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That's right, they will not easily stop with their gambling especially if they have a gambling complaint where gambling cannot be separated from a person. There are also many gamblers who dare to take loans to fulfill their gambling desires as you said, this is a clear fact. A person who is addicted to gambling, of course, their mindset is no longer healthy and maybe they need help from a psychological expert in order to get rid of their thoughts about gambling alone.
Suppose there is a family member who is like you said, of course I would not let that happen, because old age should be enjoyed properly, if you spend young age gambling it seems like it will take up a lot of time, and time to gather with family can also be a little or not at all, what I'm afraid of is that my father is elderly but still likes to gamble, I'm afraid there will be a fight in the family, because what I know is that someone who is addicted to gambling can commit violence because he asks for money to gamble again, and I don't want this to happen to my family. I can't imagine what it would be like if this happened to my family. I myself like to gamble, it's just that I feel better now. because now I'm not too crazy with gambling, only gambling on weekends and even then if I want to.
I think those who really can't get away from gambling or addiction as well as people who consider gambling their life are people with disturbed thinking and psychology, in the sense that they can't differentiate between what is more of a priority in life.
It will be very difficult to stop someone who has experienced something like that and there is no way that can be successful in healing or stopping it unless they want to stop.
Because it is clear that they have different way of thinking and psychology from normal people in general.
So, that is good thought and decision which will not allow any family member, even our own father, to continue gambling activities in old age because time spent with family during this period is the most valuable time.
The warmth of the family will really be felt because when you are young you are too busy with every activity you do, such as working, doing business and gambling for those who enjoy it, so if you still let it go in old age, it will be great shame.
It is true that problems may also occur that allow disputes to occur between family members and older people usually have emotions that cannot be controlled so we must always pay special attention to them.