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legendary
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August 21, 2024, 11:03:54 AM
When we lose our money in gambling, we will not become emotional because we know that losing our money in gambling is the risks of playing gambling.
Somehow, when we lose we get even more emotional. In some cases, when  you are losing your money you are also losing your cool. You get irrational and you lose all logic. You just want to win and that’s understandable but you need to fall back and keep all emotions away from the game.

It's pretty hard to do that, in fact, many of us know that it may be bad and cause consequences, but the temptation is too high. Yet, all is in our hands, and only they decide what to do next.
But a lot depends entirely on your character and psychological characteristics of your personality.  I would also not discount the issue of upbringing and a good understanding of your line of behavior and manner of communication with other people.  Otherwise, sometimes it happens, like in a movie, where two chess players are playing and one loser takes the chessboard and with all his might, so to speak, with all his heart, hits the winner of this game of chess on the head.  This is, of course, an extreme example that cinematographers love, but the meaning of this behavior is clear.  Briefly, this can be described as how the losing chess player simply flared up, could not restrain himself, was completely in the grip of anger, and did not understand well what he was doing.  Well, from the outside, this is certainly worthless behavior.  Not to mention his upbringing and manners.
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August 21, 2024, 07:22:09 AM
When we lose our money in gambling, we will not become emotional because we know that losing our money in gambling is the risks of playing gambling.
Somehow, when we lose we get even more emotional. In some cases, when  you are losing your money you are also losing your cool. You get irrational and you lose all logic. You just want to win and that’s understandable but you need to fall back and keep all emotions away from the game.

It's pretty hard to do that, in fact, many of us know that it may be bad and cause consequences, but the temptation is too high. Yet, all is in our hands, and only they decide what to do next.
hero member
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August 21, 2024, 03:14:28 AM
When we lose our money in gambling, we will not become emotional because we know that losing our money in gambling is the risks of playing gambling.
Somehow, when we lose we get even more emotional. In some cases, when  you are losing your money you are also losing your cool. You get irrational and you lose all logic. You just want to win and that’s understandable but you need to fall back and keep all emotions away from the game.
To handle this from before gambling is to use money that you are ready to lose, have good self-control by basing yourself that victory is a luck that you don't have to get every time, defeat is clear evidence that the tone will not get victory easily.

With this I think you will be much better at controlling your emotions or feelings about gambling, because the average case of people losing control of their emotions is because they often use money that is not ready to lose, and make winning something you have to get so that your impulsiveness arises because your emotions are triggered.
sr. member
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August 21, 2024, 03:02:13 AM
When we lose our money in gambling, we will not become emotional because we know that losing our money in gambling is the risks of playing gambling.
Somehow, when we lose we get even more emotional. In some cases, when  you are losing your money you are also losing your cool. You get irrational and you lose all logic. You just want to win and that’s understandable but you need to fall back and keep all emotions away from the game.
sr. member
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August 21, 2024, 02:38:16 AM

We should all strive to gain this skill and use it accordingly. I am talking about being disciplined in front of the odds that we may see, of course.

Yes, that's right, trying to get good and correct skills in running the gambling game that we have chosen is a very wise advice and of course it must really be done if you have got it even though it looks difficult, the most important thing is that we want to try to find a safe one. Yes, when we have got the results, whether it's winning or losing, trying to be a wise and disciplined gambler is very helpful and overcomes so that excessive attitudes do not appear, namely we have to determine limits and when it's time to stop gambling.
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August 21, 2024, 01:30:16 AM
You did a bit of a whoopsie with the quoting, but it's alright, I got you Grin

Fingers crossed, we all will be able to implement what we want in the future. And have a blast while doing it.

sorry
I always try not to quote everything to make it more readable, I apologize
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for me too brother, bad luck has been haunting me lately, I can't get one
If you have a little luck I would like to buy it, I only need a little, even just 1 kg

It's totally okay! I made some mistakes like that in the past too (and even now sometimes Grin), so it's essential just to note it and not get angry at it. People can be different and take it differently.

I can give you some for free!
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August 21, 2024, 01:17:48 AM
You did a bit of a whoopsie with the quoting, but it's alright, I got you Grin

Fingers crossed, we all will be able to implement what we want in the future. And have a blast while doing it.

sorry
I always try not to quote everything to make it more readable, I apologize
I'm keeping my fingers crossed for me too brother, bad luck has been haunting me lately, I can't get one
If you have a little luck I would like to buy it, I only need a little, even just 1 kg
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August 20, 2024, 11:22:13 PM
If they can be Mentally ready and if they can established that inside them before taking their steps inside gambling, then it's good for them as they can prevent getting emotions, though it's really tough job to established and practice this kind of prepareness, but there are some wise and experienced gamblers who can deal with it and manage to take the advantage.

It's something really hard deal with as emotions mostly conquer you and manipulates your decision making when you unable to take care of it the right way.
As we know that established a stable emotion is not easy, we must keep trying to do that so we don't gets the effect from playing gambling. When we emotional, that will makes us forget about our rule and that can impact to lose control that we have. Besides that, having self control will be useful for us not just when we playing gambling but that will helps us in other things. We can be wise to act and can considering with other thing before we decide.

Dealing with emotion is not easy so we must practice that so we can control ourselves and know how to act in the current situation. When we lose our money in gambling, we will not become emotional because we know that losing our money in gambling is the risks of playing gambling. We will be wise treating our money and will not lets us spend much money to playing gambling because we only want to have fun in gambling.
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August 20, 2024, 10:55:49 PM
many people who are emotional and cannot control their emotions when gambling are people who in my opinion misunderstand gambling, where they respond to gambling as a means of making money quickly or a quick way to get rich, this is the cause of their own thinking. when they think like that, of course they don't think about defeat until when they experience defeat, they can't accept it, and what they will do is bet again and again, which of course triggers their own emotional feelings.

emotions are something that everyone definitely has, but placing emotions on things that shouldn't be or on the wrong things will only make things worse, overflowing emotions do not mean that they will make things better because when we are in an uncontrolled emotional state, it is very rare to be able to make decisions by considering them first. besides that, there are indeed many cases of people who gamble and fail to control their emotions, it is not strange that there are many cases that tend to experience losses.
legendary
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August 20, 2024, 12:02:08 PM

Yes of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without experiencing any problems or obstacles.
Gambling is always about probability games, there is no certainty and guarantee to always be able to produce victory, as said by some friends above that casinos are companies and not charities, meaning that casinos have certain intentions and goals related to the reasons they create various games, and certainly not to give money for free to gamblers.

Apply limits on the amount of bets and time of involvement, be firm in implementing them, maintain awareness to make it easier for you to avoid various impulsive actions and thoughts, practice self-acceptance regarding risk and understand the following also by realizing that defeat is a definite part of the game. All of these are understandings, plans and abilities that a gambler must have before they get involved, because only this can make a gambler stay okay in the long run.

Tips of gold! The last paragraph is a good one, and only by testing all the things you described yourself, you can become better at gambling and have a blast at it. From theory to practice Grin

Yes and the point is never think or assume that gambling can be used as a place to earn or even a place to change fate, we must think rationally that there are no significant results just by looking, guessing and pressing buttons, and if it is true then one of the richest people in the world should be a gambler, but the fact is not. All significant results can only be obtained when there is a bitter process behind it, and I hope everyone can judge gambling from a correct and realistic perspective.

If you or anyone else does not believe in the opinion I conveyed above, then please try it, because I think there are so many things that we can use as evidence where gamblers who are too obsessed with winning end up losing a lot of money and suffering, experience is always the best teacher, meaning gamblers who may not believe in some of the facts I convey for the sake of safety, then maybe in the end only time will tell them.
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August 20, 2024, 09:04:52 AM
That is why self-control is very useful for all gamblers to prevent the emergence of various bad risks in gambling itself. Both in holding back emotions, self-control is also useful to prevent a gambler from becoming greedy and addicted to gambling because with good self-control, gamblers will play wisely, disciplined and careful and they only consider gambling as a fun activity, not a place to make money.
By having self control will helps us to prevents the emergence of various bad risks in gambling. We will know how to manage our emotion and what we need to do when our emotion increase. We will not trying to keep playing gambling when we becomes emotional because we know that can makes us forget about our limitation. We don't want to becomes greed or other problem that can occurs to us so we will stops from playing gambling and take a rest.

That will be good for us to avoids becoming emotional when playing gambling so we don't have to lose much money. We know that self control will hold ourselves from spends too much money especially when we already lose money before. We will thinks to stop playing gambling because we know that can makes us lose more and more money when we becomes emotional.

It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.

We should all strive to gain this skill and use it accordingly. I am talking about being disciplined in front of the odds that we may see, of course.
Emotion has been one of the problems of many gamblers like us and it is good when we are working on it to make sure that we keep having results for ourselves. Gambling is meant to be fun not something we just have to concentrate on without any skill.  Emotion is something that can cause us lots of loses if we don't know how to work on ourselves, when we ought to gamble and when we don't have to. It is good we understand all these so that we don't have to keep losing because of small mistakes or impatience that is needed for us to study what next we need to gamble on and what we have to take a little step for us to try our luck before making any advanced to continue betting.
legendary
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August 20, 2024, 08:06:08 AM
It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.
That is how limitation will helps gamblers to prevent his losses in gambling so they can enjoy for playing gambling while they don't have to lose much money. If many gamblers realizes about that and will not use too big money to playing gambling, they can use gambling for having fun and will not trying to chase the win. They know that can makes them becomes emotional and when that is happen, they will lose control over themselves.

The emotional feeling can besides them while playing gambling and can change anytime based on what they gets from gambling. But if they have a strong self control, they will not have to worry if that will hurt them because they can playing gambling moderately. They can manage themselves not to becomes emotional and the important thing are they can stops from playing gambling anytime they want.

If they can be Mentally ready and if they can established that inside them before taking their steps inside gambling, then it's good for them as they can prevent getting emotions, though it's really tough job to established and practice this kind of prepareness, but there are some wise and experienced gamblers who can deal with it and manage to take the advantage.

It's something really hard deal with as emotions mostly conquer you and manipulates your decision making when you unable to take care of it the right way.
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August 20, 2024, 05:50:47 AM
That is why self-control is very useful for all gamblers to prevent the emergence of various bad risks in gambling itself. Both in holding back emotions, self-control is also useful to prevent a gambler from becoming greedy and addicted to gambling because with good self-control, gamblers will play wisely, disciplined and careful and they only consider gambling as a fun activity, not a place to make money.
By having self control will helps us to prevents the emergence of various bad risks in gambling. We will know how to manage our emotion and what we need to do when our emotion increase. We will not trying to keep playing gambling when we becomes emotional because we know that can makes us forget about our limitation. We don't want to becomes greed or other problem that can occurs to us so we will stops from playing gambling and take a rest.

That will be good for us to avoids becoming emotional when playing gambling so we don't have to lose much money. We know that self control will hold ourselves from spends too much money especially when we already lose money before. We will thinks to stop playing gambling because we know that can makes us lose more and more money when we becomes emotional.

It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.

We should all strive to gain this skill and use it accordingly. I am talking about being disciplined in front of the odds that we may see, of course.
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August 20, 2024, 05:47:42 AM
It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.
That is how limitation will helps gamblers to prevent his losses in gambling so they can enjoy for playing gambling while they don't have to lose much money. If many gamblers realizes about that and will not use too big money to playing gambling, they can use gambling for having fun and will not trying to chase the win. They know that can makes them becomes emotional and when that is happen, they will lose control over themselves.

The emotional feeling can besides them while playing gambling and can change anytime based on what they gets from gambling. But if they have a strong self control, they will not have to worry if that will hurt them because they can playing gambling moderately. They can manage themselves not to becomes emotional and the important thing are they can stops from playing gambling anytime they want.
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August 19, 2024, 10:01:56 PM
This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.
all depends on the mindset that is owned, when someone has a good mindset then everything can be done easily such as not extending a gambling session that has ended in defeat, this tends to be difficult to do but in my opinion this only applies to gamblers who have the wrong mindset such as those who have a mindset where gambling is considered a means of making money for sure. while for those who have a good mindset such as only considering gambling as entertainment then everything will be fine because there are no careless actions taken.

besides that gambling is not only about winning and losing, but thinking and self-control also determine, if we can apply a mindset, discipline, limits of course everything will be fine and we should have all of that and apply it well in the gambling that is done, even though it seems difficult but it will protect us from big risks. because when it is not applied to the gambling that is done then the impact or excessive gambling will occur because the self is driven by the wrong mindset.
sr. member
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August 19, 2024, 09:08:53 PM
That is why self-control is very useful for all gamblers to prevent the emergence of various bad risks in gambling itself. Both in holding back emotions, self-control is also useful to prevent a gambler from becoming greedy and addicted to gambling because with good self-control, gamblers will play wisely, disciplined and careful and they only consider gambling as a fun activity, not a place to make money.
By having self control will helps us to prevents the emergence of various bad risks in gambling. We will know how to manage our emotion and what we need to do when our emotion increase. We will not trying to keep playing gambling when we becomes emotional because we know that can makes us forget about our limitation. We don't want to becomes greed or other problem that can occurs to us so we will stops from playing gambling and take a rest.

That will be good for us to avoids becoming emotional when playing gambling so we don't have to lose much money. We know that self control will hold ourselves from spends too much money especially when we already lose money before. We will thinks to stop playing gambling because we know that can makes us lose more and more money when we becomes emotional.

It is true that with good self-control possessed by the gambler, he will gamble by setting the right limits every time he will bet money, good self-control is very useful for gamblers besides they can set limits on money to bet there are also other benefits as you have mentioned, namely controlling the emotional feelings that exist within a gambler.
Yes, it is true that someone who has good self-control will be far from bad attitudes such as greed can be controlled by the existence of good control and what can a gambler do, he will feel safer if self-control is done properly.
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August 19, 2024, 06:23:00 AM
To buttress your point, taking a break immediately after you feel emotional towards gambling whether you are greedy when you are winning more or have just lost and feel down is the right approach in a situation like this, there is always another day to try. Trying to continue playing at that time will certainly put the gambler into more trouble. I learned this secret in trading and when I started gambling, it was a work over for me. Our minds of gambling matter so much more than the money we intend to gain, it may not be easy at first but with a strong mind of believing that it's best we continue the next day will always help us to overcome the pressing temptation of gambling more that could result in more losses. For this to be helped further, having good gambling plans matters, after all, plans would have guided us to know the right time to call it quit as we would have known the maximum amount we can lose per session and how many times we are entitled to gamble the whole sum budgeted for the session.

Overcoming the temptation to gamble further requires strong willpower. Which skill, most gamblers don't care about possessing. Making money has eaten deeply into the minds of gamblers such that nothing else matters. Emotional moments come with pressure to take action.

The gambler now must follow the right decision. Unfortunately, the pressure pushes some players toward the wrong side of their thoughts. They'll consider how sad it'll be to forgo all their lost money. So, the player tries harder to replenish what he's lost.
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August 19, 2024, 05:51:45 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

It's normal to feel emotional when you are losing but continuing to gamble in that state isn't good because you might lose more, we tend to make careless decisions whenever we are losing or chasing our profits.Aways remember that the best time to stop is when you are feeling emotional, take a break from your phone or computer and try to do other activities that would distract you from going back to playing more games because if you do there's a very high chance that you might lose everything you have

Great points! Cooling your head off with other activities is a great way to think about your bets that didn't go so well and come back with a fresh spirit and body intact. That way, with a good mood, you are going to have better odds, in my opinion Grin
To buttress your point, taking a break immediately after you feel emotional towards gambling whether you are greedy when you are winning more or have just lost and feel down is the right approach in a situation like this, there is always another day to try. Trying to continue playing at that time will certainly put the gambler into more trouble. I learned this secret in trading and when I started gambling, it was a work over for me. Our minds of gambling matter so much more than the money we intend to gain, it may not be easy at first but with a strong mind of believing that it's best we continue the next day will always help us to overcome the pressing temptation of gambling more that could result in more losses. For this to be helped further, having good gambling plans matters, after all, plans would have guided us to know the right time to call it quit as we would have known the maximum amount we can lose per session and how many times we are entitled to gamble the whole sum budgeted for the session.
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August 19, 2024, 02:20:50 AM

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline ...

Thank you too! I think that setting limits, not forgetting them, and sticking to a plan with the necessary discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing it) is a recipe for having the best possible experience for a gambler. And most importantly, it won't be the last Smiley

Yes, of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without encountering any problems or obstacles. Gambling is always about games of chance, there is no certainty and guarantee of always being able to produce wins, as said by some friends above

You did a bit of a whoopsie with the quoting, but it's alright, I got you Grin

Fingers crossed, we all will be able to implement what we want in the future. And have a blast while doing it.
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August 19, 2024, 02:13:02 AM

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline ...

Thank you too! I think that setting limits, not forgetting them, and sticking to a plan with the necessary discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing it) is a recipe for having the best possible experience for a gambler. And most importantly, it won't be the last Smiley

Yes, of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without encountering any problems or obstacles. Gambling is always about games of chance, there is no certainty and guarantee of always being able to produce wins, as said by some friends above
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