That chart is perfect.
No: it lacks "gay guy". They are the females' best friends.
Topic: What to do if you're crazy about a girl that has a boyfriend? - page 5. (Read 12161 times)
December 07, 2012, 07:04:24 AM
No: it lacks "gay guy". They are the females' best friends.
December 07, 2012, 06:39:13 AM
That chart is perfect.
December 07, 2012, 05:12:39 AM
how to do this:
- Make sure in a subtle enough way and maybe not by directly telling her (it's possible, but not at the beginning) that she knows you are crazy about her. Do this often (repetition works) and over as long a period of time as necessary. Let it sink in, time is on your side. If you really love her, you don't need to stress this part.. she will notice anyway.
- Make sure she knows you're a very good man in every respect (or a very cool guy depending on age)
- Depending on age (if she approaches 30 or passed that), make sure she thinks you're easily able to provide for her and her children (you got brains and cojones). But DON'T talk about children or how rich you might be directly.
- Try to get to hang out with her (not necessarily alone with her. In a group will do just fine). Be a good guy then: open, intelligent, prudent, reliable. You may be nervous around her that's not a problem (see point one).
- Try to become her trusted talk-to guy (girls need at least one guy they can talk to)
December 07, 2012, 03:04:43 AM
It sucks, any advice?
get her to fall in love with you.
I'm going to try!
how to do this:
- Make sure in a subtle enough way and maybe not by directly telling her (it's possible, but not at the beginning) that she knows you are crazy about her. Do this often (repetition works) and over as long a period of time as necessary. Let it sink in, time is on your side. If you really love her, you don't need to stress this part.. she will notice anyway.
- Make sure she knows you're a very good man in every respect (or a very cool guy depending on age)
- Depending on age (if she approaches 30 or passed that), make sure she thinks you're easily able to provide for her and her children (you got brains and cojones). But DON'T talk about children or how rich you might be directly.
- Try to get to hang out with her (not necessarily alone with her. In a group will do just fine). Be a good guy then: open, intelligent, prudent, reliable. You may be nervous around her that's not a problem (see point one).
- Try to become her trusted talk-to guy (girls need at least one guy they can talk to)
- If she is that kind of girl: do some drugs with her. If she's not: don't try to do drugs with her
- If the opportunity arises: KISS HER. A kiss goes a long way.
- Having an affair can be very exciting! In case you manage to have an affair with her: don't put pressure on her and don't tell him! Draw it out for as long as necessary.
- Don't overdo any of the above. Don't rush things, you have all the time in the world if you really love her.
- Give it time. There will be a point when she doubts her current relationship. If you can get her to talk to you about that (because you're her go-to guy, remember) you'll probably win quite easily.
- Be yourself. This has to be stressed, because if she falls in love with some role you play that is not really you there will be problems later on after you finally conquered her.
- Be confident. Smile a lot, especially at her.
hope this helps, good luck!
December 06, 2012, 07:08:53 PM
It sucks, any advice?
1) don't do anything unethical
2) What outcome do you want?
3) How much resources are you willing to spend on it, time, money, sacrifices etc.
December 06, 2012, 06:31:00 PM
It sucks, any advice?
Well, I phucked the girlfriend of someone else years ago. She was not better than the average at sucking, er... phucking.
The best part was when I told about it to her boyfriend (like it was a joke, kind of: "I fucked her"), and HE laughed.
I hope this answers your question.
December 06, 2012, 06:18:01 PM
It sucks, any advice?
Ever seen Indecent Proposal? Offer 100,000BTC.
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Thats one hell of a dowry.
December 06, 2012, 05:57:03 PM
It sucks, any advice?
Ever seen Indecent Proposal? Offer 100,000BTC.
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December 06, 2012, 04:33:43 PM
Oh god no >_<
December 06, 2012, 04:30:52 PM
It sucks, any advice?
get her to fall in love with you.
I'm going to try!
December 05, 2012, 04:39:30 PM
It sucks, any advice?
Ever seen Indecent Proposal? Offer 100,000BTC.
December 05, 2012, 03:15:38 PM
It sucks, any advice?
get her to fall in love with you.
December 05, 2012, 03:14:57 PM
Just accept it and move on, man...don't be that guy.
December 05, 2012, 03:07:51 PM
Just accept it and move on, man...don't be that guy.
Seriously, and get her to introduce you to your future wife. Good women know other good women.
December 05, 2012, 02:27:17 PM
Just accept it and move on, man...don't be that guy.
December 05, 2012, 02:18:21 PM
Tell her. You have nothing to loose. Just tell her "I like you, and I'm going to try to impress you." Tell her your going to try for a month, then move on if it does not work out. If you follow through with that plan then you can't loose.
The most likely outcome may be that she marries the guy but remembers you for years. Then when she is old, fat and preggo she will call you one night. lol
A month will become a year if you really love her.The most likely outcome may be that she marries the guy but remembers you for years. Then when she is old, fat and preggo she will call you one night. lol
It happend to me.
We chated just a few minutes ago, I still had a little cry. We staid toghether 3 months 16 months ago and I still feel bad about it...
I just want to say not to do my same mistake.
December 05, 2012, 01:08:49 PM
Tell her. You have nothing to loose. Just tell her "I like you, and I'm going to try to impress you." Tell her your going to try for a month, then move on if it does not work out. If you follow through with that plan then you can't loose.
The most likely outcome may be that she marries the guy but remembers you for years. Then when she is old, fat and preggo she will call you one night. lol
The most likely outcome may be that she marries the guy but remembers you for years. Then when she is old, fat and preggo she will call you one night. lol
December 05, 2012, 11:35:05 AM
Oh god fucking no damnit not the friendzone 
December 05, 2012, 11:30:18 AM
Somehow i know that feeling...
A month followed another and suddenly turned to half a year. All cause I didn't have the guts to talk to her ...:/
One warning:
Don't try the friendship card .... U'll end up letting her use you for a little bit attention :/
Welcome to the Friendzone !!!
A month followed another and suddenly turned to half a year. All cause I didn't have the guts to talk to her ...:/
One warning:
Don't try the friendship card .... U'll end up letting her use you for a little bit attention :/
Welcome to the Friendzone !!!
December 05, 2012, 09:06:51 AM
You become her good friend and hang out with her. When her boyfriend becomes jealous or confrontational, she won't like being told who she can be friends with, and you'll be there for the rebound.
Or go out to a bar that has dance lessons for the dance lesson, stay for drinks and impress her with your dirty dancing and get her hot and bothered and suggest you get out of there and go to a hotel. Drunk horny chicks will quickly forget they have a boyfriend, and one good bang is all a guy needs to not want to call a chick again.
Or go out to a bar that has dance lessons for the dance lesson, stay for drinks and impress her with your dirty dancing and get her hot and bothered and suggest you get out of there and go to a hotel. Drunk horny chicks will quickly forget they have a boyfriend, and one good bang is all a guy needs to not want to call a chick again.
I like the first paragraph - a strong man would be able to still pursue her in one thread, while using another to find a single woman. I may see to what extent I can do this while maintaining my dignity and integrity.
The second paragraph isn't really my style though for girls that I'm really serious about. I'm not looking for just a fling with this girl.
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