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Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?
You did not do anything wrong in pulling him outside the gambling shop perhaps, if he has lost, you may extend his grieves towards you particularly that he stepped into the bet shop after you.

Maybe I should tell you to be careful otherwise when you want to take such friend out of such gambling situation because you can imagine if he was loosing, definitely he would be aggressive and dangerous at that moment because he has been under pressure or greeds or trying to recover his lost.

However, friends that watches each others back would always appreciate each other at all.
I watching him carefully to see what he was going to do but when i noticed he was going to stake again it was then i stopped him and asked the cashier not to stake the bet again before lifting out of the casino hall. Although it may sound so crazy but it's worth doing because when the lose comes we would bear pains, that is why I don't really want to involved myself seeing him losing after winning 3 consecutive times. Gambling is tempting but the ability for us to understand when to gamble and when not to gamble makes us a responsible gambles but people don't usually take note of this, instead they gamble till their pockets get emptied.
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Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
I think you did the right thing, but your friend will find it hard to accept it and he will accept it when he plays again and it turns out he loses.

Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Once again, like many discussions, what happened to your friend was just a coincidence, a coincidence at the beginning of his gambling he was able to win which made him continue to think that he would be able to continue winning his gambling sessions if he continued, but in fact play longer the chances of losing everything were very possible.

Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?
Anything can happen because your friend becomes curious which will make him play again but he can also stop because he feels sorry for losing money.
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Winning is the best feeling in the world. But it can can be misleading, particularly in gambling. A siren melody lures you in with promises of more. Soon, you're too deep.

You saw your friend win and sought to defend him, like a true friend. Maybe it was abrupt, maybe he didnt appreciate it, but you were looking out for him. Thats true friendship Here's the true lesson: gambling is chance. Big wins and losses are possible. More wins make you feel invincible. That thinking is risky.

So chat to your pal. Justify your actions. Show him you care. Maybe he'll realize that sometimes the best way to win is to go. True friends tell you the truth, even when its painful. A friendship is worth more than a lottery.
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I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.

Depends on whether you have forced him against his will or convinced him. I would not uphold the decision on forcing your friend  from gambling shop as it may result in the opposite effect and force him to turn back after you close eyes. But, if you convinced him by making out a case in favour of potential harm to his pockets/health/enything-else which could  resul from  his   stay there then you was of service to your friend.
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You are a good friend. You have been following what we have been discussing on the gambling discussion board on this forum.

That is one thing about betting, the gambler will be winning and it will be very interesting for him to continue playing.  It if he continued to play, likely he would have lost some money or lost all if he had the time to bet more.
Most times we win, lose and we win again that is gambling for you and what makes you the final winner, is your ability to stop gambling win you already won your bet, that way you walk away with your winnings, but the memment that you continue to gamble when when you believe you can win more, at that poinyon ward you start losing a rapid level.

For the ops to ha e been able to pull his friend off when he already win indeed is a good act to safe the winning instead of continuing to play and ending up with loses as final occurrence.
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He will understand what you did later on because you know what it's like to lose a lot of money from gambling. He is tempted to think that he can make money out of gambling because he is on the run and winning, but there will be a point when he will run out of luck.

You did the right thing. He is becoming too greedy, and becoming too greedy will lead you to lose a lot. He will thank you later.

The most challenging thing in gambling is to stop when you are winning. We are tempted to push our luck when luck is something that happens, not something we have.
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Maybelline he would not appreciate your thoughtfulness to stop him from gambling further now, but he'll definitely admit that you did him a huge favour the next time he goes to that same place alone.
Real friends will prefer you to hate them rather than see you dig your own grave. That is a real friend and he might be too emotional now to see how lucky he’s gotten for having a friend like that but he will look back and be very thankful forever.

I am sure it is also a relief for a friend to save their loved one from a possible loss.
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I don't know how your friend feels but to me, you're acting a very good and caring friend and should be commended for your action. There are friends who would've allowed him continue gambling until he loses all he had initially won. Maybelline he would not appreciate your thoughtfulness to stop him from gambling further now, but he'll definitely admit that you did him a huge favour the next time he goes to that same place alone. I just want you to know that what you did is exactly what I'll do to my own friend in other to save him from regretting.
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Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?

No, you did not do anything wrong but what you did was not yet necessary. I mean you did the right thing at the wrong time. From your narration, he won three slips out of four that he played which is a sign of luck. Since he was using the money won to play, you should have given him some chance to see what will happen next before you interfere.

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Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?

Nobody can answer this accurately. There's 50/50 chance of losing and winning here. In most cases, a win is highly predicted since he's not chasing his losses. Although banking on luck rides in cases like that also result to lose sometime.

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Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

This is where you were supposed to come in for your friend. Suppose he continue playing and lose all the money won but still wants to keep playing, you have no any option than to push him away from the gambling center. I doubt this happening thou since he admitted that he knew what he was doing at the center on your way going home.
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Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
No you are not wrong by lifting him from the gambling hall, because that is what a wise friend will do. But apart from lifting him probably you would have approached him in a more reasonable manner. Lifting him up sounds like childrens play.

Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
It all depends, since gambling is a game of luck who knows maybe he could have win or likewisly lose. It is not certain but it is under probablity.

Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?
It's a personal decision and not mine to predict. If he is a gambling addict, he will continue. But if he is not then he will stop.
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What you did I call it a double edged sword no matter that many people will say well done to you.May be I will say well done too if your friend would have continued and lost but if your friend had continued and may be hit a really huge win and placed a ticket with so many events maybe,then there is nothing to say well done here,you maybe have removed his chance to win big,to make a change and impact in his life.I know that most likely addiction would come after that huge win but that is another story and we are discussing the behavior in here,while many will claim you did well I simply don't know if you did well or not as we don't know what would have happened if you let your friend play.

You're right and I completely agree. It's impossible to do well in this situation. It's one of those impossible choices, like whether you tell your loved ones that you have a deadly disease, or not. If you tell them, you will be honest with them but they will worry, if you don't they'll surely ask why you kept it a secret for so long and feel like you did not trust them.
I'd try to persuade him to leave, but if that failed, I'd let him make his life choices.
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What you did I call it a double edged sword no matter that many people will say well done to you.May be I will say well done too if your friend would have continued and lost but if your friend had continued and may be hit a really huge win and placed a ticket with so many events maybe,then there is nothing to say well done here,you maybe have removed his chance to win big,to make a change and impact in his life.I know that most likely addiction would come after that huge win but that is another story and we are discussing the behavior in here,while many will claim you did well I simply don't know if you did well or not as we don't know what would have happened if you let your friend play.
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Nobody knows if he could have won more games or maybe he was in his winning streak.
His friend might think he could win more if he continued gambling, but yes, there is no guarantee about it, and what OP did was just save his friend from getting addicted and losing more.

Many gamblers can't afford to stop gambling when they win; most of them double or triple their bet, believing that they could win more. Greed always comes next, and this kind of gambler never thinks the worst thing awaits them. 

Putting a shoe on OP, I don't argue with him but rather let it go. Greediness is hard to stop, and people are willing to argue, thinking that they are right. They only realize their wrongdoings and remember the help of other people when they suffer major losses. 
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I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.
There are two things that you mentioned to us: one is that his luck was good and he wins all the time, and the second thing is that you noticed a greedy nature in him, which may cause him to lose all his winnings. In this case, I think you did the right thing by getting him up from the table because he did not know about himself and was deeply engrossed in betting. His emotions (that is, greed) started to rise and took control of him. If you were not at that place, he might have left the shop only after losing everything.

You are a good friend, and we all need friends who always look out for us and do their best to stop us from things that ruin our lives. Remember that winning does not always mean you won't lose; you may lose all your winnings in one huge bet. Before this happens, listen to your friend and be happy with the amount you won for that day. Greed is a nature that only stops when you lose all your assets.
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I replied him is you are being greedy why would you allow greed to rollover you?
Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

You know that greedy is the factor here, I mean this emotion can be happen on every person on earth including my self and base on the story your friend yell at you because he thinks he gonna win more.
You can freely leave your friend so if he losses maybe he's gonna feel sorry to you but if he win he gonna hate you
But If Im in your position Im gonna leave him but still watching from the outside

Have I done wrong by lifting him outside the betting shop? It could be yes and no In my opinion
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Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?
You did not do anything wrong in pulling him outside the gambling shop perhaps, if he has lost, you may extend his grieves towards you particularly that he stepped into the bet shop after you.

Maybe I should tell you to be careful otherwise when you want to take such friend out of such gambling situation because you can imagine if he was loosing, definitely he would be aggressive and dangerous at that moment because he has been under pressure or greeds or trying to recover his lost.

However, friends that watches each others back would always appreciate each other at all.
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Days ago with my friend, we stepped out to play
a local game (Epele or draft) when we got there people where playing and when it gets to his turn he start playing and win, then I played with him he also wins me then someone looked and say you can't come here to start pulling out people from the board therefore "I must win you", like a joke he won and my friend stepped down. Long story short..

Fast forward... Our way going, then i decided to go check on person in a local gambling shop, we both stepped inside together, he went straight to seat while I was discussing with the staff there. At some point he was pushed to gamble, though our intention is never to gamble just to see someone and continue going home, he then say see "guy let me try luck to see if I can double my money" he then decided to play virtual.

On the process he then pick 4 match and stake with 200, and then pick another 4 matches and stake with another 200 which is a total of 400, he lost one ticket and the other tickets wins he then stake with 200 again into two he won all. So he ended up winning 3 times he wanted to stake the 4th one, what I did was to lift him outside and draw him from gambling more.

On our way going he started yelling at me that why did I lift him outside that he knows what he was doing, that he could had won more game and raised enough money for the day, maybe he could win huge amount.
But to me, the only thing I replied him is you are being greedy why would you allow greed to rollover you?

Now I want to asked; Have I done wrong to have lift him from the gambling shop?
Also did you think he would win more if he had continued gambling?
Again, if he lose all the money won do you think he would continue or stop?

I just wanted to know, maybe we can discussed to have fun while imputing your response.

Upgrading your friend from the casino may be viewed as protection from the negative consequences of excessive gambling. Due to its unpredictability and high-risk nature, it can't be proven that continuation would bring greater success; the old winner might well lose. If he had not stopped right there, he could have either won more or lost all of it, as gambling is usually after one has suffered a loss. Your friend's actions probably demonstrate the mentality of a regular player where immediate setbacks are looked upon as being transitory rather than cause to quit. It is generally advisable to cut your losses and withdraw while you are ahead, and thus your help in this case may be viewed as an intervention to save her from further losses.
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It's a dilemma, I don't want to blame you, cz you're all an adult, and your friend know it.
however, people's responses must be like this:
"Because of you, he knows that place, you invited him, right?"

The fact remains if you invite him to that place. But basically, it will depend on the person, whether he will really join in and get addicted, or not. Because in society, often, the environment introduces gambling, and their circle in that friendship environment influences each other to gamble.

But actually what you did was right, preventing him from playing again and losing more money. Just let him get angry, but at least his interactions with you have been prevented. the worry is that he will leave secretly without you and carry out gambling that doesn't stop.
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Although your friend failed to recognize the good you did for him by taking him out of the casino, what you did wasn't wrong in any way, you were right in almost all you except if you were violent at some point then it will be considered a problem because that can cause some rift between you both.

Those games can be very addictive and the gambler may not realize that on time until after they must have lost a whole lot then they will start having regrets about what they have done and wished they would have done better, he's thinking he would have won some more if you had allowed him until you had allowed him and then see him loosing some more then you would have been the good friend and probably he would have learnt his lessons already.
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Someone once told me never to interrupt an angry gambler. You'll never gain anything from it and he'll be angry at you for denying him a win, or not allowing him to earn back what he'd lost.
It reminds me of a story a friend once told me about helping a drunk guy. He saw a man lying on the side of the road at night and there was nobody around to help him, so he pulled him up and sat him on a nearby bench. The drunkard woke up, reached for his pocket and asked: where's my wallet? I had a wallet and you took it from me you thief! In a nutshell this is the thanks you get for trying to help an addict.

The gambler who was short temper in nature was the angry gambler.This was the inbuilt one,they not become the angry gambler because of the gambling loss.This was the another case,the gambler who had loss huge money became the angry gambler.Most of the time,you can’t convey the good things to the angry gambler.Because their opinion will be different for the gambling as compared to the other gamblers.Because they thought the gamblers who use the huge money in the gambling site will be lost.But this was the hypothetical one,the loss in the gambling due to the random betting and the unlucky game of the gamblers.
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