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August 09, 2024, 08:45:23 AM

That is right because when they gambling, they will thinks about money and not trying to enjoy and have fun in gambling. That will makes them gets deeper in gambling without trying to limits themselves from playing gambling. Their minds will also change and not trying to holds themselves from the next losses so that is why many people becomes emotional when they lose but that doesn't stops them from gambling.

If they are attract to other people's wins, they better thinks twice to follow what other people's do because they will not gets the same luck like other people. So they must thinks to always limiting their money and time when playing gambling so their lose will not too big and they can holds their emotional not to becomes bigger. We must control ourselves when playing gambling so we will have a chance to control our losses.

I guess that kind of mentality happened, I mean those who thinks that they can duplicate the same luck that someone already made will keep losing their money as emotion will lead them to keep seeking for that same luck. I mean, there are  people who would love to win over and after experiencing it they will keep pushing for more instead of quitting and enjoy whatever they already got.

It's more on emotion control and keep that practice to avoid losing what you can afford to lose and regret with how you decide.

Yes and I would say that it is the best idea to make themselves suffer more. I think from the beginning it is mandatory for a gambler to know and understand about what and how the concept of luck is, it is something natural that comes uninvited and goes unaccompanied, meaning that it will never be known when luck will come to bring us victory.

Other people's luck is indeed very tempting but it does not mean that we should try to pursue the same luck, there are differences in time and amount in terms of luck for each gambler, in the sense that if the person you see has won big now, it does not mean that you will also be able to get the same results by trying, remember that hope is not something that can change the results in the game, everything will always be abstract. And besides, I'm not sure that when someone wins what they hope for they will be able to enjoy it by cashing it out at that time, as you said that there is a possibility for them to continue trying to get a larger amount, and of course that is very possible when a gambler prioritizes winning.
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August 09, 2024, 08:12:58 AM
There I no way you can win when you re emotionally down, and this is not limited to gambling alone but all other phases of life because at some point you need to be emotionally balanced for you to make the right bet decisions, this is so important and evidence has it that the rate of loses is always high when gamblers gamble under emotional crisis.


So for a better State of mind, you need to be emotionally stable, to be able to gamble responsibly, and if anything should be avoided while gambling, it should be emotional interference, because this have a lot of it own implications and impact on the gamblers thinking faculty.
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August 09, 2024, 08:09:03 AM
most are about the money alone , that's why they usually go about with this mindset of getting rich quick through gambling. Well Is not actually their fault we all humans, most of them develop that mindset through a certain occasion or event they encountered from a particular source like now and days one can easily stumbled a gambling post via social medias , where alot of folks showcasing their winnings making others to think they can also hit the jackpot that easy , but such mindset always attract more losses most time because many will think gambling responsibly may not bring more profit because it may reduce the amount of risk they can taje but going over board may attract a better profit when knowing at same time it may increase the chances of one losing his money .
That is right because when they gambling, they will thinks about money and not trying to enjoy and have fun in gambling. That will makes them gets deeper in gambling without trying to limits themselves from playing gambling. Their minds will also change and not trying to holds themselves from the next losses so that is why many people becomes emotional when they lose but that doesn't stops them from gambling.

If they are attract to other people's wins, they better thinks twice to follow what other people's do because they will not gets the same luck like other people. So they must thinks to always limiting their money and time when playing gambling so their lose will not too big and they can holds their emotional not to becomes bigger. We must control ourselves when playing gambling so we will have a chance to control our losses.

I guess that kind of mentality happened, I mean those who thinks that they can duplicate the same luck that someone already made will keep losing their money as emotion will lead them to keep seeking for that same luck. I mean, there are  people who would love to win over and after experiencing it they will keep pushing for more instead of quitting and enjoy whatever they already got.

It's more on emotion control and keep that practice to avoid losing what you can afford to lose and regret with how you decide.
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August 09, 2024, 04:08:41 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

Gambling is usually a symptom of people's addiction and those who have it are those who experience more losses. And I use some other tricks that save me from gambling losses. I divide my balance into several parts and withdraw from gambling as soon as my balance is finished. 

If I face a loss, I fear getting that money back but I am patient. This way I can control myself but it is very difficult because the pain of losing money hurts the brain. That's why all the gamblers who are there are basically using the strategies and experience to definitely win in gambling.



I tried to use a similar strategy, but then there was a certain moment when I was terribly unlucky in poker - my cards could not make a good combination at the last showdown. And I was sure that if I continued to play, adding to my deposit here and now, I would be able to win back. But unfortunately, emotions began to get the better of me and I lost an additional amount.
Therefore, this method of saving money did not work for me.

I am sorry for such an experience. Truly, in my opinion, it's better to take a deep breath, and, if the odds aren't in your favor, it's time to take a break and take another try later, in a better mood. It can and is hard to refine such a skill, to know when to stop and have another try another day, but, it's essential if you want to have a great time.
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August 09, 2024, 04:06:04 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

Gambling is usually a symptom of people's addiction and those who have it are those who experience more losses. And I use some other tricks that save me from gambling losses. I divide my balance into several parts and withdraw from gambling as soon as my balance is finished. 

If I face a loss, I fear getting that money back but I am patient. This way I can control myself but it is very difficult because the pain of losing money hurts the brain. That's why all the gamblers who are there are basically using the strategies and experience to definitely win in gambling.



I tried to use a similar strategy, but then there was a certain moment when I was terribly unlucky in poker - my cards could not make a good combination at the last showdown. And I was sure that if I continued to play, adding to my deposit here and now, I would be able to win back. But unfortunately, emotions began to get the better of me and I lost an additional amount.
Therefore, this method of saving money did not work for me.
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August 09, 2024, 03:52:10 AM
That is right because when they gambling, they will thinks about money and not trying to enjoy and have fun in gambling. That will makes them gets deeper in gambling without trying to limits themselves from playing gambling. Their minds will also change and not trying to holds themselves from the next losses so that is why many people becomes emotional when they lose but that doesn't stops them from gambling.

If they are attract to other people's wins, they better thinks twice to follow what other people's do because they will not gets the same luck like other people. So they must thinks to always limiting their money and time when playing gambling so their lose will not too big and they can holds their emotional not to becomes bigger. We must control ourselves when playing gambling so we will have a chance to control our losses.

It is difficult to combine restraint and pleasure, if you want to earn money in gambling, then it will be work for you, and the attitude will be appropriate, if it is all just for fun, then most likely this is not a small game of money and losing does not become a big problem for the player. Most people here talk about playing for fun, because most likely they have already tried to earn money gambling and realized how difficult it is, and now they continue to play because they love adrenaline but do not expect a big win.

If you want to earn money in gambling, then you need to adhere to a large list of rules, observe risk management, bet only a certain amount from the deposit, do not make many bets in one day, because it will tire you out and a number of other rules that cannot be broken. You can earn money in gambling, but it is too difficult, you need to love it and you need to want to do it constantly.
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August 09, 2024, 03:18:27 AM
Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

Gambling is usually a symptom of people's addiction and those who have it are those who experience more losses. And I use some other tricks that save me from gambling losses. I divide my balance into several parts and withdraw from gambling as soon as my balance is finished. 

If I face a loss, I fear getting that money back but I am patient. This way I can control myself but it is very difficult because the pain of losing money hurts the brain. That's why all the gamblers who are there are basically using the strategies and experience to definitely win in gambling.

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August 09, 2024, 03:05:18 AM
As human beings we are, our emotions always come into play in each of our gambling bets results(winnings or losing). It's now left for us to have control over it or allow it to rule over us in our decision-making to continue gambling or call it a quit in our gambling activities for the day. But remember, he who allows their emotions to have a better side of them doesn't usually succeed in whatever they are doing at the moment. It's always advised for one to be in complete control of their emotions because that always gives them a better advantage to analyze the better step to take that will land them a favorite experience
Winning will make it addictive to increase the bet.
Losing will be emotional and want to make up for previous losses.

If the gambler cannot control emotions then all his actions will become chaotic because it is not with the calculations that he thinks about his steps, whether it will be good or bad.
Anyone who is emotional towards gambling should just forget it, they will never be successful with it. Aggression or greed solves nothing, unless in some rare cases, the gambler is merely lucky. We should know why we want to gamble, how we will ensure good gambling practices and be skilful to earn, how to preserve our gambling account through carefully calculated budget and management, and how to maintain a balanced psychology. Above all, the proper budget, management and psychology are crucial to being the best gambler you can ever be.

For instance, if you are good at gambling and also know how to manage your gambling very well doesn't automatically translate to your success because if the psychology is imbalanced, you are susceptible to emotions and you will surely mismanage due to it. The same goes for management, if you manage wrongly and the psychology is good, you are still deceiving yourself. This calls for careful planning before we start gambling and also for discipline and determination to actualise the good plan.
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August 09, 2024, 01:03:59 AM
Whoever cannot control his emotions should not gamble when he is emotional because that can lead to huge losses, if you are gambling and losing it is a norm that you will become emotional, at that point it is good to stop playing and go on a break if you must still play on that day. Personally, when I get emotional I don't gamble anymore till the next day.

It is when we are free with our minds and happy that we will enjoy gambling and that can also bring luck to you because you are enjoying the game.

Unless a player is able to figure out what is it that gets him emotional, he may be unable to control such feelings. I was going through this medium post about handling emotions, and found similar idea as yours on taking a break. Aside that, players also need to master the specific amount of money that gets them emotional when they lose it. Then work towards splitting their funds to fractions, so as to enjoy the game without regrets or painful emotional feelings that follows losing a significant amount.

Truly, that should be a goal we all should strive for - enjoy our time while doing what we like. Emotions won't help in this regard, but better risk management and patience - will.
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August 08, 2024, 11:50:15 PM
Whoever cannot control his emotions should not gamble when he is emotional because that can lead to huge losses, if you are gambling and losing it is a norm that you will become emotional, at that point it is good to stop playing and go on a break if you must still play on that day. Personally, when I get emotional I don't gamble anymore till the next day.

It is when we are free with our minds and happy that we will enjoy gambling and that can also bring luck to you because you are enjoying the game.

Unless a player is able to figure out what is it that gets him emotional, he may be unable to control such feelings. I was going through this medium post about handling emotions, and found similar idea as yours on taking a break. Aside that, players also need to master the specific amount of money that gets them emotional when they lose it. Then work towards splitting their funds to fractions, so as to enjoy the game without regrets or painful emotional feelings that follows losing a significant amount.
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August 08, 2024, 11:40:33 PM
most are about the money alone , that's why they usually go about with this mindset of getting rich quick through gambling. Well Is not actually their fault we all humans, most of them develop that mindset through a certain occasion or event they encountered from a particular source like now and days one can easily stumbled a gambling post via social medias , where alot of folks showcasing their winnings making others to think they can also hit the jackpot that easy , but such mindset always attract more losses most time because many will think gambling responsibly may not bring more profit because it may reduce the amount of risk they can taje but going over board may attract a better profit when knowing at same time it may increase the chances of one losing his money .
That is right because when they gambling, they will thinks about money and not trying to enjoy and have fun in gambling. That will makes them gets deeper in gambling without trying to limits themselves from playing gambling. Their minds will also change and not trying to holds themselves from the next losses so that is why many people becomes emotional when they lose but that doesn't stops them from gambling.

If they are attract to other people's wins, they better thinks twice to follow what other people's do because they will not gets the same luck like other people. So they must thinks to always limiting their money and time when playing gambling so their lose will not too big and they can holds their emotional not to becomes bigger. We must control ourselves when playing gambling so we will have a chance to control our losses.
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August 08, 2024, 07:23:56 PM
I think before they gamble they will think that everything will be fine besides it will go according to their own expectations. but the reality is different when the results are disappointment there they are emotional because the results are not in accordance with their expectations, and of course this is something beyond their minds as you said that not everyone knows that they have excessive emotions and do not know that emotions will occur when the results are disappointing.
what you said is right, it is better to evaluate yourself first by looking at yourself, can you accept results that are not in accordance with expectations or not, because that will determine everything besides we do not know our emotions can be held back or not when something does not go according to expectations but it is natural for us to be emotional when everything is beyond expectations because that is a natural human attitude, but what must be considered is that we must be able to control our emotions so as not to make us take actions that are high risk, especially if we cannot fully accept the results that occur well.

The point is to do a self-evaluation and ask yourself what you are looking for in gambling, if you are gambling to earn income then emotions are something that will definitely happen when you lose, don't get caught up in your own emotions when you lose.
Many people often say and advise gamblers to control their emotions, but the key is actually what and how the person's goal is to gamble, simply put if they are basically gambling to pursue victory then controlling emotions is something that will always be difficult to do.

The only goal that can make you able to control your emotions and have the ability to accept the risk of losing is to gamble with the intention of filling your free time when you are bored, because when money is not a priority then I think emotions will not occur.
that's right, when the purpose of gambling is entirely to seek profit then emotions can certainly occur and it is clear that these overflowing emotions are not to improve the situation, but will only worsen the situation in the future. so don't be mistaken with the mindset of gambling that can make us experience emotions and make us trapped in gambling that is detrimental not fun, we must instill the concept that gambling is fun because it is just entertainment, so don't expect too much, just be reasonable.
agreed, those who tend to experience emotions are likely to have money as a priority in the gambling they do, so they don't think about the side of the greater chance of losing than the chance of winning so they ignore the big risks that will occur when they experience overflowing emotions.
it should be noted that gambling is not just about money but there are many things that must be considered because they are also important. so don't just think about money when gambling we must be able to think about ourselves because we ourselves determine it.
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August 08, 2024, 06:27:29 PM
Normally the intension of every gambler is to ensure they have made money through gambling, and most of time a gambler doesn't know what pushed him directly into gambling, so therefore I believe that gambling is all about luck and when you started to pursue your loss that means you're encroaching to be addicted

Gamblers that claims that they do not know what pushed them into gambling are lying because everybody has a reason why they started gambling. For some gamblers it could be because they wanted to make more money because of the money they have is not enough and we can all agree that money does not do us. No matter how much we have, we always want more and this is the reason gambling has alot of user because people always want to make more money and although we keep losing when we are gambling, we will not stop because we think we can be lucky the next time that we play. Alot of gamblers are guilty of gambling with emotions therefore they will always lose until they learn to separate emotions from the game and just play knowing that the odds is against them.
This is so true, every adult as required by most casinos who ventures into gambling, at some point had good reasons they went into it, so saying they didn't know, there by making it feel like they lost consciousness when or before they got into gambling, can be considered as a huge lie because I know for sure that the quest for money or fun are things people consciously make decisions for and later proceed to implement their decisions so they are only liers to say they didn't know what came over them or probably they weren't conscious of it.
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August 08, 2024, 04:45:30 PM
Winning will make it addictive to increase the bet.
Losing will be emotional and want to make up for previous losses.

If the gambler cannot control emotions then all his actions will become chaotic because it is not with the calculations that he thinks about his steps, whether it will be good or bad.

I think discipline is also included in controlling emotions, so it is important for every gambler to have responsibility for it, because what I know is that gamblers leave it without direction and it will damage them mentally and financially.

If winning can make someone more addictive but you are good in gambling with high winning ratio, then I'm cool with it as long as losses are few and winning are high, then you have nothing to fear or scared about in the first place but you see the aspect of making up for the previous losses when you barely understand the skill to even win that game, if care is not taken there is going to be endless gambling to such kind of person because it will look like the gambler will be on a loop of recovery for long time.

However, whether you are good in gambling or don't understand gambling much but you are well discipline, stick your your limit, know when to bet and when not to bet. Even if you encounter loss, it is going to be minimal compare to a person that has the skill to make money from gambling but doesn't practice any discipline of gambling management.
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August 08, 2024, 03:56:34 PM
Normally the intension of every gambler is to ensure they have made money through gambling, and most of time a gambler doesn't know what pushed him directly into gambling, so therefore I believe that gambling is all about luck and when you started to pursue your loss that means you're encroaching to be addicted

Gamblers that claims that they do not know what pushed them into gambling are lying because everybody has a reason why they started gambling. For some gamblers it could be because they wanted to make more money because of the money they have is not enough and we can all agree that money does not do us. No matter how much we have, we always want more and this is the reason gambling has alot of user because people always want to make more money and although we keep losing when we are gambling, we will not stop because we think we can be lucky the next time that we play. Alot of gamblers are guilty of gambling with emotions therefore they will always lose until they learn to separate emotions from the game and just play knowing that the odds is against them.

Yeah, lots of gamblers are guilty as they are unable to control their emotions and they allow losing more than they can afford, it's true also that there's always a reason behind when a person step his foot into gambling either to have some enjoyment or to aim for making money, there's always reason which mostly because of money.

They are thinking that they can manage to win but because of emotions they lose all the way.

That's true , and most are about the money alone , that's why they usually go about with this mindset of getting rich quick through gambling. Well Is not actually their fault we all humans, most of them develop that mindset through a certain occasion or event they encountered from a particular source like now and days one can easily stumbled a gambling post via social medias , where alot of folks showcasing their winnings making others to think they can also hit the jackpot that easy , but such mindset always attract more losses most time because many will think gambling responsibly may not bring more profit because it may reduce the amount of risk they can taje but going over board may attract a better profit when knowing at same time it may increase the chances of one losing his money .
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August 08, 2024, 02:40:41 PM
Yes, of course, as you said, everyone who cannot control their emotions should not gamble, but unfortunately not everyone knows that they have excessive emotions, and also not everyone knows from the start that in the end they will be emotional when they lose.
So in my opinion, it is better to re-evaluate yourself, simply if from the start you are unable to accept defeat, then it is better not to gamble at all, because the inability to accept defeat is what causes emotions.

I do not think that it is natural for a gambler to experience emotions when they lose, because after all, from the start it is clear that defeat is part of the game that can happen at any time, so the point is that it is better to fix your risk acceptance, emotions will only come when you are unable to accept defeat.
I think before they gamble they will think that everything will be fine besides it will go according to their own expectations. but the reality is different when the results are disappointment there they are emotional because the results are not in accordance with their expectations, and of course this is something beyond their minds as you said that not everyone knows that they have excessive emotions and do not know that emotions will occur when the results are disappointing.
what you said is right, it is better to evaluate yourself first by looking at yourself, can you accept results that are not in accordance with expectations or not, because that will determine everything besides we do not know our emotions can be held back or not when something does not go according to expectations but it is natural for us to be emotional when everything is beyond expectations because that is a natural human attitude, but what must be considered is that we must be able to control our emotions so as not to make us take actions that are high risk, especially if we cannot fully accept the results that occur well.

The point is to do a self-evaluation and ask yourself what you are looking for in gambling, if you are gambling to earn income then emotions are something that will definitely happen when you lose, don't get caught up in your own emotions when you lose.
Many people often say and advise gamblers to control their emotions, but the key is actually what and how the person's goal is to gamble, simply put if they are basically gambling to pursue victory then controlling emotions is something that will always be difficult to do.

The only goal that can make you able to control your emotions and have the ability to accept the risk of losing is to gamble with the intention of filling your free time when you are bored, because when money is not a priority then I think emotions will not occur.
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August 08, 2024, 09:33:50 AM
Normally the intension of every gambler is to ensure they have made money through gambling, and most of time a gambler doesn't know what pushed him directly into gambling, so therefore I believe that gambling is all about luck and when you started to pursue your loss that means you're encroaching to be addicted

Gamblers that claims that they do not know what pushed them into gambling are lying because everybody has a reason why they started gambling. For some gamblers it could be because they wanted to make more money because of the money they have is not enough and we can all agree that money does not do us. No matter how much we have, we always want more and this is the reason gambling has alot of user because people always want to make more money and although we keep losing when we are gambling, we will not stop because we think we can be lucky the next time that we play. Alot of gamblers are guilty of gambling with emotions therefore they will always lose until they learn to separate emotions from the game and just play knowing that the odds is against them.

It's our nature, really, speaking about wanting more, and there is nothing wrong with that. It's okay to feel guilty because of the actions that were done because of greed or emotions. But it's great if a gambler sees through those situations and tries things differently afterward. That's the experience that you cannot buy or have other than by yourself.
No matter how much we try to keep ourselves under control while gambling, we become very emotional when we lose again after making some profit.  And at that time there are many wrong decisions and more losses. I tell my story today.  I borrowed $10 from a friend and started gambling then I made a profit of $36 then though I wanted to withdraw the money once but I got greedy and started betting bigger amounts and losing only a few bets brought the balance below $10. Being emotional, I bet the full amount and the balance is 0. this is how emotions are slowly destroying us.
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August 08, 2024, 08:51:02 AM
Normally the intension of every gambler is to ensure they have made money through gambling, and most of time a gambler doesn't know what pushed him directly into gambling, so therefore I believe that gambling is all about luck and when you started to pursue your loss that means you're encroaching to be addicted

Gamblers that claims that they do not know what pushed them into gambling are lying because everybody has a reason why they started gambling. For some gamblers it could be because they wanted to make more money because of the money they have is not enough and we can all agree that money does not do us. No matter how much we have, we always want more and this is the reason gambling has alot of user because people always want to make more money and although we keep losing when we are gambling, we will not stop because we think we can be lucky the next time that we play. Alot of gamblers are guilty of gambling with emotions therefore they will always lose until they learn to separate emotions from the game and just play knowing that the odds is against them.

Yeah, lots of gamblers are guilty as they are unable to control their emotions and they allow losing more than they can afford, it's true also that there's always a reason behind when a person step his foot into gambling either to have some enjoyment or to aim for making money, there's always reason which mostly because of money.

They are thinking that they can manage to win but because of emotions they lose all the way.
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August 08, 2024, 02:55:09 AM
Normally the intension of every gambler is to ensure they have made money through gambling, and most of time a gambler doesn't know what pushed him directly into gambling, so therefore I believe that gambling is all about luck and when you started to pursue your loss that means you're encroaching to be addicted

Gamblers that claims that they do not know what pushed them into gambling are lying because everybody has a reason why they started gambling. For some gamblers it could be because they wanted to make more money because of the money they have is not enough and we can all agree that money does not do us. No matter how much we have, we always want more and this is the reason gambling has alot of user because people always want to make more money and although we keep losing when we are gambling, we will not stop because we think we can be lucky the next time that we play. Alot of gamblers are guilty of gambling with emotions therefore they will always lose until they learn to separate emotions from the game and just play knowing that the odds is against them.
You know when people keeps saying that it baffles me to say whether are they being blindfolded or what and of a true we can't say they being blindfolded but just because they want to double their money. Most people who thinks of doubling their money are the people who does like this and when they noticed it's already on the reversed meaning they couldn't control themselves on the main reason why they started gambling instead they found themselves going worst and worst every single day.

Why because they had envisioned themselves to make huge profits from gambling without knowing that gambling doesn't operates and function that way. The earlier people understand gambling the more better because sometimes i had to reason if it works on the reversed because it's always the same when started but at some point you would feels like quitting but when you flashed back the amount you have spent during gambling you would then say "NO" because you can't afford to lose such amount of money just quit at single point without even securing at least 2 to 10 winning in your history of gambling.
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August 08, 2024, 02:55:00 AM
Zero percent of emotion should be used in gambling or making any important decisions. Emotions never make good decisions. Intelligent people always control their emotions and do not take any decisions out of anger. If you are overly emotional and this emotion manifests in your gambling then I would suggest that you first learn to have full control over your emotions before taking such risky actions. The point is that you have lost money gambling and then you impulsively gamble more money which is a foolish decision. Smart people will stop there and wait for a good time without betting more money at that time. The more control you have over your emotions, the more accurate your decisions will be and the more successful you will be.  Sometimes emotions seem to be the greatest enemy of a man.
The thing is that everyone has data from birth due to genes, and if our parents were emotional, then we will most likely be like that too. Another thing is that despite this data, we can train our emotional perception in the game. You can try to control your emotions with your mind as much as possible, of course, this is very difficult to do and is only available to those who show persistence and willpower. I even see for myself how emotional I used to be and how easy it was to get me mad in the game, but at the moment I have learned to control it so much that I do not experience any problems with it now, even if I lose several times in a row.
When a child is born, it comes into the world with the combined genes of the parents, so the child is more likely to be like the parents. But the future behavior of that child depends a lot on how the child is raised by the family after birth. As long as we are children it is natural that we have no control over ourselves but from the time we learn to understand but we have to find the difference between good and bad. If we realize that because of being overly emotional we are suffering everywhere or we are not succeeding in some areas, but we have to control that emotion. It is not a very difficult task, people can change everything if they want. Those who try to change can change themselves, but those who do the same thing over and over without understanding everything cannot control their emotions at least.
Therefore, if we feel that we are addicted to the game at least at a minimal level, or our wife has such features, then we need to watch our common child more carefully. This does not mean that we should not watch other children, but such children have a higher chance compared to others. On the other hand, I understand that it is impossible to be with children all the time and watch them, because in the end they will still communicate among classmates and friends, and no one can predict what their common interests will be.
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