Topic: Keeping your gambling habit a secret. (Read 8311 times)
I really dont care about how society views me, cause one thign I have learnt I how unstable there all are, just cash out a huge sum or win life changing money from it and you would see how many of them that had a negative view of you start following in that same foot step 🚶♂️, it's better you do your shit and care less about ever other person or you don't do it at all and live in a cage of what is right and wrong based on societal view.
The worry in this situation is when they turn out to be unable to resist all the temptations that exist in gambling that can make them tempted and fall into unconsciousness so that in the end they experience a significant loss of money which in turn the inability to accept the fact of losing can make them experience unconscious behavioral changes and this can be felt by those closest to them such as their family members. If for example the situation they can maintain their involvement well then yes maybe everything will be able to go well, but still the name of the possibility of experiencing changes is very likely to occur such as entering the addiction phase without realizing it, and all of this is very possible because as you said that gambling can always make someone tempted and addicted.
Yes, it makes sense that it could be a decision to keep their gambling activities secret because they don't want many people to interfere with their gambling habits, they may be uncomfortable with some opinions that can interfere with their involvement in gambling, but still the point is that they must really be able to maintain, manage, control and limit their gambling very well, because when no one knows your bad habits then you will not seek help from others if one day something happens to you caused by gambling.
On the time that you cant really be able to resist such temptation then you are really that bound to make yourself that able to experience the worst that you could possibly be able to have when it comes to financial condition or statusYes, it makes sense that it could be a decision to keep their gambling activities secret because they don't want many people to interfere with their gambling habits, they may be uncomfortable with some opinions that can interfere with their involvement in gambling, but still the point is that they must really be able to maintain, manage, control and limit their gambling very well, because when no one knows your bad habits then you will not seek help from others if one day something happens to you caused by gambling.
on which we know that on the time that you do gamble and losing up that control when it comes to gambling thing then it would really be giving out that kind of domino effect specially it had already affected your financial condition.
Speaking about other peoples views towards your gambling activity then its none others business on how you would really be spending up your money. Just let them be and put it on ignore. If you are someone who do
really get easily pissed whenever there are some words that you could hear out then it wont really be that a bad idea for you to keep your gambling dealing to be secret.
Honestly it isnt really necessary i should say on which we know that we do have our full rights on what we do gonna do with our money. Its not their problem on whatever the circumstances that we might
be able to face since its our decisions then we are the ones who would really be facing it up.
Although basically we gamble by using our money completely and in no way harm others but still there are always some people who criticize and interfere with our lives where they think what we do is wrong and should be avoided, although if we look at the magnitude of the impact of gambling can make criticism true but yes everyone has their own success and choices for whatever they want to do. The last thing is as I said above that the point is that we must really be able to control, manage and limit our gambling activities, because when people don't know our habits then the situation will make it difficult for us to seek help.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them.
If that's the situation I can agree, if you can seperate things then that's okay keeping your gambling as secret without any behavioral changes will give peace in you. It's easy to keep your gambling secret but when you exceed or over spend your time, addiction can be trigger and that's going to create a bigger problem, gambling is for sure an addictive activities where you need good self-control and you need to make sure that you have that capabilities to stop or pause when the time you needed to stop.
In most cases, those who choose to keep their gambling as secret as possible are people who don't want any argument or they are not open to any opinions about gambling that's why they want to engage and they just want to play as discreet as possible.
Yes, it makes sense that it could be a decision to keep their gambling activities secret because they don't want many people to interfere with their gambling habits, they may be uncomfortable with some opinions that can interfere with their involvement in gambling, but still the point is that they must really be able to maintain, manage, control and limit their gambling very well, because when no one knows your bad habits then you will not seek help from others if one day something happens to you caused by gambling.
on which we know that on the time that you do gamble and losing up that control when it comes to gambling thing then it would really be giving out that kind of domino effect specially it had already affected your financial condition.
Speaking about other peoples views towards your gambling activity then its none others business on how you would really be spending up your money. Just let them be and put it on ignore. If you are someone who do
really get easily pissed whenever there are some words that you could hear out then it wont really be that a bad idea for you to keep your gambling dealing to be secret.
Honestly it isnt really necessary i should say on which we know that we do have our full rights on what we do gonna do with our money. Its not their problem on whatever the circumstances that we might
be able to face since its our decisions then we are the ones who would really be facing it up.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them.
If that's the situation I can agree, if you can seperate things then that's okay keeping your gambling as secret without any behavioral changes will give peace in you. It's easy to keep your gambling secret but when you exceed or over spend your time, addiction can be trigger and that's going to create a bigger problem, gambling is for sure an addictive activities where you need good self-control and you need to make sure that you have that capabilities to stop or pause when the time you needed to stop.
In most cases, those who choose to keep their gambling as secret as possible are people who don't want any argument or they are not open to any opinions about gambling that's why they want to engage and they just want to play as discreet as possible.
Yes, it makes sense that it could be a decision to keep their gambling activities secret because they don't want many people to interfere with their gambling habits, they may be uncomfortable with some opinions that can interfere with their involvement in gambling, but still the point is that they must really be able to maintain, manage, control and limit their gambling very well, because when no one knows your bad habits then you will not seek help from others if one day something happens to you caused by gambling.
When you are already on the state of addiction then you would really be that ending up on doing things on which not a well minded being would really be doing like spending up tons of money, even getting some loans or trying out to steal or whatever those things that could make you do that you havent done before. On the time that addiction would really be consuming you out then
those behaviors and acts would really be coming out. If you have tending to keep it as a secret but in regarding with your actions which it turns out to be obvious then you cant really be able to hide it up even into your own family members on which it would really be something that would determining out that you are already addicted to it. There are really just those people who are really that having that too observant eyes around on where if they've seen something odd then expect that there's something those words or comments that they would really be giving out. It is really just that there
are people who are really that too judgmental on things on which there's nothing we can do about it.
The truth is that it is very sad because a person must think about all the things they must do, who they are harming and how they can prevent things from getting out of control. I think that an addicted person who starts looking for money in a bad way, because it goes against their own values that they were taught at home, is also something in which they would be failing and at the same time would be in danger of being caught committing the crime and put him in prison, I think it is a very bad business and they should not accept things like that, in this case is when the person must be hospitalized, with sleep treatments or something like that to relieve. anxiety and everything related to it, for this it is always good to consider having friends, family who can see behaviors like this and once they act, it is the only way I see that a person can be saved.
Well because in fact, if you are just keeping it to yourself, and lose money, your behavior would change, your loveones would ask you what's happening in your life and you won't tell anything about gambling. You are basically lying to them and that will be an endless loop until you confess to them what you are dealing with. Carrying that burden would only make your life harder. Because you won't be getting the support or understanding that you need from your family. Regardless if what they have for you is a support or neglect, you must still have to tell them. That's too heavy to carry. So talk things to the people who are important to you. Live your life and don't let gambling take it from you.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them.If that's the situation I can agree, if you can seperate things then that's okay keeping your gambling as secret without any behavioral changes will give peace in you. It's easy to keep your gambling secret but when you exceed or over spend your time, addiction can be trigger and that's going to create a bigger problem, gambling is for sure an addictive activities where you need good self-control and you need to make sure that you have that capabilities to stop or pause when the time you needed to stop.
In most cases, those who choose to keep their gambling as secret as possible are people who don't want any argument or they are not open to any opinions about gambling that's why they want to engage and they just want to play as discreet as possible.
Well because in fact, if you are just keeping it to yourself, and lose money, your behavior would change, your loveones would ask you what's happening in your life and you won't tell anything about gambling. You are basically lying to them and that will be an endless loop until you confess to them what you are dealing with. Carrying that burden would only make your life harder. Because you won't be getting the support or understanding that you need from your family. Regardless if what they have for you is a support or neglect, you must still have to tell them. That's too heavy to carry. So talk things to the people who are important to you. Live your life and don't let gambling take it from you.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them.Each person has and does their part, normally the things that people keep secret because each person knows what they do and is respected, but in general things are usually very different, now if the activity gets out of control and the person begins to do bad things such as gambling a lot, becoming decapitalized, not having money because everything is spent on money, I think things are worse because generally one of the things that is done is to avoid by all means the appearance of an addiction, the addiction can appear in silent mode, that is why when we play we must know how we are going to concentrate, how we are going to do so that things can be different and we do not fall into temptations, when things are kept secret and it is very easy to make mistakes and Keeping those things to yourself, causing the errors to increase, that is the only thing you should avoid, because in silence you can also become addicted and no one would know until it is very obvious.
those behaviors and acts would really be coming out. If you have tending to keep it as a secret but in regarding with your actions which it turns out to be obvious then you cant really be able to hide it up even into your own family members on which it would really be something that would determining out that you are already addicted to it. There are really just those people who are really that having that too observant eyes around on where if they've seen something odd then expect that there's something those words or comments that they would really be giving out. It is really just that there
are people who are really that too judgmental on things on which there's nothing we can do about it.
Well because in fact, if you are just keeping it to yourself, and lose money, your behavior would change, your loveones would ask you what's happening in your life and you won't tell anything about gambling. You are basically lying to them and that will be an endless loop until you confess to them what you are dealing with. Carrying that burden would only make your life harder. Because you won't be getting the support or understanding that you need from your family. Regardless if what they have for you is a support or neglect, you must still have to tell them. That's too heavy to carry. So talk things to the people who are important to you. Live your life and don't let gambling take it from you.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them.Each person has and does their part, normally the things that people keep secret because each person knows what they do and is respected, but in general things are usually very different, now if the activity gets out of control and the person begins to do bad things such as gambling a lot, becoming decapitalized, not having money because everything is spent on money, I think things are worse because generally one of the things that is done is to avoid by all means the appearance of an addiction, the addiction can appear in silent mode, that is why when we play we must know how we are going to concentrate, how we are going to do so that things can be different and we do not fall into temptations, when things are kept secret and it is very easy to make mistakes and Keeping those things to yourself, causing the errors to increase, that is the only thing you should avoid, because in silence you can also become addicted and no one would know until it is very obvious.
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Well because in fact, if you are just keeping it to yourself, and lose money, your behavior would change, your loveones would ask you what's happening in your life and you won't tell anything about gambling. You are basically lying to them and that will be an endless loop until you confess to them what you are dealing with. Carrying that burden would only make your life harder. Because you won't be getting the support or understanding that you need from your family. Regardless if what they have for you is a support or neglect, you must still have to tell them. That's too heavy to carry. So talk things to the people who are important to you. Live your life and don't let gambling take it from you.
As long as they can prevent the changing of their behavior, they can keep their gambling activity in secret and no one will knows about that. They can playing gambling without any one knows and disturb them and they will not breaks their limits because that's the important things for them. They can keep their gambling activity secret but they will also needs to learn about self-controls so their gambling activity will not makes them lose much money. But many people can't realizes about that and willing to still playing gambling without control and that makes them becomes addicted to gambling. If they becomes addicted to gambling, that will be difficult for them because their family will knows that from the changing of their behavior and will asks them about what's going on with them. 
Basically all decisions are in the hands of each gambler and we cannot force them to choose one of them between keeping it secret or publicizing it, because as we discussed that most likely someone makes a decision depending on how the situation is in their environment, like you where you prefer to keep it secret because you feel uncomfortable when someone mocks you, and it doesn't matter because everyone is free in terms of making the best decision according to them.
We can easily decide to keep gambling activities secret or public, it all depends on personal decisions based on environmental factors, work, religion and perhaps other factors involved in financial losses. However, some people prefer to keep gambling a secret to other people because they don't want the predicate of gambling to be involved in someone's behavior, but in countries that have gambling regulations, there will be many people publicizing gambling even though they have to comply with strict regulations.but in behind you are already that in talks in the town basing up on what you are doing.
This is why i dont really like myself on getting exposed on whatever the things ive been doing. Im some sort of introvert when it comes to this aspect on which you would really be that making yourself
that too exposed on whatever things that you do. It would be best that you do keep it secret and silent.
Basically all decisions are in the hands of each gambler and we cannot force them to choose one of them between keeping it secret or publicizing it, because as we discussed that most likely someone makes a decision depending on how the situation is in their environment, like you where you prefer to keep it secret because you feel uncomfortable when someone mocks you, and it doesn't matter because everyone is free in terms of making the best decision according to them.
We can easily decide to keep gambling activities secret or public, it all depends on personal decisions based on environmental factors, work, religion and perhaps other factors involved in financial losses. However, some people prefer to keep gambling a secret to other people because they don't want the predicate of gambling to be involved in someone's behavior, but in countries that have gambling regulations, there will be many people publicizing gambling even though they have to comply with strict regulations.
Basically all decisions are in the hands of each gambler and we cannot force them to choose one of them between keeping it secret or publicizing it, because as we discussed that most likely someone makes a decision depending on how the situation is in their environment, like you where you prefer to keep it secret because you feel uncomfortable when someone mocks you, and it doesn't matter because everyone is free in terms of making the best decision according to them.
We can easily decide to keep gambling activities secret or public, it all depends on personal decisions based on environmental factors, work, religion and perhaps other factors involved in financial losses. However, some people prefer to keep gambling a secret to other people because they don't want the predicate of gambling to be involved in someone's behavior, but in countries that have gambling regulations, there will be many people publicizing gambling even though they have to comply with strict regulations.It's also crucial that a gambler doesn't talk to close friends about his habit, not to influence the person into gambling. Some players got addicted to gambling because they weren't guided by the informant on ways to escape addiction. However, these people, non-gamblers, may have not concluded on becoming a gambler, by just seeing adverts. Humans are easily influenced by friends or family. It's valid not to open up for this purpose. I could remember trying to gamble for the first long time ago, because a friend showed me his winnings. That was a drive to get me into gambling, but I didn't hold enough resources and wasn't prepared towards gambling habit. Although not everyone feels comfortable telling lies whenever they're asked or need to discuss how they got money for some expenses. So, they spill it out immediately to clear or remove a doubt. It's fun to share information with people, but talking to non-gamblers about gambling can destroy their life. If they must participate, they all need to mind the game and focus completely.
You mention influence, which is real. People are influenced by friends, family, and ads. But hiding things from adults like kids? This is disrespectful and dumb. This don't discuss it and it'll go away strategy won't work
Your story about seeking that huge win, that feeling? It's genuine and dangerous. Staying mute just shows the good side, the dream of easy money. This is dishonest and sets individuals up to fail. We need the whole picture: the wins, the losses, the real deal
Found some good points that I support in your post. It isnt necessary to yell on the street "I am a gambler! I am a gambler!" But it also isnt necessary to cross the street or try to ignore the question "Do you gamble?" when somebody asks. I am not keeping in secret that I gamble. And I dont welcome people "Hello, my name is TopTort777 and I gamble". And you know what, I have never had any trouble or any kind of harassment from not hiding that I gamble. I see only disadvantages of hiding such hobby and see no advantages.
Btw, would gladly listen to any advantages of hiding gambling hobby. (opinion from those where gambling is illegal does not count).
Btw, would gladly listen to any advantages of hiding gambling hobby. (opinion from those where gambling is illegal does not count).
Pardon me, I'll have to wear the shoes of the secretive gamblers for a second, not trying to defend the fabled disadvantages of gambling secretly, but thinking like them would help provide some advantages to such gambling habit. People are different, and not everyone wants to feel the stigma placed on gamblers across every society. Concealing the habit and claiming to be a non-gambler, though a lie, helps these people to focus and not bother about what others think about them. They wouldn't feel introverted when discussing with other people around them.
What a nice word you have used - a lie. Makes is sound like keeping gambling in secret means lie. A life without obvious benefits. A lie for nothing. Once again, I will point out that I dont care much about what other people, specially that I am not familiar much, think about me. People must be judged by their deeds and achievements, not by what they do, their hobby, their passion, their look and etc. How it looks then: a person gambles and society already tag him as bad, or have negative attitude to him. What if he has saved a kitten yesterday, and the day before saved people from burning house or helped grandpa to pass the street during heavy traffic?
Well because in fact, if you are just keeping it to yourself, and lose money, your behavior would change, your loveones would ask you what's happening in your life and you won't tell anything about gambling. You are basically lying to them and that will be an endless loop until you confess to them what you are dealing with. Carrying that burden would only make your life harder. Because you won't be getting the support or understanding that you need from your family. Regardless if what they have for you is a support or neglect, you must still have to tell them. That's too heavy to carry. So talk things to the people who are important to you. Live your life and don't let gambling take it from you.
Found some good points that I support in your post. It isnt necessary to yell on the street "I am a gambler! I am a gambler!" But it also isnt necessary to cross the street or try to ignore the question "Do you gamble?" when somebody asks. I am not keeping in secret that I gamble. And I dont welcome people "Hello, my name is TopTort777 and I gamble". And you know what, I have never had any trouble or any kind of harassment from not hiding that I gamble. I see only disadvantages of hiding such hobby and see no advantages.
Btw, would gladly listen to any advantages of hiding gambling hobby. (opinion from those where gambling is illegal does not count).
Btw, would gladly listen to any advantages of hiding gambling hobby. (opinion from those where gambling is illegal does not count).
Pardon me, I'll have to wear the shoes of the secretive gamblers for a second, not trying to defend the fabled disadvantages of gambling secretly, but thinking like them would help provide some advantages to such gambling habit. People are different, and not everyone wants to feel the stigma placed on gamblers across every society. Concealing the habit and claiming to be a non-gambler, though a lie, helps these people to focus and not bother about what others think about them. They wouldn't feel introverted when discussing with other people around them.
What a nice word you have used - a lie. Makes is sound like keeping gambling in secret means lie. A life without obvious benefits. A lie for nothing. Once again, I will point out that I dont care much about what other people, specially that I am not familiar much, think about me. People must be judged by their deeds and achievements, not by what they do, their hobby, their passion, their look and etc. How it looks then: a person gambles and society already tag him as bad, or have negative attitude to him. What if he has saved a kitten yesterday, and the day before saved people from burning house or helped grandpa to pass the street during heavy traffic?
Basically all decisions are in the hands of each gambler and we cannot force them to choose one of them between keeping it secret or publicizing it, because as we discussed that most likely someone makes a decision depending on how the situation is in their environment, like you where you prefer to keep it secret because you feel uncomfortable when someone mocks you, and it doesn't matter because everyone is free in terms of making the best decision according to them.
We can easily decide to keep gambling activities secret or public, it all depends on personal decisions based on environmental factors, work, religion and perhaps other factors involved in financial losses. However, some people prefer to keep gambling a secret to other people because they don't want the predicate of gambling to be involved in someone's behavior, but in countries that have gambling regulations, there will be many people publicizing gambling even though they have to comply with strict regulations.It's also crucial that a gambler doesn't talk to close friends about his habit, not to influence the person into gambling. Some players got addicted to gambling because they weren't guided by the informant on ways to escape addiction. However, these people, non-gamblers, may have not concluded on becoming a gambler, by just seeing adverts. Humans are easily influenced by friends or family. It's valid not to open up for this purpose. I could remember trying to gamble for the first long time ago, because a friend showed me his winnings. That was a drive to get me into gambling, but I didn't hold enough resources and wasn't prepared towards gambling habit. Although not everyone feels comfortable telling lies whenever they're asked or need to discuss how they got money for some expenses. So, they spill it out immediately to clear or remove a doubt. It's fun to share information with people, but talking to non-gamblers about gambling can destroy their life. If they must participate, they all need to mind the game and focus completely.
Some people who keep their gambling a secret, in my opinion, are people who don't want to take risks, because I myself do it like that, I don't want anything that could trigger conflict with the gambling I do. Therefore, keeping the gambling you do a secret, including the winnings you get, is good.
Keeping your gambling habit equals not wanting to take risks? Not necessarily so. People who keep their gambling habits a secrets perhaps don’t want their affairs out and about in the public. Risks has nothing to do with keeping your affairs private as you could always and at anytime, take same huge risks privately as others publicly do without anyone knowing about it.
I’m a big fan of keeping your affairs private, only sharing to those friends and family close enough and who deserve to have certain information about your activities.
I myself don't publish the gambling that I do, I only show it to certain people who I really trust, one of which is my own friend who also likes gambling. and I kept it a secret from my family, because my family really doesn't like gambling. Even so, there are definitely people who like to publicize their gambling, because in my environment there are people like that, and I don't even like it, why should something like this be shown off proudly.
I think, if you are greedy and your goal is to make a lot of money from gambling then gambling is definitely not for you. Because you will suffer and lose a lot of money
Gambling is just a game. It should never be expected to make a lot of money. This will increase the risk of losing money. Most of the time winning money in gambling depends on luck. It is not possible to guarantee that luck will always be good. So bet a certain amount of money, don't bet too much money.
If gambling is considered only as a game, and gambling is done only to entertain, it will not cause harm. But treating it as a profession will cause harm. And the gambler will definitely be under mental pressure.
Yes, for greedy people, gambling is not very good for them because they definitely hope and chase profits so they can become rich. Of course, this must be avoided for their own good.
It is true that gambling is just a game and there are very high risks involved if it is done not according to the rules and gambling basically does not guarantee a person's life will be decent, in fact it will change a person's life for the worse. and regret will come in time.
Yes, I agree that if someone makes gambling as entertainment then he will not feel the impact of the high risk, but with the caveat that he must still control the betting limits and when to play and how much money to deposit properly.
I don't keep it a secret, I just don't talk about it, but if there are people around me who would ask about it then I would just answer it honestly.
I don't plan to deny it, if I would do something that I want why would I even deny it? it is not illegal in my country and it is normal.
They just need to open the topic in order for me to talk about my gambling habit, I don't really plan to brag about it or what, but I don't want the one to initiate the conversation.
I don't plan to deny it, if I would do something that I want why would I even deny it? it is not illegal in my country and it is normal.
They just need to open the topic in order for me to talk about my gambling habit, I don't really plan to brag about it or what, but I don't want the one to initiate the conversation.
well, good for you, it just means that you don't think too much about what other people will comment about you once they know you gamble. Most of the gamblers here, the reason why they hide it is because they don't want to be judged and others are tired of explaining to other people and honestly speaking? I'm one od them. There are even instances where others think you have a lot of money because you gamble but they have no idea that there are only more losses than winnings.
Honestly, it’s really sad to see how sometimes some people don’t think twice before stepping over the line and being mean to others. It’s strange that they feel okay saying mean things, putting others down, or making them feel small, especially when nobody asked for their opinion. They really should stop and think about why they feel the need to do this and work it out on their own.
On the flip side, if you share something and instead of getting support, you get a bunch of negativity and have to stand up for yourself, it’s important to understand that the people doing this are probably just upset because they can’t do what you did. The main thing to remember is to keep going strong. You don’t have to make excuses or prove anything to anyone.
If someone resorts to personal attacks, it's a clear indicator they're not aligned with your values or well-being. Essentially, maintain your course and remember that your worth is not dictated by the opinions of those who seek to undermine you.
They would really be loving on trying to say up some words or really that simply loves to get involvement on others doing. We do know that community does really have that kind of bad
impressions towards gambling on which it would really be that normal that once a certain person do really get involvement with it then this is the moment they would really be
making some judgement as if they were that perfect people without even knowing on whats the actual reason on why people do gamble. There are really people who are really that
playing for the sake of fun.
I don't keep it a secret, I just don't talk about it, but if there are people around me who would ask about it then I would just answer it honestly.
I don't plan to deny it, if I would do something that I want why would I even deny it? it is not illegal in my country and it is normal.
They just need to open the topic in order for me to talk about my gambling habit, I don't really plan to brag about it or what, but I don't want the one to initiate the conversation.
I don't plan to deny it, if I would do something that I want why would I even deny it? it is not illegal in my country and it is normal.
They just need to open the topic in order for me to talk about my gambling habit, I don't really plan to brag about it or what, but I don't want the one to initiate the conversation.
well, good for you, it just means that you don't think too much about what other people will comment about you once they know you gamble. Most of the gamblers here, the reason why they hide it is because they don't want to be judged and others are tired of explaining to other people and honestly speaking? I'm one od them. There are even instances where others think you have a lot of money because you gamble but they have no idea that there are only more losses than winnings.
Honestly, it’s really sad to see how sometimes some people don’t think twice before stepping over the line and being mean to others. It’s strange that they feel okay saying mean things, putting others down, or making them feel small, especially when nobody asked for their opinion. They really should stop and think about why they feel the need to do this and work it out on their own.
On the flip side, if you share something and instead of getting support, you get a bunch of negativity and have to stand up for yourself, it’s important to understand that the people doing this are probably just upset because they can’t do what you did. The main thing to remember is to keep going strong. You don’t have to make excuses or prove anything to anyone.
If someone resorts to personal attacks, it's a clear indicator they're not aligned with your values or well-being. Essentially, maintain your course and remember that your worth is not dictated by the opinions of those who seek to undermine you.
I don't keep it a secret, I just don't talk about it, but if there are people around me who would ask about it then I would just answer it honestly.
I don't plan to deny it, if I would do something that I want why would I even deny it? it is not illegal in my country and it is normal.
They just need to open the topic in order for me to talk about my gambling habit, I don't really plan to brag about it or what, but I don't want the one to initiate the conversation.
I don't plan to deny it, if I would do something that I want why would I even deny it? it is not illegal in my country and it is normal.
They just need to open the topic in order for me to talk about my gambling habit, I don't really plan to brag about it or what, but I don't want the one to initiate the conversation.
well, good for you, it just means that you don't think too much about what other people will comment about you once they know you gamble. Most of the gamblers here, the reason why they hide it is because they don't want to be judged and others are tired of explaining to other people and honestly speaking? I'm one od them. There are even instances where others think you have a lot of money because you gamble but they have no idea that there are only more losses than winnings.
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