I learned pretty early on in life to make your own decisions so that if things go wrong you don’t seek to blame others. Sometimes involving others is inevitable in life, and personally this is where I tend to run into problems because nobody is as passionate about your ideas as you. Same thing with your decisions. Nobody has as much on the line for your decisions as you do, so take responsibility for them and don’t look to blame others regardless of the situation.
You are absolutely correct, always looking for someone to blame for any and every situation is a sign of low self esteem and lack of confidence in your self and your decision, one have to have confidence in themselves first before trusting their own decisions, and when a person end up blaming some one else for his or her own mistakes, then that shows the person never trusted in his decision and as well lack self confidence.
I also agree that there are times when blaming somebody for some thing that has to do with us is inevitable, but in such a situation, then person should remember the other person he wants to or he's blaming didn't force him to do what he did with a gun pointed to his head.
If one decided to follow another person's advice, the keyword there is "
decided" which simply means you were not forced, so what ever be the outcome of following that person's advice, should be on you, if following the advice was a mistake, don't blame the person that gave the advice, but blame yourself for following the advice.
