Gambling is a fatal mistake - page 13.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

it's obviously a gambling addiction, no sane person would gamble all their salary especially if they have a family.

I feel bad for his wife and kids but overall they are probably better off without him since judging from what he did his priority is clearly not his family. also, gambling addiction can lead to domestic violence which could be a lot worse for the wife and kids.

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Gambling is indeed dangerous and provides risks and consequences that are always present at all times, but when someone has decided to gamble then he must be able to accept everything even though it is loss and also the bad effects of gambling.
But on the other hand, saying that gambling is fatal mistake is actually not correct considering that the real mistake is not the decision to gamble but the attitude and mindset of the gambler himself who cannot protect himself from the various impacts and risks that exist.
I find that some people really blame gambling for the destruction that occurs, but actually when gambler can be responsible and can have the right attitude or approach he can also avoid various bad things.

In cases like this I think he is person who is unable to control himself and does not have good responsibility, if he could be controlled and have responsible attitude then it would not be possible to spend all his money on gambling, he must always remember family at home who need food.
Many similar problems occur and it is truly unfortunate, this should be lesson for everyone that they must really maintain stability and control themselves to minimize the occurrence of bad things.

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I feel for his family bro, addiction has eaten up your elder brother to the bone. If you ask him, he will tell you that he thought that he can double his salary, which is the silly excuse addicted people will always give your their actions.

He needs help and should go to an expert to counsel him. This is the problem that we are facing in the society, a lot of gamblers are gambling for profit and not for fun which is why they are prone to addiction. Gambling should not ne what will separate us from our family, instead of leaving your family for gamble, it is better you leave gambling for your family and gamble when you can control yourself.

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The guy is so hooked up on gambling that he prefers to abandon his family over gambling, the guy is living a miserable life now he doesn't have anyone after he left his family, and the only way he can be saved from going miserable is people who are with him right now understand his situation and try to help by going through a psychiatrist and get counsel.

But if the people who are with him right now are also gamblers then it's only a matter of time before the guy loses his mind and worse he will be confined in a mental institution, some people also go crazy or lose their mind from gambling.

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it is clear that there is a problem related gambling addiction really serious.
if you can't stop gamble and are you using real funds that you need for other things it's something that deserve an immediate action.

It's useless to blame this person. you just need to make him understand his mistakes and help him fix them.
in general, contacting an association or requesting medical help is a necessary move.
a money management (people that use crypto should rely on cold wallet) is also another action to be adopted.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

so what would have been the case if he used the money to go into alcohol? Or used it to lavish on women or choose to spend it whichever way he pleases? Is it now an issue that he wrecked it all up on something that has the potential of yielding him some returns?

We have to be sincere to ourselves that some of these guys whose stories we share on this forum are just careless and irresponsible people that end up wasting there lives and resource at any slightest opportunity they have and end up painting accusing fingers on being addicted to an act just to corver up for there mess and get public simpathy. I'm never supporting what he did or advising anyone to make the careless move of spending all his salary out through gambling but anyone that can't control himself when he sees money and forgets that he has the responsibility ot taking care of his home with the little earning he is receiving deserves zero pity and should go and hustle for his family.

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Quote from: Charles-Tim on June 05, 2024, 05:11:27 AM

You will have no problem if you can gamble with the amount of money that you can afford to lose. That is the problem some people do not know. Anything excessive in life is not good. If you eat food too much, it will affect you. If you drink too much it will affect you. If you abuse drug it will affect you. There should be moderation to everything that we are doing and so is gambling. If you know you can not control your addiction, seek help and do not gamble again.

That's all easy to say but if you're the one who's addicted, you wouldn't really be saying that kind of thing because addiction isn't something that you can easily just seek out help because when you're addicted, you're still in denial about your problem and you don't want to ask for help because you think that you're still doing fine and that you're still not addicted. This is what basically happened to the OP's elder brother, still in denial of the addiction that leads to quarrels but the word fatal mistake seems to me a bit of a big word because it might happen but that's a worst case scenario thing.

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Well I tried to understand as the content is differs from the title, of a Truth gambling and society view is basically as result of gamblers who are addicted to it way if behavior, because no gambler that is not addicted that will spend all salary in gambling even with family of the number you described in your text, it's the set of person that make society condemn gambling and see people as tout it hoodlums when they see gambler.

Gambling is a game that require smartness and one full salary is not meant to be used in playing such game when a purpose of a thing is not know abuse is inevitable that is the typical attitude if the so describe gambler what he did is abuse of the game which has already show he is addicted to gambling.
What you perceived a thing to be may likely be, gambling is not a fatal mistake but for those who have given themselves to be used by the spirit of gambling for me I control myself and know my limit to which I will play any game u can't spend all my budget or salary in gamble any one who fail to plan take anything the system or nature make available if not then that make it available and blamed nature

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If I were your elder brother's wife I would have left him alone time ago see I noticed that he is struggling with gambling addiction and doesn't look like he's trying to getting help. I would leave him and take the kids along because I need to protect our children from the physical manipulation, emotional pain and trauma that he wants oir kids to go through. I can return when he has truly fixed his life. The kids are priority and they deserve a better life and dad not a deadbeat.

Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Gambling addiction - compulsive gambling addiction. Talk to your elder brother, if not, he's on the way to ruining the thing that matters most and that's family.

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The subject of your thread suggests a different thing from the content, you generalized gambling as a fatal mistake in the subject, then you personalized it to an individual gambler in the content of the thread.

Your gambling senior brother is definitely an irresponsible gambler because he puts gambling first before his financial responsibilities to his family. He's clearly a gambling addict that needs profession help and emotional support from his loved ones to help him overcome his addiction problems, they shouldn't abandon him because of his addictive gambling, otherwise he can degenerate and become mentally unstable. Undisciplined people are not supposed to be gamblers otherwise they will be controlled by greed and emotions to gamble amounts that they can not afford to loose.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

This is really unfortunate for a person which cannot control their emotions towards the activities they are dealing with and this is the result of over expecting on something that can possibly give them a lot of money. So a lesson needed to be learn since if people will not have a critical thinking dealing with their vices then for the same scenario would also happen to them.

We should know our obligation towards our family and we should not use all our money in gambling so that no possible harmful effects will ever happen.

Its sad to see a family got broken due to this activity so for working individuals there they should always prioritized the welfare of their family and erase the thoughts of participating excessively on activities that can cause them financial troubles since this will lead them to more disastrous situation.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

You have also shared how stupid and reckless your elder brother is. Having such a huge family, and thinking that he could earn from gambling enough to make their life better, instead of finding a more paid work. Moreover, instead of trying to fix the problem, he ran from it by walking into unknown direction. Your brother is a perfect example that age is nothing in gambling. Probably +18, but still act so childish and does stupid things.

An advice to you elder brother - next time gamble online in a popular casino that has cashback and rakeback. At least his wife would have some money to buy bread or rice to survive for a day, until he searches for solution of a deep ass situation he is in.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

It should be "irresponsible gambling" is a fatalk mistake. What happen to that guy cannot be blame to gambling because gambling serves a lot of people, it's considered an entertainment but if we don't see it that way, then this thing will happen. The number of addicted gamblers over the total gamblers are just a small percentage, so in general we cannot condemn gambling think that it destroys families.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

One of the classic example of addiction going out of control. I'm sorry to hear that your brother has become a gambling addict, hopefully this will not end into the family getting broken apart because the effect on the kids is really devastating.

I guess by now the biggest reason is that he is out of control of his gambling and he is not thinking about his family anymore. It's the illogical thinking of gambling addicts that made them to do to even their love ones. It might not be to late though to salvage his family, but it will take a big help from you as you are the one who needs to understand your brother and what he is going thru.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

The problem has never been the game of gambling, rather it has always been the attuited of the gambler towards gambling, according to your story, it could be said that your brother was not disciplined enough to control his gambling habit to the point of knowing when to stop and when not to stop any more because they always thing there's an opportunity to win by the next trial and he keeps trying till he gets all his money exhausted and then end up in regrets which could have been avoided if only he has controlled himself to the point where he knows when not to continue gambling again.

a smart responsible and disciplined gambler will always make sure not to ruin their bankroll all to the casino, and that's why the suggestion most often seen on this forum about budgeting for gambling is important because it helps instill discipline in the gambler so once they have exhausted their budget they will apply restrain and probably exit the casino or log out of their casino accounts instead of staying all dey till they get to exhaust their funds and probably get bankrupt.

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Often the reason for a family breaking apart is when the man in the family ain't able to provide support. Some other fathers react modestly but some are harsher. It is his fault though he has to man up for that and come home as it's the kids who will suffer for his mistake.

He is your brother, you must idea where to find him. Bring him back.

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You will have no problem if you can gamble with the amount of money that you can afford to lose. That is the problem some people do not know. Anything excessive in life is not good. If you eat food too much, it will affect you. If you drink too much it will affect you. If you abuse drug it will affect you. There should be moderation to everything that we are doing and so is gambling. If you know you can not control your addiction, seek help and do not gamble again.

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“Irresponsible Gambling is a fatal mistake” should be the correct title for this thread, gambling alone is not fatal - it only becomes detrimental when the punters don’t know how to gamble properly. Take this case as an example, if the husband was a responsible gambler he would have been able to tell what his limits were and also know when to call it a quit when he hits those limits but due to the fact that he was clueless he didn’t know when to stop.

since he’s close to you, it would be best for you to talk to him and see that he stops gambling - it might not be an easy tasks but still just try to make him understand that if he continues this act, it will eventually lead to the destruction of his home.

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A really sad story to say the least.These persons by such gesture they show they don't give an absolute damn about their family life.I don't want to sound negative but leaving three sons and a small daughter without food because he wanted to gamble all night and believed that by such gesture he would have multiplied the money is the worse a person can do.I feel sorry for his family as they have no fault for his irresponsible behavior which lead to fights and eventually even divorce,these actions can go and bring further misery to the children.I hope things get fixed as soon as possible.

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Quote from: FinePoine0 on June 05, 2024, 04:44:11 AM

Actually I have an elder brother in gambling, he basically works in a private company. Received May salary on June 04/06/2024, he did not come home after receiving salary. Three sons one daughter and his wife live in his house, and he gambled all night and entered the house on the next day 05/06/2024 today morning after losing all the salary money. After entering the house, his wife asked him to go to market, he replied, I don't have money, wife said, you got salary, what did you do with the salary money?
In this way, quarrels between the two gradually arise and when it becomes known in the society, it is gradually known that he has played gambling. And he went somewhere far away from home after the fight till now there is no trace of him and he didn't try to contact him till now. So I shared this with you because of how dangerous gambling is in the eyes of families and society. What could be the biggest reason behind this person giving complete money loss?

Obviously this person is addicted to gambling, because he participates in gambling all night without thinking about his family. Especially real gambling is the worst, because even when his wallet is empty, he has the opportunity to borrow from others. But in case of online gambling, once the balance runs out, there is no other way to gamble, that's why I hate offline gambling the most. Although gambling is risky, real gambling is the most risky, because the family is so addicted to gambling that they can't remember it's sad.

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