So is this how you see the BTC we've sent you? A debt you owe?
If someone takes a dollar from you, they owe you a dollar, right? Meaning they are indebted to you for a dollar. It doesn't matter if there was an agreement to give back a dollar, or if they put a gun in your face - they are indebted to you for a dollar. If a person hands me a dollar, I'm still indebted to them for one dollar. If a person LOANS me a dollar, it's the same. If they drop it by mistake and I take it, it's the same thing.
I understand and to some extent accept that all living things behave this way, it's instinct-driven.
Yerp.
But I can't approve of it in humans, especially not in educated ones.
This is where you and I are going to massively disagree.
And you know why? Because you know your pecking order is wrong. You can't generalize "random people" as a group of mindless sheep.
I can. I do. Most sociopaths do. Humans are animals, pure and simple. The majority of which are worthless animals at that. This is how I view the world. It's a viewpoint, not a fact to be debated. The irony is that while I don't have any feelings towards a random human, I can have emotions towards random animals.
So let's say that humans are a SPECIAL kind of animal.
You don't know those random people, you don't know their story or how good or shitty their life is.
Nor do I care. That isn't my problem, and their life doesn't interest me. In fact, most people don't have "lives" in my eyes. They just exist for as long as I'm interacting with them. It's not a healthy worldview - I understand this. But it is the way it is. I don't complain.
Why should you treat them like they aren't as human as you?
I don't. I'm an animal too. Doesn't matter if it's food, a woman, business, or friendly conversation, I look at the world through a predatory lens. It's just the way it is.
Where would we be if all the people we knew behaved this way?
In a more interesting world. Admittedly, I'd be just another animal snuffed out in that world, but still. It would be interesting.
If your family didn't respect others and didn't show you goodness, if your dad didn't care about you as a kid more than those bucks he gave you?
And we see how much good that's done.
I think you can only do this (and don't say 'do what?', it's getting old and you know it) so easily because you don't see any of us, we're just some text on a forum.
No. You're things in the world. Some of you are useful, others are random things, but you're all just like me. You have families, stories, homes, bills, etc. I don't see why you would think that I don't consider you "people". You're getting the same version of me that others around me get. I'm actually a riot at parties.
It's 250 dollars you took from me man...
I didn't take any dollars from anyone. If someone could prove otherwise, I'd be more than interested. If ANYONE can prove that I have defrauded ONE person of US Dollars, let me know. We both know why I'm saying this, so let me also toss in here that I understand what you're saying.
I work my ass off to be able to put that kind of money on the side.
The irony is that I don't. I make that in ~8 hours of coding something random. Probably a dropdown list of items or something. Maybe do some backend stuff.
I don't say that to be rude - at one point $250 was something that I WOULD NEVER have in my bank account. I understand how it is to scrimp and save, and to be on your ass. I really do. In fact, right now (due to some moves) and before this entire misunderstanding, I was exactly that - flat on my ass. Three cents in the bank, waiting for a task to free up I could jump on it and work.
Hell, I'll be more or less flat on my ass again in about a week, due to certain expenses. Hopefully I'll be back up in a month or so.
I'm writing my master's thesis right now, I leave home at 8 am and return at 11 pm, I'm stomped, and now I have to spend time checking this forum every hour hoping that you'll have the decency to give it back.
1: I have 0 Bitcoins.
2: I don't have the USD to purchase Bitcoins right now.
Yes, Bitcoin is risky. You should only risk what you can afford to lose, bla bla. But I can assure you I would have never dreamed of losing 250 dollars in a day.
I wrote a long monologue about you being naive, but I deleted it. I don't know what I can say to this.
There may be some who were dealing with 50 shares, but that doesn't excuse you. And this, too, you know.
I'm almost positive that (while I haven't done anything wrong or illegal, etc) I haven't tried to excuse myself. You'd probably be better off chalking this up as "He's an evil person."
I know a guy who ran a broad from the UK for ~$1,800 USD - her life savings. It took weeks of pandering, false promises, disgusting romantic interactions. She was obese, had no self-esteem, cut herself, and was an alcoholic.
$200 for a "passport". More for "expediting". More for a "flat". Beastmode predation clicked on, and this guy I know just ran with it. The truly horrifying thing was the feeling in his chest as the poor mark got deeper and deeper into the trap.
The reason? He didn't have any marketable skills after getting out of the Army, had extreme paranoia and anxiety attacks, wouldn't leave his apartment, and his girlfriend at the time was not working enough hours at a slavewage job. Rent. The rent. It's always about the rent. I hear he has since gotten much better. It was a one time hit, one person (and her boyfriend, and probably immediate family) suffered, and that was it.
Frankly, there are some people (just some) in this world that will drown you so they can breathe. It's never personal - ever. It's just the way it is.
Get student loan, get finance degree, become investment banker, make £100k per year easily. Then give back this, which will seem measly.
I mean, sure. Or I could just code. The latter is less risky.
It's not actually hard to make big cash, rather than "scamming", or whatever you want to call it.
I agree. This is why I'm against "scamming", or any kind of illicit activities.
Anyways. Like I said, we'll see what happens. I enjoy these conversations, but none of these meaningful exchanges is going to put BTC in my wallet to hand out. If there's any kind of charity work going to occur, it will be when I'm at no risk of being homeless by dropping USD on BTC. It's that simple.
Now I gotta get some pay stubs for this apartment thing. Ugh. First world problems.
I guess next some clueless idiot wants to know why random nobodies don't get any benefit of the doubt starting "securities" I'll just link him here.
I kept writing and deleting responses to this. But all I can say is "Lewl."