Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 16. (Read 10419 times)

And over time, this becomes a problem not only for the irresponsible player himself, but also a problem for all his close people.  First of all, he begins to lose a lot of money and often this money represents part of the family budget.  And there is one more aspect - such a player spends too much time in the game, that is, he does not engage in any ordinary everyday activities at all.  This means that other family members must do something useful for him.  It turns out that the harm from an overly gambling player is multiplied by several other members of his family.  Naturally, all these family members become dissatisfied and irritable. 
And it all ends either in scandals, or in divorces and the destruction of the very family of such a gambling player.

You should have that time to stop when you feel that you are already doing something that is not usual with how you do your gambling activities. From that point, chances that you will be able to determine whether you are still in good shape or you are already exceeding  from what is supposedly limits your participation.

Most of the time, when you already exceed, it's added to your desire to continue and take a longer run, things that have put you in danger, as gambling is really something that is difficult to control when it already dominates you.

Take that time to pause for a while and rest yourself if it's needed. There's nothing wrong if you need to assess
something in you, that's the right thing to do when gambling is all around you.

Stopping gambling to evaluate what has happened to us while we are gambling is very necessary so that we can find out whether there are any negative impacts that we have experienced. If there is an impact, we can find a solution or we can even reduce gambling activities and the time and money spent on gambling. And we also have to be able to control ourselves more vigorously so that we can reduce its impact. We have to be open with all things, especially those that can help us reduce our gambling activities, because it is for our good too. We cannot continue gambling when we are having problems gambling and have to solve it first before the problem gets bigger and we will have more difficulty solving it.

But that is most of the time the issue, if someone had a strong enough will to stop doing something that is affecting their lives already then they would have done it long time ago, so those that have gambled to the point that things have progressed until they became addicted to gambling, do not have the tools necessary to overcome it on their own and they need to look for external help, and even with that help the chances that they recover are slim.

Yes that's right. Anything in excess is a bad habit, not only gambling but also smoking, drinking and women. If you pamper yourself excessively, it is a sign that you have become an addiction and need to be avoided. If you don't avoid it, it will ruin our lives in the future.

Moreover, gambling is always addictive, and makes people make excuses to themselves and others. Why is it difficult to give up gambling? The reason is, the brain has been poisoned by the upcoming "sudden riches" or what is usually called easy money. So it is difficult for us to stop gambling because we have no motivation. IMO. People who can stop gambling are only people who are close to God and know how to be grateful for this life.

Everything that involves giving up something that we like is very difficult, it cannot be done overnight, or unless you have a will of steel, I am not a fan of looking for things to do to do, if we do something it is because we are passionate about it, I have that way of thinking, if I am in a casino I try to enjoy it, it doesn't matter if I lose, because losing is among the normal things that can happen, the difficult thing is that after losing then you lose control, that is the bad thing and that is what should be avoided, worse that not everyone should enter a casino to play.

If a person is willing to quit the game because he knows that it is bad for him or that he is about to fall into an addiction, that is fine, but he should not do it completely or just starting out, that should be done little by little, because difficult is one of the things hardest things in life, I think that there are many things that can be done, but the important thing is that you avoid being addicted, if it is to avoid being addicted you should stop completely.

Exactly, that indeed the levels of substances in dopamine will be able to increase more when someone feels an unusual sensation that certainly gives them an extraordinary feeling of pleasure. It makes a person always hallucinate without limits, there is no control that is asserted or the limits that they have previously made almost forgotten, when you are in such a position then there is nothing else you think about other than a positive point of view on gambling especially putting high hopes on a victory, the fact is that good results always depend on how lucky you are at that time but they seem to have forgotten this fact because high hopes and beliefs make them unable to make considerations based on common sense.

"Almost winning" will of course always be their main concern and focus, instead of looking for reasons why at that time they failed to win but what they think is just the opposite which is more motivated and feels challenged to return to achieving moments like that again. Even though the fact is that different times mean different results too, or the point is that if in the first session you almost won it doesn't mean that when you enter the second session you can continue such moments again to achieve a delayed victory. Gamblers who are already addicted have a really confusing position, they just spin in a worrying cycle, the wrong mindset and beliefs make it difficult for them to get out of the addiction zone.

Once you do get shackled with addiction, then it is really that hard to get out or could be able to break the chain, unless if you are a person who do have that strong will and having that kind of discipline and good control then this kind of thing wont really be an issue but we know that not everyone does have this kind of thinking on which there would really be those people who do really ends up
on messing up their lives just because they cant really be able to quit up gambling for good on which it do really even turns out to be even more worst on the time that they would be still continuing to play. There are people who do have that control and there are ones who can't. So situation would really vary on each individual.

Logically right, no one would wish that they would have that deep engagement and risk both their time and money for such kind of activity, but it happens after involving yourself in gambling, at first you are just enjoying, and you feel that entertaining yourself in this venue is just a usual way of entertainment, but your repeatable gaming keeps you attach and lead you to a deeper connection, and that's where you lose your control and start suffering from that deep addiction.


Yeah, stop or pause and re-assess yourself, if you still have that capability it means that your addiction is not that deep yet, you can analyze what happened and what went wrong, if you are open to accept all the help that being provided, it will be an easier journey to quit away from gambling, it's all on you and how willing you are to stop.

If gambling addicts were willing to open themselves up to other people and ask them for help, many people would be able to immediately treat these gambling addicts so they could cure their gambling addiction. But unfortunately, not many want to do it and instead sink deeper into gambling without any desire to heal themselves. Maybe the people around him still wouldn't know that he was addicted to gambling so they couldn't help him immediately.

Stopping gambling for a while is a solution for someone who feels that they have started to become addicted to gambling or even those who are already addicted to gambling. But that will only happen if they have the awareness that gambling has turned them into a gambling addict. When we become more emotional than before and have lost a lot of money because of gambling, maybe it's time for us to start introspecting ourselves to find out the real problem.

If they are addicted to gambling, it will be difficult to stop gambling even though they use various methods. My friend said that they have been affected by psychological dependence on gambling, their thoughts will always trigger them to gamble again even though you have committed to getting out of addiction. So in my opinion there is no effective solution to stop gambling within a month, even though they have followed the rehabilitation process to eliminate the feeling of addiction to gambling, the right tips for reducing gambling addiction are limiting betting activities and limiting funds for any bets.

The gambler who do gambling with certain period of time continuously will get trigger again in the gap period of his regular activity.The gambler who get addicted to gambling will learn to handle the tough situations to make money for the situation he doesn’t have any money in the gambling site.Gambler who get addicted person in gambling will require more time to get away from the gambling addiction.Because they get tempted to play the gambling at all the time he get money from his economic sources.The gambling addicted person should reduce their games by small step daily and reduce their deposit to gambling site.

Usually addiction comes when you don't even expect or see it coming, to the person it might just be business as usual and then some factors start contributing and gradually leading you slowly to addiction, and the funniest part of it is that you just see yourself there and you dont even know how you got there. I don't believe there's anyone who plans to get addicted to gambling or something else but due to lack of control and self discipline they just find themselves there and it's usually difficult and almost impossible to get out of it.

these tips are are good if the family of gambler who is in initial stage take action against it.
but we don't show or tell to other people that we gamble and we are losing money everyday so it becomes very hard to get out of this cycle. because the gambler's family doesn't know anything.
the brain of a gambler completely stop thinking about real things and continue his new habit of gambling without telling anyone.

Not just 'almost-won' scenarios, but the complete digital ecosystem engineered to tempt and entrap. Our brains want dopamine and are easily manipulated. The illusion of control and overconfidence in skills drive us to chase losses. Ironically, near-win thrill leads to addiction. Admitting addiction takes courage. This is a war against oneself and the brain's rush-seeking wiring. Gamblers are sometimes blinded by the chase of the next big victory and don't recognize the financial trap. The cycle is harmful. When do they brake? Tragically, they typically wait until rock bottom. Intervention and awareness are crucial. Responsible gambling and early addiction detection need more attention. Family and friends are vital. They usually identify warning indicators first. It's about stopping the loop before it escalates. Fighting addiction takes strength, support, and occasionally a wake-up call from life

It is very clear that the deeper or more often a person is involved in gambling, the more adrenaline will also be triggered, the reason is because you will meet more and more moments that are quite tantalizing there, such as moments that you should be able to get a big win but instead fail just because of something, and that is what makes the gambler's adrenaline even more stimulated and wants to come again to bet in the hope of getting the moment that has been missed and failed. Addiction more often comes unconsciously or unnoticed by gamblers due to their excessive behavior, they feel normal in their gambling activities even though behind the scenes they feel that there are financial problems that they are now feeling but strangely cannot conclude that all these problems come from their excessive gambling activities.

It's good to make a judgment before it's too late, but it's usually very difficult to come to a realization when the gambler is already in the high adrenaline phase, which is why nothing else they do is even considered, they just want to gamble and keep gambling. On the other hand, it seems that they will only be able to make some considerations to find better decisions when they have experienced a downturn that traumatizes them and reaches consciousness.

Your adrenaline changes when your participation gets deeper. I mean, at first you treat things as part of your entertainment, but because of your continuous involvement, you become addicted and there's that problems reside, things that you can't control anymore. It is easy before things get to addiction, better to make that assessment when you are dealing with gambling before things get worse and you are unable to protect yourself and control your emotions.

Quitting is always part of your options. Think wiser when dealing with gambling as bad side effects also await you if you fail to control yourself.

It is entirely up to the individual to quit gambling the individual can control himself if he wants to. But if the addiction is a compulsive gambling problem you may be constantly betting which leads to losses using up savings and creating debt. You may hide your behavior and even turn to theft or fraud to support your addiction for example someone who plays a game for fun one day and comes back sober is different. For one who has become unemployed the matter has become like a reflexive action and the amount of radical destruction is greater.

Instead of saying it's an addiction, we should honestly acknowledge this bad habit, according to many people, from smoking to gambling, these are all bad habits produced by life pressure and gradually, it becomes an integral part of the rest of their lives. Doctors really try to treat it, but the root is the damaged part. Even if more reasonable options are offered, the cells in the body are out of sync, and the brain will still follow its habits, as you said, from the beginning they were indecisive, reaching this level is something that would require a miracle to cure

One should know better than to trust his money into the hands of someone who isn't trustworthy, when I mean trusting your funds with someone, I mean someone you're very sure you can trust, someone you're sure wouldn't breech the contract.
And again, it should be a formal agreement and breeching would attract consequences. The person should be fully aware of this terms so I dmt think that he'll go ahead ahead to do that. I know humans are not to be trusted and absolutely unpredictable but there are people you can trust with tasks like this