Topic: Invest on your dependants if you too must grow further - page 3. (Read 1497 times)

Yes, I totally agree with you on what you just said above about how good it is to optimize making provision on your dependant, because doing well alone as the breadwinner of the family is never the best financial decision to make, because just as it said that a tree can never make a forest, so can a single breadwinner satisfy everybody at everything, Hence, it's important teaching people how to be financially free.  Hence, if you are opportuned to engage your family members to be all financially buayant it else the burden off your shoulders.

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

If you're too proud of yourself, delightful and relaxed without being bothered on how to ease your responsibilities within your home when  you've the capacities to lucrate everyones minds by introducing them or encouraging them on how they can also breakthrough their financial reliances, you'd either end up struggling to have more values to your finances or your relentness engagement on always being the provider could picture you as one of a kind who have the potential to elevate others but chooses to let everyone settled beneath your foots which can actually inspire some negative thoughts on people envying your success.

Buttressing the whole fact, to help people of your responsibilities in staying financially reliable when you've the capacities would as much reduce the level of your expenses with the people in concerned and would enable you to flexibly focus on your personal issues hopefully in your projects of gaining more wealth and enlarging your incomes.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

If a person only wants to grow up alone then he can grow up but there is nothing good in that achievement. Moreover, if one thinks only about his position without observing the situation of the people around him, then he will be considered selfish. In most cases if the number of earners in a family is less then it is natural that the pressure on the earner will be more. He will not be able to fulfill his duties well to everyone. Moreover, in a family which has more members but less earner always lives under stress which increases over time until the number of other members start to earn. A person is judged by his actions. If one can devote himself to the needs of others and stand beside others when need, then those individuals can be benefited.

Growing up is an action that happens faster sometimes alone and sometimes all together. Everyone's goal is to increase their current income and help those around them live a better life. To do this, the number of income earners needs to be increased.

Sometimes, investing in education or something else for a while may cause the person you invest in to earn income. Even a small positive impact we can make on the people around us will be beneficial in the future.

Perhaps Africans have such a vision as a cold calculation about not being dependent on those people to whom they, in principle, owe. But in my country, there is a slightly softer definition of everything that the OP wrote.
The fact that parents should raise their children, teach them, and give them an education, the value of which children will understand when they become adults, is natural! This is normal, and this is correct. Telling children they are dependents? No. It was you who gave birth to them. And you owe it to them. And if children grow up to be slackers, it’s again your fault, not theirs.
Family involves relatives, and what kind of family relationships you have will be visible in the children you raise. The more successful they are, the more you realize that you gave them everything you had to give, namely love and the desire for a better life for them.

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

I think more of African people would understand this better where economy system can be so hard and the people struggles to make living and add values to their lives while those opportuned to breakthrough those hard times are being overweighted to grow higher due to responsibility surrounding them.

Doing financially well as a breadwinner in your family is not sufficient enough to encourage your financial growth or stability when you don't optimize to make provisions on how your dependants can also stay financially independent to themselves because over billing can actually weigh your aiming down.

That is true and also quite reasonable because basically everyone will fulfill their respective responsibilities in any case without caring about other people's responsibilities. And it is things like that that have made each person to give birth to thoughts that are more suitable for themselves without having to think about how other people's thoughts are carried out. Apart from that, it would also be a bit ridiculous if we could fall simultaneously in the same place because we boarded the same plane as you say in the lyrics of the song.

An artiste sang “it’s like flying first class on a crashing plane”; you’re all going down. Thinking of this topic the lyric makes sense because it is the exact case. But on the other hand, if you consistently try to help and the recipient is unserious, don’t beat yourself up. I believe that in the end, everyone has their responsibilities and no one would leave their to completely chase another’s.

Yes, what you said is very true. If we want to continue to be successful, we must be able to make the people closest to us become more advanced and have good thoughts about finances. Because if you are the only one who is the backbone of income generation in a family then whatever wealth you have will not last long.

So, according to the title written by the OP, make your dependents an investment for the future. It's not just about money but also education and knowledge. Teach them to earn money, not give money because this will make them not develop and even tend to be lazy.

There is a popular quote that says until everyone around you is rich then your still poor. It's same thing here with your concept, we must always elevate the people around us to be free financially, if you're the only person free financially it turns out that you will not still be free in a short time because you will tend to lift all the bills from your household on yourself which I consider as same as suicide.

Yes, what you said is very true. If we want to continue to be successful, we must be able to make the people closest to us become more advanced and have good thoughts about finances. Because if you are the only one who is the backbone of income generation in a family then whatever wealth you have will not last long.

So, according to the title written by the OP, make your dependents an investment for the future. It's not just about money but also education and knowledge. Teach them to earn money, not give money because this will make them not develop and even tend to be lazy.

Growing up is an action that happens faster sometimes alone and sometimes all together. Everyone's goal is to increase their current income and help those around them live a better life. To do this, the number of income earners needs to be increased.

Sometimes, investing in education or something else for a while may cause the person you invest in to earn income. Even a small positive impact we can make on the people around us will be beneficial in the future.

An artiste sang “it’s like flying first class on a crashing plane”; you’re all going down. Thinking of this topic the lyric makes sense because it is the exact case. But on the other hand, if you consistently try to help and the recipient is unserious, don’t beat yourself up. I believe that in the end, everyone has their responsibilities and no one would leave their to completely chase another’s.

Yes, what you said is very true. If we want to continue to be successful, we must be able to make the people closest to us become more advanced and have good thoughts about finances. Because if you are the only one who is the backbone of income generation in a family then whatever wealth you have will not last long.

So, according to the title written by the OP, make your dependents an investment for the future. It's not just about money but also education and knowledge. Teach them to earn money, not give money because this will make them not develop and even tend to be lazy.