Topic: Marriage: Character or Beauty? - page 2. (Read 1532 times)
Nothing in this world is permanent my friend. So it's also related to beauty. People can say what they want we can't shut others mouths. So love your wife, because if not she is on your life may be your not who you are today. God bless your family!
One should marry a good hearted woman. She is beautiful in appearance, so is she perfect in all aspects. As the saying goes, the more he looks, the more pride he has. But on the other hand, those who do not have a form, who do not have a beautiful face, you will see that there are many qualities in them. Beautiful women usually get husbands who are drug addicts or gamblers. In this era, not everyone has a good woman on their forehead but your forehead is good that you got such a good woman as a wife, you are really lucky. Give thanks to your Lord. You are still living with him because you have love for him.
Character builds marriage and will sustain lasting marriage, a marriage that considers the physical appearance as the most important thing always suffers. Character from couples will be passed to the kids which will help them in the society tomorrow. When there is misunderstanding between partners character can be used to make things easy for settlement. Beauty without good character just seems as if the beauty is a waste because beauty is suppose to be backed with good character.
The beauty of a woman is her character if she doesn’t have a good character she is not beautiful A good character is the first thing you have to check in a woman before physical beauty
I think the subject of character have doesn't limit to only women alone and it caught across both women and men and the real beauty and value of any individual are in their character because looks have nothing to contribute to the well-being of the Marriage but beauty is what give the first attraction before the character will build the foundation at which the relationship will be built and nourished on. Both have a role to play in the marriage institution but character plays a bigger role than beauty in the long run.
Although there are no generally acceptable feature of a beautiful woman, but there are some physical qualities that we see in a woman and assume she’s beautiful. Large eyes, white teeth, big smile, the curvature of the spine, a waist-to-hip ratio of .67 to .80, glowing skin, thick and healthy hair are all beauty qualities. We hear slim is beautiful, fair is lovely, fat is shaming.
My wife doesn’t have these qualities. To make matters worse, she is suffering from a skin disease that makes her skin very unpleasant to behold. People always tell me that my wife is ugly. Sometimes I feel bad and want to regret marrying her, but these few attributes keeps me going.
Intelligence: My wife is extremely brainy. My children don’t have issues with their academics because she is the best teacher.
Contentment: She has never encouraged me to spend money on what we don’t need. My wife ensures we live or spend based on our income. Borrowing or loans is a taboo in our home. And she has taught our children contentment.
Caring: I and the children always feel her absence when she travels. She ensures that I don’t lack both physical and emotional support.
Selfless: The first laptop I had was a gift from her. She had to sacrifice part of her business money for me to get that device.
Team player: We are the best match. My weakness is her strength and my strength is her weakness. She is my better half.
As I stated before, sometimes I look at her unattractive face and skin and I wish she wasn’t my wife. But her good character informs me that I am married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
(OP) take this ask a good advice one can give you, from my point of view imagine if your wife a glance dude with her face just like you and still with that same face can be a disease to your life and your kids, look at the quality you just mentioned, I no beauty can go a long way in a relationship but still as for me I can never choose beauty over the good quality of a wife material, telling you a little story I have newly married friends who just got married and before he got married we were discussing quality of a good wife would you believe what he told he listed My wife doesn’t have these qualities. To make matters worse, she is suffering from a skin disease that makes her skin very unpleasant to behold. People always tell me that my wife is ugly. Sometimes I feel bad and want to regret marrying her, but these few attributes keeps me going.
Intelligence: My wife is extremely brainy. My children don’t have issues with their academics because she is the best teacher.
Contentment: She has never encouraged me to spend money on what we don’t need. My wife ensures we live or spend based on our income. Borrowing or loans is a taboo in our home. And she has taught our children contentment.
Caring: I and the children always feel her absence when she travels. She ensures that I don’t lack both physical and emotional support.
Selfless: The first laptop I had was a gift from her. She had to sacrifice part of her business money for me to get that device.
Team player: We are the best match. My weakness is her strength and my strength is her weakness. She is my better half.
As I stated before, sometimes I look at her unattractive face and skin and I wish she wasn’t my wife. But her good character informs me that I am married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
1 must know how to have sex 24 hours a week
2 always look useful means, must always have money more than him
3 must-have a big ass 🤑
4 must know how how to suffer that much in the kitchen
5 must always be current othe n the internet like being a queen on social media also must have 5k follower
6 must wear expensive pouches and wear new clothes
Could you believe what i told he I said brother you have missed it all in life and currently he works as a banker but now he lost his job because he didn't make a good choice for himself him follow beauty.
In marriage, you can see anything you did not expect.
I believe that marriage is more of character than beauty.
But many people prefer beauty to character when it comes to marriage and they will try to manage the character in the marriage but they fail most times.
To me what matters first is decision.
Assuming you have not decided to keep your wife, both her character and beauty will mean nothing to you and you will end up getting a divorce.
I believe that marriage is more of character than beauty.
But many people prefer beauty to character when it comes to marriage and they will try to manage the character in the marriage but they fail most times.
To me what matters first is decision.
Assuming you have not decided to keep your wife, both her character and beauty will mean nothing to you and you will end up getting a divorce.
It's difficult to say whether character or appearance is more essential in marriage. Opinions and desires about marriage vary throughout areas, cultures, and people.
As an Indian, I would like to share In aspect of India. Indian marriages have placed a significant emphasis on various factors, including family background, social status, compatibility, shared values, education, and financial stability. These considerations aim to ensure a harmonious and stable union. While physical appearance may be a factor for some individuals, it is often not the sole or primary determinant in partner selection.
In recent times, as Indian society becomes more diverse and influenced by globalization, attitudes toward marriage are also evolving. Many people now prioritize qualities such as mutual respect, emotional compatibility, shared interests, and personal character traits over external appearances. This reflects a broader trend toward seeking deeper connections and compatibility in relationships.
Some individuals may place a greater emphasis on beauty, while others prioritize inner qualities and character traits.
Thanks !!
As an Indian, I would like to share In aspect of India. Indian marriages have placed a significant emphasis on various factors, including family background, social status, compatibility, shared values, education, and financial stability. These considerations aim to ensure a harmonious and stable union. While physical appearance may be a factor for some individuals, it is often not the sole or primary determinant in partner selection.
In recent times, as Indian society becomes more diverse and influenced by globalization, attitudes toward marriage are also evolving. Many people now prioritize qualities such as mutual respect, emotional compatibility, shared interests, and personal character traits over external appearances. This reflects a broader trend toward seeking deeper connections and compatibility in relationships.
Some individuals may place a greater emphasis on beauty, while others prioritize inner qualities and character traits.
Thanks !!
Like I stated before, sometimes I look at her unattractive face and skin and I wish she wasn’t my wife. But her good character informs me that I am married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
In the years of early youth, a man only looks at a woman's beauty and does not look at her good or ugly qualities. He thinks of marrying a beautiful woman without thinking about her bad character.After marriage and the experience of married life, a man knows that beauty with bad character is worth nothing, so I prefer a woman who is not beautiful with beautiful qualities much better.
Beauty is a subjective concept, and it includes not only physical aspects, but also personal qualities. It is very important to realize that the true beauty and value of a person comes from within.
You clearly see and appreciate the qualities of your wife that are superior to appearance. Her intelligence, caring, dedication, ability to be a team player and much more make her beautiful in your eyes. These qualities are much more important in a long-term relationship than appearance.
You clearly see and appreciate the qualities of your wife that are superior to appearance. Her intelligence, caring, dedication, ability to be a team player and much more make her beautiful in your eyes. These qualities are much more important in a long-term relationship than appearance.
Physical attraction begins to diminish from the very beginning, and this decline is a continuous process that never ceases. While having a more attractive spouse may delay this decline to some extent, it remains an inevitable reality. Consequently, it becomes evident that the most suitable candidate for marriage is your best friend, someone with whom you share a profound bond beyond physical appearance.
Nowadays I noticed beautiful girls find it hard to marry because they are carried away by their beauty thinking that's all it's takes to get a man but the ones that are not that beautiful tends to build their character because they feel like it's the only thing that will attract men to their sides and it's working because they are actually getting married and building their homes.. while before the others one realized their mistake their age has already gone far and the beauty is fading away slowly..So Good character is a must to consider before getting into marriage because it's a lifetime.. Everyone loves their peace of mind..so I will always choose good character over beautiful face and curves..
My take on marriage is both personal as it is general.
I personally think of the woman I'll marry to be my spec of both beauty (physical appearance)and characteristic advantage which is what every other man under the sun aspire as far as marrying a wife is concerned.
Unfortunately the truth of the matter is that reality has proven and will continue to prove that it always end up to be beyond what the eyes can see.
However ours is a society where the most beautiful girl child is always taken for marriage before her contemporaries irrespective of if she's best behaved or not.
The above mentioned factor is not changing any time soon...
For me though, physical beauty should never be underemphasized knowing that the first attraction to a woman for me is her looks but that doesn't mean I still go ahead if nothing convinces me about the both balances.
You want to marry a woman you will be proud to go to event with, introduce to friends as your wife without thinking of the shame of her body or facial looks...
At the same time you don't want to marry a beauty that will turn to be a beast because of her character bankruptcy
Infact, besides all the factored sentiments, beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder.
My cup of tea could be your chalice of poison.
Marry who completes you inside-out.
I personally think of the woman I'll marry to be my spec of both beauty (physical appearance)and characteristic advantage which is what every other man under the sun aspire as far as marrying a wife is concerned.
Unfortunately the truth of the matter is that reality has proven and will continue to prove that it always end up to be beyond what the eyes can see.
However ours is a society where the most beautiful girl child is always taken for marriage before her contemporaries irrespective of if she's best behaved or not.
The above mentioned factor is not changing any time soon...
For me though, physical beauty should never be underemphasized knowing that the first attraction to a woman for me is her looks but that doesn't mean I still go ahead if nothing convinces me about the both balances.
You want to marry a woman you will be proud to go to event with, introduce to friends as your wife without thinking of the shame of her body or facial looks...
At the same time you don't want to marry a beauty that will turn to be a beast because of her character bankruptcy
Infact, besides all the factored sentiments, beauty they say is in the eyes of the beholder.
My cup of tea could be your chalice of poison.
Marry who completes you inside-out.
Your wife doesn't need to be beautiful by any social norm, but it needs to be beautiful to you. You can't be married to someone you're not physically attracted to. That's just my two cents.
In my opinion, the notion of having a specific reason to like or marry someone seems unnecessary. Relying solely on factors like beauty or character as a passkey in choosing a wife can be problematic. When we prioritize beauty, for instance, we may find ourselves in a predicament if we no longer see the same physical attractiveness in our partner. This can lead to feelings of resentment or even hatred towards the person. Similarly, relying solely on character can also have its downsides. A woman may initially pretend to have a good character in order to secure a marriage, only to reveal her true personality after tying the knot.
Instead, I believe that understanding should be the foundation of a successful marriage. When we truly understand and accept our partner, we are better equipped to handle their flaws, including potential character flaws, with grace and patience. We can also appreciate their beauty beyond superficial looks, recognizing the deeper beauty that comes from within. Understanding fosters tolerance and empathy, allowing us to navigate the complexities of marriage with maturity and wisdom.
Instead, I believe that understanding should be the foundation of a successful marriage. When we truly understand and accept our partner, we are better equipped to handle their flaws, including potential character flaws, with grace and patience. We can also appreciate their beauty beyond superficial looks, recognizing the deeper beauty that comes from within. Understanding fosters tolerance and empathy, allowing us to navigate the complexities of marriage with maturity and wisdom.
In marriage, character is most important and should be considered more relevant to beauty, due to beauty will fade away while a good character will last forever. The problem you may have in this process is that Character needs time to assess, it can't be determined at first sight, where as Beauty will be there staring at you for immediate assessment. Beauty can be an entry point but when decision needs to be taken, Character should be taken more important.
In my opinion, the notion of having a specific reason to like or marry someone seems unnecessary. Relying solely on factors like beauty or character as a passkey in choosing a wife can be problematic. When we prioritize beauty, for instance, we may find ourselves in a predicament if we no longer see the same physical attractiveness in our partner. This can lead to feelings of resentment or even hatred towards the person. Similarly, relying solely on character can also have its downsides. A woman may initially pretend to have a good character in order to secure a marriage, only to reveal her true personality after tying the knot.
Instead, I believe that understanding should be the foundation of a successful marriage. When we truly understand and accept our partner, we are better equipped to handle their flaws, including potential character flaws, with grace and patience. We can also appreciate their beauty beyond superficial looks, recognizing the deeper beauty that comes from within. Understanding fosters tolerance and empathy, allowing us to navigate the complexities of marriage with maturity and wisdom.
Instead, I believe that understanding should be the foundation of a successful marriage. When we truly understand and accept our partner, we are better equipped to handle their flaws, including potential character flaws, with grace and patience. We can also appreciate their beauty beyond superficial looks, recognizing the deeper beauty that comes from within. Understanding fosters tolerance and empathy, allowing us to navigate the complexities of marriage with maturity and wisdom.
This only goes to justify the saying that where beauty can not take you, character will or rephrasing, it say, beauty can only take you to the seat of a queen but character determines how long you last there.
The beauty of a woman is her character if she doesn’t have a good character she is not beautiful A good character is the first thing you have to check in a woman before physical beauty
OP, you shouldn’t care one bit about what anybody says about your wife. As long as you have a great relationship & love each other than anything else is outside noise & isn’t important Great looks don’t last so remember, all the people with beautiful wives better hope they have a great personality too because eventually the looks are going to fade & that’s what they’ll be left with.
A woman with beauty but with no good attributes isn’t a good one to write about, we shouldn’t get carried away with beauties rather the good potentials and good possibilities a woman has to offer in value which is her Character. A woman with mere beauty but zero character isn’t recommendable because there is no possibility and assurance for a stable relationship with such a person. Character says a lot about a woman and not managing the kind of bad character she portrays. In order to enjoy a lasting marriage, it is advisable to look out for a woman with a positive and admirable character rather than the outlook and beauty appearance.
In marriage your beauty it's in your character, there's nothing so beautiful in marriage to having a spouse with a good character that's appealing to you and gives you peace of mind.
Like what's beauty without character? Even the Holy book obviously states that, " it's better to live in the desert than to live in a room with a cantankerous spouse", which goes a long way to express the importance of character and how it can not be overemphasized not just in marriage only but equally in our social economic relations with others.
Like what's beauty without character? Even the Holy book obviously states that, " it's better to live in the desert than to live in a room with a cantankerous spouse", which goes a long way to express the importance of character and how it can not be overemphasized not just in marriage only but equally in our social economic relations with others.
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