He Committed Suicide After Losing School fees, And That Of Friend To Betting.. - page 19.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

Another future father, a future millionaire maybe, young 22 year old boy with a promising future lost to suicide after losing his school fees, and that of his friend to sport betting due to gambling addiction..

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

When I read something like this, my heart breaks. It is never easy to lose a wager, but I don't believe that choosing suicide is the best course of action. The youngster may feel that his father will be disappointed in him for having to make a decision like this to gamble with his school expenses. When things go wrong in life, I hope that this will deter others from taking their own lives. I also hope that it will deter them from being too afraid of what other people will think because this has a ripple effect on society. Man up to whatever happens is still the best decision.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

Well it puts an end to his problem, and not to sound cold or anything, but the dead don't particularly give a damn about the living. Dumb decision-making results in dumb results sadly enough. While I do pity the family, I don't think I have any for the kid himself. The result was caused by his own greed, not even hesitating in trying to include his friend in the case. He couldn't, or rather didn't dare face the consequences of his own actions.

While I think 22 is still young, it's at that age when you start thinking for yourself, and responsibilities and whatnot should slowly be placed on your shoulders, or at least, the significance of it. And considering all things, with how his parents seem to be quite kind, I doubt a scolding from them would be the end of the world, but hey, as I said, he's 22, pretty young.

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It is heart breaking to learn that due to gambling addiction, a young person had forfeited his life. It is a small amount of money compared to the possible future the guy could have if he had realized that his parents can be able to replace the lost money. What happens, happen, though many might blame the gambling industry for what happened but I believe it wasn't the gambling platforms fault. It is the weakness of the person that drives him to kill himself.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

Another future father, a future millionaire maybe, young 22 year old boy with a promising future lost to suicide after losing his school fees, and that of his friend to sport betting due to gambling addiction..

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

Don't you think this might be the reason our parents and life partner get angry on us when they find out about our gambling habit.
Gambling has taken many lives and just think if you had a child who lost his life just because he lost his school fees in gambling, what would you do ?
Everyone will blame the parent because its them who had to keep an eye on their child and his habits.
It's sad to see people losing their lives because of gambling especially the young ones.

It is obvious that our parents are worried about us getting addicted and ruining our lives due to the uncontrollable urge to gamble. They are worried that we might not be able to control ourselves and fall to the abyss of gambling addiction, so they try their best to remind us even getting angry just to emphasize that they are serious about what they are advising us.

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Quote from: pawanjain on June 03, 2023, 09:37:20 AM

Everyone will blame the parent because its them who had to keep an eye on their child and his habits.
It's sad to see people losing their lives because of gambling especially the young ones.

In this case, I won't blame the parents because the victim is already at the legal age. He is also an heir to his parent's status which probably makes this victim grow like this that is too careless about money. You can't watch your children 24/7, especially when they are of legal age because they are already liberated for their own life.

The only problem here is maybe the parents don't teach their child to become open to them for their problems that's why this child decided to bury the problem with him. This story is very frustrating knowing that we will be parents or parents already. We should teach our children to become open with us so that this kind of incident will be avoided.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

Another future father, a future millionaire maybe, young 22 year old boy with a promising future lost to suicide after losing his school fees, and that of his friend to sport betting due to gambling addiction..

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

Don't you think this might be the reason our parents and life partner get angry on us when they find out about our gambling habit.
Gambling has taken many lives and just think if you had a child who lost his life just because he lost his school fees in gambling, what would you do ?
Everyone will blame the parent because its them who had to keep an eye on their child and his habits.
It's sad to see people losing their lives because of gambling especially the young ones.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

Another future father, a future millionaire maybe, young 22 year old boy with a promising future lost to suicide after losing his school fees, and that of his friend to sport betting due to gambling addiction..

We are in the 21st century, until when before people realize that suicide does not put an end to problem, but rather create more for those living??

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

Sad to hear this. This kid very likely felt ashamed and trapped, like there was no way out. I can only imagine how he felt thinking about facing his family and the friend he borrowed the money from. Probably was thinking the worst case scenarios that lead him to do something like this. Everyone should be gambling very responsibly. Not everyone is financially stable and is able to recover from gambling loss. For some, the pressure and fear of disappointing the closed ones can feel unbearable. But still, you should remember that they are your loved ones and they will always eventually forgive you. Talking is the key here.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

It's really a shame, this is really one of those sad stories that really tell the dark side of sports betting and gambling in general, I could not help it, but had tears rolling down my cheek while reading this story..

We often read and see difficult suicide cases, maybe some of the members here have seen their friends lose at gambling bets ending their lives by drinking poison, hanging himself or other means, that's why here we are always reminded of the dangers of gambling using other people's money, loans, stealing and so on.

In the case that happened to Samuel Adegoke, it was pure greed and carelessness of his own, without his friend's knowledge he had dared to take his friend's money to bet on gambling, that's a bad thing that Samuel Adegoke shouldn't have done, he betrayed his own good friend, anyone would be angry because the money saved for school fees was taken by a bedmate, this is really bad, because of gambling addiction, so that Samuel became dark eyes.

This topic is one that inspires you about don't betray a friend who has become your own brother, because of gambling.

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I believe that this guy got addicted to gambling because if you are good enough, you will not use your school fees or any needs money on gambling.
I'm really sad for this boy. I think before this tragedy happened, he could've consulted some people like friends or much better professional because for sure they can help this boy to avoid it.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

From reading the story, I realise more the need to not trust anyone with your personal details like your bank pin especially when you as a friend or family member of that person has already noticed the character of addictive gambling. I have a friend who gambles so much, whenever he is in need and decides to ask for a Loan claiming to be in bad position, I do not like to give him because I know that he is an addict to gambling and can do almost anything just to get money to gamble with. If you have a friend who gambles, be careful of any financial transactions or interactions you make and have.

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Hearing about someone committing suicide after losing their school fees to gambling makes me feel really bad Huh

It's truly heartbreaking. If that person had received the necessary support and encouragement from people who could help him overcome his addiction or provide moral support, they might not have resorted to such a tragic decision and he would have been safe by now. Even if your addiction overwhelms you and you lose all your money, there's no need to end your life. Instead, try to slowly address and resolve the problem. I believe that no problem in life should drive you to take your own life. Every problem has a solution and it's important to maintain a positive mindset rather than succumbing to negativity.

To anyone struggling with a gambling addiction, I sincerely hope that you will overcome this challenge and your life will improve.

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Quote from: Doell on June 03, 2023, 07:49:09 AM

Quote from: hyudien on June 03, 2023, 04:25:33 AM

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

I know that this is very painful, but there is nothing we can do other than advise ourselves and those closest to us so that we can always avoid gambling addiction in any way and at least be able to educate them more about how dangerous the effects of addiction are. People whose thoughts are deadlocked with hope and feel that everything is finished, that is where our role is, if indeed there is someone closest to experiencing a problem like this, we must be able to become advisors. So in gambling, everyone returns to themselves, they must be able to emphasize the mentality that gambling is just a game, nothing more than that.

I agree, we have to advise ourselves and also those closest to us, if we are addicted then it is really difficult to cure. Lucky me to be here, maybe even we are lucky to be here. Because in this forum we learn many things about gambling, and understand many things about life in gambling, not a few of us become responsible gamblers from here. Yes Sir gambling is just a game also gambling is not to get rich, very sad to read it and hopefully the family left behind can get through their sadness.

These stories should be told to all the addictive gamblers so that they can learn lesson from this that limitless gambling can lead you to these extreme situations. When you destroy all your money on such thing just for fun or fantasy to become rich you end up becoming depressed and broke .
Think twice before doing anything like that.

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Quote from: hyudien on June 03, 2023, 04:25:33 AM

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

I know that this is very painful, but there is nothing we can do other than advise ourselves and those closest to us so that we can always avoid gambling addiction in any way and at least be able to educate them more about how dangerous the effects of addiction are. People whose thoughts are deadlocked with hope and feel that everything is finished, that is where our role is, if indeed there is someone closest to experiencing a problem like this, we must be able to become advisors. So in gambling, everyone returns to themselves, they must be able to emphasize the mentality that gambling is just a game, nothing more than that.

I agree, we have to advise ourselves and also those closest to us, if we are addicted then it is really difficult to cure. Lucky me to be here, maybe even we are lucky to be here. Because in this forum we learn many things about gambling, and understand many things about life in gambling, not a few of us become responsible gamblers from here. Yes Sir gambling is just a game also gambling is not to get rich, very sad to read it and hopefully the family left behind can get through their sadness.

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It's a sad story. He was probably scared of what wil happen to him as a consequences of his action. Aside from losing money from betting, he also took and used his friend's money. He's still young and he can still change to have a better life but decided to take his own life. It's sad... Condolence to the family.

Gambling addiction can really make people to do things you wouldn't expect. The greediness to get back what you've lost won't do good and will only make you suffer, the more you will try to chase your losses. I hope we can learn something from this story.

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Sorry for the losses of the family but what ended here is not only a life but also a career to be in place for the better future . this man can be a next president if we don't know him better .
Maybe this is another story to tell for many gamblers that cannot hold their eagerness to gamble.

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after reading such a long story I can conclude that self-control not to expect too much from gambling and have a positive mindset that gambling is only a place for fun. that's very important.
In this case, we can take lessons to avoid gambling from people around us who are young or underage who don't have good emotional control which causes addiction like that story. even though he was a quiet person, this quiet person has a high emotional level.

but with this sad story it can be a lesson for all of us to avoid pushing too hard on bets without using money that we can afford to lose.

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Quote from: electronicash on June 03, 2023, 05:19:22 AM

if you read thru the article, he did gamble his friend's money and lost. certainly this is gambling addiction. sad to see fellow sports gambler can decide to end his life all because he lost money of someone.

i think he is afraid of his father knowing what he'd done. so he ended his life.

The article says "school fees" not his friend's money.

And if you go through the article you'll see that it was close to his exams and he wagered is school fee and lost the bet that could have resulted into a panic that made him to end his life. In a situation like this he could have just opened up to his parents and the worst that could have happened was him getting shouted at his parents won't have killed him or send him away because of money they would have grounded him and make him go through some punishment or perhaps enrolled him in a job during his holidays to work the money he lost to betting, that would have been a better solution than ending his own life.

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This is the worse kind of news that we don't want to hear or read when it comes to addiction, there's always hope and
salvation from gambling addiction, but the guy chooses the worse way to end his agony and addiction.

This is one of the reasons why we should be there for our friends if we notice strange things especially if our friend or family is a quiet type or introvert, they should be enlightened that there is always hope and offer their help so they can get out of that addiction.

Introverts seldom share their feelings and they are very quiet about it, so always check a hint or make him open up especially if the introvert is involved in gambling.

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Quote from: robelneo on June 03, 2023, 06:29:44 AM

Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

He cannot take the guilt of betraying his friends and losing money for his school fees, there are people who are quiet and kept all the guilt to themselves, this is very risky behavior, people who commit suicide are people who kept things all to themselves, they do now want to talk to anyone about their issues until the guilt becomes unbearable and they decide to take their life into their hands.

The lesson here is that families and friends should check what kind of character one of their family or friend has, what they are doing, and see if they are depressed and always wants to be alone.

Gambling, depression, and guilt are just some of the causes of suicides so always check with your friends if they are into gambling and what character they are displaying.

And yet people think the quite guys are the one who knows more of things and some kind of mysterious to girls. This one seem very misunderstood because the whole time, he is addicted to gambling.

Feel sorry for him. Didn't wait what could happen after father finds out. If he didn't ended his life he could have learned more and probably get passed and live a hopeful life ahead.

Yep the addiction must have carried a depression along with it. But what triggers to kill himself is the friend calling his parents.

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Quote from: ultrloa on June 03, 2023, 05:23:15 AM

This shows that excessive or being a hardcore gambler cannot result to any positive to anyone. And lets think more upon using our money since if we allocate it for other important matters we should not use this since for sure we will encounter big stress that we can't even handle. Much better if we take all easy and gamble for fun since this will take us away on thoughts that to gamble more because we know our priorities.

Yes, that's right, when we have money for other important things, then we should never touch that money for anything, especially for gambling. There are many stories about this, in my country, recently there was also the suicide of a high-ranking goods delivery service company, allegedly he decided to commit suicide because he lost a lot of money due to gambling addiction and also one that made him decide to commit suicide because he get into a lot of debt because of gambling.
And that's not the only story about someone's ruin because of gambling addiction, around my house there is also someone I know and even before he became someone who was successful in his business. But the same thing happened, where he was addicted to gambling, and resulted in his business going bankrupt. Now no one knows about his whereabouts, and what's worse is that he left a lot of debt. Now his parents must be responsible for what he did.

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Quote from: Fivestar4everMVP on June 03, 2023, 03:30:31 AM

This is really a sad story though, ya all can read it on https://punchng.com/how-ogun-student-committed-suicide-after-losing-school-fees-to-sports-betting/?utm_source=telegram&utm_medium=social

I hope we all as gamblers learn a thing or two from this, and go back and look at our gambling life and see if there is a thing or two that needs to be adjusted..
I pray non of us, and any of our relative shall ever be a victim of such a sad story 😢😢.

He cannot take the guilt of betraying his friends and losing money for his school fees, there are people who are quiet and kept all the guilt to themselves, this is very risky behavior, people who commit suicide are people who kept things all to themselves, they do now want to talk to anyone about their issues until the guilt becomes unbearable and they decide to take their life into their hands.

The lesson here is that families and friends should check what kind of character one of their family or friend has, what they are doing, and see if they are depressed and always wants to be alone.

Gambling, depression, and guilt are just some of the causes of suicides so always check with your friends if they are into gambling and what character they are displaying.

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