Topic: Gambling by financial dependents. - page 3. (Read 4202 times)

But it is a pity that some parents do not care about this, some are just insensitive to the future gambling influence on their children, and they live their lives anyhow. Such parents need to still be under their parents, but it is unfortunate their children are now looking up to them. At times, if one parent cares, the other may not care, nevertheless, the children can be using the good guide of the other who cares to overlook what the one that doesn't care is doing. You can imagine, that some children would have to go through all that, but this is still not an automatic reason for them to do adult things like gambling at an early age, some children are naturally cultured.

Most of the children I know who are victims of this do not follow the path of their parent(s), especially if they know what the parent(s) is doing is not good. Also, even for the fact that the parent(s) are doing that, they strictly forbid their children to do it, which means they know that what they are doing is not good. But it is best that parents avoid this entirely for the best interest of their children. Also, in case the environment they live in is not encouraging enough to avoid this, they should be strict and thorough in guiding their children on gambling and let them fully know the evil in it when they expose themselves to it at such an early age in order to scare them.

Yes, even if you gamble with your own money from hard work, you still need to at least use a small budget, you don't need to overdo it, after all what you said is also true, gambling has to be responsible, you can't gamble excessively, you have to have a budget that can be managed, the point is, never gamble. with money for life's necessities or debt because of course it will be difficult in the end, always remember that gambling is a game that should be fun and just for fun, so don't take it too seriously and waste money on gambling.

Whoever it is, don't get addicted to gambling because gambling addiction is a disease that is difficult to cure, that's why there are so many gamblers who play excessively and end up becoming addicted to gambling and end up spending all their money on gambling. I have seen many of the experiences of my close friends spending a lot of money. to gamble, they even dare to use the money they need to live just to gamble, even though gambling requires being able to responsibly use money that is ready to be lost, not wasted. no gambler really gets rich from gambling.

Although overall it is not always the case that children under 18 years of age end up addicted when they are involved in gambling, but yes, at their age, they are still very unstable, where they are not able to think rationally, so the possibility of addiction is quite high, which in the end is clear, one of them is as you said. say that they will have the wrong mindset towards money management or even they will not have any management towards money which means that when they have money then obviously they will immediately use it and spend it on many other things, especially gambling.

What is most fearful and worrying about this situation and condition is that it can be confirmed that a child who is under the age of 18 is completely dependent on their parents in terms of finances, which means they do not have the income to finance their gambling activities and if If this scenario is allowed, it is clear that some actions are out of their control, such as stealing money from family members or even worse, stealing from other parties or even cheating. On the other hand, I am sure that no matter how bad their parents are, they definitely want the best. for their children, which means they are definitely trying to cure their child's addiction, but the problem is that sometimes the parents or family members don't know that their child is addicted to gambling.

Parents is the person who responsible with their children so they must always supervise their children when they do something. When their children use their smartphone, their parents should already reminds them not to use that smartphone for doing something that can harm them or makes them in a trouble. But we knows that in this era, children are familiar using smartphone so they can search anything they wants without telling to their parents. That's dangerous for them because they can visits the sites that doesn't suits them and that's why many children knows about gambling in their ages. Parents must always besides them and guide them to use their smartphone so their children can knows that they can use internet for a good thing and not doing a bad thing.

that's true, if they are dependents and live off their parents' money then it's better not to gamble, it's just that they have to be able to restrain themselves from the temptation of gambling, because we all know that gambling itself has its own strong attraction, so many people who gamble until they become addicted to gambling If our parents give us money to buy or pay for necessities that are supposed to be paid for then we have to do it well, don't let us accept the money that is given to pay or buy something that we have to pay for, but instead we use it to play, that's not a good action. .

If you really want to gamble, we hope to use money that we have earned ourselves as a result of hard work.  Don't ever gamble excessively or be irresponsible for everything that happens with the actions you take we hope we can be responsible for the actions we have taken.

It sounds like a challenging situation for the family. It’s good to hear that your nephew is being open about his gambling and seems to have a responsible approach to it. However, the concerns his mother has are also valid, especially considering the potential financial strain and the risk of problematic gambling behaviors developing over time.

My advice for your nephew:
Respect family concerns. It’s important for him to respect his mother’s concerns, considering he is still financially dependent on her. Compromising on how often he gambles, or even taking a break, might reassure her.

The key here is balance and mutual understanding. It’s great that he’s being responsible, but it’s also crucial that he continues to demonstrate this responsibility in a way that reassures his mother of his safety and well-being.

Kids are built to test limits and explore. But gambling? That must be stopped firmly. Money and addiction are risks, but there are others. But think bigger. What are we teaching kids by exposing them to this? That luck is okay instead of skill and hard work? That the world operates on freebies?

We're responsible. We can't say "don't gamble" and leave. We must give alternatives, teaching them that there are better ways to be excited and challenged. Teaching self-control, comprehending dangers, and realizing that effort, not luck, leads to success. This is about influencing kids' adulthood, not just protecting them. Should they pursue fast solutions or develop something lasting?

In my opinion it isn't. If you should agree with me , logically a kid is some who isn't up to the age of 18 and therefore can't be trusted to make proper decisions for themselves and therefore need guidance. Some people will even argue that an individual up to 18 years of age is still a kid. The entire idea is mainly the ability to make mature decisions. Therefore parents are the ones responsible for kids who gamble at a very early age this is because they should be the ones guiding them and if they fail to do so the kids may fall into wrong decision making based on their sorrounding environment and peers.

It is very difficult to prevent young children from gambling in Burdwan. That's because the smartphone is going very easily in their hands, which is becoming very difficult to control. If kids are not controlled from smart phones they are getting involved in gambling at a very young age and very well become addicted. Due to which children should play a controlling role in the use of smartphones.

If a boy below 18 years of age who has no income gets involved in gambling and after getting involved he becomes addicted to gambling then when he cannot manage money for gambling but he can go in wrong direction to manage money. We see many drug addicted boys and girls who, if they don't get money for drugs, misbehave with family members and commit various misdeeds. A boy under the age of 18 who is involved in gambling must be brought out of gambling addiction and the family must supervise the matter so that the boy does not become addicted to gambling. Because it will not be good for the family if the boy gets addicted to gambling and he can definitely commit such misdeeds.

If a person is a dependent and lives on the money of his parents, then he is unlikely to gamble. It is clear that he does not steal this money, but asks his mother. It is also clear that he plays with his savings, but from the outside it looks like his parents give him money to pay for necessary expenses, and he spends it on the game. As a last resort, you should not talk about it, especially if the person is a responsible player. Being responsible is good and it prevents many risks. But it’s better to wait until you earn enough yourself and then play.

That's true mate. Kids are so impressionable and very inquisitive too. They have this inquisitive nature that drives their curiosity about things around them, so it's our responsibilities as adults or parents to guide their curiosity and protect them from unhealthy influences because they learn pretty fast and if not well nurtured or guided, they might get the wrong impression of things and their curiosity will surely drive them to want to try it out, especially things that they shouldn't be doing. Gambling isn't an activity for children and it'll be very harmful if a child begins to have an insight about gambling and start practicing the activity. It's not just about the financial harm it can cause to them but because of the addictive nature of gambling, gambling can be very addictive, even difficult for some adults to break from. So whatever we do we should try our best to raise our kids and the kids around us in a way that they'll not be exposed to things that are as harmful as gambling.

We have the influence that we need and letting our guards down will not favour anyone of us. We have children, we should give them the best care and treatment and not treat them as if they're mature, when we talk about mature it simply means showing them the basic necessities of life and struggle. Never raise up a child in such an unconducive environment where gambling is daily routine. We know how fast and adaptable children can be, they learn with the slightest chance they're seen.

Some financially dependent persons are not addicts , most of them that I have seen are wise and they are doing well for themselves when it comes to gambling .peer group influence might be one of the factors that can influence a financially dependent person to gamble , ordinatily some of them use the opportunity to steal money from their parents or guardian So as To Gamble with their Peer groups But the wise ones might use their little savings To try luck And To know If luck will shine on them.

I have seen financially dependient Person who gamblesfrom his little pocket money while we were in School And fortunately for him luck shined on him And he won a huge amount of money And invested it wisely And that changed the situation of his parents .however, wether financially dependent or not If you are wise definitely you are wise But If you are not wise people around you might influennce your decision more about gambling .

I agree with you if you explain it in the right way he will definitely understand everything. If you insist on him the situation may become worse in which case you have to explain the bad side nicely. Creating awareness in this regard applies to the addict as well as to others in society. Learn about Addictions A person is addicted to something it is also necessary to know its harmful aspects. It is also important to know that any type of addiction is a mental problem or disease.

They say  "we learned the hard way".. this is what addiction is all about. When we are too persistent to gamble because we thought we had the formula to win but failed to evaluate if our strategy is working, then that's obviously being one sided and we will never know that we are addicted. That's why I say we learned the hard way because some people does not listen from the advise of their family and they still keep going, however, the moment they'll lose everything, that's when they realize they already ****** up... That's just life man, some figure out early, some late.

Yes, that's right because gambling is not a money-maker. Many people knows that but many people still trying to makes money from gambling. If they can realizes that playing gambling will not gives them much money, they will not trying hard playing gambling. They will not used much money to gambling and always limits their money to avoids big lose. Playing gambling is just for fun so they knows that makes money from gambling is difficult and will not trying.

If they can playing gambling moderately, they will not have a problems because they will not spends too much money. They will remember their reason playing gambling and will not breaks their rules or even using much money. They thinks that win money from gambling is just a bonus so they will not trying to make money. They will let the luck comes to them and just thinks about the having fun. It will helps them enjoying playing gambling in their spare time.

When someone playing gambling for fun and not too serious, they will have a chance to enjoy their spare time because they don't thinks about making money from gambling. They will knows that is not easy to make money from gambling so they will not decide to used much money to playing gambling as that can makes them losing much money. They will prefer to playing gambling moderately and limiting their money to avoids the big lose. They wants to prevents the bad things that can happens after they ends their gambling activity because they knows that can attracts their minds to thinks about their lose. If they can prevents the bad things that can happens, they will playing gambling responsible and will not lets them in a big risks.

That's why gambling can't be used as a source of income and only for having fun with some money. If many people knows about this, they will have a chance to avoids the bad things such as losing much money because they will not wants to gets trouble. We must knows what's the reason we playing gambling so we don't have a goals to make money from gambling, especially we already see many people failed to make money from gambling. They only gets lose their money without having a chance to make money from gambling. It's why they must prevents the big lose by using enough money to playing gambling because gambling is not gives a big chance to make money. The important thing from this is how we can limiting the amount of budget so we don't lose the big lose.

Your family needs to make an effort to get your sibling away from gambling as soon as possible, as the longer the period of time a person remains addicted, the more difficult it is for that person to improve their condition, it seems your sibling has the mistaken notion he can make money by gambling, so try to show him this is not the case, but be very careful, as at that stage it is not rare for him to believe he is in complete control and he can stop gambling whenever he wants, so he may take offense because of your advice.

I agree with that, when gambling is seen as a source of income then it is likely that we will lose more than money, the idea of being able to earn money easily in gambling is a trap for many people, but this is also because each individual's thinking is wrong in interpreting gambling, they have been deceived by the fact that it is easy to win at gambling. There are also quite a few cases of gambling which is seen as the main income but ends in disappointment and big losses. In fact, the loss is more than money.

At first they gambled perhaps for fun or excitement, but in the end they became addicted to gambling and this actually made them experience losses themselves financially or otherwise. It's true what you said, endless defeat is a trap, after that happens we have to be aware so we can get out of it, because it's impossible to continue being in that detrimental cycle of addiction, we certainly want our finances to improve but not by how to gamble.

Having known that he is an addicted gambler you have to help him heal. If your parents will react negatively to this then you can keep it a secret and then give him a proper guideline as the eldest to enable him to escape this addiction. If he is not given the necessary support he will continue and might start doing worse things to feed his gambling urge. Begin by telling him the implications of gambling addiction. Then, threaten him that you will get him arrested if you see him gambling. Since he is still young this can frighten him.

When I was growing up my dad would always instruct me never to play football because my elder brother dislocated his leg when he was playing football with friends and so my dad hated seeing us playing football. When he tried to stop us and it wasn’t working, he started issuing threats and it worked out since we became afraid and then stopped. I think you can adopt this strategy. In addition, deactivate his online account, reduce his upkeep money and also go to the betting shops where he gambles and tell them never to allow him to gamble. This pause can help him regain his sanity.