Topic: Have I done wrong by lifting him outside the betting shop? - page 2. (Read 955 times)

The gambler should understand the game properly,because the game should be end with the winning.This was the major reason for the gambler to play for the longer period of time.To restart the game,the gambler should need of more money.If they end the game with the winning, the gambler will have money for the next game.If they end the game with the loss,they won’t have any dollars for the future game.Also the mindset of the gambler will be change to the bad wibe.The gambler experience may help the gambler to make the sudden win with their experience,but the patience is the needed one in the game changing moment.

Imagine assuming u e OP did not follow his friend to the betshop, this is how he would continue gambling because he is winning and before you know it he will start losing and empty his bankroll before he will realized that he should have quitted the game earlier when he as winning.

OP, your friend will not appreciate what you did for him until another day that he will be alone gambling and the same thing will happen to him but you will not be there to save him, that is when he will be grateful to you on preventing him from gambling too much.

There's one answer that I know with this scenario. IT CAN GO BOTH WAYS
There's a chance that what you did was right, but there's also a chance that what you did was wrong. What if your friend is right that he could win more since he got the momentum already and winning that much money? What if you are right that your friend might lose his money after winning that much.

I mean this kind of scenario can go both ways because nobody knows what can happen into the future. It's good that you secured his winnings by lifting him outside of that betting shop, and because of that, I can say that you're a good friend. On the other hand, what you did could spark some problems along the way, and there's a chance that he might not go with you when he's gambling because when he's winning, you could spoil all of his possible winnings by putting him outside. The answer to all of your question is "Nobody knows exactly what can happen" because like I said, it can go both ways.

Did you do something wrong? I don't think so because you're just protecting your friend for possible losing all of his money, and if I'm on your shoes, I might do the same thing as well.

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.

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On our way going he started yelling at me that why did I lift him outside that he knows what he was doing, that he could had won more game and raised enough money for the day, maybe he could win huge amount.
But to me, the only thing I replied him is you are being greedy why would you allow greed to rollover you?

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.

He should be thankful to you as you got out from the gambling shop before he lost it all. We know that in the long run, the likelihood of losing is always greater than being a winner. So at that moment, he was in the positive side when you asked him to leave the shop. No one could tell if he will win more if he continued his games. For sure, if he lost all the money that he won, the tendency of playing more will always be there because he would want to chase his losses. Unless, he has no more money to fund his games. All in all, it was better for you to asked him leave the gambling premises while you were on the winning side. Most gamblers will go home broke because they usually continue their games up until they lost it all.

You are a good friend. You have been following what we have been discussing on the gambling discussion board on this forum.

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?

Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

That's the best thing you can do, besides that he already win. Imagine lossing those winnings plus your friend's capital will only give your friend more reason to gamble again and again to chase the loss. If your friend still complains for what you did until today or until you get together again, then there's really a problem to him. Without self-control people always ends up become broke.

Days ago with my friend, we stepped out to play
a local game (Epele or draft) when we got there people where playing...

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?

He will understand what you did later on because you know what it's like to lose a lot of money from gambling. He is tempted to think that he can make money out of gambling because he is on the run and winning, but there will be a point when he will run out of luck.

You did the right thing. He is becoming too greedy, and becoming too greedy will lead you to lose a lot. He will thank you later.

The most challenging thing in gambling is to stop when you are winning. We are tempted to push our luck when luck is something that happens, not something we have.

Whenever people gambles and they win they will always think that day is there best day to continue gambling without knowing that it is just a kind of trap lure the gambler dip into commission to gamble before he would start losing all that he has won previously, but a reasonable gambler is not meant to get carried with the constant winning instead after winning twice it's left for him to quit for that day and distance the gambling site before regrets follows.

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

Days ago with my friend, we stepped out to play
a local game (Epele or draft) when we got there people where playing and when it gets to his turn he start playing and win, then I played with him he also wins me then someone looked and say you can't come here to start pulling out people from the board therefore "I must win you", like a joke he won and my friend stepped down. Long story short..

Fast forward... Our way going, then i decided to go check on person in a local gambling shop, we both stepped inside together, he went straight to seat while I was discussing with the staff there. At some point he was pushed to gamble, though our intention is never to gamble just to see someone and continue going home, he then say see "guy let me try luck to see if I can double my money" he then decided to play virtual.

On the process he then pick 4 match and stake with 200, and then pick another 4 matches and stake with another 200 which is a total of 400, he lost one ticket and the other tickets wins he then stake with 200 again into two he won all. So he ended up winning 3 times he wanted to stake the 4th one, what I did was to lift him outside and draw him from gambling more.

On our way going he started yelling at me that why did I lift him outside that he knows what he was doing, that he could had won more game and raised enough money for the day, maybe he could win huge amount.
But to me, the only thing I replied him is you are being greedy why would you allow greed to rollover you?

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.

You are a good friend. You have been following what we have been discussing on the gambling discussion board on this forum.

That is one thing about betting, the gambler will be winning and it will be very interesting for him to continue playing.  It if he continued to play, likely he would have lost some money or lost all if he had the time to bet more.

You are right because when we lose, there will be a wanting to continue playing gambling and recover our losses. You do the right thing to stopped him from continuing gambling so he can see that you as his friend not letting him losses more. Gambling can tempt people easily so that is why we must know when we stop gambling and related to your friend, he must realizes that you reminds him from the other losses that he can get if he decide to continue gambling. He must realizes that gambling can tempting him and difficult to stops gambling. He still have the other days to playing gambling and not just that day so he can prevent the next losses.

He will understand what you did later on because you know what it's like to lose a lot of money from gambling. He is tempted to think that he can make money out of gambling because he is on the run and winning, but there will be a point when he will run out of luck.

I watching him carefully to see what he was going to do but when i noticed he was going to stake again it was then i stopped him and asked the cashier not to stake the bet again before lifting out of the casino hall. Although it may sound so crazy but it's worth doing because when the lose comes we would bear pains, that is why I don't really want to involved myself seeing him losing after winning 3 consecutive times. Gambling is tempting but the ability for us to understand when to gamble and when not to gamble makes us a responsible gambles but people don't usually take note of this, instead they gamble till their pockets get emptied.

You are not wrong in this case because have helped you friend to stay on the safe track when gambling, if you do not decide to ask him out and stop the prolonged betting, something bad could happen.
Maybe he thinks to be able to make more wins and collect some money if he still has luck, but if not, it can also result in big loss and spend everything he has earned.
Moreover, if something bad really happens and loses all the money, it can trigger an emotional increase that can lead him to go further by using other additional money to bet again, in conditions like this it will be difficult for him to stop.
In this context, I quite salute you who still care about other people or it is you own friend.

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.