Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 34. (Read 12692 times)

Sad reality that most of the time both parents needs to work to address the needs of their family, to extent that they need to work overtime and with that situation the time that they need to spend for their kids, and like what you mentioned there are many wrong information that the kids can get from the internet,

if you are not careful with what you are doing around your kids and they see you playing some type of gambling, that curiosty will arise and they will find ways to learn about the game,

it will be easier for those kids to find something that they will follow even as early as 4 years old which is now ready to adopt even those information are wrongly presented by those who are sharing it online.

Absolutely, I agree with you. It's crucial for parents to balance being an authority figure and a trusted ally to their children. However, it's important to maintain moderation in all things, including our approach to guiding them. Gambling can indeed serve as a form of social entertainment, but you also can essential to introduce children to a variety of activities that enrich their lives and expand their horizons.

I am sure that most parents are doing the best that they can already, it is just that now in many countries around the world both parents have to work in order to keep themselves afloat, and this is causing that many kids are growing without a strong parental figure that can guide them, so many of those kids are now looking the answers to their questions online, and as we know they can find all kind of mistaken information there that could warp the view they may have about gambling and they may try it at such an early age.

I am sure that most parents are doing the best that they can already, it is just that now in many countries around the world both parents have to work in order to keep themselves afloat, and this is causing that many kids are growing without a strong parental figure that can guide them, so many of those kids are now looking the answers to their questions online, and as we know they can find all kind of mistaken information there that could warp the view they may have about gambling and they may try it at such an early age.

I am sure that most parents are doing the best that they can already, it is just that now in many countries around the world both parents have to work in order to keep themselves afloat, and this is causing that many kids are growing without a strong parental figure that can guide them, so many of those kids are now looking the answers to their questions online, and as we know they can find all kind of mistaken information there that could warp the view they may have about gambling and they may try it at such an early age.

Yes, parents education is necessary for their children so that they are not involved in things that will harm them. If parents can be friends and parents, their children will not hide what they do because they already trust their parents. They also won't want to try gambling because they already understand the impact of gambling on them.

There are many other activities that children can do besides gambling, especially using their devices more often than doing physical activities. We have seen that children in this era prefer to use their devices rather than do physical activities, and this is what causes a lack of socialization with each other.

You need to understand that when they are with their friends, you can no longer see what they're doing unless you have advised them not to do so because that's the important aspect of parenting when you give them important advice. When they are with those who gamble, they also become gamblers no matter how long it takes when they are with those people. Even when playing sports games like how we used to play basketball, they should not engage in betting if you don't want them to get used to it because that's when the problem starts. After all, it opens their craving for other betting games as well.

Yes, parents education is necessary for their children so that they are not involved in things that will harm them. If parents can be friends and parents, their children will not hide what they do because they already trust their parents. They also won't want to try gambling because they already understand the impact of gambling on them.

There are many other activities that children can do besides gambling, especially using their devices more often than doing physical activities. We have seen that children in this era prefer to use their devices rather than do physical activities, and this is what causes a lack of socialization with each other.

It would be better if we didn't gamble at home, and even if we gamble at home, we have to have a special room. Because when at home, a child can approach his parents at any time, even suddenly without us knowing.

And I agree with your opinion that when we are a family, we should minimize gambling activities as much as possible. Because gambling is not our main priority, nor is it an obligation, but just a hobby and fun. Family is much more valuable than gambling. and it is true that when someone is unable to manage gambling activities well, is unable to control himself when gambling, and is often involved in irresponsible gambling activities, this can really affect harmony in a household relationship.

Better to be hypocrit just to prevent influencing our kids to something that we don't want them to be involve, I like your point when you say that they can imitate us which is true, young minds always have that curiosity, each time they've witness something that they think that we are enjoying probably the interest inside their minds will play on them, thinking that it will be enjoyable if they also have that same chance to play or to follow the path, gambling is not something that we can easily explain so if you are not that type of a person who are good in explaining things, then it's best not to show any in front of your kids to avois any ideas.

Kids deserve some respect from their parents, to be able to return the respect in same energy. Whatever behavior a father or mother exhibits in their kid's presence will register quickly in the child's brain. And he'll hardly avoid practicing those things even when said to be wrong or bad. Seeing his parents do it, validates that it's a good thing for kids to do. Gambling is widely spreading around every existing society, yet parents shouldn't be the influencers who help in marketing gambling to kids. Gambling in the presence of kids will only create a society where young people will abuse gambling profusely. Hence, when gambling, kids should be sleeping or busy with school assignments.

Nothing should link a parent and his kid to gambling, except when the need arises. Maybe when the child is heard using some gambling terms, he can be questioned about his involvement in gambling. At least he'd say something reasonable to help detect if he's interested in gambling or not. Aside from that, parents who gamble are expected to reduce their involvement in the game. To help build a responsible family that produces kids that'll help influence kids to behave rightly. Upbringing kids in the gambling way, will only hasten the rate at which young people get influenced by peers to begin gambling.

You are right kids have the ability to adapt fast to what their parents are involved in. For instance, a child who always watch his dad beat up his mom would probably grow up becoming a woman beater, therefore parents should be very careful with what they do in the presence of their kids, and since gambling is prohibited for kids, gambling in front of kids is not a good decision. Imagine a child who starts gambling at age 12-14 before the child gets to 18 they would've become addicted to it not only that they might start involving in dubious acts like stealing from their parents to fund their account. Some person would say parents should restrict their kids from owning phones or devices but it's not about the phone cause they could use that phone to learn and play video games but rather teach kids the disadvantages of gambling and also let them know it's against the law for them to be involved in it, no child would want to be penalised for breaking the law so I believe they would resist from doing it if parents creat awareness to them

We are as parents does really know on how education would really be changing up someones lifes and this is something a foundation on which it would really be making our children to have at least that kind of assurance that they could get a job or having that advantage in compared into those people who doesnt have that education. What more if they would really just not be able to finish up their studies and would really be focusing directly on making money through gambling? For us parents then we arent that dumb on how people do end up with gambling. This isnt something that you could really be able to make your future better with it.~

You're absolutely right about the importance of parental education in guiding children through life's challenges. It's essential to remember that while any addiction can be harmful, gambling itself is intended to be a source of pleasure and entertainment. By fostering a healthy understanding and approach to gambling as to all leisure activities parents can help their children enjoy these activities responsibly and safely.

You need to understand that when they are with their friends, you can no longer see what they're doing unless you have advised them not to do so because that's the important aspect of parenting when you give them important advice. When they are with those who gamble, they also become gamblers no matter how long it takes when they are with those people. Even when playing sports games like how we used to play basketball, they should not engage in betting if you don't want them to get used to it because that's when the problem starts. After all, it opens their craving for other betting games as well.

You're absolutely right about the importance of parental education in guiding children through life's challenges. It's essential to remember that while any addiction can be harmful, gambling itself is intended to be a source of pleasure and entertainment. By fostering a healthy understanding and approach to gambling as to all leisure activities parents can help their children enjoy these activities responsibly and safely.

Absolutely, that's a thoughtful perspective on the balance between home education and external influences. It's crucial that the values and habits we teach at home align with what children encounter in the world. By being open about topics like gaming and setting a good example, we can remain influential in our children’s choices and behaviors. I totally agree that encouraging activities like reading over passive content consumption helps develop critical thinking and curiosity, rather than just absorbing content.

Parenting is the toughest job out there. Our kids are watching us, learning every single day. If we gamble casually, guess what? They'll think its fine, and thats a path we dont want them on.

Solutions arent some complex plan. Its about being present - not just around, but truly involved.  Talk to them about stuff, even the difficult topics like the dangers of gambling. Kids deserve clear answers. We gotta get back to basics. Invest time in teaching, not just saying "dont do this." Thats the best protection we can give them. Open communication, guidance... thats the parenting gold standard, and thats what makes a difference.

Simple test, gamble few times in front of kids (this wont do any harm, trust me) and ask them in few weeks what they remember from it. You would be surprised that they dont remember anything or remember little. And ask them what game they played 2 weeks ago on Thursday evening at 20:00 and they not only will tell you the name of the game, but will explain the level they were on. Or will explain in details what was video about that they have watched that day. And try to ban mobile or tablet for a week, and see how rage the kid would be. What I am saying that among all addictions and bad things that kid could learn, people have chosen not most harmful, but put a lot of attention to fighting it.

P.S. better read in front of kids with a hope that they will get addiction to reading. Because it is surprisingly sad how little kid read today, and how much time they spend in gadgets and rely on helpers.

It's devastating to restrict a child from using his smartphone, the same way it is inadmissible, gambling in their presence. Kids don't have the right to participate in gambling. Their rights are to play video games. When they see a parent gambling on screen, the child at first will assume his dad is playing video games. And that's what gambling is, looking at it. So, if a child is not told of gambling being wagering money to win more, he'd be beyond thought to accept his dad or mom is playing mere games just as he does on the TV. Unfortunately, society is broad, and kids now stay much far away from their parents, due to school activities. Grownups don't have quality access to their kids because of work activities.

Hence, quality home training is rarely obtained in the current era. Unless those homeschooling kids have enough time to teach and watch over them. Some kids come home meeting an empty home, filled with gadgets and electronics, and no single human. It's quite boring, they'll hang out with other kids like them, whose parents are still at work. The lessons they learn there also matter in how a child behaves. Oftentimes, nothing meaningful is discussed, and gambling is mainly discussed, as they want extra funds. To compete with other kids in school. Hence, the societal struggle to balance our economy has affected the quality of home training kids once had in the past. Some parents after work are exhausted and would want to gamble at any given time regardless of whether the child is watching or not.

Kids are smart, he'll begin to wonder why a full-grown adult will get genuinely sad over a video game. There, their instinct can get to flashback on the conversation he had with other kids on gambling, he'll match the reactions on dad's face, and understand his dad gambles as well. If ads and peers influence the child's thinking, seeing his mom or dad gamble validates his decisions. Nothing stops a child from doing or trying what he saw his dad or mom do. Parents, I think, should be considerate and make a reasonable time and space for their gambling activities. Where the kids wouldn't find or see them. At least where you'd see the child first, then change the tab. Simple practices such as this help furnish a healthy home. Health is wealth.

Moral education is currently somewhat reduced because if we look at the development of children today, they tend to prefer violence rather than discussing it with each other. Maybe this results from a lack of information or closeness to their parents because their parents are busy with their work, so they cannot always supervise their children. Many children get involved in things that are detrimental to their lives, which can cause problems for their parents too. If children get involved with gambling, they will become gambling addicts at a young age. It will be riskier for them and also their parents because it will be difficult for them to give up gambling.

Education is an important thing that parents must provide apart from getting an education from school. Parents must give their children basic education so that their children know what they must do because their parents' education is different from the education they get at school. If their parents can provide a good education at home, it can protect them from bad things, especially when hanging out with their friends. They will be able to behave as necessary and not take the wrong path because they have received education from their parents.

Gambling is something that can ruin their future, especially if they are already a gambling addict. They will not be able to get out of gambling easily if there is no help from their parents and the people around them. Therefore, parents must always be able to monitor and accompany their children's development so that their children will not do something that could have a bad impact on their children.