But since all people have completely different abilities and some of them do not have enough intelligence at all to arrange a normal life for their children as much as possible, it turns out that the father himself forced his son to engage in gambling. And this could clearly lead to bad consequences for this son. And it’s this very stupid dad who needs to be blamed here. He doesn’t understand at all what his stupid gambling lessons for a child can lead to. When, from an early age, a father sets an example for a child, participating in gambling himself and telling the child that this is normal and correct.
Unfortunately, this often happens in people's lives.
If the father himself forces his children to gamble, he does not deserve to be considered a good father because he has gotten his children into trouble that his children should not have to do. His father couldn't think about what would happen to his children in the future if his father continued to force his children to gamble. His children may experience mental disorders when they are forced to gamble by their father, and it may not take long for these children to start becoming addicted to gambling, and they will start asking their father for money to gamble. If this is left unchecked, it will certainly affect their lives, especially since children still have a long way to go in life. if they have been addicted to gambling from an early age, it will be difficult to cure because it is already in their minds and will remain there until they grow up.
So, that why child is not allowed to receive inappropriate treatment from his parents and as much as possible parents must be more patient and always provide good guidance to their children. After all, giving children hard education is very beneficial, but not if it is accompanied by with violence.
A child can also have the same attitude, namely arrogance, he will feel that he must be able to do the same things as his parents to be able to use it as an outlet for what he got from his parents tough attitude.
Indeed, every parent will have the desire for their child to have strong personality and secure future, but on the other hand as parent, must always educate them with the right guidance and direction.
Seeing child grow up full of pressure from parents will really have an impact on psychology which will be related to mental problems, serious mental disorders can occur.
Therefore, as parent figure, you must be able to show love and guidance as well as possible.
Seeing what they do, it is clear that both of them have complicated life paths, they both really have the same hobby, namely gambling.
Even though their gambling is only limited to the lottery, for my child I still believe that he is also familiar with online gambling and the impact will be much more significant in the long term.
Yes, parents must be more patient in educating their children and guiding them so that they do not take the wrong path because nowadays, children's interactions with their friends are very different from several years ago. Moreover, now there is technology that can fulfill children's curiosity to look for various things that make them curious. If they are not educated well, their children may experience various problems that their parents never imagined and if it is a gambling game, perhaps their children will gamble more often because some children do not have problems with their finances. They can easily ask their parents for money while there is no supervision from their parents regarding the use of their money.
Every parent definitely wants the best for their children, but many parents do not realize that what they are doing is actually not appropriate in educating their children. We can see that parents now find it easier to give lots of money to their children without asking what the money is for. Parents seem to believe more easily what their children say even though the children may be lying to their parents. And when problem after problem starts to arise, his parents panic and are not ready to deal with it and end up blaming each other between his father and mother. They argue that they are busy working to prepare their children's future but they don't monitor their children's development enough.
If they do the same thing, it will be difficult to cure it, especially if they have gambled too often because it can make the people around them not know how to stop them. And even though it's just buying lottery tickets, it will also have a bad influence on children because they will see that buying lottery tickets is the only way to have a lot of money. They will not want to work like other people to make money and prefer to buy their lottery tickets and wait for the results to come out. If they lose, they will keep buying it and if they win, they will be very happy. His father had made a mistake towards his children by letting them buy his lottery tickets because the children could ask their parents for money to buy their lottery tickets. And this will clearly affect the mental health of their children and if no one can stop it, perhaps the habit of buying lottery will continue until they grow up. This will make their children, who will become adults, into a gambling addiction, which may be very difficult to cure because they have been buying lottery since they were children until they were adults.