For Marriage, I'd say it's a bit of both for me (Character & beauty) and other things. You wouldn't just want to marry a beautiful face without character, that marriage wil never be peaceful, and you can also not just marry Character without any form of beauty, you would like for your partner to be presentable in public as well, that is beautiful, because that is first thing everyone see's before character.
Topic: Marriage: Character or Beauty? - page 5. (Read 1723 times)
People who chose beauty over character in marriage mostly battle all sort of issues from one end to another which in turn led to divorce. The true beauty is character, if you posses a good character then you definitely are beautiful. Welcome to my world!
Humans rarely find someone with both a physical attractiveness and a personality to fit theirs like a puzzle. This is why some relationships are seen by the public as 'Beauty and the Beast'. At first glance we tend to care about physical attractiveness, but that is not the real beauty in humans. The real beauty is the inner one, and you only see it when you look for it.
I have heard so many married couples say they thought their partner was ugly when they first met. There is no real definition for beauty though, is there? How do we define how an appalling woman is supposed to look? It is nowadays all based on what celebrities and the upper class look like.
Do not feel ashamed of having a wife the society thinks is ugly. If you find your personalities to fit each other and you feel well with her, it means you are in the right place. If decades ago being fat was a shame, today it is seen as sexy. Let what the society determines to be beautiful be just a silly trend and nothing else.
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I have heard so many married couples say they thought their partner was ugly when they first met. There is no real definition for beauty though, is there? How do we define how an appalling woman is supposed to look? It is nowadays all based on what celebrities and the upper class look like.
Do not feel ashamed of having a wife the society thinks is ugly. If you find your personalities to fit each other and you feel well with her, it means you are in the right place. If decades ago being fat was a shame, today it is seen as sexy. Let what the society determines to be beautiful be just a silly trend and nothing else.
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Regards,
PrivacyG
Although there are no generally acceptable feature of a beautiful woman, but there are some physical qualities that we see in a woman and assume she’s beautiful. Large eyes, white teeth, big smile, the curvature of the spine, a waist-to-hip ratio of .67 to .80, glowing skin, thick and healthy hair are all beauty qualities. We hear slim is beautiful, fair is lovely, fat is shaming.
My wife doesn’t have these qualities. To make matters worse, she is suffering from a skin disease that makes her skin very unpleasant to behold. People always tell me that my wife is ugly. Sometimes I feel bad and want to regret marrying her, but these few attributes keeps me going.
Intelligence: My wife is extremely brainy. My children don’t have issues with their academics because she is the best teacher.
Contentment: She has never encouraged me to spend money on what we don’t need. My wife ensures we live or spend based on our income. Borrowing or loans is a taboo in our home. And she has taught our children contentment.
Caring: I and the children always feel her absence when she travels. She ensures that I don’t lack both physical and emotional support.
Selfless: The first laptop I had was a gift from her. She had to sacrifice part of her business money for me to get that device.
Team player: We are the best match. My weakness is her strength and my strength is her weakness. She is my better half.
Like I stated before, sometimes I look at her unattractive face and skin and I wish she wasn’t my wife. But her good character informs me that I am married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
My wife doesn’t have these qualities. To make matters worse, she is suffering from a skin disease that makes her skin very unpleasant to behold. People always tell me that my wife is ugly. Sometimes I feel bad and want to regret marrying her, but these few attributes keeps me going.
Intelligence: My wife is extremely brainy. My children don’t have issues with their academics because she is the best teacher.
Contentment: She has never encouraged me to spend money on what we don’t need. My wife ensures we live or spend based on our income. Borrowing or loans is a taboo in our home. And she has taught our children contentment.
Caring: I and the children always feel her absence when she travels. She ensures that I don’t lack both physical and emotional support.
Selfless: The first laptop I had was a gift from her. She had to sacrifice part of her business money for me to get that device.
Team player: We are the best match. My weakness is her strength and my strength is her weakness. She is my better half.
Like I stated before, sometimes I look at her unattractive face and skin and I wish she wasn’t my wife. But her good character informs me that I am married to the most beautiful woman in the world.
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