Topic: If we lose in gambling, what do we need to do? - page 3. (Read 4225 times)

We will only use more money if we don't have any rules or set limitation because gambling can tempts us easily and makes us gets deeper in gambling. We can't stops ourselves from playing gambling because we gets fun while playing gambling and that's makes us difficult to stops from playing gambling. If you lose in gambling, you will not stops playing gambling instead keeps playing gambling and the enjoyment that you gets before replace with the wanting to wins some money.

Even if you already wins, you will still difficult to stops yourself from playing gambling. That's because you thinks that you can wins more money but the truth is you will still difficult to wins even for small money. You must realizes that you should stops from playing gambling if you lose before your minds telling you to keeps playing gambling. That will cause you lose more and more money because there's no guarantee you can wins in the next rounds.

Good point, if you don't have any rules or any set limitation and you just go and play without anything behind, eventually you will lose a lot and you'll find yourself getting addicted, it's important to have that limitation and know when to stop. Most of the time experienced gamblers do enjoy their stay as they fully understand the risk, they developed that skills where they know when to stop from both side, either they win or they lose there's a certain point where they will execute that hard stop and leave the house.

Yes it is a good idea to make it a solution but the fact of the matter is that it is really hard to let go of everything that has been lost, most of them really find it hard to accept the situation of losing that they have experienced, and I would say that the inability to accept the fact of losing will most likely only exist in a gambler who comes with the intention of “multiplying” his money so when things do not go his way especially when they lose at the end of the session then it will be really hard to control themselves and as usual that most likely chasing losses is the first action they will take.

There is no relaxing situation when someone who carries the intention of earning instead suffers a loss at the end of the session, and I'm sure the idea of “trying once more” is one that will take priority in the mind of the typical gambler who always tries to earn in gambling when they suffer a loss. “Not to continue gambling” is nothing more than an idea, because saying is always much easier than practicing, so in my opinion the only way to get rid of the feeling of upset when losing in gambling is to stop gambling completely because even if for example you can now control yourself by stopping in that situation but it does not mean that the next time you will succeed again to control yourself.

That sounds nice in theory, but in practice, you are there, almost losing it all, but just about to win it all....

Also there are nice looking girls serving you free drinks and food. It's a pretty good deal if you are just spending a bit of money on the side I reckon....

Every gambler should have a set rule which they abide by as they gamble, according to there risk tolerance level. I believe if any gambler have rules, they will know when to stop, continue or rest from gambling because limits are set with discipline, when this is not the case, such gambler will develop a bad, unhealthy gambling habits which does not always lead to happy ending.

If any gambler keep gambling after incurring a loss probably he has not exhausted his cash for that day, still see an opportunity within his rules, but any gambler aside this context is wrong and yield no good.

I agree with you on this, because if you don’t stop and lose in rage and without stopping, looking back, you can lose more than your entire deposit, but also get into huge debts. The player is unsettled by loss after loss and he does not feel support under his feet. It seems to him that the main thing in this moment is to win back at any cost. This is how I got my biggest loss that I have ever had, but whoever did not fall to the very bottom did not rise, it sounds like a phrase from boxing, but in gambling the same way, only in a psychological state. In short, stopping is important, you can take a hot bath or go to the sauna and take a contrast shower, this is the best way to reboot me. In addition, time also helps, after we have told ourselves the word stop, we must try to do other things to distract ourselves. I think they haven’t come up with anything better yet.

After every losses, the first thing we need to do is to make sure we leave betting and enjoy ourselves.
We need relax after very losses or consecutive losses so we don't pursue our loss because such attempt cam have a big consequence upon us and we need to take care of ourselves, taking a vacation and moving around so we can forget about the loss. There are many things we can always do when we lose bets and we should not try to gamble more because this would increase our losses if care is not taken. It is better we take a rest so we don't end up losing more in the market for nothing.

Gambling should really be that for fun and if you are someone whose really that accepting on what are the possible things that you might be able to encounter in gambling then you wont really be that making yourself that getting shocked on the moment that you would really be experiencing some loses on which its really that a common thing. This is why it would really be always important that you should really be wary on the things that you are involving with. If you do expect something about losing then you wont be that impulsive unlike on most people who do expect that they could win up 100%. On the moment that they will really be experiencing the different stuff then this is where they would really be having those kind of reactions and do spend even more money because they are hoping for some recovery.

This is why it would really be that important that you should be having that kind of realization at the moment that you do gamble. Expect those things and easily move on.
On the moment that you've seen that you are spending too much then this is the time that you should be stopping or having a break.

Whenever we are gambling and we experience loss, we should try to analyze the situation and know the cause of that, this will help us in preventing any future reoccurrence of the same thing that have happened, doing this will also helped towards having a continuous gambling experience as we have desired to always see, each bet made comes with it's own experience and what we have learn from it.

If we lose in gambling the best thing to do is to move on, if it to retry you can but don't have the mindset of chasing loss, if not you will keep losing, gambling is not a sure banker thats why all hope should not be relied on it, a good gambler understands that gambling is an activity that involves either lose or win, such mindset has kept many gamblere going, losing is inevitable in gambling no matter the safety measures applied by a gambler, any gamble thats are bound to fail will fail, there shouldn't be any form of confidence in gambling, gambling is tricky and every gambler should acknowledge such fact at all time to avoid being received by instinct.

Gambling is not bad it is a way to keep yourself happy.  However, after losing gambling, many people re-invest money in gambling to recover their previous losses and panic even more when they lose again, which causes them to suffer further losses.  For this reason, when the budget is exhausted after losing in gambling, one should stop gambling and give up the hope of getting that money back, then gamble again with a long gap and place the amount of bet that is easy to accept the loss.

It should be clear with every bet you place and gambling session you enter, whether you are doing the right thing. If you are solely doing it for a bit of casual fun, as all gambling should be really (excluding professionals in things like poker), then you must understand that you are ultimately destined to lose all your money over the long run. Each game is engineered to take a small shred of your funds and give it over to the casino. They might tease and tantalize you, because they want the illusion of winning to stay fresh in your mind, but ultimately they will clear you out. So understanding that losing is the default and winning is unlikely ever to make you rich, is the foundation of the game you are playing.

Everything is your personal life because if you have money you can bet on gambling there even if we interfere you don't want to accept it. And whenever you lose, you bet again to get back the lost money. And when you win repeatedly you will bet on your dream of getting richer. In my opinion, if you don't have a job or business tjen stop gambling. Gambling requires money to bet so if you have a source of income then you can gamble as much as you want.

That is the reason why gambling excessively is always not recommended and can never be justified, because this idea will ultimately only lead us to more significant losses in the long run. The reason I think is clear is that luck is something that we cannot always get, or what we mean by luck is something that does not always come according to our wishes, and this is why in gambling you can win but you can also lose.

But unfortunately the fact is that there are always some gamblers who always feel confident that they will be able to win in the next trial, and this feeling arises because they don't know the real fact that victory will only come when they are lucky or when luck comes at the right time. while everyone will never know when luck will come, so this is the reason why placing faith or hope in gambling is really an unreasonable mindset and idea. Because in the end, as you said, they will most likely lead themselves to addiction.

Sometimes we as people who play in a casino have many things clear, first we have to see that in a casino game whatever it is you have to accept the results, consider that casinos have their house advantage and that it is just a game, if you lose the best you can do is assume that loss and if you win however little it is and if you can withdraw that money you have to do it, that is the easiest way to see this, and that each game session is in the past, if I play today and I win or lose I assume it, and I forget about the previous action and play, it is like restarting so that previous events do not affect us in the play that is coming to us.

It's just math in the end. Probabilities.

Odds are against you, so only in the rare case where you have more money than when you started gambling, you should stop, because that is rare and will most likely correct itself the more you play.

Long term gambling is a sure way to lose all your betting money.

This phrase alone is enough... I guess.

Anyway, having self control when we are gambling is very easy to say, but the reality is, it's very hard to apply to ourselves. I still remember the time when I gambled, and I doubled my money already. I decided to withdraw my initial capital and decided to gamble using my profits. I lost those profits, and since I can't control myself and I want to recover those losses, I deposited my initial capital, and in the end, I also lost that money. This is the reason why I learn when to stop if needed especially when we are losing money. Recovering your losses might lead you to more losses. Borrowing money to recover your losses is even worse.

If you lose your money, learn to move on and move forward. That's the best thing to do.

I have experienced this on this matter. When betting favors you win the bets you place and when fortune works against you you lose everything. I think this kind of situation doesn't happen only to me. Not every day is the same for those who gamble. If gamblers can take a break after making some guesses about their situation in advance, their chances of losing can be greatly reduced. But some gamblers' antics prompt them to keep betting until their entire bankroll is depleted. A gambler should avoid becoming addicted to gambling. And when a gambler cannot take a break from gambling then he is definitely addicted. Taking a break may lead the gambler to make the right decisions but continuous gambling will lead him to certain losses.

There are days when one's prediction in gambling works so well and they hardly lose in the bets while some days they find it so difficult to win any bet. I think in gambling we should try to know when things don't go out so well for us and quit gambling immediately at least for that day. Because if we continue, we would end up losing all our money in the bet. I have noticed this kind of things when i gamble. Some days i don't really speculate much i just do some picks and stake a bet and luckily i win some money. Since i have come to understand this instances, anyway i place a bet and maybe i lot for three consecutive times serially. I won't continue for that day, it's better to call it a day and il try another day when there is a good omen.

This should have been their provision from the start before playing gambling, make sure that we can control ourselves from emotions and other feelings of disappointment, gamblers are rarely aware of the risks they take in gambling, they should also know about this apart from the profits. They must be prepared for all the risks, namely defeat and failure. When they experience defeat, they should be able to calm down, that's why as a gambler, you should use money that is ready to be lost so as not to make us feel emotional and curious.

The most important thing that must be instilled by gamblers is never to think that gambling can make you rich quickly, but also that gambling can make you poor or bankrupt quickly, they must be more aware of the risks compared to the benefits, if that could be done, every gambler would definitely play very carefully and use money that is ready to be lost so that when you lose you can move on quickly and look for another hobby so you can get rid of the feeling of disappointment when you lose at gambling. after all, it's not good to vent your emotions on other people.