Topic: Never gamble in front of your kids. - page 80. (Read 12692 times)

Based on your logic, kids copy every parents behaviour. But I've never seen kids washing dishes or cleaning the house on their own decision While their parents do that regularly. Quite strange, isnt it? Addicted to vacuum cleaning or cleaning messy room.

Also you have mentioned a "negative impact" from gambling. If it causes negative impact, it affects not only kids then. Should gambling be banned in general then? Or what is that "negative impact" you are talking about? Please dont say "gambling addiction". As this is individual. Not every gambler is addicted. And people can get addictions to various things.

An ex girlfriend of mine while we were still together narrated to me how she started drinking at a very young age just around adolescence age 10, that she use to see her dad an alcoholic, drinking  alcohol (spirit), and each time he drinks as a child she watches him drink while she's playing and one day she had to sip a little from the left over in the bottle he had.

And that was how she started having a sip in each occasion behind her dad. To her the taste was something sweet. To cut the story short... That was how she got to love taking alcohol only that in her case she doesn't buzz like her dad.

There are things we do and we think our little children are not noticing but it's all a lie. In our absence they imitate everything we do whether good or bad, and that's why we should always act and behave morally in front of our kids. Never gambling in their presence, never smoke or take alcohol in their presence because like a magnet they get attracted to those things they normally see us do as their parents.

That's true. I've seen various kids that came in my contact (some were my sister's kids, some were my brother's) and they were like, "Uncle, let's play rummy". I was shocked hearing that and asked my siblings what the hell was that. They said that they usually play different card games on weekends with their kids for fun. I couldn't believe that they were actually teaching their kids about cards without thinking that it'll have wrong impact on their brains and they'll also start playing the same on their smartphones (as they now know what is rummy and they saw some adverts that ask you to play there).

Kids most of them copy their parents behaviors so if they see them doing something as gambling, they'll for sure one day they'll get to it even if they're still underage, so it's better to not gamble in front of them, so they won't be effected by you.

It'll have such a negative impact for them for sure, you'd better do some stuffs that could add a value in their life or just to educate them about stuffs that they'll need in the future instead of just gambling.

Gambling was earlier organized solely for entertainment purposes. But nowadays the financial aspect is given more priority than entertainment. Every parent wants to keep their child away from gambling but ultimately it is not possible because they indulge in gambling in one way or by another. If a child sees gambling he will be tempted so parents should take utmost care until they are worthy to gamble that means proper age. But the problem is that nowadays online gambling is easy so a minor can easily get addicted to gambling. Moreover, they can get involved in gambling through close friends. Parents need to increase awareness to avoid this situation.

A child will not understand that gambling is wrong. They will just start trying to play it based on what they see. But they begin to understand the game when they see their parents gambling in front of them and memorize it so they can play it themselves.

This requires attention from every parent. Whatever activities they have that could have a bad impact on their children should not be shown in front of them. Children can memorize what they see and then do it themselves without anyone guiding them. Perhaps it's better to invite their children to do activities outside the home so they can train their brains and socialize with their friends.

Gambling in front of children is something that is not recommended because it is very easy for children to imitate what their parents do. When parents gamble in front of their children, it will make the children think that gambling is very normal and they will most likely imitate that. Moreover, when they get access to a cell phone, it is possible that they will find out about online gambling and start playing it.
It's best for parents to gamble in a quiet place, whether it's their room or another place, basically not in front of their children.

In the eyes of an innocent child, the wrong implications of a gambling activities done by every parents who gambles for money will eventually become the right actions for every child. As a strict parenting, that's not recommended to let your kids witness that acts of gambling in front of them. Though you're earnings money from winnings, but I don't think it's appropriate to educate then in an earlier age. They're supposed to study for their future, not to gamble just for luck.

Good points.
Children are imitative and will readily accept what they see with their eyes. They will easily imitate a thing and accept it without knowing the horror or negative effects of that thing.
If we expose children to the horrific act of gambling, they will easily master it and use this horrific experience later in their lives. This will make their lives miserable and have a huge impact on their careers which is never desirable for a country or a society.
So we should do the gambling out of sight of the children for the time being. By doing this they will be saved from this dangerous influence and later they will be able to serve the country and nation as good people.

A show of respect and regard for ones kid and himself is to display any behaviour that is capable of mildly, moderately, and extremely affecting the child mentally, emotionally, morally, spiritually and otherwise. And one of those behaviours is gambling. The negative effect on the kid may not be seen immediately however, manifestations of it will begin to become obvious as the kid approaches adolscence.

I reiterate with the OP, NEVER GAMBLE IN FRONT OF YOUR KIDS OR ANY KID.

If parents are into gambling it is possible that the kid will pick up the habit too and for some parents they don't even care, they believe it's normal for them to involve the kids in such things, some people are that bad at parenting, this is why it's better to choose your partners carefully, where I am from, if someone have a very habit, they will tell you to look into their household, where you are from will tell people who you really are.

Children are in a very impulsive stage of their lives, they always grow this kind of strong interest in knowing everything without understanding the risks associated with what they are trying to learn.

I was exposed to video games at a very young age and it affected my education because I was so amazed about video game, the possibility to control a character, from Pokemon games and Mario games, I ended up with poor educational results and it prolonged my journey.

I strongly believe that exposing kids to gambling can have a very bad influence in their lives, every responsible parents who are into gambling must make sure that they never have any gambling related conversation in front of the children.

It happens often in our environment because teenagers gather with their friends and play cards. If they don't use cards, maybe that's okay, but they could use money without the adults knowing because playing cards without money doesn't provide much of a sensation. They play the cards while learning more about the card game and usually, this is about learning traditional card games so if they use money, it will be even more interesting. And indeed, children are perfect imitators of what adults do, so we must be careful and not show our gambling activities in front of them.

Good point. Actually, saw it on the internet one day - dont try to educate your kids, educate yourself as they are your copy/paste. It is possible to gamble in front of them, the point is to behave during gambling. Dont make it as a habit or only source of income. Dont turn addicted in front of them. Dont teach them that gambling as something negative (otherwise it wont make sense, it is negative and you do it. they will get a CPU fail). Follow this steps and gamble in from of them, there is nothing bad in it.

I understand your perspective. From my observation in our local community, many adolescents play cards after seeing their parents or guardians play. Some even start playing before reaching adolescence. Children often imitate adults, so setting a good example and discouraging negative behaviors like gambling is important.

Yes, I agree that we cannot control our children. Nowadays, gambling is prevalent. Everyone knows about gambling because it is widely advertised on social networks and on the streets. But it's still good if we never gamble before our children when they are young. Awareness about the harmful effects of gambling is still lacking. No one can stop your children when you play in front of them. Just like you are an alcoholic, how can you forbid your child to drink alcohol?
In case your child is of a certain age (16+), it is necessary that we teach them to understand the harmful effects of gambling addiction. The proportion of people gambling is increasing. If we know the harmful effects, our children will partly avoid gambling addiction in the future.

your example seems to be not related to gambling specially exercise or some thing , because indeed that if you are living in environment that Gambling is in expose , but why need to gamble in front of them?
isn't better to never let them see you gamble? not unless you will admit being addicted that you cannot deny gambling even in the face of your children?
and yes every excess is not good, but we are not talking about excessive gambling here instead it is that gambling in their faces that we are tackling here , and with your post , there is a justifying here and please try to understand what is the essence of this game.
I agree that we cannot hinder gambling from our kids forever but at least we will do everything for them to understand the bad side of gambling and there are only few that will give this good to our life,
there are many places where to find happiness so why need in gambling when there are complete losses inside?

I don't know if this is really the best approach, because we won't be able to control our kids lives forever. Gambling became a huge part of society in many countries and not talking about it is not removing it. I am not a big fan of bans or trying to avoid a subject completely. It's one thing to avoid the topic of gambling at home, but we don't know what our kids are getting exposed to from friends at school or seeing online. Already in movies gambling can be seen a lot and if we don't inform our children about it, they are more likely to get interested in it. That is why I think at a certain age (16+) it could be helpful to show them some gambling. Isn't it better if we do it together with our kids and can teach them about the casino edge and the winning chances, instead of them learning about it alone through friends or social media? We can't protect our kids forever and eventually they will find out about gambling. In my opinion I would prefer them to learn about it first before giving it a try themselves when they turn 18. Of course, homework and studies are much more important, this should be a treat for them and they need to earn it first. Doing good in school should be the goal and then we could teach them a bit about gambling, if they are really interested. 

It depends on the environment which we find ourselves, gambling is something before it happens or play in secret but now due to civilisations that is what prompted some people to at least go into gambling seriously, children gambling at tender age is prohibited and when you see some people gambling in old days the people are prominent or classic people who gamble to catch fun but currently we gamble without season and we gamble to feed on it, so allowing children or your kids that's not up to twenty years at least eighteen years to participate in gambling is not good as parents and for me it's prohibited gambling on underage.

Gambling infront of kids need to be avoided for various reasons. The major reason, kids will follow what the parents do. Kids will try to use it when they get an opportunity. Another thing, kids might get hatred over the parents as they don't spend time with kids. This is very rare to take place with kids, some parents gamble and when lost they show the anger over the kids. This could happen and the kids don't know the reason behind the anger. This unwanted anger could also affect the kids mentality and love towards the parents.

Avoiding gambling in front of children is a good message for those who have never experienced anything like you. They like to ask their parents directly about habits they often see as a result of their thinking patterns which are in the growing stage.
If the type of child is not very familiar with people - does not dare to ask directly about their gambling habits, they will keep it to themselves and it can also have an effect on them.

In many shows we can see that bad habits such as being busy with smartphones are not very good for their psychology, especially as parents keep themselves busy gambling in front of them, whether intentionally or unintentionally.