Topic: To quit gambling is to quit yourself - page 26. (Read 2319 times)
Yes because to leave gambling deliberately for me is very heavy, so let it stop by itself. There are times when we are saturated doing the same routine every day, but in gambling it can be left by itself.
I feel you mate and thanks for sharing your thoughts and advice about quitting gambling addiction. When you are addicted to gambling, it really becomes a way of life and it is hard to change that as you really get used to it but it is achievable with firm want to change and the help of your peers.
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
Yes to quit gambling is to quit yourself,because if you quit gambling yourself will be no to gambling also as long as you decide to do it you can do the quiting. Because gambling is not good especially when you're an addict you just.
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
Yes to quit gambling is to quit yourself,because if you quit gambling yourself will be no to gambling also as long as you decide to do it you can do the quiting. Because gambling is not good especially when you're an addict you just.
It looks easy to tell but it is not that much easy to quit from gambling that is why we called it as an addiction.SO it needs special care with our will power to get out from that.So if someone addicted to gambling then it is impossible for them the get out themselves someone need to support them to get out.
Quit yourself means destroying yourself, apparently from what OP has suggested. However, in my opinion, this is quite hard to do as you are totally changing what you are it seems. But that is not possible, you are who you are. The best thing is still to just remove the negative traits you possess such as the addiction to gambling and all other negativeness. This is like you built a house, but the toilet is not working so you decide to destroy the whole house just to fix it.
For those who have lost everything in gambling suicide isn't a solution, it's just a way to avoid the reality and the responsibilities. These people should just start again from zero, building their patrimony again and stop gambling. I agree with OP's point, addicted ones weren't always addicted, and they should try being who they were before the problems start appearing on their lives. Back to the origins to find the answer for the soul's conflicts.
Sucide are less it's only the people who are in huge debt and there is no solution as to how they will recover their funds or even be able to repay it Normally as you said start your life from zero it isn't as easy as it sounds many quit but after a while start gambling because they feel there life incomplete and have a feeling their luck might have returned and finally start gambling again
That is why they should go back to their origins and find the answer for their soul's conflicts, to find what disturbs them internally and solve it.
This way their life won't be incomplete and they won't need to fill their routines with addictions anymore.
Its not easy to quit gambling, I have to agree that some people commit suicide because of this addiction but for me you cannot do this alone better to have someone that can be on your side in times like this. It takes time to do so, but if you really want to quit gambling you will start right now.
People commit suicide because of their debts which sprouted from their addiction. There are many ways to quit an addiction and therapy is one of them. There are group discussions which allows a person to cope. Addiction can't be cured overnight and it's a long process which one would undergo.
I can't speak for myself since I had no similar experience but perhaps what OP was trying to say is that in order to quit gambling, it should come from you. Even with all the therapy in the world, you won't be able to quit gambling if you don't help yourself. You can spend millions in therapy, or try out all the methods to quit, but if you won't do it for yourself then no one else can do it for you.
Greed and fear, in the end is still human nature. Stop by yourself, go also by yourself, know how much is new is hard. 
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
For those people who able to withstand the negative effects of gambling, then good for them. But saying things like you mentioned requires social help as different people especially those who are now being fall to the trap of gambling can not be saved by themselves alone as it was now out of their control. It's easy to say that "they must do this, that or anything else" in order to quit gambling but we can never understand what's into them as it was now affect their inside stuff. Of course, they will not seek help that's why it needs an automatic response from the community.
But on the other hand, there are good effects too that a person will experienced the worst case scenario during their gambling activity because sometimes it will make a good road for realization as they don't want to happened it again. But sometimes that is not the case, that's why it requires community help as secondary foundation that will start at family, close friends etc.
Every people want to be like Dan Bilzerian https://www.instagram.com/danbilzerian/?hl=en (I'm also include)
The problem is only few winner able to be like him but for somehow gambling attract people in unexpected way ( although they have commit to stop )
WHY ?
Greed, human's greed always haunting so family support and religion play their main role for prevention or for restoration
The problem is only few winner able to be like him but for somehow gambling attract people in unexpected way ( although they have commit to stop )
WHY ?
Greed, human's greed always haunting so family support and religion play their main role for prevention or for restoration
Greediness should be keep a side always buddy. When you want to play the betting or dice games you need to be careful on otherside of the amount you have with you. If you simply invest your fund continuously without getting profit.
Please confirm yourself that you are not fit for gambling at all.
At that you need to quit from the gambling else the effect will be so harder.
Every people want to be like Dan Bilzerian https://www.instagram.com/danbilzerian/?hl=en (I'm also include)
The problem is only few winner able to be like him but for somehow gambling attract people in unexpected way ( although they have commit to stop )
WHY ?
Greed, human's greed always haunting so family support and religion play their main role for prevention or for restoration
The problem is only few winner able to be like him but for somehow gambling attract people in unexpected way ( although they have commit to stop )
WHY ?
Greed, human's greed always haunting so family support and religion play their main role for prevention or for restoration
Guys, I know that many of you have already discussed this issue regarding quitting gambling as it is addictive, and I know that this thread is just like any other one. But forgive me because I am really sick of seeing people committing suicide because they are in big debts. I would like to speak my mind.
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
So, guys. Quitting gambling has to be done by quitting yourself. What I mean by that statement is that you should no longer be yourself or what you are. You are now a man of greed and addiction. Who was the person you were before you start gambling? Perhaps you were addicted to something else. Perhaps you were just a normal man living a normal life. Now you are a different person. What I want you to do is that you should be aware that gambling too much will make you lose yourself. Second off, you should sit with yourself and write down the negative effects of gambling. Do not be like "What if I win next time, what if I get lucky next time." No, that is not you who is talking but your greed. Do not give yourself false hopes because "What if" is a term used to talk about unreal action in the past or the future. You can neither change the past nor be accurate about what future will be like.
Then you should practice positive self-talk. Fill yourself with positiveness. Have a strong willpower and determination because believe me, once you are committed to something, you will attain it. If you want to give up gambling, then you can do it because other people and I gave it up.
I used to gamble a lot with my friends and I would be lying if I said I did not learn many things. But the negative effects overcame the positive ones. I took a decision to stop gambling. I filled my time with various activities. In time, I started to forget about gambling. It is like moving on. If you want to move on, get yourself from the routine you used to be in. Your brain is functioned about a certain routine. You will find it hard to adapt to the new routine, but believe me, in time you will get used to it.
I hope you guys achieve what you aspire. And I hope this thread will help you, even though I am sure I am going to get negative feedback. But it is okay, I am open to everything. Have a lovely day, Hadoooken!
Yes to quit gambling is to quit yourself,because if you quit gambling yourself will be no to gambling also as long as you decide to do it you can do the quiting. Because gambling is not good especially when you're an addict you just.
gambling starts with a simple betting game but once a player starting to get addicted, that's the moment were their lives begins miserable. For those who cannot control themselves makes it difficult to resist with gambling until such time they lose everything and become worthless. I agree there are really cases where a gamblers losses his mind and commit suicide, this is a serious issue that is difficult to address.
Every individual must have his own way to escape from the vicious cycle of gambling. As I experienced myself. I am present every night in the gambling arena can finally be free.
With self-introspection, remember the age of the older fan remember past sins finally lead me to change the attitude little by little.
With a strong heart desire can finally.
I think no, quit in gambling is for better and not to take suicide, some of them wasted because they think that is the best way avoiding financial problem after loosing huge or all of their money and property those people thinking only them selves they have no care about their family. That is why gambling has no good things brings to our life if you can avoid gambling should do it.
Exactly.There's more than harmful things done by gambling compared to the good ones.Maybe you can say gambling can make an easy money and earn big but it makes them easy also to lose them all in just an instant.And right then you decided to quit yourself through committing suicide.That's the worst thing a man could ever think just a sign of his/her selfishness.So as much as possible quit gambling as early as today.
I think no, quit in gambling is for better and not to take suicide, some of them wasted because they think that is the best way avoiding financial problem after loosing huge or all of their money and property those people thinking only them selves they have no care about their family. That is why gambling has no good things brings to our life if you can avoid gambling should do it.
Exactly.There's more than harmful things done by gambling compared to the good ones.Maybe you can say gambling can make an easy money and earn big but it makes them easy also to lose them all in just an instant.And right then you decided to quit yourself through committing suicide.That's the worst thing a man could ever think just a sign of his/her selfishness.So as much as possible quit gambling as early as today. For those who have lost everything in gambling suicide isn't a solution, it's just a way to avoid the reality and the responsibilities. These people should just start again from zero, building their patrimony again and stop gambling. I agree with OP's point, addicted ones weren't always addicted, and they should try being who they were before the problems start appearing on their lives. Back to the origins to find the answer for the soul's conflicts.
Sucide are less it's only the people who are in huge debt and there is no solution as to how they will recover their funds or even be able to repay it Normally as you said start your life from zero it isn't as easy as it sounds many quit but after a while start gambling because they feel there life incomplete and have a feeling their luck might have returned and finally start gambling again
Hadooken right back to you!
Anyway I have seen and heard a lot of news about people trying to win in gambling and it's just not easy because it would really be hard for you to overcome the odds with a rigged system in a way. You don't have an advantage over them but typically just thank you said you need to start with yourself and stop doing the things that would hurt you in the long run even though it's not gambling as long as it hurts you or something like that. It is sad to see people committing suicide but that's just how they sink and probably they don't have someone else for them so they think that's the solution and for all I know it is really hard to walk in their footsteps but just tell those people that you are there for them I think they could appreciate that.
Anyway I have seen and heard a lot of news about people trying to win in gambling and it's just not easy because it would really be hard for you to overcome the odds with a rigged system in a way. You don't have an advantage over them but typically just thank you said you need to start with yourself and stop doing the things that would hurt you in the long run even though it's not gambling as long as it hurts you or something like that. It is sad to see people committing suicide but that's just how they sink and probably they don't have someone else for them so they think that's the solution and for all I know it is really hard to walk in their footsteps but just tell those people that you are there for them I think they could appreciate that.
If someone is seriously addicted to gambling then it is impossible to get out from themselves,the first victory from the addiction is they need to realize that they are addicted to gambling and it is just doind bad thing for me.If he realized that then he may consult the apporpriate persons to get out from it so what they need to do is realizing.
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