Giving up gambling is not easy - page 9.

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Quote from: Protected101 on October 24, 2017, 11:52:18 PM

Quote from: JasonXG on June 05, 2016, 11:19:58 AM

Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I just plan to work for casinos but not gamble.

The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me.

So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix.

I think giving up in gambling is in good terms if you cannot control your emotions once you've loss it and it depends on us of how we limit ourselves.But if you know how to be set up your goals in gambling when you wins it is not easy to give up because there are temptations that you will play again.

When you say quit you have to quit for good, it's not good to gamble again when you don't have the discipline as you might only lose a big amount of money which you cannot afford to lose. Don't let your life be affected with your gambling addiction because if we will everything will be ruin and we can never have a real happiness as gambling will keep bothering us.

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Quote from: JasonXG on June 05, 2016, 11:19:58 AM

Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I just plan to work for casinos but not gamble.

The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me.

So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix.

I think giving up in gambling is in good terms if you cannot control your emotions once you've loss it and it depends on us of how we limit ourselves.But if you know how to be set up your goals in gambling when you wins it is not easy to give up because there are temptations that you will play again.

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Quote from: Cosbycoin on October 22, 2017, 10:34:15 AM

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Quote from: Noilee on October 21, 2017, 07:21:40 AM

To give up in gambling is not easy, because once you are addicted you cant control yourself as well as your emotions. Because giving up a gambling is need a long time to focus on yourself how to stop. Just think of your goodness and focus on the other activities to avoid you to gamble, and this is the way to escape gambling. Once you already addicted its difficult you to remove in yourself. Just remember how bad it feels when lose in gambling.

I think give up gambling is easy or not easy just depend on our thinking, if we do not want to give up, no one can make us give up but if we want to give up, nothing can stop us. Many people say that if we are addicted to gambling, we will not be able to control ourselves and give up gambling is a very difficult thing, even impossible, this is very silly, we have awareness in everything, we only need to think strongly that we must give up, our bodies will listen to our thoughts and actively stop gambling, if we feel the body does not listen to our thoughts, we should seek help from family and doctors, they will support us

Hundred percent agreed with your statement. It is not the matter of how and when.
If you intend to do something, go for it at spot. Like when you, luckily, decide to leave this fatal game, don’t rely on anything and just quit it. It is not heavy decision that come to you but the best choice you are going for. So deiced yourself, either it is bad or good for you, and act quickly.

That’s so rude of you if you don’t understand the situation of addicts. Addicts really want to get out of this but they have not a good control over their emotions and crave for gambling. They need external help besides a good determination and iron will of quitting this dark game. No matter how much strong determination you have of getting yourself out of this game’s grip, you need moral support for this.

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Quote from: kodes88 on October 22, 2017, 01:01:45 PM

Quote from: Gheka on October 21, 2017, 12:02:17 PM

Quote from: Noilee on October 21, 2017, 07:21:40 AM

To give up in gambling is not easy, because once you are addicted you cant control yourself as well as your emotions. Because giving up a gambling is need a long time to focus on yourself how to stop. Just think of your goodness and focus on the other activities to avoid you to gamble, and this is the way to escape gambling. Once you already addicted its difficult you to remove in yourself. Just remember how bad it feels when lose in gambling.

I think give up gambling is easy or not easy just depend on our thinking, if we do not want to give up, no one can make us give up but if we want to give up, nothing can stop us. Many people say that if we are addicted to gambling, we will not be able to control ourselves and give up gambling is a very difficult thing, even impossible, this is very silly, we have awareness in everything, we only need to think strongly that we must give up, our bodies will listen to our thoughts and actively stop gambling, if we feel the body does not listen to our thoughts, we should seek help from family and doctors, they will support us

Giving up gambling is not easy, but it's not for everyone because it's hard or hard to depend on each other, as you say. If you already feel that difficult then it will be difficult for you. If you think it's easy then you can do it more calmly.

Everything is mentally! As you said if you feel that it's too hard to giving up from gambling, that automatically it will be harder for you and the opposite is right. So, people who want to quit gambling they should believe on themselves and say that they can quit that easily and without any problem, so I assure that they can quit it without any come back.

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Quote from: Gheka on October 21, 2017, 12:02:17 PM

Quote from: Noilee on October 21, 2017, 07:21:40 AM

To give up in gambling is not easy, because once you are addicted you cant control yourself as well as your emotions. Because giving up a gambling is need a long time to focus on yourself how to stop. Just think of your goodness and focus on the other activities to avoid you to gamble, and this is the way to escape gambling. Once you already addicted its difficult you to remove in yourself. Just remember how bad it feels when lose in gambling.

I think give up gambling is easy or not easy just depend on our thinking, if we do not want to give up, no one can make us give up but if we want to give up, nothing can stop us. Many people say that if we are addicted to gambling, we will not be able to control ourselves and give up gambling is a very difficult thing, even impossible, this is very silly, we have awareness in everything, we only need to think strongly that we must give up, our bodies will listen to our thoughts and actively stop gambling, if we feel the body does not listen to our thoughts, we should seek help from family and doctors, they will support us

Giving up gambling is not easy, but it's not for everyone because it's hard or hard to depend on each other, as you say. If you already feel that difficult then it will be difficult for you. If you think it's easy then you can do it more calmly.

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Quote from: Gheka on October 21, 2017, 12:02:17 PM

Quote from: Noilee on October 21, 2017, 07:21:40 AM

To give up in gambling is not easy, because once you are addicted you cant control yourself as well as your emotions. Because giving up a gambling is need a long time to focus on yourself how to stop. Just think of your goodness and focus on the other activities to avoid you to gamble, and this is the way to escape gambling. Once you already addicted its difficult you to remove in yourself. Just remember how bad it feels when lose in gambling.

I think give up gambling is easy or not easy just depend on our thinking, if we do not want to give up, no one can make us give up but if we want to give up, nothing can stop us. Many people say that if we are addicted to gambling, we will not be able to control ourselves and give up gambling is a very difficult thing, even impossible, this is very silly, we have awareness in everything, we only need to think strongly that we must give up, our bodies will listen to our thoughts and actively stop gambling, if we feel the body does not listen to our thoughts, we should seek help from family and doctors, they will support us

Hundred percent agreed with your statement. It is not the matter of how and when.
If you intend to do something, go for it at spot. Like when you, luckily, decide to leave this fatal game, don’t rely on anything and just quit it. It is not heavy decision that come to you but the best choice you are going for. So deiced yourself, either it is bad or good for you, and act quickly.

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Quote from: Noilee on October 21, 2017, 07:21:40 AM

To give up in gambling is not easy, because once you are addicted you cant control yourself as well as your emotions. Because giving up a gambling is need a long time to focus on yourself how to stop. Just think of your goodness and focus on the other activities to avoid you to gamble, and this is the way to escape gambling. Once you already addicted its difficult you to remove in yourself. Just remember how bad it feels when lose in gambling.

I think give up gambling is easy or not easy just depend on our thinking, if we do not want to give up, no one can make us give up but if we want to give up, nothing can stop us. Many people say that if we are addicted to gambling, we will not be able to control ourselves and give up gambling is a very difficult thing, even impossible, this is very silly, we have awareness in everything, we only need to think strongly that we must give up, our bodies will listen to our thoughts and actively stop gambling, if we feel the body does not listen to our thoughts, we should seek help from family and doctors, they will support us

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Quote from: majdoso on October 13, 2017, 08:31:18 AM

giving up on gambling is not easy for addicted people not for everyone. It is not hard to stop betting, all what we need is decision and power. The secret in gambling that makes us go back everytime is feeling that winning is easy specialy the odds are so tempting.

Yes I agree with you. For addicted people is to hard to giving up. They also need seriousness and pray.
Some people said they can rich in gambling. But my opinion, yes can, but maybe not much people can rich.

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This is a real issue. I have worked in the industry now for more than a decade. Nobody wants having a bet to destroy someones life. here is a gamblers anonymous link for the sake of it http://www.gamblersanonymous.org/ga/addresses

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Quote from: JasonXG on June 05, 2016, 11:19:58 AM

Hi guys and girls! After making quite a lot of money then losing it and crying about it half the afternoon I have decided to give up gambling for good. Its not for me in have a much too addictive personality. So now I just plan to work for casinos but not gamble.

The thing is you know you should cash out but you always want just that little bit more and then u lose the whole lot. I'm stupid and greedy. Right after I lost i put more in and doubled it then I went all in and lost it. So yes u can make a killing gambling with such a small about like a few dollars but then u lose all u make and waste a lot of time and energy and end up getting upset. Also i shake like mad when I gamble and I hate that. I tremble. When I lose I can't believe what the screen is telling me.

So any thoughts ? Ways to stop ? Ways to gamble with play money ? Maybe there are dust gambling casinoes I can use? U know just for fun and for the fix.

Well basically you know the answer, gambling is just for fun and games and never for profit. Maybe, what's wrong in gambling addiction, is that people tend to think that through gambling they can gain some money for.it. Yes you can, but the percentage is smaller than loosing money thats why its called gambling.

Better thing to think of gambling that it is purely for fun and entertainment. And what should be allotted money for gambling is expected to be an expense and money that can afford to loose.

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To give up in gambling is not easy, because once you are addicted you cant control yourself as well as your emotions. Because giving up a gambling is need a long time to focus on yourself how to stop. Just think of your goodness and focus on the other activities to avoid you to gamble, and this is the way to escape gambling. Once you already addicted its difficult you to remove in yourself. Just remember how bad it feels when lose in gambling.

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Quote from: brascopck on October 13, 2017, 01:28:42 AM

I'm a hardcore gambler and it's really really hard to giving up on gambling. All advice and tips are not effect in my life, the only I can do right now is everytime I receive money from my job, I always give it to my mother. So I can't spend my money anymore and its work till now.

Hardest thing is to admit to your family that you have gambling problem, to do what you did you need big balls and I am glad that it is working for you.
Just curious, for how long are you doing this?

If giving the money to your mother is working, I think it's best to do that all the time. Knowing that you could just use the money to gamble again. I agree with you that it is hard to admit to everybody that you have a problem. Like for me, I don't like to say that I have a problem because I don't want them to know that I'm weak.

just take a look to yourself , are you just well during this time?

if then you think you are not fine with current situation like too much debt to pay because your gambling habit or maybe you have no time to interact with other people , you should decide to leave back to normal life. asking for your family help can be the answer for sure.

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Quote from: greyhawk on June 05, 2016, 11:22:31 AM

Find a new hobby to replace gambling. Try working out, learning to code, video games or something like that. I wouldn't recommend gambling with play money, the best thing to do is do some new hobby whenever you feel the urge to gamble. Just keep it up and the urge will eventually go away.

If you're hooked in gambling it is really hard to quit. There are ways to quit gambling. First, you must avoid isolation. Try to keep yourself busy. Meet a friend for coffee. Distract yourself with another activities such as gym, watching movies and bonding with your family. Try to practice relaxation.

all of that is not good advice, as long as we always work in online to earning because we will continue side by side with gambling. the best way is that we can seek more money from the other way, so you will choose other ways than gamble.

but at least we are not in front of our computer in all day long, isn't it? we need to socialize to other people and build relationships again with our friends. and if we can try to meet at least our friends, then i think we can build new habit, having fun with our friends in many place, and even for just drink coffee in cafe. no matter what we are working, from online or offline, as long as we have a strong will to quit from gambling then i think we can do it.

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Quote from: Cling18 on October 13, 2017, 02:21:28 PM

Quote from: greyhawk on June 05, 2016, 11:22:31 AM

Find a new hobby to replace gambling. Try working out, learning to code, video games or something like that. I wouldn't recommend gambling with play money, the best thing to do is do some new hobby whenever you feel the urge to gamble. Just keep it up and the urge will eventually go away.

If you're hooked in gambling it is really hard to quit. There are ways to quit gambling. First, you must avoid isolation. Try to keep yourself busy. Meet a friend for coffee. Distract yourself with another activities such as gym, watching movies and bonding with your family. Try to practice relaxation.

all of that is not good advice, as long as we always work in online to earning because we will continue side by side with gambling. the best way is that we can seek more money from the other way, so you will choose other ways than gamble.

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Quote from: mharz on October 16, 2017, 05:06:21 AM

Quote from: crwth on October 16, 2017, 04:54:14 AM

Quote from: marlboroza on October 15, 2017, 06:18:46 AM

Quote from: brascopck on October 13, 2017, 01:28:42 AM

I'm a hardcore gambler and it's really really hard to giving up on gambling. All advice and tips are not effect in my life, the only I can do right now is everytime I receive money from my job, I always give it to my mother. So I can't spend my money anymore and its work till now.

Hardest thing is to admit to your family that you have gambling problem, to do what you did you need big balls and I am glad that it is working for you.
Just curious, for how long are you doing this?

If giving the money to your mother is working, I think it's best to do that all the time. Knowing that you could just use the money to gamble again. I agree with you that it is hard to admit to everybody that you have a problem. Like for me, I don't like to say that I have a problem because I don't want them to know that I'm weak.

That is not true, because it was easy to give up the gambling. Just always consider your family especially your kids future. If you want to quit in gambling so don't invest, I know you think that it easy for me to says that because I'm not totally addicted on gambling. But it's not true because I just needed counselling before I totally quit in gambling, My family get all my money to avoid joining in gambling then one day I see my self that I don't want to play gambling. I was thankful to my family because they can't give up to support me.

Maybe if you have been a casual gambler, that could be something that is easily stopped but if gambling has been a part of your life and it has become a habit for you, that's going to be hard. That's good that you have someone to support you through the hard times and you learned how to cope with life, that's going to be the best feeling knowing you have overcome something so hard to do.

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Quote from: crwth on October 16, 2017, 04:54:14 AM

Quote from: marlboroza on October 15, 2017, 06:18:46 AM

Quote from: brascopck on October 13, 2017, 01:28:42 AM

I'm a hardcore gambler and it's really really hard to giving up on gambling. All advice and tips are not effect in my life, the only I can do right now is everytime I receive money from my job, I always give it to my mother. So I can't spend my money anymore and its work till now.

Hardest thing is to admit to your family that you have gambling problem, to do what you did you need big balls and I am glad that it is working for you.
Just curious, for how long are you doing this?

If giving the money to your mother is working, I think it's best to do that all the time. Knowing that you could just use the money to gamble again. I agree with you that it is hard to admit to everybody that you have a problem. Like for me, I don't like to say that I have a problem because I don't want them to know that I'm weak.

That is not true, because it was easy to give up the gambling. Just always consider your family especially your kids future. If you want to quit in gambling so don't invest, I know you think that it easy for me to says that because I'm not totally addicted on gambling. But it's not true because I just needed counselling before I totally quit in gambling, My family get all my money to avoid joining in gambling then one day I see my self that I don't want to play gambling. I was thankful to my family because they can't give up to support me.

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Quote from: marlboroza on October 15, 2017, 06:18:46 AM

Quote from: brascopck on October 13, 2017, 01:28:42 AM

I'm a hardcore gambler and it's really really hard to giving up on gambling. All advice and tips are not effect in my life, the only I can do right now is everytime I receive money from my job, I always give it to my mother. So I can't spend my money anymore and its work till now.

Hardest thing is to admit to your family that you have gambling problem, to do what you did you need big balls and I am glad that it is working for you.
Just curious, for how long are you doing this?

If giving the money to your mother is working, I think it's best to do that all the time. Knowing that you could just use the money to gamble again. I agree with you that it is hard to admit to everybody that you have a problem. Like for me, I don't like to say that I have a problem because I don't want them to know that I'm weak.

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Quote from: thesosorr on October 13, 2017, 04:19:16 PM

The motivation of gamblers is to win alot money, and that's the main illness. because, greedy nature is humane and we never feel enough even until when the casino goes bankrupt because of winning we achieve inside.

It is also the instinct of man to survive and to have more for the future.

What makes it hard to give up is when to start changing and when to stop gambling. We are always attached to what we are doing, and we always feel that when we stop doing it, it might not have a good result and we always feel the regret, specially when you already experience winnings.

A help from the family is needed for you to cope up with your new world after detaching from gambling.

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Quote from: brascopck on October 13, 2017, 01:28:42 AM

I'm a hardcore gambler and it's really really hard to giving up on gambling. All advice and tips are not effect in my life, the only I can do right now is everytime I receive money from my job, I always give it to my mother. So I can't spend my money anymore and its work till now.

Hardest thing is to admit to your family that you have gambling problem, to do what you did you need big balls and I am glad that it is working for you.
Just curious, for how long are you doing this?

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