Topic: Gambling is a fatal mistake (Read 1504 times)

there's one particular concept that I want us to understand them gambling actually gambling is totally imagination when you are a consistent gambler but when you are not a consistent to them I don't think that you can assume that gambling is imagination, do you know that it is obvious that not every person that participate in gambling make her something good but sometimes the benefited in gambling through opportunity not really sure that this opportunity will manifest so in summary gambling is like a trial when you make your own trial and the happen to come to reality that is your only luck opportunity in gambling

That's actually what is happening for most gamblers.

They're very happy to gamble while the money is still there on their bankrolls. But you we all know what happens next, when they don't have it anymore, what happens is they're able to notice it too soon that they're losing more money.

And when the time comes that they have finally noticed that it's all gone, that's the state of shock comes and regret but it's not longer valid and hard to recover at that phase.

I think we are starting to talk about gambling rather in a philosophical even theological term or context. I don't like to associate the earnings coming from gambling with the will of someone more powerful than us, in the same manner I don't like to blame spirits and demons on the losses someone could have suffered. It is not necessary to go beyond the pragmatism and phenomena which we already know pretty well to explain what a person addicted to gambling does and why she/he does it.
Also, I would not to go as far as saying gambling is "criminal with an innocent face", many casinos explicitly state any deposit make to their wallet is supposed to be taken as lost and gamblers are not supposed to see gambling as a source of income. Stake even has a dedicated section on its website about responsible gambling. In the end, we are the ones who decided what to do or not to do with our money.  

No casino will hold you at gun point until your deposit.

Well, in the first place, gamblers cannot imagine a scenario where they will fail and enter these deadly swamps, they certainly just play on whims like a gentle player with happy thoughts but gambling plays a clearly manipulative role and by some miraculous transformation, both body and soul were subjected to the gambling demon and began to filter out the best and bring out the worst. Gambling is undeniably a criminal with an innocent face, just when we are most unwary, it will reveal its scariest and most dangerous face to us.

Your brother's big mistake was gambling unplanned. Your brothers have family should have thought about his family before gambling. If your brother used to gamble and lost money by gambling and kept aside that amount of money that his brother would need every month for running the family, then maybe there would not have been such turmoil in your brother's family. It is natural for your brother's wife to fight with your brother as you have lost all the salary money because if there is no market at home your brother's family will not eat it is never a responsible person's act. You can convince your brother that since he made a mistake once, everything will be fine if he doesn't make the same mistake again.

It's not a matter of gambling addiction, but if you gamble using money from a loan it will certainly have fatal consequences, we are no longer surprised by people who are addicts, but what is surprising is that using money from loans has become a big risk among today's society, it's not surprising that everyone  Gamblers do this continuously without thinking about the future.

Gambling makes people addicted in such a way that once people get into it, it becomes very difficult to get out. And there are many gamblers who have always been addicted, but can't get away from gambling, even if they are estranged from their families. Especially the gambler is guilty of creating the attitude that in the eyes of society he is the most criminal and the family is under great threat.

Some people may have a few sources of income but their earnings from the exiting income sources is already big enough to cover all their needs but if the person doesn't manage their gambling budgets and also discipline themselves not to become responsible gamblers, they can spend all their entire earnings on gambling and still end up not archiving a dime as profit. Like you already said, a gambler should consider his budget, attend to other important needs and put on a disciplined behavior to gamble responsibily. That way, gambling can not be regarded as a fatal mistake in their life.

The children of this family are facing exactly the same problem, as the father commits a crime of gambling and suffers losses and addictions, but his sons and daughters and wives suffer. Why is there such a rule, a gambler will commit a crime and his family will suffer the consequences. Because when a man is unable to lead a family, gambling becomes a factor in the family becoming completely destitute. A person who has gambled has faced most of the people and his family is suffering day after day.

Yes, overall I would also agree with you that gambling is a negative activity because of the risks involved and of course gambling will have a more negative impact, especially when someone treats gambling in the wrong way which tends to be excessive. Of course, in gambling it doesn't matter how big your income is because in the end all the money they have will definitely disappear in a short time if they have the wrong approach to gambling where the impact will not only be felt by themselves but also their family members. certainly become one of the victims of the weakening economic situation.

And yes, it is true that a gambling addict usually will not consider or take into account possible risks, there is nothing else in his mind other than the intention and determination to realize the victory they have always hoped for, therefore this is what makes an addict not even seem to hesitate in Everyone makes decisions that tend to be aggressive or excessive, so it's only natural that in the end they experience significant setbacks.

When they gamble with a purpose that is not what they should be, such as gambling to make money, of course when they experience a big loss, it is likely that they cannot consider the actions they will take or tend to be more careless when that happens. assuming that they gambled before, maybe they thought they would win a little more, so there is a possibility that they will bet again after experiencing a loss and this is caused by wrong thoughts and perceptions about the gambling they are doing, apart from that, this will make them addicted in the long run. long time which will make them addicted to gambling and it will be difficult for them to get out of it. This happens to gamblers who cannot control themselves well because gamblers who cannot control themselves well will experience losses or other bad impacts.

In contrast to people who can control themselves well, they will not take big risky actions because if they can control themselves, of course they can manage everything well, including what they think they are gambling for and handle losses that occur in the right way, also people Those who gamble with self-control or wisdom will not blame the situation, the casino or even other people for the losses they experience because by gambling with good self-control, I think they really understand what gambling is like.

That's because they don't realizes that they already made their mistakes and only makes them keeps makes other mistakes. They don't see that their life is change and their finances is reduce a lot because they spends their money in gambling. They don't thinks about the bad thing happened to their life because they gets the excitement in gambling so they forgets about everything.

Playing gambling must have moderation to prevents the bad things. No matters if that is hard, they must keeps trying to prevents the lose control so they will not gets any problem in gambling.

If the becomes gambling addiction without they realizes, they will not stops their gambling habit because that is the important thing for them. But that is something wrong as that will ruins their life without they realizes.

We must control ourselves when playing gambling so we don't gets the bad things that can happens to us. That's why we must learn about many things to avoids the addicted to gambling and we can treat gambling as an entertainment.

If they can realizes that they already crossed the line, that will be good time for them to regrets of what they doing. But most people will not realizes and see what happens to them. Even if their family leave them without telling him, he will not stops his gambling activity. But there will be a time for them see what happens to them and they realizes that they are in a big trouble because they already lose everything they had. But they are too late to realizes and that will be difficult to solve the problem because they must search for the way one by one to solved it.

That's why limitations can helps them to control themselves in gambling but they must obey their rules and never breaks that because of the tempts of gambling. Playing gambling can be a fatal mistake that they do if they don't have rules to control themselves. We must remember that we can playing gambling with the money we can afford to lose and must quit when we thinks that it's enough to playing gambling.

Complete money loss was due to debts because of gambling and other overspending reasons that linked with habitual activities associated.
Many stories I've heard and all of them had several scenario, and all those stuff really got negative reputations in their respective social lives in which eventually made a person fell into jail. Some were also rich person who ended up being sued by court due to case of multiple counts Staffa, by all means of unmanaged gambling life became miserable.

Gambling is generally wrongful and a threat to the family, regardless of how much income a person starts to make gambling losses, the entire family suffers. Because a gambling addict does not imagine how he will ever lose gambling because he willingly participates in gambling. And the more the gambler loses, the more he tries to win again until he loses all his money and is shocked.

What do you mean by saying it is not easy to be getting consistent profit from gambling? It's simply not possible, someone who expects to get constant profits from gambling is out of their mind because gambling is not something you can rely on since the outcome is based on your luck and you can't be lucky all the time. Even people who tend to be lucky in most situations of their lives, if they gamble, you should ask them and you will hear from them that they lose in gambling as well.

So, I would say it's foolish if someone things they can earn money on a daily basis from gambling since it is not possible, and those who try to achieve this usually end up losing everything they are using to earn an income and that isn't what anyone would want. It's better to just enjoy the experience instead.

A thing is that when you're noticing that you're going to that point and you've got the signs, you tend to deny that and you're ignoring that.

And many are going onto that point that they're making mistakes as much as they can be because of what has happened to them before like those signs and yet, they just disregarded them.

So, it all comes to those matters that a gambler will seriously do such things when they're in desperation. It's sad on how we've got the future sight of it but they still continue to do those.

It's quite unfortunate how a married man with children can give them selves so easily to addiction, without them being concerning about the well being of their families, and how their children would manage to feed or pay some important bill that is rated as a need and not just wants alone. Gamblers who get addicted can actually learn from their mistakes and make the necessary changes. Self motivation and advise would help go a long way especially when you are determined to put an end to it. It even better to quite gambling than let addiction eat up all your savings and properties, that was gotten from though sacrifice. Entering a gambling hall after receiving your salary is as good as telling a child not to eat Candy's when you have jars full of candy at home. You can try convincing yourself you'll not exceed your limit but that thought can be compromised when greed comes in. Though there are several discipline individuals who would even risk a single dollar in gambling even while they are at the gambling hall, but try as much as possible to avoid it because it's dangerous.

And this is something that you should really be avoiding at all cost on which you would really be coming into a point that you would really be already doing illegal things just because you are really that trying out to
get something or money for you to gamble which it do simply shows that addiction within you is already that severe or already on the rooftop. This is why as early as possible if you've seen yourself that being that too impulsive on dealing up with gambling specially at the moment that you are really that on losing state and having those kind of odd or severe reaction towards it then better stop midway before making things gets worst.
Gambling isnt a mistake as long  you do make yourself that responsible then you are good to go. It is really just that there are individuals who are really that careless on making up their decisions towards it.

Fatal mistakes would really be only at the time that you would really be finding yourself that being addicted into it and compromising already your life savings. This is why you should really be that
careful on the things that you are dealing with and not really just that making some shit decisions which would really be that totally affecting your family in overall.
Dont tend to deal up on something that you cant really be able to deal with and making those shit mistakes along the way.

You have a point about the context and the wording.

I think that everyone understands it that it's more causing bad effects than of killing anybody. And that's true with all of those descriptions that you have mentioned.

A gambler who becomes addicted and don't have money to gamble can do anything that he can even if it takes him doing illegal things just as what you have said.

Someone who wants to enter gambling activities should not be said that they have made a fatal mistake because not all gamblers will experience very painful bad luck due to gambling.
There is also a gambler whose life is stable and looks happy with gambling because he plays gambling carefully and is not greedy in pursuing luck because he knows that gambling can also be used well if played well.
And here it can be concluded that gambling does not necessarily make someone's life miserable, the most important thing is that if you want to enter the world of gambling, you must be able to control it well when playing gambling.