Giving up gambling is not easy - page 4.

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Quote from: cazkooo on November 26, 2017, 01:01:35 PM

Quote from: FasTroy on November 26, 2017, 09:07:14 AM

You are right, Giving up from gambling is not easy, especially for people who are addicted in gambling. Being addicted to this kind of games is too danger for yourself and for your family too, you will be always in troubles and problems, you can lose everything in your life, So for people who are addicted, they should stop that, and try to control themselves when we talk about gambling.

It is easy if you want to do it but it is not if you have slight conflict of interest of not doing it. If you really want to quit then go ahead and quit. Never look back anymore because if there is a slight way for you to look back and you did, then Im sure you will be back to gamble again. It is only easy if you really want to do it but people made alot of excuses not to quit

If a man gets truly determine about doing something then nothing in this world can stop him from doing that. Similarly, giving up gambling is not a real difficult thing or at least not impossible to do. A gambler can get help from his close ones or consult a doctor. He must control his emotions and feelings, Drive to think about his future and those ones which are connected to him.

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Quote from: dorhug121 on June 05, 2016, 10:25:16 AM

gamming is the best way to avoid more gambling , online game or offline , but offline game is not recommended for me . because you doesnt have friend on there. also keep your money on bank or your mother

Gambling is like an addiction it's not easy to come out of it, with the points you mentioned may be can come out of it.

it is an addiction but i would also say there are effort required from the person itself if he is not willing to quit
gambling then friends wont help at all and instead he may just ask money from them and upon not giving he might
just even hurt them

Exactly, fighting addiction is a conscious effort and must come from both the addicted person and those trying to help him out if one party fails then the whole process is likely to fail and so we need the maximum cooperation of the addicted person before you can implement plans in helping him quit.

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Quote from: jassanpary on November 15, 2017, 08:33:16 AM

Quote from: dorhug121 on June 05, 2016, 10:25:16 AM

gamming is the best way to avoid more gambling , online game or offline , but offline game is not recommended for me . because you doesnt have friend on there. also keep your money on bank or your mother

Gambling is like an addiction it's not easy to come out of it, with the points you mentioned may be can come out of it.

it is an addiction but i would also say there are effort required from the person itself if he is not willing to quit
gambling then friends wont help at all and instead he may just ask money from them and upon not giving he might
just even hurt them

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Quote from: FasTroy on November 26, 2017, 09:07:14 AM

You are right, Giving up from gambling is not easy, especially for people who are addicted in gambling. Being addicted to this kind of games is too danger for yourself and for your family too, you will be always in troubles and problems, you can lose everything in your life, So for people who are addicted, they should stop that, and try to control themselves when we talk about gambling.

It is easy if you want to do it but it is not if you have slight conflict of interest of not doing it. If you really want to quit then go ahead and quit. Never look back anymore because if there is a slight way for you to look back and you did, then Im sure you will be back to gamble again. It is only easy if you really want to do it but people made alot of excuses not to quit

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Quote from: tmawheba on November 26, 2017, 08:15:20 AM

Most of the gamblers including me giving up gambling but physiologically getting sick of it. Once getting the salary I am not controlling myself just looking for excuses only not to escape. I suffered a lot on this habit now I make the strategy once I get the salary 90% I transfer the money to my wife account and I come out with 10% and like this my expense / investment in gambling is restricted not stopped.

actually it's always on everyone plan , to spend only a little amount of your total income and hoping for the luck come to you. but things in gambling always so wild , you might think a good way to keep you in the line before the game started but everything turned around drastically when you are in the game , it's feel like you have no choice , just keep playing like a zombie although you want to give up.

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Quote from: Bonakid on November 26, 2017, 08:11:18 AM

Giving up gambling is not easy but when yout gettin addicted to it,your life can be miserable and your family must be affected too much.Its okey to play gambling but not loosing all your money atleast you need to set up your goals thats its a game only and not your life.

You are right, Giving up from gambling is not easy, especially for people who are addicted in gambling. Being addicted to this kind of games is too danger for yourself and for your family too, you will be always in troubles and problems, you can lose everything in your life, So for people who are addicted, they should stop that, and try to control themselves when we talk about gambling.

A lot of people are already succumbed to the fact of gambling and they would be hard to regularized again because they always think of gambling. Whenever they get money, they gamble. Even with their current situation where they lost all their money, and still thinks of gambling. It's all about mind set.

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it will always been you who can decide to stop from gambling since you are your mind's boss. if there is a will there will always be a way, right? think of your family's future if you have one. and working in casino will not help you to quit. on the other hand it will tempt you to play over and over again.

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Quote from: Bonakid on November 26, 2017, 08:11:18 AM

Giving up gambling is not easy but when yout gettin addicted to it,your life can be miserable and your family must be affected too much.Its okey to play gambling but not loosing all your money atleast you need to set up your goals thats its a game only and not your life.

You are right, Giving up from gambling is not easy, especially for people who are addicted in gambling. Being addicted to this kind of games is too danger for yourself and for your family too, you will be always in troubles and problems, you can lose everything in your life, So for people who are addicted, they should stop that, and try to control themselves when we talk about gambling.

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Quote from: JasonXG on June 05, 2016, 10:19:58 AM

Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I just plan to work for casinos but not gamble.

The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me.

So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix.

Giving up gambling is not easy. Because before l was a gambler. My father is a gambling master that's why we all his family a gamblers also. So when we both my husband get addicted to gambling we used to have so many debts until lm hiding to all those people whose looking at me for my payment. That time l can't sleep l cry everytime. I tried many times to quit gambling because our life is getting worst because lm always a loser. But when l have no where to run l decide to give up gambling. It's the time l need to go back to God because l used to be a backslider so that my life became worst. That's the time l realize that lm lost as a son of God. That ends that l am separated wIt's my husband. Im so weak l don't think l can stand l lost everything. I think it's no where to run. I was about to commit suicide but everytime l cry l think about my kids, how can they live without me. That's the time l really decide not to go back in gambling.

Sometimes it's hard to break the chain, its tough to quit gambling if our closes people/society is gambling too because if we want to stop gambling for good, we need internal factor and external factor to help us. We need to think outside the box to be able to make my life better, don't look back too far to our past make it experience to build our future life better.

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Most of the gamblers including me giving up gambling but physiologically getting sick of it. Once getting the salary I am not controlling myself just looking for excuses only not to escape. I suffered a lot on this habit now I make the strategy once I get the salary 90% I transfer the money to my wife account and I come out with 10% and like this my expense / investment in gambling is restricted not stopped.

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Giving up gambling is not easy but when yout gettin addicted to it,your life can be miserable and your family must be affected too much.Its okey to play gambling but not loosing all your money atleast you need to set up your goals thats its a game only and not your life.

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Quote from: JasonXG on June 05, 2016, 10:19:58 AM

Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I just plan to work for casinos but not gamble.

The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me.

So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix.

Giving up gambling is not easy. Because before l was a gambler. My father is a gambling master that's why we all his family a gamblers also. So when we both my husband get addicted to gambling we used to have so many debts until lm hiding to all those people whose looking at me for my payment. That time l can't sleep l cry everytime. I tried many times to quit gambling because our life is getting worst because lm always a loser. But when l have no where to run l decide to give up gambling. It's the time l need to go back to God because l used to be a backslider so that my life became worst. That's the time l realize that lm lost as a son of God. That ends that l am separated wIt's my husband. Im so weak l don't think l can stand l lost everything. I think it's no where to run. I was about to commit suicide but everytime l cry l think about my kids, how can they live without me. That's the time l really decide not to go back in gambling.

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I dont think so, but i if really want to give it up you can easily givi it up but if you think you cant do it then do a way to to giving up you can do it slowly.

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My friend was hospitalised because his gambling addiction unfortunately it happened after he lost all money he has and end up in big debts. It is very hard to cure when you are addicted to something not only gambling.

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There are a million different opinions about how/why and where to practice recovery and maintain abstinence. Its clear to me now that the addict is great at giving advice to other people but less on applying it to him or herself. You need to realize that your giving up has to be about you and willing and dedicated to achieve from the bottom of your heart. We all know it;s not easy on giving up unless you take the first step.

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Quote from: DPrillio on November 25, 2017, 02:48:03 AM

Yes, that is already a reality that giving up in gambling is not easy even what kind of gambling it is. Maybe the factors that mostly affecting is due to gambling addiction and we know the fact that one's a gambler is already addicted then he will seek all the time for it, because it is an intense feelings and thrill including the profit he gets, that is what a gambler's desire.

I dont really believe in addiction anymore because for me there is nothing that can make you addicted. If you want to stop then you can stop but if you dont want to stop then you will make all kind of justification to make sure you looks right. One kind of justification is to say that they are addicted and cant quit which sounds bullshit for me

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Quote from: kodes88 on November 25, 2017, 04:06:36 AM

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Quote from: sparveenat on November 19, 2017, 12:52:36 AM

Saying of giving up gambling is very easy, practically I have seen in my life. Two of my dear friends use to gamble they addicted they cant stop themselves they use to borrow and go for gambling which to cant stop most of people in such condition only living. They wont feel any difference whether winning or loosing just gamble.

Not surprising , as those kind people has become an addict with the signs like that.
I mean seriously people who never try how to stop and just talking bs here&there don't know the feeling struggle and frustation about this.
We want to leave but the addiction is so strong force us to keep moving forward and make the situation become more and more worse than before.

Its just not easy and that's why the approach to curbing it should be taken with all seriousness. I know it is an unending walk into the abyss and wouldn't wish that anyone of us should get there but should you find yourself wanting to stop and can't its better to seek help from family or a psychologist.

So true that gambling is really hard to give up especially when we have money or anything that involves gambling. This kind of addiction really needs diversion like putting your time to your family instead of gambling. Maybe little by little we can minimize gambling.

Spending time with family rather than gambling will work. Provided our intention is strong and unshakable. It takes patience and a long time, if someone says it will not work because he has tried it, it means he is not patient.

To change for the better you need to sacrifice, you quit gambling because it does not give you anymore the entertainment value so yo have to fully quit and stay away from temptation again. It's hard to let go of a certain things especially if you are get used in doing it but when it does not give good results in your life, just throw it away and learn to control your emotion.

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Quote from: Dodoymabs on November 24, 2017, 11:48:06 PM

Quote from: Pettuh4 on November 20, 2017, 08:49:49 AM

Quote from: RealPhotoshoper on November 20, 2017, 07:14:01 AM

Quote from: sparveenat on November 19, 2017, 12:52:36 AM

Saying of giving up gambling is very easy, practically I have seen in my life. Two of my dear friends use to gamble they addicted they cant stop themselves they use to borrow and go for gambling which to cant stop most of people in such condition only living. They wont feel any difference whether winning or loosing just gamble.

Not surprising , as those kind people has become an addict with the signs like that.
I mean seriously people who never try how to stop and just talking bs here&there don't know the feeling struggle and frustation about this.
We want to leave but the addiction is so strong force us to keep moving forward and make the situation become more and more worse than before.

Its just not easy and that's why the approach to curbing it should be taken with all seriousness. I know it is an unending walk into the abyss and wouldn't wish that anyone of us should get there but should you find yourself wanting to stop and can't its better to seek help from family or a psychologist.

So true that gambling is really hard to give up especially when we have money or anything that involves gambling. This kind of addiction really needs diversion like putting your time to your family instead of gambling. Maybe little by little we can minimize gambling.

Spending time with family rather than gambling will work. Provided our intention is strong and unshakable. It takes patience and a long time, if someone says it will not work because he has tried it, it means he is not patient.

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Quote from: Pettuh4 on November 20, 2017, 08:49:49 AM

Quote from: RealPhotoshoper on November 20, 2017, 07:14:01 AM

Quote from: sparveenat on November 19, 2017, 12:52:36 AM

Saying of giving up gambling is very easy, practically I have seen in my life. Two of my dear friends use to gamble they addicted they cant stop themselves they use to borrow and go for gambling which to cant stop most of people in such condition only living. They wont feel any difference whether winning or loosing just gamble.

Not surprising , as those kind people has become an addict with the signs like that.
I mean seriously people who never try how to stop and just talking bs here&there don't know the feeling struggle and frustation about this.
We want to leave but the addiction is so strong force us to keep moving forward and make the situation become more and more worse than before.

Its just not easy and that's why the approach to curbing it should be taken with all seriousness. I know it is an unending walk into the abyss and wouldn't wish that anyone of us should get there but should you find yourself wanting to stop and can't its better to seek help from family or a psychologist.

Yes, that is already a reality that giving up in gambling is not easy even what kind of gambling it is. Maybe the factors that mostly affecting is due to gambling addiction and we know the fact that one's a gambler is already addicted then he will seek all the time for it, because it is an intense feelings and thrill including the profit he gets, that is what a gambler's desire.

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Quote from: Dodoymabs on November 24, 2017, 11:48:06 PM

Quote from: Pettuh4 on November 20, 2017, 08:49:49 AM

Quote from: RealPhotoshoper on November 20, 2017, 07:14:01 AM

Quote from: sparveenat on November 19, 2017, 12:52:36 AM

Saying of giving up gambling is very easy, practically I have seen in my life. Two of my dear friends use to gamble they addicted they cant stop themselves they use to borrow and go for gambling which to cant stop most of people in such condition only living. They wont feel any difference whether winning or loosing just gamble.

Not surprising , as those kind people has become an addict with the signs like that.
I mean seriously people who never try how to stop and just talking bs here&there don't know the feeling struggle and frustation about this.
We want to leave but the addiction is so strong force us to keep moving forward and make the situation become more and more worse than before.

Its just not easy and that's why the approach to curbing it should be taken with all seriousness. I know it is an unending walk into the abyss and wouldn't wish that anyone of us should get there but should you find yourself wanting to stop and can't its better to seek help from family or a psychologist.

So true that gambling is really hard to give up especially when we have money or anything that involves gambling. This kind of addiction really needs diversion like putting your time to your family instead of gambling. Maybe little by little we can minimize gambling.

Well its really a matter of self motivations as we all knew that gambling affects not only our mental part but also physical side of our personality, you can stress yourself if you keep losing your money and its really harder to address this problem without a proper medications and willingness to be cured.

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