Topic: When I'm emotional, I LOSS! - page 5. (Read 1906 times)

Of course humans are sometimes impaired by their emotions and besides it's what makes us human. However when it comes to gambling activities, we should try as much as possible to anull the need or scenario of making wrong decisions because of emotional tension or stress.
As a gambler your ability to arrange you priorities matter a lot because it helps gamblers control their gambling rate to avoid things like over staking because you are happy  or because you lost and want to get your post funds back. A gambler should not allow emotions make him become an addict.

We are just human beings and its normal that we would really be having those emotions.It is really just that there are people who could really be able to make such control and there
are ones who are really that impulsive or to those people who do really have those kind of actions on which it isnt really that new anymore. They would really be making out such reactions
just because the results or outcomes didnt really be able to meet up into their expectations. This is why it would really be that best that you should really be having that  control
if you dont like to mess up. Always make use of the amount on which you could afford to lose, because if not then this would bring up those kind of worries that
you had already spending up tons.

For this reason even if we know what we have to do, when the time comes we may take a completely different decision as we are not in full control of our emotions, and even if this is normal, since no one can completely control themselves perfectly, if this is something that happens over and over again then it is time to make an effort to correct that conduct, otherwise this will become a pattern that will happen repeatedly and we may become unable to get over it.

Usually, someone becomes emotional because they have lost a certain amount of money without being able to win anything, so they will be annoyed and still want to try again. But in the next attempt, they still couldn't win and this made their emotions increase even more. Finally, they lost control of themselves in gambling and this resulted in them also losing their money. That is why we must be able to control ourselves well so as not to become emotional and also not experience more defeats. And if we can use gambling well, we can avoid increasing emotions and don't need to feel upset because we have experienced defeat.

If we fear losing a lot of money, we should limit our gambling games and not place bets with big money. That is to avoid big losses and losing a lot of money in gambling so we just try to enjoy gambling as it should. And it is normal if we feel afraid of losing a lot of money from gambling so we must try not to experience it by exercising good restrictions and self-control. And with these two things, we can also avoid disappointment, frustration or even despair because we can take good care of ourselves while we gamble.

Indeed, there are other reasons why someone can get emotional when they gamble. For example, the idea of making a big win triggers our reward system in our brains, which releases dopamine. As a result, we may experience an emotional roller coaster due to the increased excitement and anticipation. There is uncertainty since the results of gambling tend to be unpredictable. Our way of thinking, particularly the release of emotions such as excitement, fear, and anticipation, is our brain's response to uncertainty, in the way that I see it. It is difficult for us to conquer and properly control these kinds of emotions, in my opinion.
 
It makes sense that, as gamblers, our fear of losing money won't go away, especially if we wager more, doesn't it? As if the fear of failing outweighed the happiness of succeeding. I mean, when we lose money, the emotional toll it takes can be severe, leaving us feeling disappointed, frustrated, and even desperate. This emotional reaction might even take place over reason when making decisions.

It is normal for someone to lose control of their emotions when gambling because of the results they get from gambling. But if he can have good self-control, his emotions will not be provoked and he can still use gambling as he should. He also won't try to gamble excessively because he knows it will only give him more losses. He will know how to keep his emotions stable and if he feels his emotions starting to rise, he will immediately stop gambling and leave the casino so he doesn't lose control of himself. By keeping their emotions stable, they can remain aware of the conditions and situations they face when gambling so that they will not make the wrong decisions. He will also definitely be able to stop his gambling game before things turn bad. He will not want to follow his ego or lust to continue gambling, especially if the situation has started to change. He should stop gambling and rest to reduce his emotional tension rather than continue gambling.

Their judgement is impaired, some of our human emotions like sadness or frustration and other have the potential to impair judgment. Meaning as gamblers, we may act impulsively without thinking and rational reason. And as a result, we take more risk without considering the bad potential outcomes, i.e losing more money that we should have.

So it's very hard to have this emotions, however, we are all humans, it's part of us that's why self-control is very important as well. If not, every gambling session we have, we might take that we are unlucky because we are not winning. But if we take a closer look, our emotions are interfering with the processing of information. And so there could be factors that we didn't see or fail to consider like for example in sports bettings as we don't look on numbers and statistics and just go out and put our bets.

Definitely when someone is emotionally unstable they tend to lose in gambling activities. This is usually due to the fact that when someone is emotionally drained they can easily make wrong decisions and when it comes to gambling such wrong decisions can cause a great deal of loss.
When some people are emotionally unstable they may stake too high or too low causing their winning chances to drop. However these chances of winning can still be increased in games where one can input both calculations and experience. Unfortunately an emotionally unstable person may end up making mistakes In those areas too.

Self awareness is another thing that's not considered by most people before going into gambling they are just carried away by the excitement of going to have fun or been entertained and to make money aswell so they wouldn't pay attention to the fact that they easily get depressed whenever the loose so much or they have psychological effects on them.

They just allow their selves to be carried away by the excitement and just want to have fun and make money but at the end of the day the story comes out as something else a s they will regret and blame it on gambling meanwhile they were actually just carefree and didn't bother to do a self check because they at that point felt like it wasn't necessary but when they win they don't get to remember how they felt when they lost . Mentality has a lot to do with how well you can gamble and still maintain a healthy habit as it affects even the physical because it's proceeds from the mental that keeps the physical either in a good or bad shape.

Ok. Understand the reason why you said it's up to them. However, maturity is not about age, it's about being in the stage of accepting the facts about things no matter how bad they look and making the best out of it with integrity.
Assume, they have the maturity, is the maturity they have enough to handle the gambling buzz? These are the things that play a huge role in the life of gamblers.

Glad about what you said here. Sadly a lot of gamblers understand this fact but they find it hard to follow the process and the same things applied in crypto trading which also leads to the loss of a lot of traders.
What also pains about their wrong decision is the negativity it creates about gambling in the minds of people who see their level of addiction.

Setting a budget is a good way but one doesn't necessarily have to do that to stay safe from getting driven by emotions. All one needs to do is to have a clear mindset and perspective about gambling because people who consider gambling a way to earn money will usually become victims of their emotions and then lose everything eventually. So one needs to take gambling as a fun and entertaining activity and just try their luck with it without having a lot of expectations.

When you gamble to earn money through gambling, you will get easily emotional once you lose some money and the urge to recover that money will make you gamble more and increase your bets which will eventually make you lose everything you have.

One of the main issues on most gamblers is that they do really tend to push something which is impossible like being a constant winner on which we know that it cant really be something to happen in gambling. Yes, you might be able to win up some bets but doesnt mean that it would really be sustaining until the very end. We cant really be able to deny out that when it comes to losing
situation then emotion would be the main thing that would react out on which not all people would really be that good when it comes on controlling their temper. This is why people do
mess up because most people couldnt be able to control themselves and able to act accordingly or what are the things that must be done.

I don't think you will lose all your capital in one stupid move. Maybe you are also maximizing your stakes? One thing I notice in gambling is that when we are about to increase our capital, the results will then change from positive to negative. It's like they are manipulative.

Well, what do we expect? That would be an easy money for us if they will only allow us to have a gameplay like that. We think we are wise but we don't know that the house is more wiser than us. Don't blame the game because it's not its fault but just try to maintain your temper and betting size and the gameplay are also going to be the same. Of course, the chance of losing is still there. So learn how to quit.

I understand what you mean here, you tend to point more to the negative perspective of gambling in the eyes of society in general and indeed this is a fact because most gamblers gamble in the wrong way and understanding which makes them eventually stuck in the downturn and experience the bad effects of gambling, it is quite reasonable to say that society including their family or relatives will have a bad perspective on them even though they basically have a good responsibility in gambling that can keep them awake. For the issue of emotion, the maturity factor is integrated in them so that is the reason why I said that it is up to themselves on how they address and treat their gambling, and for the issue of understanding it is another thing that they have generated from the first time they came to gambling and that does have an influence and relevance on what kind of approach they will take on their gambling activities.

Yes that's right, for the issue of whether they can be responsible or not all of that really depends on the understanding that they bring from the beginning about gambling, if they basically think that gambling is a place to earn then obviously I would not be able to say that they can be responsible gamblers because in the end what they will do is act excessively because of the encouragement of the hope of earning. Responsible gamblers are those who have the right understanding especially about gambling which is nothing more than a game of probability in the sense that there is nothing that can ensure they can win at the end of the session, therefore responsible gamblers will always carry a small budget amount because they know that there is no certainty there and that is a healthy and more recommended approach that leads to precautionary measures rather than focusing too much on the chances of winning.

Yes, the problem all goes back to them but gambling can't be excluded because their friends and family that see the negative impact of their addiction won't see gambling as a game of chance, they will see it as something negative.
Having said that, the good, or bad their emotion made lead them to does not solely depend on them. Sometimes it depends on their level of maturity, understanding, and the company they keep.

It all goes back to the awareness of the genuine concept of gambling and how they accept it and stand firm on tips to gamble profitably.

Sometimes we just need to study ourselves and understand the kind of nature we have and know the weakness as well we may be having towards gambling, some will make huge loss because they are not guided by the way they gamble, we can not use the physical approach on how we see things appearing and take them as the direct means of of how we are playing our bets when gambling, things doesn't work like that in so many ways, we need both physical and mental approach to find the accuracy needed towards how are expected to gamble.

Being emotionally down can affect a gambler in the most negative ways, this is because at that point you tend to lose contact with realities and at that, you will make the most wrong decisions, which will eventually lead you to lose in the process.


Although, losses can happen at any point in time but then we have to always be in control of our emotions because it's only by so doing you will be able to make accurate game analyses that can lead us to our winnings.

We are just humans and its normal that we do have emotions plus we dont really like on losing money on which this would really be your main experience on the time you would really be doing gambling.

It would really be just that natural that we would really be that emotional on the time that we are really that dealing with gambling. Who does really like on losing money?
It would really be just that normal that we could be having those reactions on the moment we do lose. Same goes for winning on which getting happy on the moment it would be happening.
If you do find yourself that being too impulsive and highly reactive towards gambling on the sense that it does give out that kind of negative impact towards you then it would
be just that wise that you should really be continuing such activity.

Problems like this are self-inflicted, the result of not being able to control your emotions will make the number of losses even greater. This situation is very often experienced by gamblers, losing is one part that gamblers definitely feel, so when the situation is unfavorable, emotions need to be controlled.

When a gambler is happy when he wins, he must also be prepared to face defeat. Emotions really need to be controlled to maintain safety, no matter how much you try to increase the bet to chase losses, you remain in the same position. It might be better to stop, then come back when your emotional level has stabilized.

I think for that problem it all goes back to each of them, like I said before that everyone has emotions in themselves and for the problem of whether those emotions will influence themselves to lead to something that tends to be good or vice versa it all depends on themselves, and like you said about someone who has responsibility they actually won't be a responsible gambler when they are already in the session in the sense that they can't put their emotions aside for that problem I think it goes back to how they address and treat their gambling activities. If they basically put their hopes on winning in gambling then I honestly believe that they will not be able to put aside their emotions when they lose at the end of the session, we must understand that gambling is a game of probability which means that it is nothing more than a game of "possibility" meaning that you can win and can anytime.

Back again as I said that gamblers who will not be able to put aside their emotions when they lose are those who put their hopes on winning so it is difficult for them to accept defeat at the end of the session which ultimately makes them emotional and act out of control. So the point is that whether someone is responsible or not all depends on how they respond to gambling activities, if basically their goal is nothing more than just for fun then obviously losing will not be too much of a problem and this can minimize the occurrence of emotions in the end.