When everything's going well, it's cool. But sometimes (often?) money problems lead to divorce. Suppose your spouse/husband gambles a lot, his or her loss/profit ratio is acceptable (so it's fine), but then one day he or she has bet it all and lost it all. You've got nothing left (and no savings either). What's your reaction? Has this ever happened to you?
It's frustrating if it's happened to our family. I will now wait if there will be good changes after that worst experience. Even though disappointing, I will still consider it a blessing in disguise that such an incident happened as it will test my partner. Of course, my partner won't be able to handle that situation easily. As a partner, I will try to always be there to help for a better change.
As time progresses, I'm expecting that my partner will now be a responsible person and won't ever allow that bad experience to happen again.
You are definitely right, sometimes, things like this do happen for a reason, and some how, if we can manage to be patient and cope through it for a while, we will in the end discover that it was actually a blessing in disguise after all.
It's like what is commonly said that before a bull zooms forward, it first super charge it self by going back first, to come forward with full force.
Let's also use a catapult (also known as fling) for example, when we put a stone in our fling and are about to shoot the stone out, what do we do first? We first draw the fling backward, so as to super charge it, and the stronger we are able to super charge it, the further the stone will go when released.
Some times, before a man or a woman meets his or her breakthrough, he or she must first lose it all, the losing it all is that going back, the super charge, as for such person, the next event in their life could bring about major blessing or breakthrough that he or she will completely forget about all that he or she has ever lost in previous times.
So, running away in such a situation is not the best thing to do, but stick around and support your partner through it all, believe he or she have learnt his or her lesson and won't allow such happen ever again.