Ask dank to write some romantic poems for you to ply her with.
lol
I'm thinking the best approach is to treat it like a background thread... drop some hints and monitor the situation
Sounds like something a stalker would say.
Hmm I've never been a stalker to anyone... usually women stalk me though haha.
See if she has any friends that are like her and single. "I think you're amazing and if there are any friends that you have who are like you but single I think it would be great if you could introduce us."
Don't be creepy about it. Honestly feel that way and see what happens.
Odds are she'll probably get freaked out and never talk to you again. But a year from now who really cares, you'll have given it a shot
Before you do anything take this into account.
http://www.forbes.com/sites/meghancasserly/2012/07/26/every-man-you-work-with-thinks-you-want-to-sleep-with-him/Its just our nature.
Hmm... I thought about that, but it's a crappy line. It would be better to just drop "that XXXXX is a lucky guy" at some point just to let her know I'm interested. But beyond that that's proly about it.
Teach him how to mine coins. Hopefully he will forget about the girl in no time!
lol when I was first into bitcoin I practically forgot girls existed. I was really obsessed.
Patience, most men are inherently stupi
in their decisions, if they happen to break up when you are still single, then be a friend when shes looking for a friend.
"the friend zone" is not where you want to be.
1) avoid her
2) when your with her, act like you would rather be somewhere else.
3) when she breaks up with her BF, wait till you "accidentally" run into her
4) ask her lots of questions about herself.
5) invite yourself to her place
6) As she shows you her scrap book, kiss her!
lol
you really should just find a single girl.... you could skip the first 3 steps.
You're right on that last point. I try not to think about her but it is painful.
It sucks, any advice?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NsOyvVVgYDgIt is simple. Wait for weakness in their relationship and then jump. At some point their relationship will hit a rough patch and she might ask you for advise. In the mean time go practice with other girls because it is not good to be stuck on 1 person.
Yes, practice is good. Many of my men friends need more of that. I'm not an expert but I'm pretty good with women, aside from a few stupid impulsive mistakes that I always regret. The big key for me was having a mentor when I was in Las Vegas and going around meeting many, many women with him. Damn, I miss those days...
Seriously, go find other girls and explore the outside world a bit, it sucks being attached like that and then of course if you try and be nice about it and not interfere she'll inevitably dump him and bitch to you about it and you'll immediately go ">_<" in real life because that's what's happened to me before lol, just think about why she has a boyfriend, if it turns out she's had several before chances are she wouldn't last long with you anyway. There really are times in my life where I've been sad about a girl but then after hearing about her breaking up with someone etc. I've gone "PHEW, I fucking dodged a bullet there big time!", trust me it's not worth chasing a taken girl most of the time, unless of course you really really like her in which case you're screwed.
Oh and if there are any girls watching this thread, if a guy tells you another guy is an asshole, fucking listen, it's like with girls and other girls, the same gender always know what they're talking about when it comes to each other.
The problem is, the other guy isn't an asshole. I wish he was though, it would make things much easier.
I think I'm pretty much screwed. This girl is very cool. A singer in a band for one thing.
I am going to give you the best advice, if your under the age of 30, just go have fun. Stuff like this falls into place, trust me, cause you will get her as a girlfriend and you will be like dam I should be at a club grind on some chick. Right now chicks all they care about is who can f-them as hard as possible. They don't understand who actually cares about them and who would treat them right, so unless your mandanigo, just get your $300 jeans, your collared shirt and you get on the dance floor and you find the shanks hoe you can and you f- her as hard as you can. That will get back to her and she will be like dam I messed up.
Like in Goodfellas, "I settle down every night, then in the morning I am back up."
Also trust me spiky hair gets you P so much P, trust me
Gel is a lot cheaper than dinners.
Yeah I'm 28. So I do want to go have fun, but I donno I'm finally reaching an age where that doesn't cut it anymore. I had plenty of fun in Vegas, but I'm tired of young women with no morals and always worried they could have VD haha
circumstantial advice is circumstantial! all boils down to the elements of any given random relationship.
I think that hits the nail on the head, we do share a special friendship bond that she doesn't have with anyone else.
Aside from the spiky hair part I'd agree with this advice lol.
And on a different but similar note, my wife of 10 years next summer, and I were having an interesting conversation over dinner last night. I was telling her about a friend of mine who asked me how I keep from cheating on my wife. I told him, it's just one of those things where you have to make a conscious decision on what you are going to do. You're either going to do the right thing or the wrong thing.
And I told my wife that I find the cycle of a male's life interesting. Up until the point you get married, all you're trying to do is find women to have sex with you. You're pursuing them. You win some, you lose some, but it takes work. You are the hunter. Once I got married, and I quit pursuing, it seemed like every woman on the planet wanted to have sex with me. My wife's theory is, they want what they can't have. I think there's probably some truth to that. I wonder if these same women would be as interested in "hooking up" with me if I weren't married.
Hmm yeah I've rarely if ever had to really actively pursue a woman, every relationship I've been in has just been an organic process.
Damn, you're right about the "want what they can't have" bit. But that's digging into female psychology, where they're attracted to high-status/high-confidence men. 90% of my single male friends I can tell you don't have girlfriends because they don't give off enough of a confidence vibe (that or they have too much arrogance about being smart and are not socially savvy enough).
