Topic: The madness of gambling addicts. - page 65. (Read 15689 times)

If they consciously feel that they will not win often, perhaps they will think that gambling to make money is very wrong, so they will change their mindset to gamble more towards having fun, after all, gambling hoping to win is the same as hoping for something that will not happen. can be achieved every time, for example winning once while losing a hundred times doesn't seem fair.

I don't think that they always consider casino games with a concept that might be fair, if only they spent more time they would definitely feel for themselves how many wins they get are not commensurate with the losses they get, actually it all depends on how we control ourselves and our emotions in gamble so as not to get trapped with a gambling addiction. gamble wisely don't go beyond the limits like other crazy addicts.

There are many factors that cause them to eventually be driven to stick to their bad habits or as people who do not know anything and then plunge into this gambling. I would say that those who are already addicted to gambling will absolutely not think of anything else to be a better consideration, they just want to continue doing the habit because it may be almost completely the brain and mind have been dominated by lust and curiosity for a victory. I'm not at all sure that your healthy mind fully agrees with what you're doing, even if you could be conscious then maybe the habit wouldn't happen.

Consciously we know that everyone (gamblers) always want something more than what they already get, a win? well you can get that, but are you sure you can always get it? obviously not for something that is only based on luck, you will only exchange one win for several defeats.

good points
many will say that we create our reality, I like the idea too that when your mind open up for a new idea it never gets back to the original size again (was it Einstein?)

now, how sure are you that attention creates thoughts? maybe there's a stream of thoughts that could happen regardless of your attention but you can uses your attention to keep them or leave them...
what do you think?

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It's amazing how bold a person can be when it comes to his gambling habit. I heard some stories like robbing Peter to pay Paul and it's unbelievable how common it is actually. Maybe these people think the city is too huge for them and that they can't be found if one loanshark looks for their money.

Just thinking about the consequences makes me wanna skip town. If these loanshark will just show up bringing their own doctor to take your kidneys out, it will be the end.

When you borrow money and then again put all that money into gambling, this means that you are totally addicted to gambling and you are too desperate to win.

I have never seen such a gambler win anything that could help him return the loan and at the same time get any money for this profits too. The gambler will usually lose all the borrowed money too and now he would be helpless as he has to repay the loan as well. Such a bad financial situation will lead to suicide and other social evils.

I wish, somehow gambling addiction could be eliminated from society.

That kind of determination is due to being addicted. It's no longer in the right mind when deciding to that kind of decisions, for sure, it will worsen the situation if the person will continue to please his addiction.

There's always a bad side effect for being an addicted gambler, aside from losing lots of money. There's also
chances that being out of control of the situation, they will do things that they will going to regret after
to the point that they will end up doing illegal and be in jail or being beggars and continue living outside.

When a gambler who dares to take the risk of borrowing large amounts of money just to gamble is the beginning of his addiction and this will be very bad when a regular gambler tries to get a loan to gamble and becomes addicted because he loses all his borrowed money after that he tries to pursue it in any way possible while The pressure of having to pay back borrowed money is one of the causes of gambling addicts becoming crazier about stealing or robbing, even worse, borrowing again in large amounts to catch up on any losses.
This problem is the downfall of a gambling addict who is determined to fulfill his addiction and most addicts who have started to take this bad step will usually end their life and go far away and move to another city.

Well obviously that is very true, but I think it also depends on their own level of addiction, if they are already at a high stage of addiction then it is very likely that they as the head of the family to risk everything they have, and as a general result then the economy in the family will be destroyed and after that it is not uncommon for some of them to divorce, in my place there have been many cases like this. And yes as I said above it depends on how their intentions come to the gambling, if they come just for fun then I think maybe unwanted events like that can be minimized.

As we know if someone (gambler) has a damaged mindset in the sense that they almost completely depend on gambling, then instead of the victory they get but instead they lose indefinitely. Therefore, as I said above, your goals and mindset greatly affect the impact you will receive in the end, so I think it is better to prevent than to cure.

Incidents like this have happened a lot even before online casinos developed there were already lots of similar cases and what worse they actually dared to take risks by borrowing money from owners or loan sharks in traditional casinos.
It's a shame that many families are destroyed because of gambling and what is really worrying is that a child when his father becomes a crazy gambling addict then he forgets his duties as a father and responsibility as the backbone of the family who needs to provide education, guidance and finances for children but instead prioritize gambling.

Obviously because this is wrong thinking and the house edge is impossible to provide consistent winnings for every gambler to be able to use gambling as a place to find a source of income and from the many experiences like this more and more people should be aware of it rather than becoming more obsessed or ambitious about getting rich from gambling.

And if they still don't realize it, the problem will get bigger and perhaps won't be resolved quickly because the people around them are already feeling the impact so it requires more effort to find the roots. But if the gambling addict is not willing to stop for a moment and talk to the people around him, it will probably destroy all relationships until there is nothing left. And when a relationship is broken, it can't be repaired unless the person who caused the problem comes with good intentions and, apologizes and promises not to do it again.

A healthy mindset can reduce reckless actions in gambling because we think first before deciding. And if we have seen our previous losses and don't want to see defeat again, we will immediately stop whatever conditions we experience. We can accept defeat well because it is the impact of gambling and we cannot avoid it. We can only reduce the number of losses by stopping and resting for a few days.

Yeah, many families have been destroyed because of gambling, where the head of the family basically gambled all their money away, leaving the family with nothing.

It might be ironic because some of them are trying to get more money for their families, and yet they end up with nothing in the end.

Well that's obvious, the reality is like that, not only those who experience addiction can feel the impact but obviously the people around them will also definitely at least experience the same thing, especially people who are very close to them, but yes the impact for them will not be too significant. Yes, that's right, things that they never expected are very possible and very likely to do if they have really lost control, one of which may be that they will commit crimes, or borrow money from their colleagues with various promises that they will not even keep, and also besides that maybe they could steal their friend's goods to sell and the money is allocated to gambling, it is very possible and indeed it is not uncommon for such cases to occur.

Therefore, it is very important for them including us to maintain a healthy mindset when we want to gamble, none other than because that will be able to minimize our losses. I'm sure none of the gamblers want to lose, so that's why it's true as you say, they must really think that this gambling is only as entertainment, and not at all a place to earn income. Because with that mindset, it is unlikely that they will end up addicted, it is very rare, so the key is in themselves.

However, gambling addiction can have a far-reaching impact not only on the gambling addict but also on the people around him. Drug addiction also has the same impact on the people around them because they can do things they never thought possible. But for drug addiction, it might be worse because if they overdose, it can take their life.

Lucky are those who can enjoy gambling as entertainment because they never think about chasing victory. They will always try not to violate their limits so as not to experience many losses. They can use gambling properly without experiencing gambling addiction. That's what we have to do so that we don't get addicted to gambling and even though it's hard, we have to keep trying.

I think it's actually even worse than alcohol, because you can only consume a certain amount before passing out.

With gambling, you can lose your entire life savings in a single night.

Beyond the limits as to how addiction affects the mindset of each gambler who is unable to resist the desire and lust of playing.

They will continue doing unexpected things that people around them can't even imagine that they can go that far, things like borrowing
without paying or selling things that they own just to have that money to continue playing.

Worse is un-imaginable, but that's how addiction affects people. You can't tell how deep it is until you or someone close
to you experienced the problem.

Gambling addiction can be as detrimental and consuming as severe drug addiction. Both can lead to devastating personal, social, and financial consequences, highlighting the profound impact behavioral and substance addictions can have on individuals and their loved ones.

However, just as there are those who can enjoy a casual bet without falling into addiction, there are those who might use certain substances recreationally without becoming dependent.

Once the gambler become the gambling addict,he consume the Gambling as their drug.Like the drug addict,the gamblers will do gambling even by getting loan from their friends.If you had share the winning to your family me member.They will use your money and plan to spend more money as their own wish.Their was many schemes which help the gambling addict to get away from the gambling.Some government giving free training to the gambling addict to get away from the gambling addiction.But not all people using it,only the addicted who ready to get away from the addiction was using that option.

If you are searching for example of madness of gambling addiction, then read users excuses and reasons in topic Keeping your gambling habit a secret. It is ok to hide the amount won from your family if you are greedy And it is total madness to hide that you gamble in general. If this is not an obvious example of madness, than this is a first step to do something creepy If a person is scared that people will only find out that he gambles, then imagine how that person gonna freak out when people will start search for more info about his gambling experience

Yes, that's right, addicts who are beyond their limits will definitely do crazy things like that so they won't care about their future, I'm sure they just want to catch up on previous losses and continue trying to maintain their bad habits, maybe people like that will never conscious until they really lose everything they have including their wealth or become poor.

The madness of gambling addicts is always beyond the limits of what we think, sometimes there are those who are trying to recover from their addiction and there are also those who feel they don't care about their bad habit of being an addict, but most of them don't think about the long-term impact, the average gambling addict will stop in the end, whether it is stopping after ending his life or stopping and realizing when he has become poor and abandoned by those closest to him.

Failure to control their emotions when they win or lose will only make them become serious gambling addicts. They will not be able or have difficulty healing themselves, especially when they lose again in the next round. Many people who are addicted to gambling indeed end themselves up committing suicide because they cannot stand the conditions they are experiencing where they are bankrupt and have nothing left.

And before people are too late, they should start learning to control themselves so they don't experience similar incidents. We can, actually we can control ourselves well and can control our gambling, but we have to really have the ability to be able to do it. And never stop trying something that can really help us prevent gambling addiction.

We must be able to prevent gambling addiction from coming to us by always trying to control ourselves well. If we can prevent gambling addiction, we can gamble in moderation and will not experience gambling addiction. We know that playing gambling too often without control can have a bad impact on us, so we must control gambling and not gambling controlling ourselves to keep gambling. And when we can really control ourselves while gambling, we don't need to worry about the impact because nothing will happen to us.