Topic: Gambling by financial dependents. - page 5. (Read 4204 times)

Gambling is supposed to be a fun activity. However when a person takes gambling as a source of income there is no doubt that addiction will definitely kick in it could only be a Matter of time. Logically everyone takes their source of income seriously this is because it is the source of their supply of funds they use to carry out different activities that require financial attention.. similarly, when a person makes gambling his primary source of income, he would Begin to spend more time gambling and spend more on his stakes just to increase his wins and winning chances. Overtime he gets addicted to gambling too frequently.

This habit will form even irresponsible gambling in the future when the young person starts to grow up. even when they already have their own money to gamble, their initial activities can trigger an unhealthy gambling addiction.
You are right if you are going to forbid any children from gambling. even if he is a rich kid who has privileges regarding his life. Still, giving children access to gambling is not wise.

We cannot limit the circulation of advertisements for gambling or sports betting sites that appear on social media, because that is beyond our capabilities. And even though we have blocked some of the gambling sites that we find on our children's cellphones, these advertisements will still always appear because currently there are lots of legal and illegal gambling sites, as well as the promotions they carry out. and providing warnings, understanding and advice to our children regarding the negative impacts of gambling, are solution steps that we can take to limit our children from entering the world of gambling.


And what you do with your children, I think this is a step that could be considered quite wise. Because you are not only giving your child a reprimand but also a fairly logical understanding, this is the right step so that they can always feel that they accept all the reprimands and punishments that you give. Because if we don't give him a logical and precise understanding, then the reprimands and punishments we give him could create disharmony between the relationship between parents and children.

And by making them aware of the meaning of hard work and the value of money, of course this helps them to become individuals who are able to take responsibility for all the actions they take.

Yes, it’s really possible that the moon is stolen might be from her son because a gambler can do anything gambling at that age is very risky and especially her son is still young boy in school, and also depending on his parents for upkeep, the best thing to do is to make sure They stop the boy from gambling as soon as possible before, it starts to a very bad addiction , Because if they don’t do the family might be Impe problem the Model will be looking for money every time, and it will be scared to keep money anyhow in the family because the song will definitely tamper with it, I will never accept the song or justify the song on his action at this age gambling at this age is never a good idea. Not at all the best idea is to make sure he stop gambling as soon as possible then for then for the other of your nephew, yes, I know the boy is not stealing from the parents. He is just taking the money from his school, service or other activities from his personal money not stealing from his mother, I also advise him to stop I don’t really see any justification, even if he is not stealing because time will come. He will do that and even if he don’t do that is not really advisable for the boy to be taking his savings for gambling at that age no it’s not a good idea so the nephew should also stop gambling. It’s never a phone to that age even if he is not stealing, I will never permit that if it was my nephew gambling becomes a problem when you start it at a tender age. Gambling is never for kids.

It makes sense, right you say we can see the history of the browser they have used. In my opinion, at this time, in accordance with the development of technology that is increasingly sophisticated and makes it easier for all of us from various kinds of things including online gambling, they are vulnerable to being recognized by the habits of today's children who are no longer strange to be able to operate pins well. Of course with this we must be able to supervise every activity they do using gadgets and internet connections, with as you say it can be done by parents to supervise their children who are already smart in operating gadgets that are connected to the internet.

Yes that's right, the use of money of course must be considered as well lest they spend their money in vain, I mean spending it on things that have no benefit. I think parents' education is important, maybe it can determine their sikan later when they are adults, of course parents want their children to be able to choose good associations for their future. It's true what you said, if they are still dependent then they can't just spend the money made by their parents' hard work, nor can they do everything as they please, it's not recommended.

Of course, good parents must provide the best education and direction for their children, because they definitely want their children to be successful in the future, not trapped in harmful things like gambling. True what you say, only stupid parents let their children get stuck in a cycle that harms their children, although there are some parents who sometimes don't care about their children but it seems strange if they don't want their children to succeed in the future at all. I agree with you, parents must also have their own activities which must be done such as working to make ends meet, and of course with that we cannot fully supervise our children's activities.
True what you say, there are also parents who are not wise in their behavior or in educating children, they tend to provide education that is too harsh so that it actually has a bad impact on their own children. Parents' education certainly has an influence on their children, too hard is also not good. I agree with you that they might do bad things because of the lack of attention from their parents, because not a few children also lack attention and affection from their parents.

As much as possible I am trying to monitor everything my kids are doing. From their browser histories to the recommended videos of popular streaming sites because they sometimes recommend inappropriate clips although they are not bumped by the viewer. Something just related to it could trigger it, especially the gambling advertisements. Sports and gambling seem to be connected in today's age.

I punish my kids but I make sure they will understand why and the reason behind the punishment. Also, they should know the importance of the money they are using, it didn't come from freebies, it's hard labor that was done by their parents. Even as kids, they must still know responsibilities so that when they grow they won't do inappropriate things that could get them in trouble. They cannot do bad habits like smoking and gambling when they are still dependent. They must first have their own hard-earned money so they will feel how difficult it is to work. That way they won't be spending recklessly.

And I think as parents, they know more about the risks and negative impacts of gambling, knowing exactly the consequences of irresponsible gambling. And only stupid parents let their children get caught up in bad behavior.

But of course, we as parents are also busy with various activities so it is impossible for us to monitor our children's activities and behavior throughout the day. However, it seems that it is quite important for us to be able to spend a little of our time just to provide learning, love, attention and also encouragement to our sons and daughters. And quite a few parents behave unwisely, by immediately punishing their sons and daughters for their bad behavior. This could cause disharmony in the household and foster feelings of hatred in a child towards his parents. So it would be good when we punish something, we can first see what is the root of the problem or the indicators that cause our child to behave that way. Because it could be that they gamble because of a lack of attention and love from their parents, so they try to look for other activities that can make them feel happy.

You will be doing your children good by not gambling in their presence but it will be wiser to discuss gambling with them when they get to a certain age. One thing I noticed is that children learn from observation and even as a parent not gambling in the presence is not everything. Also making sure that what they watch is controlled is important. Most of the satellite cables provide for parental control options. With this, children can be guided and prevented from watching certain programs.

Sometimes, when we talk about not gambling in the presence of a child, we fail to look at the environment too. Some environments are prone to gambling so it becomes difficult to prevent the child not to associate with gambling. The child must interact with his environment so that even when the child doesn’t learn from his parents, he can learn from his environment.

Children can learn very well from observation this is why parents should always check their behaviour. I will not be the one that will introduce my children to gambling this is why I ensure that I don't gamble in their presence. But we all know that gambling is no longer a hidden activity in our society. Our children are exposed to gambling adverts on social media, among peers, and when they are watching sports events. Paraventure my child starts gambling, and it is my responsibility to guide him to be a responsible gambler. But I would never support his gambling activities if he is still a student and still depends on me for survival. He should be working and earning his money before he would start gambling. I agree that gambling is not a bad activity if it is done responsibly.       

As a parent then if you dont really like for your kids to go into the path on which you dont like then better guide them on the right path. If you are a gambler parent then for sure it might really be just that fine for you. Im not saying all parents are like that because there are ones even if they are really that a gambler but still they do handle out their kids on the right path or direction on which
trying out to avoid into things on which they do know that it would be something that could destroy their future. There are ones who are really that responsible and there are ones
who arent. This is why it would really be that normal on which path or actions you would be taking as a parent or guardian. It would be that a huge effect into them on how
you would really be guiding them.

If children are given the freedom to gamble then what is at stake is not only material losses in the form of money, but also their future. Parents are fully responsible for ensuring that their children future runs normally, and that they are not addicted to gambling and other negative things. All parents certainly hope that their children lives will be better and more successful than themselves, only parents whose unhealthy way of thinking will allow their children to enter the world of gambling. It is important not to gamble at home, in front of children and in front of other family members, because it can affect them and their perspective on gambling. They will think that gambling is not a bad thing, even though in a broader scope, not everyone has a good perception of gambling.

This game is tough, especially for young guns seeking to make quick money. However, living in a fantasy world and expecting to win the lottery and fix all your issues is like waiting for a free lunch. No such thing exists. Young players will benefit more if they realise it sooner. Money isnt everything; mentality is. You must be smart, strategic, and know when to fold.

What about this mother-son communication breakdown? A molehill turned into a mountain. The answer is straightforward: Talk. The mom thinks she's doing well, but the kid needs trust, not a detective. Giving him space to confess and guiding him are key. Remember: Show him the value of honesty and hard effort over easy money. The conclusion? Open conversation and tough love may change things.

Even if he is a responsible gambler and an honest person who never stole any money, you never know if that all changes very quickly. Gambling is like a addiction at this small age of 18-19 and once he loses in gambling, he will fall short of money and if he is not able to get more money for gambling he can adopt all sorts of bad habits like stealing or being dishonest in order to get money from his near and dear ones.


Usually, if the person is addicted to gambling, he will find it hard to recover from the addiction and almost impossible to recover from the losses he faced in all this period. Sometimes if a person has strong courage and will, he can recover from gambling addiction and become a responsible gambler but it is not possible to recover all that money that he has lost over the period.

You are right, because when it comes to gambling. The risks caused by irresponsible gambling, this does not only talk about financial risks, but more than that, where if gambling is done irresponsibly this can affect the balance of the child's life and can also disrupt the child's growth and development. and even the future is at stake.

We all know that the domino effect of gambling addiction is very dangerous, and can cause children to behave badly, such as disobeying their parents, or other behavior that can be detrimental to themselves and others. And before something worse happens to the child, appropriate steps are needed to cure him of this addiction. And if you have to be taken to a rehabilitation center, then take it there so that the child can get proper treatment quickly.

Many children of rich people receive a lot of money per month from their parents' pockets. In other words, rich parents give money to their children, and an amount that far exceeds the salary of many workers, so the child is having a lot of easy money, and this same child did not feel pain to earn that money and has no bills to pay because the parents pay for everything, so that child looks for things he can do to spend the money, at first he will spend the money buying expensive clothes, buying expensive perfumes, traveling to places where life is very expensive, staying in the best hotels And since he studies at the best and most expensive university, he will want to have a luxury car and his father will give it to him. There came a time when he had already done everything with the money

and nothing else will give him that great emotion that he felt at the beginning, hence they start to get involved with drugs and gambling to feel strong emotions, unfortunately they become addicted and rich parents also find themselves in the same situation as their children, dealing with separated parents, dealing with drug addiction, dealing with gambling addiction, the children end up dead or imprisoned in some jail or isolated in rehabilitation clinics and when they leave they have to start their lives from scratch, without that money from their parents because the Parents have died or become bankrupt or don't want anything to do with them anymore because they disappointed their parents, this is the scenario that is seen in the families of millionaires and billionaires.

When a gambler is credited with funds, he thinks first of utilities that most interests him, and try using his money on them. However, the mental stress of gambling also gets down the player to only wallow in the unending thoughts of gambling. Young gamblers who don't have access to making money, see gambling as a place to earn funds. Hence, while gambling they've got prepared some fantasies on their brain, that enforces their gambling activities. They tend to also have the interest of their family, in mind, if the money arrives. Those fantasies are what keeps these players going and deafens their ears from any contrary advice.

It's risky as a young boy, not to be funded some pocket money. All they need do is talk and interact. Communication can remove lots of emotional anger on other people around us. The mother needs to have him around, and interact with the son, sooner her wrong perspective about the boy will begin to change. All she wants, maybe, is for the boy to say the truth, regarding the stolen money. Both need consistent sincere communication. She has to save the boy, not suffer him.

Yeah, that is true. But the problem is if they are still financially dependent on their parents. They cannot just waste money on gambling in those circumstances because their parents are working hard for that money and they are wasting it away with their bad habit. It's not different when young ones are using their parent's money for drugs. It's not okay. Because they still don't know the importance of that money and how someone worked hard for it just so they can give it to his child. This is the reason why gambling is not for those 21 and below because at that time they don't have a job yet and I bet they still don't know how to be responsible. I did. I mean, I did not know how to be responsible when I was at that young age, I just kept on drinking alcohol and smoking whenever I wanted but I was not even using the money that I worked for.
As a parent, I know that now because I experienced it and I won't let my kids end up the same way as I did just because of being irresponsible to explain things to them.

Giving boys the freedom to gamble is not very good, because it will become a habit that will have a very bad impact on the child in the future. If a child is addicted to gambling, when the money he has runs out, the child's brain will definitely think of various ways to continue gambling by selling valuables and stealing other people's money. Apart from being financially detrimental, gambling can also damage personal and social relationships.

People who get caught up in gambling often experience stress, anxiety, and even depression due to constant financial pressure. Apart from that, families can also become victims, experiencing emotional instability and financial uncertainty. So as a mother, before it's too late, you should discuss this carefully with your child, to stop gambling immediately, so that negative thoughts about your child don't continue to happen again in the future.

as much as I believe that everyone has the right to do what works best for him, there are things you shouldn't start doing until you are responsible for your finance.

I wouldn't advice my kid bro to go into gambling when he should be facing his studies and looking for a means of income. If he can't provide for his basic financial needs, he shouldn't look at gambling as a possible option or what the mum suspects will turn out to become a reality. The mum is only trying to be protective of his child and yeah, you should tell him to be face his finance and academics and every other thing could follow.