to be extremely careful from day one because it's definitely not going to be an easy run for most of us, some will survive the race, some will fall. 
Uncontrolled gambling addiction does really terrible things to people, and the most terrible thing is the so-called "depreciation of money." It all starts with the fact that the ludoman does not perceive money as something received for hard work.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For a dependent who receives pocket change from family and goes on to regularly use it to gamble, such an individual who doesn’t really know how not easy it is for a lot of people to earn money, would spend it without giving much thought to how it’s gotten in the first place. It’s easier to burn through money that isn’t earned and for the dependent making bad financial decisions at a young age, it would be easy to grow having these habits.
When an individual has no sense of earning money and using it for himself, that person would have no value for the money being given.
That's right, people who have never earned money by hard work will not appreciate this money. Everyone has to find out for themselves that money is very difficult.
I know many examples when children from rich families lost hundreds of thousands of dollars and did not feel anything at the same time - not the slightest remorse.
And all this precisely because for them money was just a number on the screen in the "deposit" window. And it is from such people that the most dependent ludomaniacs are obtained.
If I am to be among the parents of the boy I will not give him money anymore because he's not ready yet.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
This is a possible alternative to not give him money anymore, because he might be out of control and end spending that money with gambling, while in fact he should be spending money with his basic needs, school's demands and rides with his friends. However, to not give him money will difficult his life a lot, because this way his parents will have to give him the items he needs, instead of fiat. At some point it will be impractical and too time consuming for his parents as well to give him access to everything he needs in real time.Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
A more practical solution would be to monitor his banking account app through the history of transactions. If he deposits any money at casinos, his parents will know about it, so they can punish the son for his disobedience. It's not possible to say he is going to learn the lesson and stop acting against his parents' wishes, but that is something they must try to do, as there isn't easy alternative here for a rebel individual, who is unable to control his impulses.
It's true that if parents don't give them money then they will have difficulties and I'm sure parents won't bear to see their children not having snacks with their friends, but if parents give them money then other worries will arise, namely about gambling. The solution you provide is quite good, but the problem is, don't all goods or snacks for a child always provide digital payment? This means they still need fiat money because the school also has a rule that a child is prohibited from using a cell phone and with their finances stored in an account it could make it difficult for them to buy food during break times. I understand that however this is a solution that leads to goodness but I think not everyone can do it easily.
If I am to be among the parents of the boy I will not give him money anymore because he's not ready yet.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
This is a possible alternative to not give him money anymore, because he might be out of control and end spending that money with gambling, while in fact he should be spending money with his basic needs, school's demands and rides with his friends. However, to not give him money will difficult his life a lot, because this way his parents will have to give him the items he needs, instead of fiat. At some point it will be impractical and too time consuming for his parents as well to give him access to everything he needs in real time.Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
A more practical solution would be to monitor his banking account app through the history of transactions. If he deposits any money at casinos, his parents will know about it, so they can punish the son for his disobedience. It's not possible to say he is going to learn the lesson and stop acting against his parents' wishes, but that is something they must try to do, as there isn't easy alternative here for a rebel individual, who is unable to control his impulses.
I say he listen to his parents for he meantime. The kid is clearly still depending upon his mom and dad still, and in my opinion regardless of if whether you're the most responsible gambler on the planet or not, you have no business wasting money that didn't come from you in the first place. Just picture this, if you're this irresponsible with money that instead of actually spending it on something more worthwhile and long-lasting you thought of gambling the money your parents gave you then what more would it be if it were your own money?
At this point it's not just about not listening to your parents but actually setting yourself for a bigger problem in the future. It's good that you're responsible as a gambler but with money? Not really man. I'd suggest your nephew to start listening to his parents first, and perhaps look into more productive ways to spend his money instead of splurging it in a casino.
At this point it's not just about not listening to your parents but actually setting yourself for a bigger problem in the future. It's good that you're responsible as a gambler but with money? Not really man. I'd suggest your nephew to start listening to his parents first, and perhaps look into more productive ways to spend his money instead of splurging it in a casino.
Uncontrolled gambling addiction does really terrible things to people, and the most terrible thing is the so-called "depreciation of money." It all starts with the fact that the ludoman does not perceive money as something received for hard work.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For a dependent who receives pocket change from family and goes on to regularly use it to gamble, such an individual who doesn’t really know how not easy it is for a lot of people to earn money, would spend it without giving much thought to how it’s gotten in the first place. It’s easier to burn through money that isn’t earned and for the dependent making bad financial decisions at a young age, it would be easy to grow having these habits.
When an individual has no sense of earning money and using it for himself, that person would have no value for the money being given.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
For me this is the most correct thing , I Personally Always going to Say and Determine that a child should not interact in the casino , a Child can watch his parents play in the Casino but as Long as he has not been seen that things They are very aware that the casino and the children are not the things for them , for the children there are other types of games, like the PS5 or other types of games, but for me in particular I will Always see that a casino is not Viable For a child , or Teenager, the Ideal Age for any Person to Enter a casino is 18 years old , Otherwise if we Look at what we do before it Should not be allowed, among the rules of every casino is that the 18-year-old men, because there are many problems that they must bear by having them then in this order of death, we, as people, will always do whatever it takes so that they can generate more things more etnniemot in another way, a child instead of being By taking him to a casino what he should be doing is Studying or playing sports, but keeping him busy and not letting him invent and think about things he shouldn't, that's why things should be done like this.
Now, there are many parents who currently do not Give much Importance to what their Children do and that is something that should not be like that, because children need special attention for everything, one should not think that things can be done by doing or maintaining any something so that everyone says that you are the right thing, one as a parent must be absolutely responsible for doing the right thing, of course you Cannot invent that it could be on another Topic , I don't know, but I think that now children must be very careful , Because sometimes the Children are not even to blame , they may be Imitating the girls to do things , what others do , they Should be doing their Activities.
I agree with his mother that he should stop gambling, because gambling is quite dangerous for a person if it is not controlled by oneself. Moreover, the effects of gambling addiction can unintentionally affect a person so it is better to avoid it.
Yes, his stipends are for his upkeep while in school, not for gambling purposes. Joggling both habits for another, will mare the aim of his pocket money. He could be responsible, but won't play like a pro. His actions need to be observed for his good. Nobody has ever opened up easily about their gambling troubles. Hence, it's important that the uncle and mom try to get close to him and engage in casual but not simply casual discussions. He should feel relaxed talking to his parents about what he feels about gambling. From his information, one could determine how far he's gone into gambling and if he's undergoing any stress trying to maintain and enjoy his habit. Distance shows no help to this condition. The discussion session with the child or boy should be once he's back from school on weekends or holidays.
Uncontrolled gambling addiction does really terrible things to people, and the most terrible thing is the so-called "depreciation of money." It all starts with the fact that the ludoman does not perceive money as something received for hard work.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For a dependent who receives pocket change from family and goes on to regularly use it to gamble, such an individual who doesn’t really know how not easy it is for a lot of people to earn money, would spend it without giving much thought to how it’s gotten in the first place. It’s easier to burn through money that isn’t earned and for the dependent making bad financial decisions at a young age, it would be easy to grow having these habits.
When an individual has no sense of earning money and using it for himself, that person would have no value for the money being given.
Moreover, the age of gambling is 18+ and he's just 18 years old and have no money but depending on his families to give him money and after that he's using them to gamble.
The boy is not ready to make a better life, God helps he's not addicted yet or putting his hope for winning big money that he can make living from it.
I agree with his mother that he should stop gambling, because gambling is quite dangerous for a person if it is not controlled by oneself. Moreover, the effects of gambling addiction can unintentionally affect a person so it is better to avoid it.
We are in an era when children want to do what the adult are doing without even having the fear of what could be the consequences. Everyone want to gamble and make fast money including the underaged that are not meant to be gambling. We are in a society where everyone wants to have there own money without even thinking if they are going to get money in the right way. Gambling is becoming a usual things within school children and we don't have to watch seeing that happening without any caution. If we are okay then we can leave that to them let them continue but they are ought to stick with morals and the ethics that is guiding them in both schools and home.
The current generation want to do the things used to do by the adult and the 18+ people.Now most of the children are trying to get some fun with the adult thing,only the experienced gamblers may know this the gambling was the adult one.Because gambling had the risk in the game,if the loss occur only the adult able to manage the losses.The children can’t able to handle the losses from the gambling.The children should accept the fact the gambling was not belong to them at the age where they go for the school.The parents should take the responsibility to monitor their children in and out to get away from children gambling addiction.
gambling then it would really be just that right that this is something that should really be stopped. Its not bad to wish up on having or acquiring something but we do know that when it comes
oto the things that we do have in mind then it could really be hardly stuff.
On the sense that hes really that learning or listening then it would really be that best on letting those children do knows on whats the pros and cons of gambling.
Making up some illustration about those possible effects could at least make that kind of potential problem on which
it would really be bringing out that possible or potential problem.
We are in a era when children want to do what the adult are doing without even having the fear of what could be the consequences. Everyone want to gamble and make fast money including the underaged that are not meant to be gambling. We are in a society where everyone wants to have there own money without even thinking if they are going to get money in the right way. Gambling is becoming a usual things within school children and we don't have to watch seeing that happening without any caution. If we are okay then we can leave that to them let them continue but they are ought to stick with morals and the ethics that is guiding them in both schools and home.
Money coming from gambling isn't a illegal money for countries that allow gambling for individual more than a specific age. It's only when gambling is prohibited by the country that we can't call money we got from gambling legal money. If the children are getting the money legally from gambling and not getting addicted, there's no problem. Gambling isn't a bad activity but when we get addicted it becomes harmful but it doesn't only affect gambling, addictions affect other activities too.
Under age gambling isn't a good thing but children should be taught the right way to gamble so they don't learn it in the wrong way from outside. Children will want to make their own money therefore they'll want to gamble so it'll be better you teach them yourselves than for them to go outside to learn from their friends. Gambling by financial dependents individual should be closely monitored so they don't get addicted.
At 18 years a person is an adult and is responsible for their actions, he can vote and go to jail, so at that age it's advice that can be given to him, therefore if he chooses to gamble then he's of the age, but the problem in the young man in discussion is that he's still financially dependent on his mother. He should make his own money first before deciding whether he wants to gamble part or all of it, but since he's still living under his mother's roof without a source of income, it doesn't matter if he has turned to an adult, he needs to respect the rules and regulations of his mother, and if she's against gambling, he should obey her. Since she can't keep him out because he's her son, then she'd just have to keep advising him against gambling and also ask family and friends to advise him too.
We are in an era when children want to do what the adult are doing without even having the fear of what could be the consequences. Everyone want to gamble and make fast money including the underaged that are not meant to be gambling. We are in a society where everyone wants to have there own money without even thinking if they are going to get money in the right way. Gambling is becoming a usual things within school children and we don't have to watch seeing that happening without any caution. If we are okay then we can leave that to them let them continue but they are ought to stick with morals and the ethics that is guiding them in both schools and home.
The current generation want to do the things used to do by the adult and the 18+ people.Now most of the children are trying to get some fun with the adult thing,only the experienced gamblers may know this the gambling was the adult one.Because gambling had the risk in the game,if the loss occur only the adult able to manage the losses.The children can’t able to handle the losses from the gambling.The children should accept the fact the gambling was not belong to them at the age where they go for the school.The parents should take the responsibility to monitor their children in and out to get away from children gambling addiction.
A family member reported to me that her eighteen years old son has started gambling. She is not worried that he is gaming but her problem is that he is a student that solely depends on her for everything he needs. Her fear is also that her son might start stealing from her if he has no access to the money he needs to gamble. My relative has even started suspecting that some money she feels was misplaced might have been stolen by her son.
I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?
Indeed, his mother had a good point in preventing him from gambling, as it can develop into a major addiction with unfavorable effects, especially while he was young. What if he started gambling gradually and eventually developed a fondness for it, even though he acknowledged that he only uses the money he gets from his allowance? We can never be sure what his future holds. Teenagers are skilled at dishonesty and can even fabricate stories to manipulate their parents in order to achieve what they want, so there is a chance that he may play fools on her. Not all, but some do, particularly if they are persuaded by their friends. He would think that it would be beneficial for him to try again if he has experience playing and starts winning and making money, but if he loses, he has a tendency to chase losses. Perhaps he can't focus on his education because of his gambling obsession; his mother's efforts to guarantee his future are in vain, and he spends his time gambling.I spoke to my nephew and he told me that he has never stolen from his mother to gamble. And he gambles with only his savings from his weekly stipend he receives from the family. And he won't gamble if he has no savings to do that. From my observation, he is a responsible gambler that is just enjoying the game and making a little money occasionally. The gambling age in my country is 18+, but his mother is insisting that he must stop. What will be your advice for this young boy?
You should always seek professional help , that's my First piece of advice.
However, there are drawbacks as well, because hiring professionals to assist you might be costly. That's the reason we should think about the monetary consequences and look into the resources that are out there, like insurance or affordable counseling.
It takes time and dedication, in my opinion, to overcome addiction. Her son's daily routine and his academic schedule can be affected if he needs to attend several therapy sessions each week. One thing is for sure: the course of treatment may not be successful if her son is not prepared for change or is resistant to it.
Well, I think that when a person is looking for a way to do things well, they have to adapt to the things that are more common. If a child has an advanced addiction, I think that if he or she needs professional help, what will the cost be? Well , it is something that should be assumed, it is for a child, I think that the money should be sought in some way because it is something urgent that must be resolved, and he is a child, something like this should not be happening, a situation like that, it should be tied to adolescence and not be passed on to adults, since being a minor suffering from something is very serious, it should not be allowed, things should always go according to the things that are appropriate for your child age , and not get ahead of yourself to live something that you shouldn't, secondly, the age you are is because you are practicing a study or a sport, not because you are into those types of things that are for Adults because an addiction and a casino are not in normal parameters.
I would say that things are quite cruel when a child, or someone underage , suffers from this , because basically these things, if you look for fault, are entirely the parents', because the parents are the ones who should be Responsible for educatio n, of their children and yes, these things are totally the fault of the parents, then we must Quickly give them the attention required once and for all, because we are people who must always be aware of anything that happens to our children , that is what we have as a mission, a challenge so why do anything? Everything has to be done because things are much more important to them and different things have to be done so that they are well , the most Important thing is that their mental health does not degenerate, because sometimes children can have many problems , So your self-esteem must always remain very High , it is always the main thing.
As always, parents have a significant influence on how their children behave, and it's important to understand that a variety of circumstances can contribute to addiction.
We can either favorably or negatively impact our children as parents. Positive contributions from us include guiding our kids, establishing limits, and keeping lines of communication open. In addition to teaching kids about the dangers of gambling, we have to instill values in them and provide a healthy family atmosphere.
However, some parents have negative effects on their child's life as well. If a child grows up with parents who are also gambling addicts or who engage in other vices, the child will undoubtedly emulate their parents' behavior.
But it's equally important, in my opinion, to recognize the important roles played by peer pressure, other external factors, and being susceptible to addiction. Because addiction-related behaviors can arise as a result of mental health disorders as well as social influences.
In essence, yeah, I agree that parental responsibility is one part of a larger equation.
You are right, we are people who will always advocate doing things for children and more so that things are necessary so that they do not have an erroneous vision of the game that is later used to harm themselves, that is something that is not known. must do, therefore we when we are playing because those directly responsible for everything with a child are his parents, if he does not have a father or is absent, then obviously everything will fall on him, then in this order of days things will always go for him. so we have the best possible so that the children do not have to go through bad times.
Addiction is something that can cause a bad impression on everyone, children are the first to see these behaviors and they will try to protect them so that nothing like this happens to them. Personally, I have always said something: a person who is Suffering from alcoholism and gambling addiction, he shouldn't even show up for a child to see him like that.
On the contrary, a child has to see it in a different way, so that later they don't go around saying that they saw that example of their father, their mother , I consider that a child has to see their parents as heroes and not in those conditions that they have for them. The victims, then for the actions of their parents in front of the children, they must be somewhat careful with that , I will always think that things with children will always be delicate, there is no way that things can turn out well if they see them in a bad way, So, in this order of ideas , it can be said that things are always like this , when you are little and see those things , it causes pressure and it may be that you don't like it and that you say to Yourself that you would never want to seeYourself in that situation.
Uncontrolled gambling addiction does really terrible things to people, and the most terrible thing is the so-called "depreciation of money." It all starts with the fact that the ludoman does not perceive money as something received for hard work.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For a dependent who receives pocket change from family and goes on to regularly use it to gamble, such an individual who doesn’t really know how not easy it is for a lot of people to earn money, would spend it without giving much thought to how it’s gotten in the first place. It’s easier to burn through money that isn’t earned and for the dependent making bad financial decisions at a young age, it would be easy to grow having these habits.
When an individual has no sense of earning money and using it for himself, that person would have no value for the money being given.
Uncontrolled gambling addiction does really terrible things to people, and the most terrible thing is the so-called "depreciation of money." It all starts with the fact that the ludoman does not perceive money as something received for hard work.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For him, money becomes just numbers on the screen, and this is bad, because then his real life completely changes its priorities.
For a dependent who receives pocket change from family and goes on to regularly use it to gamble, such an individual who doesn’t really know how not easy it is for a lot of people to earn money, would spend it without giving much thought to how it’s gotten in the first place. It’s easier to burn through money that isn’t earned and for the dependent making bad financial decisions at a young age, it would be easy to grow having these habits.
When an individual has no sense of earning money and using it for himself, that person would have no value for the money being given.
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