They both ain't wrong. Gambling is actually a way of making money, ofcourse a lot of lives have been transformed from huge gambling wins, but not all has been lucky to experience this transformation. Those who ain't lucky are the ones who often end up with one gambling problem or the other because they spend most of their time trying hard to recover all they've lost to gambling. Every gambler cannot deny the fact that they all aim for profits but then, we need to be careful so as not to cause more problems to ourselves while chasing Profits.
Many people often gamble under the disguise of having fun. It is very okay, at least it has helped a lot of people gamble within a favourable limit while still hoping to make more money. The whole idea of seeing gambling as a fun activity is to avoid over-reliance on gambling as a source of income and means of survival. I have no issues with people who feel gambling is all about fun, provided the fun activity doesn't cause any damage.
If you have told me that gambling is an activity to be self-reliant, I might agree, but you can't tell me that gambling is for fun; no one will use his money to lose; that is just the fact, and if really you are doing it for fun, I see no reason why you will get angry when you lose or even think of toping more money to play and get your money back; that shows that gambling is just a scheme to gain money, but people tend to deceive themselves by thinking gambling is for fun. I can assure you that there is no fun in losing; that is just a fact.
All we need to understand about gambling is that it is a game of luck, so you should reduce your expectations of winning the game and focus on your budget. When you are up to the limit, whether you gain or lose, just leave immediately. Like me, when I am gambling, if I have gotten a little or a bit of the money I put in the game, I am definitely leaving and not continuing. I don’t emphasise getting twice or thrice of what I put in the game, which means the little I got is enough since it is not my money. I just played and won, which has helped me a long way not to get addicted to gambling.