Topic: The person who can’t control emotions in gambling will never earn money from it (Read 3170 times)

Money is indeed the driving force on why people would really be trying out to gamble as much as they could on which we know that when it comes into this aspect where people do get addicted just because of having high hopes that they could really become rich because of gambling. Yes, its possible but the odds or chances are really just that low. When we do gamble the emotions are the ones which is affected specially if you are expecting too much with gambling winning then frustration and disappointments will really be coming next in line. This is why its important that on the time or moment that you do gamble then you should really be accepting or being prepared for whatever the outcome or result. If you do find yourself that becoming too much emotional or impulsive then gambling isnt for you or something that you must avoid.

To date, I have not accepted the saying people actually gamble for the fun of gambling as been discussed here and outside the forum. In fact, I don't usually see people outside this place people gamble because of the fun. It's actually because of the money and since money is the driven force for their gambling, they make decisions they aren't supposed to even make in the first place if not why will a gambler risk more than he has on his account or money he needs.

When they gamble with their money and they eventually lost their money, they become emotional and start looking for a way to sort it out and because of the desperation of that money, probably because it was borrowed, the make drastic decision to gamble more to get back the previous ones but in the process they lose that one again and the cycle continue in that loop until they are doom completely with gambling without winning anything.

People do only realize when its too late or the damage has already been done into them on which it would really be that resulting into those unfortunate conditions on which it will really be putting
them into those hardship on which it is really just that normal that normal that you would really be facing up such conditions. When doing gambling then you should really be doing it just for the sake
of fun and never make yourself having those kind of false hopes or into those things that you've been thinking that you could really be able to make money from it, because on the time or moment that you do find yourself having those kind of mindset or impressions then you would really be finding yourself into those addiction problems or issues.

I've come to realize that people don't enter Gambling with the right mindsets and that's why they find it difficult to adapt to the anxiety and distress that it generates afterwards.
Gambling is filled with lots of emotions; there's the emotion for fun/enjoyment, relief,winnings,socializing, there's also the emotion for desperation and theft..😁
The emotions are sometimes what springs up unexpected losses and that's why you need to master and manage your emotions to improve your  overall gambling experiences.
You can achieve that if you set clear self regulations limits for yourself,if you recognize when your emotions are taking over you and resist it.

Apparently, there really is a certain limit when a player starts to treat his gambling as a way to earn easy money. I would say that this is an extremely dangerous limit beyond which there are very big problems for such a player. At most, this could even be a mental disorder in the form of gambling addiction. Or it could also be a loss of normal life guidelines in matters of work and wages for work performed by an employer not associated with gambling. And in such a job, problems may well arise due to the player's passion and crossing this limit.

In my opinion, simply a light attitude to gambling as entertainment will protect you from crossing this very limit and from many other potential problems that gambling in principle sometimes still carries.

Its not really that technical if we are really that trying to look on how it do looks or on how its been done. It is really that just that something that could bring out leisure since each of us could really be able to choose
about those luck based games on which it doesn't really give out that much technicality because it could really be done via making use of your own common sense since playing those things arent that hard.
When we do speak about emotions then this is something that will really vary on each person because not all would really be that good on handling their emotions and this is why they do really end up
on messing up their lives because of gambling and this is something that you should be stopped or something that needs to have a break.

When it comes to earning money then it is really just that a bonus for gambling because the real thing when it comes to gambling is to have fun and having that leisure because
if you do make yourself that being too serious on making money then you are just simply making yourself putting up on potential huge trouble.

It's difficult to control your emotions when gambling, but that's what every gambler has to do because usually gamblers who are emotional because they have lost will continue to make deposits until they run out of money or go bankrupt before realizing their defeat, that's why never gamble when you're in an emotional state that you can't control. control it but if it can still be controlled it is something that is natural as humans, everyone expresses all their emotions, but don't always follow it and get too carried away by it.

Gambling must be done with the right mindset, it must be instilled that gambling should not be taken too seriously, but make gambling just for entertainment so that you feel aware that when you experience defeat, don't continue gambling until you go bankrupt, that is clearly wrong, the most important thing is how to control it, namely by self-awareness that in gambling, everyone will experience defeat because the gambler's risk is losing and that is a fact that cannot be avoided, every gambler must realize that he will lose and not always win because losing is part of gambling and you should not get emotional just because you lost . 

The reality is that gambling will usually end in defeat, even if they gamble with good and stable conditions it cannot avoid defeat, and if gambling is done with emotional feelings of course it can make us lose more money because it is likely that there will be decision making that is not considered first which can be at great risk with greater losses. Because emotions can make us in an unstable state that allows us to feel anxiety in every gambling that is done.
Usually someone will feel emotional when they experience defeat with the gambling they do, and in my opinion it happens because they cannot accept the reality that occurs, namely the defeat of the gambling they do. In fact, the defeat in gambling is a thing that is certain to happen, so we should be able to accept it, do not let the defeat in gambling trigger our emotions to overflow for even greater losses.

Gambling is something so technical and it wouldn’t be condition if you had it with emotion because emotion will make you get more weaker and gambling even when you know the right thing to play anxiety and some emotional trouble and fear of losing we definitely make you to do the right Then at the wrong time therefore you are making the wrong decision your game, so it’s not advisable to add emotion because it will make you do the wrong thing certainly

emotions in all aspect when we talk about money will always provide bad effect because imagine even in investing or trading if you are emotional then you will always lose .


if you are in gambling because of wanted to win more? that will be the bad sign that you are getting into addiction already .

This is true, I have seen people who got themselves banned, so they wouldn't play anymore (there is an option to do that for people who want to quit) and then comeback with other accounts to just gamble some more and get caught. I have seen so many people who beg to get their money back here, I remember a few very clearly, they have lost money that they do not own, they lost money that was other peoples money, and they did not know what to do, and begged here to get the money back.

Obviously none of them did get it back, why would a casino give the losses back, but it was clear indicator that no matter how much you try to stop people, you are going to get people who will lose more than they can afford to lose, that's just sad.

Admittedly, a reckless gambler with uncontrollable emotions will immediately get addicted. And his behavior while in such trouble will be worse than anyone else. Due to the fact that their self control has been deduced to nothing. You could imagine a player that'll get a mood swing for losing in games and no longer pay attention to basic family tasks to better his home. Most often such players become the problem of their family.

Landing them into huge troubles and affecting the harmony they once shared. Bringing back such person to order will be strenuous because of the person's lack of emotional control. Gambling probably is not the only way people lose their control. If a player lost his emotional control long before gambling, he would face more trouble in the game. Because gambling will help increase the trouble, making the person less attentive to his losses. Hence, accumulating more dispute for the gambler and his family.

I really get the sensation that even if many people are indeed gambling for fun, at the same time they still have a great deal of attachment to their money, which does not allow them to completely enjoy themselves.

And this can be dangerous, as a few losses could be more than enough to make a person to change the goal they had as a gambler, and instead of gambling for fun, they may try to gamble to obtain profits or to recover what they have lost.

Most people will not have a clear goal when they first gamble. They just want to experience gambling games and don't think about anything else.
But then they start gambling often and don't think that it will have a bad influence on them. That is why they need to control themselves when gambling so that they can avoid the bad effects of gambling.
They should not think about gambling to earn income because it will be difficult to obtain. They should use gambling for fun only.

Many gamblers are emotionally unstable and this makes them continue gambling even though they have lost. They cannot think of stopping their gambling activities, even for a moment, to calm their emotions.
They think that if they keep gambling, even every day, it will give them a win, even though that doesn't guarantee they can win. They will only become emotional because they see loss more often than imagined.
They will not know how much money they have used for gambling because the emotional factors that occur to them make them unable to think clearly.

When someone becomes emotional, they cannot think clearly and only want to win from gambling. That will make them deeper into gambling without being able to think about stopping for a moment.
Those who lose self-control will become emotional and that will make them deeper into gambling. They will not think about reducing their gambling activities because they already use gambling more often than before.
However, we must try to ensure that we do not lose control of our emotions because that will have bad consequences.

When they become addicted to gambling, they will not think about anything else other than gambling. They can lose their family because they no longer pay attention to their family.
They can also become more emotional when they lose and this can hurt their family members. They can commit violence against their family members as a result of their losses in gambling and that will not be good for everyone.
That's why we have to be able to control ourselves when gambling so that we don't experience the effects of gambling like them. By always trying to control ourselves while gambling, we will not experience any problems and we can also enjoy our free time well.

Some players get more addicted into the game when suffering alone. Think of some family men who suffer addiction after maybe a divorce. In some cases the person may not have engaged into gambling. But for the fact he's lonely and alone, he'd begin to find a means of handling boredom by engaging into gambling. It's also risky to do that, because, people who find themselves doing that are quite not informed about the consequences of gambling compulsively. Since gambling is like a companion to them, they'll spend most of their time playing the game. Risking more money and getting emotionally attached to the game.

Which consumes more time and could make a person broke. Loneliness is another strong factor that leads to addiction faster than anything else. Hence, if a player is sure that he is not capable of handling his emotions, playing games all alone isn't a better strategy. Getting a helping hand would be difficult for such a player. Due to his challenges and how compulsive gambling could maneuver his thoughts and emotions. But, in a situation where the player have close friends around, and he opens up to them, getting help wouldn't be a problem. I think every gambler should know himself, capabilities and abilities, before moving further to the weary aspect of gambling.

The moment you recognize you need help is larger than people think. Relief, possibly joy, humiliation, and dread are mixed in. Thats our mistake. Make it easy for folks to get there without baggage.

The concept of addiction requires a rebranding. Stop the stigma and see it as a challenge you can overcome with help. Resources must be accessible without absurd hoops. Meet folks where they are with apps, online support groups, whatever. No judgment, just entry.

This isnt only about the struggling person, right? Each win benefits everyone. Consider its effects on families and communities. Man, we must battle this. We can, given the appropriate approach.

Indeed, when we gamble, we have to be able to ensure that we use money so that if the money is lost we are prepared for it all. Because if we gamble with money that we cannot afford to lose then emotional feelings will always come to us.

I have a story where a friend of mine needed money at that time, so he used the money he had to gamble, in the hope that he could win to cover the lack of money he had. But we can already guess what happened, yes he lost everything, previously the money they needed was only a small part, after he gambled he became short of the large amount of money he needed.

I reminded him, but he still insisted on what he wanted to do. and after he lost it all, he became regretful and regretful that he felt not being able to return the money he lost. This is one example where we should use free money to gamble.

Seems like a lot of commitment when you are playing gambling when you said that your only enemy is yourself. You will only think about this kind of deep thoughts on gambling if you are already doubting yourself. Probably you are playing with strong attachment to your money which you can’t afford to lose that’s why this kind of emotional problem plays a big factor on your gambling.

You should play just for fun no string attached to your money in able to have free mind. You don’t need a circle of group to remind you what’s your reason for gambling because it should be always for a source of entertainment. Nothings big deal on gambling if you will just play using an amount that you can afford to lose.

It is possible that they are not aware of the need for help from professionals, who can help them overcome their problems and make positive progress in life. Continuing this destructive gambling behavior will have dire consequences, constant loss of money for nothing and the threat of an ever-increasing vicious cycle of addiction.

In my opinion, providing support for these individuals to seek professional help is critical. Through such help, they can discover the root cause of their problems, gain skills in managing emotions and stress that work for them, and ultimately bring about positive change in their lives. While it may seem reasonable for someone to think that they can overcome these problems alone without seeking external support, the reality is that professional support can be crucial in significantly changing the course of their recovery.

If we turn a blind eye to their pleas for help, we may end up adding to their misery... An action that only increases the chances of them losing more but getting nothing in return for those losses.

Yes, it's true, it's not strange to see people like that because people who gamble always want to be rich when gambling, but in fact they always experience losing streaks every time, that's why gambling is not a job that makes money every time or every week, they weren't created for that. , but it was created to make players have fun with their money, money that is not really used or money that is ready to be lost, this does not mean there are stupid people who want to waste their money gambling just to have fun, just think if we pay some money For our hobby to have fun, of course there is no problem.

For example, if I have a hobby of fishing, sometimes I spend a certain amount of money to buy fishing equipment and accommodation money during the trip just to have fun with my hobby, that's no problem. Let's say it's $50 spent and while I'm gambling $50 is also spent so there's no difference. For me, losing money is for fun, I hope people understand what I mean, after all, why try to recover from losses when in the end you won't win anyway. It all comes back to the intention and purpose of gambling to have fun or to make money, managing your mindset is also important when gambling.