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Quote from: zuzie on August 15, 2024, 02:16:51 AM

Quote from: betswift on August 14, 2024, 05:50:43 AM

It's not easy, I agree, but it should be controllable with time and experience in such situations.

Yes, that's how holding back emotions when losing gambling is not easy for gamblers to do, but in any case controlling yourself can help gamblers not to be overly emotional when losing.
Well, from here it depends on each individual to learn to control themselves when they lose or have won. Grin

Well emotions are something that we as humans should not repress, it is something that we must bring to the surface, but to do so the trick is that we must limit our resources when playing, if we have 1000usd it is crazy to spend it all, to have everything available, it is not the same to have 100usd to spend than 1000usd, that is where our control begins without repressing the emocoins, that is, while we play we can take out everything we have, but when we reach the limit of 100usd and it is spent we have to withdraw without even thinking that we are going to deposit again, that does not apply.

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Quote from: noormcs5 on August 16, 2024, 02:33:56 AM

Quote from: betswift on August 16, 2024, 12:34:01 AM

Great points! Cooling your head off with other activities is a great way to think about your bets that didn't go so well and come back with a fresh spirit and body intact. That way, with a good mood, you are going to have better odds, in my opinion Grin

That will only happen if you do not put a lot of money in your bet that will make you feel uncomfortable and you are not able to sleep properly because of the loss.

Making yourself cool and not get worried about the loss will only happen when you put a very little amount of money in each of your bet and games. The moment you put more money and you lost that bet, there is no way for you to keep calm and relax. Management of portfolio is a must in gambling otherwise it's too difficult to survive in gambling.

therefore we should be able to allocate money for gambling that is money that is ready to be lost so that it does not make us restless when a loss does occur. many people become confused when they lose and that is because they allocate money without being ready to lose, until when the loss of the allocated money occurs it makes them emotional which emotion can make them lose control like wanting to reverse the situation while there is no certainty clearly.

in my opinion even though they allocate a small amount of money but if they are not ready to lose it is the same, so the point is we must be able to allocate money in small or large amounts that are ready to be lost.
moreover by allocating a large amount of money to gambling which is most likely a defeat it will certainly make us emotional, this also involves self-control because when emotions start to emerge then this is where self-control is important, if there is no good self-control what will happen is following the existing emotions, while when there is good self-control then you can put aside or ignore the emotion, but it is unlikely.

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Quote from: slapper on August 16, 2024, 11:04:15 AM

Goals, process - this ain't just for the casino floor, it's for life. Know thyself. Know your limits. Push them, but don't shatter them. Every bet's a risk, every hand's a gamble. Embrace that uncertainty. That's where the thrill is, the raw edge of existence

Don't try to conquer fear, partner up with it. It'll keep you honest, keep you hungry. And that's how you win, in gambling and in life

Fear is a part of us and works with emotions. Fear can be converted to courage when we continue with our goals in its presence. Gamblers who allow fear to defeat their self-control stop being themselves. They permitted ideas from peers to derail the courage to stay responsible. Naturally, it's tempting not to try the other risky part, watching friends win big, and buying nice gadgets.

The responsible player may begin to think otherwise. The courage in him gets weak and disappears, and he'd have a hard time staying responsible again.

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Quote from: Dewi Aries on August 16, 2024, 12:45:28 PM

Quote from: 348Judah on August 16, 2024, 10:11:55 AM

In whatever thing we are doing, we shouldn't make the emotion we have in us get over the things we do because there is going to be an impact on each other, things can't be done together with the same emotion we are having on other things, and we will have learn on how to differentiate things and also control our emotions on anything we do, if not we may not be able to achieve or accomplish anything we wanted to do as desired.

Right, and maybe I will say the reason why emotions should not be involved when we are doing anything in life, where of course our actions and decisions are usually unmeasured, in the sense that it is very possible for someone, especially gamblers, to make decisions without any consideration when the decision is taken, which of course as we know that emotions always want a sense of satisfaction and in some cases in any case usually in the end these actions actually lead them to a much worse situation.

As often happens where gamblers continue gambling blindly due to their involvement accompanied by emotions and ultimately lose much more money.

On the other hand, I think there is actually only one thing that can be a solution so that we avoid these emotions, especially in gambling, namely by making yourself a responsible gambler, in the sense of having the ability to accept the risks of the decisions you have taken and also by realizing that gambling is a risky activity at any time.

By being prepared to any possible outcome will allow you to avoid such kind of emotions, especially when you are dealing with gambling, knowing that the venue where you are involving yourself is a high risk place, it's very important that you already have that acceptance so win or lose you need to move forward, just like what you said most of the time those gamblers who followed their emotions lose more than what they can afford, to prevent yourself committing that same mistake better to set your limits and follow whatever happens you need to make that hard stop. The only way to prevent getting that fear and be manipulated by your emotions.

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Quote from: 348Judah on August 16, 2024, 10:11:55 AM

In whatever thing we are doing, we shouldn't make the emotion we have in us get over the things we do because there is going to be an impact on each other, things can't be done together with the same emotion we are having on other things, and we will have learn on how to differentiate things and also control our emotions on anything we do, if not we may not be able to achieve or accomplish anything we wanted to do as desired.

Right, and maybe I will say the reason why emotions should not be involved when we are doing anything in life, where of course our actions and decisions are usually unmeasured, in the sense that it is very possible for someone, especially gamblers, to make decisions without any consideration when the decision is taken, which of course as we know that emotions always want a sense of satisfaction and in some cases in any case usually in the end these actions actually lead them to a much worse situation.

As often happens where gamblers continue gambling blindly due to their involvement accompanied by emotions and ultimately lose much more money.

On the other hand, I think there is actually only one thing that can be a solution so that we avoid these emotions, especially in gambling, namely by making yourself a responsible gambler, in the sense of having the ability to accept the risks of the decisions you have taken and also by realizing that gambling is a risky activity at any time.

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Quote from: Accardo on August 16, 2024, 12:10:59 AM

Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 15, 2024, 10:53:46 PM

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Fear is a factor that makes some players not stop gambling. Humans have this fear of loss, but gamblers portray the opposite. They take the risk without calculating. Which attitude, shows how gamblers need to accept that they can lose all funds in a session. If they had this in mind, the fear of loss mindset would help regulate the player from taking too many risks.

Although in real life, fear of loss is a barrier to success in most cases, it could be helpful to gamblers. I suggest that such players set achievable goals and follow the process.

Fear - it's the primal scream in your brain, the cold sweat on your palms. It can paralyze you, or it can propel you. Gamblers? They dance with fear every damn day. But most of them don't get it. They think fear's the enemy. It's not

Fear's a compass, pointing straight at what you value most. You fear losing money? Good. That means you understand the stakes. Use that fear. Let it sharpen your focus, not cloud your judgment

Goals, process - this ain't just for the casino floor, it's for life. Know thyself. Know your limits. Push them, but don't shatter them. Every bet's a risk, every hand's a gamble. Embrace that uncertainty. That's where the thrill is, the raw edge of existence

Don't try to conquer fear, partner up with it. It'll keep you honest, keep you hungry. And that's how you win, in gambling and in life

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In whatever thing we are doing, we shouldn't make the emotion we have in us get over the things we do because there is going to be an impact on each other, things can't be done together with the same emotion we are having on other things, and we will have learn on how to differentiate things and also control our emotions on anything we do, if not we may not be able to achieve or accomplish anything we wanted to do as desired.

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Quote from: nara1892 on August 16, 2024, 09:06:47 AM

Yes, I can also assure you that it is really hard to accept the risk and let go of all the losses that have occurred, but it may not be impossible but it takes quite a long time to be able to make peace with yourself. So of course this is why the approach to gambling must be accompanied by limits, in the sense that whatever you want to do must be ensured that it does not exceed your capabilities.

Like in terms of putting money for example, because it is certain that losing a large amount of money is a painful situation where not everyone can accept the situation without giving any response or reaction of disappointment.
And also this is the reason why many of us suggest only gambling with a minimal amount, because in addition to being able to prevent you from losing a significant amount, this approach can also prevent us from significant emotions and regrets.

If you stick to risk management, it can protect you from rash actions in gambling, losses will happen in any case, it doesn’t happen any other way, you just need to perceive it as an integral part of gambling, but try to have as few of them as possible. Emotionality can be in case of a big loss, but if you can exclude it, then you can prevent it. If the bet size does not hang over 1% of your deposit, then you have nothing to worry about a losing bet, right? Therefore, competent planning of the game process can make gambling safe for you, unless of course most of your bets are losing.

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Quote from: noormcs5 on August 16, 2024, 02:33:56 AM

Quote from: betswift on August 16, 2024, 12:34:01 AM

Great points! Cooling your head off with other activities is a great way to think about your bets that didn't go so well and come back with a fresh spirit and body intact. That way, with a good mood, you are going to have better odds, in my opinion Grin

That will only happen if you do not put a lot of money in your bet that will make you feel uncomfortable and you are not able to sleep properly because of the loss.

Making yourself cool and not get worried about the loss will only happen when you put a very little amount of money in each of your bet and games. The moment you put more money and you lost that bet, there is no way for you to keep calm and relax. Management of portfolio is a must in gambling otherwise it's too difficult to survive in gambling.

Yes, I can also assure you that it is really hard to accept the risk and let go of all the losses that have occurred, but it may not be impossible but it takes quite a long time to be able to make peace with yourself. So of course this is why the approach to gambling must be accompanied by limits, in the sense that whatever you want to do must be ensured that it does not exceed your capabilities.

Like in terms of putting money for example, because it is certain that losing a large amount of money is a painful situation where not everyone can accept the situation without giving any response or reaction of disappointment.
And also this is the reason why many of us suggest only gambling with a minimal amount, because in addition to being able to prevent you from losing a significant amount, this approach can also prevent us from significant emotions and regrets.

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Quote from: betswift on August 16, 2024, 12:34:01 AM

Great points! Cooling your head off with other activities is a great way to think about your bets that didn't go so well and come back with a fresh spirit and body intact. That way, with a good mood, you are going to have better odds, in my opinion Grin

That will only happen if you do not put a lot of money in your bet that will make you feel uncomfortable and you are not able to sleep properly because of the loss.

Making yourself cool and not get worried about the loss will only happen when you put a very little amount of money in each of your bet and games. The moment you put more money and you lost that bet, there is no way for you to keep calm and relax. Management of portfolio is a must in gambling otherwise it's too difficult to survive in gambling.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 15, 2024, 10:53:46 PM

That is why we must learn about self control to prevents the bad thing that can occurs to use when we playing gambling. We can also handle our emotion not to becomes high because we will realizes if our emotion start to increase and will stops from playing gambling immediately. We will not risks ourselves by keep playing gambling when our emotion start increase because we know that can makes us lose control. Feelings of emotion when losing will increase but if we can handle ourselves, we will not gets any problem because we know how to stops that and still control ourselves. We must be wise using gambling as a way to have fun and understand how to manage our emotion especially we will see losing many times so we know how to prevents from becoming emotional.

Yes, learning and continuing to learn about how to consistently maintain self-control within ourselves while in a gambling place is also important to prevent the emergence of chaos from emotional feelings that arise when feeling unacceptable when getting a defeat and I agree with you being wise is one way to stop emotional feelings from within ourselves because with a wise attitude we will think carefully about what actions we should take next.

Quote from: betswift on August 16, 2024, 12:21:25 AM

It's essential for the well-being of each person, so, of course. It's in everybody's hands to become a bit better in that field.

Yes, it all goes back to each individual, if we act well then the results will also be good for us but if on the contrary we act badly or recklessly then the results will be a disaster for our lives, right?
Yes and the point is thinking and behaving well and healthily will take us away from regret and depression.

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Quote from: Victorybit1 on August 16, 2024, 12:27:32 AM

Quote from: Kasabus on January 28, 2024, 01:13:31 AM

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

It's normal to feel emotional when you are losing but continuing to gamble in that state isn't good because you might lose more, we tend to make careless decisions whenever we are losing or chasing our profits.Aways remember that the best time to stop is when you are feeling emotional, take a break from your phone or computer and try to do other activities that would distract you from going back to playing more games because if you do there's a very high chance that you might lose everything you have

Great points! Cooling your head off with other activities is a great way to think about your bets that didn't go so well and come back with a fresh spirit and body intact. That way, with a good mood, you are going to have better odds, in my opinion Grin

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Quote from: Kasabus on January 28, 2024, 01:13:31 AM

Hey, guys! Are any of you emotional gamblers who often lose because you can't control what you feel? When you lose, do you tend to double your bets or chase your losses, driven by a pride that can't accept defeat? Do you consider this a problem? If so, has anyone here been able to solve this kind of problem themselves, and if yes, how did you do it?

I have this problem, and based on my personal experience, I find that sometimes I get challenged but not too greedy because I don't have a problem quitting when I'm winning. However, when I'm losing, that's where my struggle lies.

That's why I shared it here; I feel that some of you may experience the same challenges, and I'd love to hear your ideas or experiences on how to win this battle so we can enjoy gambling.

It's normal to feel emotional when you are losing but continuing to gamble in that state isn't good because you might lose more, we tend to make careless decisions whenever we are losing or chasing our profits.Aways remember that the best time to stop is when you are feeling emotional, take a break from your phone or computer and try to do other activities that would distract you from going back to playing more games because if you do there's a very high chance that you might lose everything you have

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Quote from: zuzie on August 15, 2024, 02:16:51 AM

Quote from: betswift on August 14, 2024, 05:50:43 AM

It's not easy, I agree, but it should be controllable with time and experience in such situations.

Yes, that's how holding back emotions when losing gambling is not easy for gamblers to do, but in any case controlling yourself can help gamblers not to be overly emotional when losing.
Well, from here it depends on each individual to learn to control themselves when they lose or have won. Grin

It's essential for the well-being of each person, so, of course. It's in everybody's hands to become a bit better in that field.

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Quote from: ethereumhunter on August 15, 2024, 10:53:46 PM

Quote from: zuzie on August 14, 2024, 02:17:42 AM

Yes, self-control is very important in holding back emotional feelings when we experience defeat if we cannot control ourselves then new problems will arise that we should not have. Feelings of emotion when losing are indeed natural and appear suddenly to gamblers, yes, it could be because they do not understand and are not ready to accept defeat just like that, especially if the gambler really expects a big win there, then his emotions cannot be held back easily.

That is why we must learn about self control to prevents the bad thing that can occurs to use when we playing gambling. We can also handle our emotion not to becomes high because we will realizes if our emotion start to increase and will stops from playing gambling immediately. We will not risks ourselves by keep playing gambling when our emotion start increase because we know that can makes us lose control. Feelings of emotion when losing will increase but if we can handle ourselves, we will not gets any problem because we know how to stops that and still control ourselves.

Fear is a factor that makes some players not stop gambling. Humans have this fear of loss, but gamblers portray the opposite. They take the risk without calculating. Which attitude, shows how gamblers need to accept that they can lose all funds in a session. If they had this in mind, the fear of loss mindset would help regulate the player from taking too many risks.

Although in real life, fear of loss is a barrier to success in most cases, it could be helpful to gamblers. I suggest that such players set achievable goals and follow the process.

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Quote from: zuzie on August 14, 2024, 02:17:42 AM

Yes, self-control is very important in holding back emotional feelings when we experience defeat if we cannot control ourselves then new problems will arise that we should not have. Feelings of emotion when losing are indeed natural and appear suddenly to gamblers, yes, it could be because they do not understand and are not ready to accept defeat just like that, especially if the gambler really expects a big win there, then his emotions cannot be held back easily.

That is why we must learn about self control to prevents the bad thing that can occurs to use when we playing gambling. We can also handle our emotion not to becomes high because we will realizes if our emotion start to increase and will stops from playing gambling immediately. We will not risks ourselves by keep playing gambling when our emotion start increase because we know that can makes us lose control. Feelings of emotion when losing will increase but if we can handle ourselves, we will not gets any problem because we know how to stops that and still control ourselves. We must be wise using gambling as a way to have fun and understand how to manage our emotion especially we will see losing many times so we know how to prevents from becoming emotional.

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Quote from: summonerrk on August 14, 2024, 06:46:47 AM

Quote from: nara1892 on August 14, 2024, 06:25:44 AM

I think regardless of whether you are emotional or not, losing is still losing, gambling is always about two things that can never be denied, namely winning and losing, when we win, yes we are happy because it is very exciting but you can never deny another thing that is also part of the game, namely losing. This means that even if you are not emotional, defeat will always happen, but yes I understand that when you cannot control your emotions due to defeat or do not stop immediately when you start to feel emotional, then of course the number of defeats will most likely increase.

Therefore, responsibility and acceptance of risk should be at the forefront, because only with this will we not be too controlled by emotions, the reason is none other than because there is nothing else we can do as a precaution when we see that defeat is always part of the game, but at least with that ability we can minimize the number of defeats.

At the same time, a wise gambler is one who constantly keeps track of his income and expenses in the casino. The gambler who knows how much and when he spent. It is money management that is the key to a good perception of the casino.
Because I know many gamblers who are frivolous about money, and I know that such people will not be rich. Money is the most important resource and you cannot waste it thoughtlessly, blaming your poverty on luck, and saying that bad luck prevailed over the fate of the gambler.

Yes of course, and maybe I will conclude about someone you describe which means that everything we will do must be based on reasons and mature considerations, especially if it involves money and risk, forget about the chances of winning, and maintain awareness because that is the only thing that will make you wise in making a decision.
Management is always something important that must be applied in our lives, especially in the finances we have, none other than because with that management everything will be balanced.
On the other hand, as you said, money is something important in life, of course because only with that will we be able to meet the needs of life so that we can continue to breathe, therefore this is the reason why all risky activities must be carried out with various measured actions.

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Quote from: betswift on August 14, 2024, 05:50:43 AM

It's not easy, I agree, but it should be controllable with time and experience in such situations.

Yes, that's how holding back emotions when losing gambling is not easy for gamblers to do, but in any case controlling yourself can help gamblers not to be overly emotional when losing.
Well, from here it depends on each individual to learn to control themselves when they lose or have won. Grin

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Quote from: nara1892 on August 14, 2024, 06:25:44 AM

I think regardless of whether you are emotional or not, losing is still losing, gambling is always about two things that can never be denied, namely winning and losing, when we win, yes we are happy because it is very exciting but you can never deny another thing that is also part of the game, namely losing. This means that even if you are not emotional, defeat will always happen, but yes I understand that when you cannot control your emotions due to defeat or do not stop immediately when you start to feel emotional, then of course the number of defeats will most likely increase.

Therefore, responsibility and acceptance of risk should be at the forefront, because only with this will we not be too controlled by emotions, the reason is none other than because there is nothing else we can do as a precaution when we see that defeat is always part of the game, but at least with that ability we can minimize the number of defeats.

It is precisely this clear understanding of loss or even the possibility of a series of losses in any gambling game that should become for the player and for the OP, including, of course, such a brake for stopping the game at the right and appropriate moment. However, I understand very well how sometimes in the excitement of the game it is difficult to come to terms with such injustice of fate as a series of losses. Of course, this infuriates the player and motivates him to continue playing. Containing these feelings is very difficult for many. But you need to learn how to do it. By the way, as a player gains experience in gambling, this skill becomes as if by itself. It is gradually developed and goes in sync with a decrease in the overall experience of the next loss. It begins to be perceived, almost indifferently. But not completely indifferent, of course, but rather weak from the point of view of grief.
All this can be considered professionalism of a gambling player.

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Quote from: nara1892 on August 14, 2024, 06:25:44 AM

I think regardless of whether you are emotional or not, losing is still losing, gambling is always about two things that can never be denied, namely winning and losing, when we win, yes we are happy because it is very exciting but you can never deny another thing that is also part of the game, namely losing. This means that even if you are not emotional, defeat will always happen, but yes I understand that when you cannot control your emotions due to defeat or do not stop immediately when you start to feel emotional, then of course the number of defeats will most likely increase.

Therefore, responsibility and acceptance of risk should be at the forefront, because only with this will we not be too controlled by emotions, the reason is none other than because there is nothing else we can do as a precaution when we see that defeat is always part of the game, but at least with that ability we can minimize the number of defeats.

At the same time, a wise gambler is one who constantly keeps track of his income and expenses in the casino. The gambler who knows how much and when he spent. It is money management that is the key to a good perception of the casino.
Because I know many gamblers who are frivolous about money, and I know that such people will not be rich. Money is the most important resource and you cannot waste it thoughtlessly, blaming your poverty on luck, and saying that bad luck prevailed over the fate of the gambler.

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