If the offer is full replacement of my coins, then -- Offer accepted. I eagerly await my replacement silver.
But, for posterity, I'll respond to some of your points. You state that I've been less than truthful. I maintain that I haven't, but I'll meet you halfway and concede that there does appear to have been a rather large breakdown in communication between us.
[Monday, November 05, 2012] [05:56:27 PM] absolutely, and if I can't get them to properly cover the parcel I'll quite possibly end up covering a portion of the loss out of pocket in replacements
This is the standing offer I made to Kris on the same day I was told by our insurance company that they'd likely be unable to cover the cost of replacement. This offer was in place up until give or take the point that I saw him create a similar thread on the 17th of Feb at which point I lost patience with trying to help him... That's exactly why I offered to cover at least a portion of the parcel's silver, and would have been very amenable to covering 100% of the replacement, but Kris never followed up with me about my offer even at the time that I made it.
At no point did I get the impression that an offer was being made. There was no, "Nope they won't cover it, I'll replace it (or x%). Do you accept that?". It was all, "I'll keep chasing them, but if they don't, then I may (or probably will)". In my opinion, your 'offers' were non-committal and indefinite.
I was waiting for a final decision. I certainly didn't realise that I had to somehow accept something, or that there was anything definite to accept. I assumed that if you decided to, you'd send replacements and let me know.
He'd just send "ping" and nothing else, and go offline before I could respond. He's had my email address since before he even placed an order, but aside from "ping" on IRC periodically he hasn't really been in contact with me regarding my offer. I got an email from him on 9/13 which I replied to, and then got nothing in my inbox until January 4th.
As previously stated, I'd just log on to see of you were on. If not, I'd try again later. Email had proved ineffective so I had largely abandoned it as a comms channel. I think perhaps you attributed bad intentions when there were none. It was simply a real pain in the arse trying to communicate across the globe with email not being effective.
So between Kris not even emailing me about the offer I made him before posting here, combined with the countless sacrifices I make as a general rule to help my customers, I of course took his accusation and the inaccuracies of his account very personally.
I emailed Jon on Jan 8, he forwarded it to you on Jan 9. I purposely waited over a month before starting the thread on Feb 17. I didn't receive any contact from you until I started that thread.
Look at the content and title of this thread, as well as his last thread: both inflationary and confrontational, demanding 80btc instead of replacement products as I offered him all the way back in November.
In hindsight, my choice of words for the title was ill thought out. I didn't intend to imply that I expected 80btc replaced -- I even explicitly clarified this on page 3. I was just quantifying my original loss.
Confrontational? Hell yes. I felt particularly hard done by.
Edit: better werds.