Topic: Quit gamble! Easy or Hard? Let's talk. - page 18. (Read 9748 times)

But the problem is that professional gamblers sometimes don't want to share their experiences with novice gamblers and not all professional gamblers want to answer every question that novice gamblers want to know. Like one day there was a novice gambler who asked what to pay attention to and avoid when gambling and the professional gambler answered just do what you do.
Actually, I know what professional gamblers mean so that novice gamblers don't get too spoiled, every little thing is always asked, whereas currently sophisticated search media provides many things that we need and if novice gamblers experience problems or whatever, it can be an experience to fix it yourself and get learning valuable.
So sometimes professional gamblers give advice not in too many words but only in action.

If we have a good relationship with our family, I'm sure we won't go beyond our limits when gambling, because of course we have budget and time limits for our family too so it will be well controlled. Gambling recklessly is a fatal mistake especially if we don't have a good relationship with our family. it will ruin your gambling mood and make it difficult to feel comfortable when gambling.

Gambling should be a hobby, not a job that has to be done every day, there are certain times to play which are more comfortable for gamblers, when we feel bored with gambling we can look for other hobbies to entertain ourselves so we don't just rely on gambling as entertainment to have fun. like.

In fact, novice gamblers can learn from experienced gamblers by always looking for ways to gamble comfortably like experienced gamblers always do. This is so that they don't gamble excessively and can always control themselves when gambling. However, if a novice gambler does not want to learn how to control himself well and tends to gamble frequently, he will not be able to resist the temptation that comes to him, so he will eventually experience a gambling addiction. And if he is addicted to gambling, he will only think about gambling without any desire to do other things.

Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I appreciate your concern, and it's true that some people may turn to gambling for companionship or as a way to rid of loneliness. It's important to approach these situations with empathy and understanding.

Your advice about estimating time with family and treating gambling as a hobby resonates well. Building meaningful connections can indeed provide a more fulfilling and sustainable source of support.

You know, sometimes what you said also comes to mind, so maybe there are other gamblers who spend their time gambling because they think that they are alone in their lives and only gambling is their partner in their solitude.

You can't blame them because the others are brought on by old age; there are probably gamblers in the same situation. But if you're strong and not that old, it's still good to spend more time with your own family than to waste it on useless things. Do gambling only as a hobby and for no other reason.

Well, quit gambling? I think this is even harder for me than quitting smoking and drinking alcohol. Cigarettes and alcohol are always harmful to health, and they are costly. I'm thinking of giving them up. Regarding gambling, I will never quit. It is my spiritual food. It really helps me entertain myself and earn some money. There is no reason for me to give up gambling.
Yes, gambling also involves high risks. Your addiction to gambling will ruin your life more than cigarettes and alcohol. So it depends on each person. If you feel gambling is beneficial for yourself, Why do we give up gambling?

Yes, this is where an experienced gambler has the ability to control because no matter how addicted he is to gambling, he can control himself. But if someone is non-professional and if he cannot control himself in gambling then there must be a big threat for him. A non-professional gambler does not realize how much risk he is in by becoming addicted to gambling. But a professional gambler with a lot of experience can save himself from the horrors of gambling even if he is addicted to gambling.

It will be even more difficult if they have a stubborn nature where they will not accept advice from other people so that what other people say will be of no use. People like those who are difficult to advise cannot be changed or willing to open their minds because they still believe that they are fine. They don't want to listen to other people even though what other people say is true, and they should be able to accept advice from other people.

People who have been gambling for a long time have experienced the effects of gambling because they have at least started to gamble more frequently, even though they can still control their gambling games and not fall deeper into gambling. But people who cannot control themselves will get deeper into gambling without being able to know whether they are addicted to gambling or whether they are still okay. But most gamblers have started to like gambling and can still play occasionally.

To be precise, their knowledge is not broad so they cannot realize what they are doing is wrong. The only factor that can make them realize is that they themselves do not think about the losses they have experienced, as well as the many solutions they can do to stop gambling, but it is difficult for them to realize so they cannot accept that gambling must be abandoned. Not to mention if they have a stubborn nature, I think it will be very difficult to make them realize.

People who have been gambling for a long time will find it difficult to open new thoughts, because they will only think about the winnings they will get, even though it will not guarantee them to be able to change their lives nor will it make their lives easier in the future, maybe some people have luck in gambling so that they can get big wins that can change their lives, but people's luck is different. So it should be able to think about this that maybe this will make them realize not to do excessive gambling.

Life is too short and that's why I hope that those that can't control themselves will think of that and they will immediate realize that it's better for them to do something for their loved ones than to focus in gambling when they've got limited resource and time for it. While the time and money that they're going to spend to their loved ones are going to be worthwhile.

It's truly different but someone has to appreciate that when he's on the downside of his life because of gambling. We're not stopping people to gamble because we're all gamblers. But we're reminding people that they need to do what's priority to them and when they gamble, they need to gamble only with the amount that they can afford to lose because it's not always a good day and lucky day for all of us. Even if we're the luckiest today, tomorrow it won't be and that's why allot time to your family and they can help you quit gambling or lessen your gambling activities.

It's like this, when it comes to the game, before playing we have to make plans, put intelligence into everything that is done, I consider that the most intelligent thing to do in these cases is to make a good plan available, a plan that is It adapts completely to the basic things, and one of those is our pocket. We can't spend more than we should, because we can't, if we do it like we do later, to respond to the things we should buy, spend or do Immediately? We are people who at any time can be fine with any type of casino games or sports betting, because basically if we start playing with controlled money, or that which we allow ourselves to lose, we are going to enjoy ourselves and we are going to get things done. very well, besides nothing will get out of control, everything will be under our control all the time, whether or not we are inside a casino, we know that things can be difficult to win, however we must Always look for that, to win.

Winning in the good sense of the Word, not like there are some people who enter a casino for the first time and start doing everything wrong, and bet everything they have, and that is not the idea, to do things like that so desperate and Because they don't have a plan , they fall into addiction immediately, not otherwise, everyone can do it, but we can also control ourselves, reason is above any impulse, and although casinos always bring out our emotions, impulses , all of this makes us feel bad at a given moment, in a casino we cannot lose control, if we lose control we lose money, that is logical, and we have to take care of our money, we Cannot assume that money will give us everything to be able to settle things and run out of money, therefore our money will always be our first Objective and we can take care of it, much better.

Gambling is not only for fun as you said OP otherwise there wouldn't be that desperacies to who wins and who looses. Besides... Who wants to keep loosing it's money all for fun? If you want catch the fun in gambling then play with friends, families or colleagues but at the moment of you in the gambling tables, you remains a threat to your oppositions against their winning and the winning is come with undisputable excitements which probably the rate of the won crown could change financial status an overnight and so can also change the loosers financial status overnight by deflation.
So know when you gambles for fun and when you have to gamble to win and not just about the relaxation that rambling is just fun.
 If you are still gambling, you should quit now. If you cannot quit by yourself, there are so many channels to help you. Even you can talk to me. I will do my best to help you.

Moreso, gambling is a source of income  as long it has a profit that is why stakes are required to multiplying the winners stake rather it shouldn't be taking a prio or leanis on it as your source of income else that is where addictions and irresponsibilities are breeded.

After his recovery, her husband was able to start his new life with his family again, and her husband will make up for his mistakes in the past by working hard to make his family happy. Well, perhaps he doesn't want to answer our questions because it might hurt him, and he wants to forget what happened to him, so we don't need to ask him for answers so he can focus on his family and improve his family's economy well. You are right that it all depends on a person's will and his ability to work on curing his gambling addiction so that he will not repeat the mistakes of the past. For now, he is busy with his days of making his family happy again. Hopefully, his experiences in the past can provide lessons for him and all of us so that we can be really careful when gambling and not use our money too much. We are responsible for our gambling activities, and we should also be able to control our gambling activities and ourselves.

I go with that last statement, the fun that you will get coming from your love ones is far better and true than the fun that you are gaining from each gambling sessions that you got, more on the alluring side of your lust that leads you to continue polluting your mind regarding to your gambling participation, unlike with the fun that you will share with your family when there's no gambling inside your minds, all serves as good memories and nothing but real joy in life.

That's the phase of denial and we as gamblers don't want our families to get involved on our gambling activities. And we don't want them to know that we're gambling because first, they will think that we're actual addicted gamblers even if we're not or not yet. But let's just admit the fact that many gamblers go to that point that they become addicted because they lack of control.

And if no one stops us from gambling even if they're seeing that we're already going to that point of our lives that we're becoming severe. That's our problem because we don't even want them to stop us, so even if they are aware of it, they just don't want to intervene because for some reasons.

Likely, first, that they've reminded us but we have never obliged and we could have been mad at them so they don't want that to happen again. That frustration from their end is understandable but the time will come that we need to do better not just for them but mostly for ourselves.

Yeah, the fact of the matter is that this man I know was cured from a very serious stage of gambling addiction in some completely incomprehensible way.  Indeed, for several years his family suffered from the facct that they did not have enough money even for food, simply because he kept losing everything in gambling.  But, according to his wife, her husband, for some unknown reason, began to play less and less at some point.  It seemed as if someone had coded him, or he himself was “burned out” by the desire to gamble. 
When you ask him how you managed to do this, he always avoids answering and it is impossible to understand the reason for such a change.  But I know for sure that he did not openly seek medical and psychological help.  So, apparently there are different options for treating gambling addiction. 
And probably everything depends on the person’s willpower and on the ability to somehow get together, realize and suppress such a vicious passion as the painful desire to gamble.

Actually many gamblers will do the gambling without knowing of their family members,when they are in the addiction.If the gambler are free from their family touch and had separate room for the gambler is enough.So the gambler will do gambling on their wish,no one will stop from their family circle.Only if the gambler had loss huge money in the gambling and ask their relatives for money as loan,then the family members come to know the gambler was involved in some thing.On investigation with the gambler,they come to know about their activities.So the gambler who loss money get capture by the family members,if the gambler manage all the loss from their winnings from the later game in gambling sites means.In this case the gambler can't be identified by their family members.

Salute to those family members that are doing their best to stop the one family member that are being involved in gambling and they know that will become addicted eventually. We are all gamblers and we know the risk that it has and the effects that can happen for someone. What matters now is that everyone should be aware of the consequences of it.

If your family is very worrying of what it can do to you and them ,then you have to decide and think again whether you want to proceed or not anymore. Because if you do so, that means that you're not giving them a chance to help you out because they understand things better than you.

And if you insist that you know better than them then it only means that you're not giving them any space of what you're thinking. There are things that you just need to give up and you'll get a better version of yourself if you do it. And for the addicted gamblers, forget about gambling for a while and give your family a chance to be with you and have fun, it's way better than the fun that you used to get as you gamble.

Of course it is the people around them who suffer. The addict is just feeding their addiction so they are happy. They must be or they would change their behavior. If they are unhappy and choose not to change their behavior then they have no one else to blame but themselves. In the end, people need to be the ones to hold themselves accountable for their actions.

When a person is sick, and like it is the case here those which are addicted are sick on their minds, the ones that are around them suffer greatly, and in some cases it could be said they even suffer more than the sick ones, as they try to do anything that could help their loved ones, only for every single attempt to fail, so this is very draining mentally and it could cause some of them to develop issues on their own as they cannot deal with that situation anymore.