Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 78. (Read 12692 times)

I agree with what you said, it's better for them to know it outside instead of you. Because for me, yes, we can't really avoid introducing them to gambling, but it won't look good because they learned to gamble because of you. You are the father, you should be the one who keeps your children away from any danger no matter what happens. You will be your child role as model. So please always be careful with your actions

A mistake that the children may think it's okay to gamble, it will be established on their mindset that if you are doing it meaning to say that it's not prohibited and they may also get that same interest, it's dangerous as the generation nowadays do have easy access to online gambling platforms, kids who earn that interest from what they've seen from you might trigger them to try playing and we can't just say that they are just kids as with the power of internet they can easily learn how to figure it out and start playing.

You are very careless when gambling with your family and your child pays attention to all your activities when placing bets so that he imitates your behavior in gambling. There are 2 mistakes you made because of your carelessness in gambling in front of your child and you not monitoring your child's activities when playing with gadgets, you should share solutions to overcome children who have been infected by accessing gambling, but educating children not to gamble at the age of under 18 is not enough and you must be firm in limiting the use of gadgets and must monitor all access history on gadgets, so slowly children will forgetting the activities he carried out on the previous gadget.

I grew up with my grandmother who loves to gambling, since my parents have work, they leave me to my grandma to take care of me. Since she loves gambling she bring me with her (gambling called bringi along the neighborhood which is legal and have permission). At first it looks actually fun cause she gave me 1 card and told me if the number were called just mark it. So I did and when she checked my card and won, she gave me all the prize money reason why I was hooked in gambling.

I mean I don't normalize to gambling in front of your kids which is really bad to adapt, but maybe teaching them some games in proper age would be a beneficial for them trust me. Giving them the tips and skills wouldn't be so bad as long you guide them to the point they wouldn't be addicted and would think of gambling as for fun only and padt time just like what I think to gambling.

It's a shameful act to be gambling in front of your children as a father, what lesson will you have to teach them about gambling that they listen to, seing you gambling is not of a benefit to them because you're not doing it to entice or encourage them either to also join in gambling, if one thinks he's such that cannot do without gambling everyday, he should then go private about it without involving the children, this will also help the father to maintain his integrity with the children and he can be able to correct them when necessary.

You did the right thing by telling her not to choose that part of her life; when parents gamble for a living, they are not also taking that path; however, when some are addicted, it becomes very difficult to leave and they are unable to see their children taking that part to be happy and see that they are doing the best in their lives. All parents want their children to do better than them, so despite that, this is a nice thread. If we allow our kids to choose gambling as a part of their lives, and something goes wrong, we as parents will be held responsible. We allowed these kids to start gambling when they were young, and we were powerless to stop them or correct them. If they don't have money to gamble, I believe they will definitely touch their parents' money, and a parent who didn't correct them at the appropriate time will find it difficult to communicate with them.

A father and his children can be seen gaming for a living. I was just surprised if they really believe that they have chosen the best path in life. That's not good all family should gamble. After all, if they spend all of their money on gambling, who will provide for the family's needs in the future? This kind of family may even sell all of their properties or take out loans.

gambling in front of your children is a stupid act because children easily imitate whatever their parents do. when parents gamble in front of their children it is the same as telling the children to gamble like their parents did, where at their age they should be shown positive things which can prepare them for a better life in the future.

but it would also be good if children were given good education about gambling because sooner or later they will know what gambling is, and giving them good education about gambling, especially financial management, could help them.

Children always tend to repeat and imitate their parents. The fact is that we may not even notice how children will watch us because we will be carried away by the gambling process. You need to make sure that there is no moment when the child sees it. I recently watched a poker streamer, he has 3 children. The youngest daughter sometimes sits on his lap because his wife is busy with something. I think this is not correct. This may have consequences in adulthood on a subconscious level, for example, a hidden craving for gambling will appear. She may not even understand it.

Have good quote, "like father like son" and we must show the best attitude in front of our kids, they will practice what they learn from his parent actually with father activities, if we show good activities in front of them actually when growing up they will have good attitude depend what their learn from his parents. Actually gambling platform is not worth for playing in general place, need to secure not only from children but also for people have marriage hidden as soon possible from his family or his wife.
Give bad relationship in family one day later if know with their husband have gambling habit and can't controlling their kids from bad activities. Have one hidden room if start gambling and there not access for children or family to see father or husband activities with gambling.

As parents, definitely, it's not good in front of your children to put your bet or even play slot games specially the sounds as it might attract them, although you can lower the volume, but it's not the correct way. Perhaps if you are really into gambling then just go to your place or a room that they will not see what you are going in front of your laptop or phones.


You mean influence by friends and then peer pressure? It's not really good as well, but in any case that they are exposed, hopefully they will not fall for the trap of being addicted at a young age.

It depends on the place where you currently living because if the crime rate is high caused by drug addicts and other evil people, you should not make them free to go with those people who eventually makes them due heinous crime in the future, you should take care of it while they are still young and can be easily controlled because you won't get anyway when they became criminals after all his enemies will get you if they cannot find him. I think it's better to visit your children in their room than go to prison once every week just because you want them to be free and explore the evil environment that they might be living in right now.

Yeap, dont like such kind of parents either. The must let kids to their mistakes and have their own life, instead of repeating their parents mistakes and lives. Grandpas and grandpas that overreact over everything are separate kind of problem. As they influence on their kids, who later influence kids Parents goal is to teach, give advices and observe, instead of putting kids on a leash. We can do only "good" and legal things in front of our kids, but they can grow up into completely opposite.

I really hate this parenting type where you need to supervise your children and make sure they're not going to far. Most parents are very strict and whenever they smell something strange or unethical, they will limit you or giving punishment to make you not try that.

This will make your kids have no creativity, decrease their friends and not able to leave their safe zones.

Did not get your point. Either you replace your responsibility as a parent to someone else (as you say child should learn outside). Or you are talking about a child copy/pasting your strategy of betting and gambling (as you say they watch and learn from you). Thus you confirm that the child should not learn about gambling at all. 

In first case that is imho completely wrong, you should be the one who teaches, not who corrects. In second case well, aint better for kid to learn from you directly, as he already see the result of that strategy, and later, maybe together, you work on a better tactics.

Everything that been seen by our kids specially to the things that we are really doing then it would really be considered to be right or something that it is really that will be put up into their minds that it is really just that fine that they would really be also doing it since they have seen that their parents are really doing that also. We do know that there are really things which arent supposed to be seen by our children specially that they do easily be able to adapt on things on what they are seeing and it would really be a risky thing if they have seen about gambling then this is where curiosity will kick in and might be resulting into those hidden access even if you arent that around and this is why it would be important that there should really be a private time on the moment you are making or doing gambling because its never been that good to look at if children would really be expose to it. If ever you get caught on such scenario then explaining to them on what you have done and making out some advises that you shouldnt really be doing on what you are doing or making up some warnings
that dealing with it is never been that safe. Just make sure that it do only happen one time and wont really be ending up on a rampant manner because advises would really be that useless if they do still continuing
on seeing on what you are really doing.

Children have a very big curiosity, it's hard to control their curiosity, from your story, it's your fault, why don't you play blackjack in a more private place, because your child has already seen you play blackjack, you must educate him about age limits and the negative impacts of playing blackjack at a young age who doesn't have his own income.

Now there is another problem that i think you have to control too, well that is friendship at school, usually children will share stories and start learning things that make them curious, you must supervise your children.

Gambling in front of our kids is not good because, as our kids are watching how we bet games, they are learning from there and these kids are learning things as fast as they can. So, if we are playing games in front of our children, we are also leading them astay, and we are also teaching our children how to bet them and that attitude will lead the children astray in future.

Instead of my child learning about gambling from me, it is better for the child to learn it outside so I can correct him when I notice it, but if the child learn gambling from me I will have no mouth to correct him because I thought, him by myself, so it is better to keep gambling secret in the present of our children.

What both of have said is very correct because at some point,  one can easily influence any little kids that fine themselves around us have hard a personal experiences of this on several occasions,  one was when my little elder brother son bath the way I use to bath simply because I use to bath together with the boy just for fun,  not knowing that the little one is gradually learning that from me,  I was surprise when one day I discovered that pattern from him.

So since that incident, I become very concerned about what I do when kids are around,  so gambling in front of the kids is what I will never do in no condition,  so we have to take a lot of consideration for this discussion because just like I mentioned in my earlier comment,  we can be right sure that some activities and games we play as family also unknowingly will be introducing gambling to the kids although on a low key level.

Yes, it true that the environment a kid finds himself has a role to play in the formation of whichever lifestyle he finally adopts as he grows up, but yet that doesn't mean the influence a kid will get from the environment could be compared to that which he/she could get from his/her immediate parent he/she is staying with and looks up to daily, which is the main reason why thou other factors could have a role to getting a kid addicted to gambling, but he learning it from his parents will end up creating a Pro addicted gambler, and as such should be discourage.

Yes that's what I am saying in my previous post. Minors tend to mimic our movement , actions and anything that we are doing because they are not yet capable to think what is right and what is wrong their system is not yet full develop that is why we should take an extra action. We may manage our emotions towards gambling but I am sure they are not.