I know that it is not easy for our wife or husband to accept forgiveness after we have used up all our savings to gamble, and if we have children, things will be even more miserable, obviously. You are irresponsible and especially do not think about your children. This is a story that I think is not rare, it still happens every day, so controlling your account when participating in gambling is a top priority, especially for those who have families.
We have to get up and get through these bad times and we can still encourage our wives or husbands that we can still get up and start all over again. That is a valuable experience for us so that we don't experience it again in the future.
It's better for us to learn that lesson and think about the next steps because that's what we must do if we want to change our lives. It may be hard to get up, but we have to try, especially if our wife or husband regrets everything he/she has done and he/she wants to show his regret by doing better things.