Topic: When I'm emotional, I LOSS! - page 6. (Read 5886 times)

Tips of gold! The last paragraph is a good one, and only by testing all the things you described yourself, you can become better at gambling and have a blast at it. From theory to practice

I totally agree with you.Gambling should be considered a part of entertainment that can help a gambler maintain a balance with his money. If one thinks of the machine to make more money from gambling, his mind will be directed towards another gambling which helps him to sink deeper. A gambler has to be fully aware of the limitations of his money and make proper use of time by betting himself accordingly. While gambling, one should stick to money limits to keep oneself grounded in the light of reality and prevent oneself from making impulsive decisions.

Yes of course, and I hope you can implement the plan without experiencing any problems or obstacles.
Gambling is always about probability games, there is no certainty and guarantee to always be able to produce victory, as said by some friends above that casinos are companies and not charities, meaning that casinos have certain intentions and goals related to the reasons they create various games, and certainly not to give money for free to gamblers.

Apply limits on the amount of bets and time of involvement, be firm in implementing them, maintain awareness to make it easier for you to avoid various impulsive actions and thoughts, practice self-acceptance regarding risk and understand the following also by realizing that defeat is a definite part of the game. All of these are understandings, plans and abilities that a gambler must have before they get involved, because only this can make a gambler stay okay in the long run.

Thank you too! I do think that putting some limits, not forgetting about them, and sticking to a plan with the needed discipline (which only comes from trial and error from the situations that were testing It out) is a recipe for having the best experience possible for a gambler. And, what is more important, it will not be the last one

If you want to be free in gambling you must deattach the possibility of any emotions and any form of lack of decipline, because anything that connects us as gambler to anything that controls our emotions, but then we must have put in place what will help us to limit our gambling inability, emotions have lead many to loses alot of time and this is why we need to kill all form of emotional imbalance that could make you take unrealistic betting decisions.

Putting limits to whatever you do in gambling from the amount to to your games selection and even the numbers of time you gamble help a whole lot,, so limits and decipline are very important characteristics of a responsible gambling.

Golden words! I will take your points from your last paragraph with me for other discussions, thanks

Casinos are companies, not charities. They excel at it. They've built an industry on studying human behaviour and pushing those buttons that keep people coming back. Expecting to defeat the system? Like taking a knife to a gunfight. Its no coincidence that the house usually wins. Its planned.

Your "risk management" is sensible. Bet limitations are the only way to play this game. You're paying for entertainment, not the lottery. Like any decent entertainment, it costs. Know the price before entering. Thats crucial. Dont allow sentimentality take over. This is for fun, not becoming rich fast. I'll take a win if you leave with less money.

You yourself is the best teacher, so to speak.

Yes, I think it is a fact that theory is always much easier to say than to practice, imagining, hallucinating is always much easier. But anyway, whether you like it or not, a gambler must be able to have that ability when they are involved in gambling, because the ability to accept risk is something that I think is much more important than you preparing everything to pursue victory.
Remember that victory is nothing more than a chance, meaning it is still uncertain, or simply still a "possibility", while of course defeat is a definite part of the game.

This means that as you said, the idea is not only planned but also trained, because it requires a real process with practice over a period of time that may be quite long to ensure that we really have good self-acceptance abilities related to risk, and maybe I will add that the process may not take too long if we do it while re-understanding what and how gambling really is to help make ourselves aware that defeat is a natural part of the game.

I agree to that, a practice that you needed to keep repeating over and over to make sure that it will established inside you, most of the time a gambler learned the hard way, meaning that instead of preventing something which is already been shared by someone, you still going to push your way and eventually experienced things your way will let you realized by your mistake.

It is your own will that will help you to limit yourself, from that stand point you'll be able to lessen your emotions and not to let yourself dwell into something that you will repeatedly lose your money.

This most times is easier said than done, where we will have to have  mind that already pre accepts loss even before we suffer ones actually not an easy one until we are experiencing it first hand then we are goin to believe how well that could mean to us than we had taught all the while. gambling is something that has got a lot to do with our minds and so subjecting your mind to a certain level of discipline isn't something we can literally do easily except for a consistent practice of such over a long period of time.

Look mate, I can tell you one thing for sure, always keep your head straight and don't go crazy with your bets. Losses are part of the game, you just have to accept it. And hey, if you're careful with your money, you shouldn't worry too much about losing. Just enjoy the game, but remember to play it safe. Ciao belli.

By having self control will helps us to prevents the emergence of various bad risks in gambling. We will know how to manage our emotion and what we need to do when our emotion increase. We will not trying to keep playing gambling when we becomes emotional because we know that can makes us forget about our limitation. We don't want to becomes greed or other problem that can occurs to us so we will stops from playing gambling and take a rest.

That will be good for us to avoids becoming emotional when playing gambling so we don't have to lose much money. We know that self control will hold ourselves from spends too much money especially when we already lose money before. We will thinks to stop playing gambling because we know that can makes us lose more and more money when we becomes emotional.

Yes of course, none other than because after all a person is useless even if for example you try or find various ways to ensure victory or to increase the chances of winning in the end it will only be a waste of time, because after all victory can only be confirmed if luck comes at that time. The conclusion is because this is why it is better for us to focus more on risk management, I understand that by treating everything minimally then maybe the amount of your victory will not be too big.

But remember that a big win is also always a result that can never be ascertained, or simply there is no certainty and guarantee for you to be able to get a big win, and in some cases in the end the idea actually makes gamblers lose money in large amounts. Casinos are not stupid my friend, your carelessness is a big advantage for them.

So of course it is better to put limits on the approach we have such as in terms of putting the amount to be bet, because if the bet is small then it is clearly less likely for emotions to occur, and of course this is an approach that can keep us from the possibility of large losses.

One of the things that give a gambler motivation and joy is when they own predicts and statistics analysis win them the game, more than the game they just predict and depend on luck, because when you are decipline enough to do and follow your analysis, you allow yourself the time to reason out every of your decisions.

Attaching emotion when making your bet selection is somehow bad as if you are gambling between gambling, in the sense that you are not following any principle both yours and the one of others given to you.

Of course, so the point and key to staying away from various bad possibilities in gambling is by making ourselves capable of accepting any risks that will occur, because in the end it all depends on how we treat gambling in the sense that we are the ones who take and determine the risks. If basically we gamble reasonably in the sense of not doing various actions that tend to be excessive, then of course the impact that we will experience will not be too significant, or simply put, maybe you will only lose a small amount of money.

So make sure all your actions are measured in the sense that you must first consider before making a decision, because when everything does not exceed your capabilities, it is unlikely for you to be emotional, meaning it is also unlikely for you to experience bad impacts such as losing large amounts of money.

Everyone gets upset when they lose in gambling because no one likes to gamble and lose. Everyone wants to win in gambling but what I have noticed is that if someone wins in gambling he enjoys a lot and when he loses his mind is very bad.   It happens because he tries hard to recover the lost money. But we have to be careful never to get too addicted to gambling.

It's true that we must also release the emotions that we have to avoid getting crazy all of a sudden. But, there are instances where these emotions should also be suppressed especially if we are in the gambling industry.
I can tell that using experience only because I had been frustrated and mad many times that I deposited way too many times that I could not even control myself.
It's revenge that I want and I won't stop until I get it, that's the only thing on my mind, I also have the perspective of the RTP coming in anytime which is why I keep on betting even though that money is something that I cannot afford to lose anymore.
Emotions will always be there, control is not.

If suppressing emotions will actually make it worse for the gambler, it is better to let it out as you said, but we as gamblers must still be able to accept the risks for the future, whether we lose a lot or win, we will never be a gambler.
Yes, sometimes gamblers express their emotions by being more daring to bet with a lot of money, but there are also those gamblers who consistently maintain their emotions because they know that the results of gambling cannot be easily guessed and the profits are very difficult to obtain.


That is why self-control is very useful for all gamblers to prevent the emergence of various bad risks in gambling itself. Both in holding back emotions, self-control is also useful to prevent a gambler from becoming greedy and addicted to gambling because with good self-control, gamblers will play wisely, disciplined and careful and they only consider gambling as a fun activity, not a place to make money.

When they realizes that they have fear of losing their money, they can reduce their gambling activity and not playing gambling too often. That can helps them to saves their money for other things so they don't have to get lose of much money. They don't have a solid reason to playing gambling because they are afraid to losing their money so they will not playing gambling too often. It needs awareness to realizes the reality and see that gambling is just one activity that doesn't need much money to have fun.

They must accepted whatever happens to them in the end of their gambling session so they will not have any feelings about what they gets from gambling. But not many people will have that feeling instead many people will return to casino and want to recover their lose and that can makes them getting more problem. Becoming emotional in gambling can ruin their day because they will lose much money without they realizes. We must not follow what other gamblers do by always limiting our money and time so we don't get emotional when playing gambling.

Without learning more about self control, they will just getting trap by their emotional and can't do many things except following their emotion to recovers their lose. That happens to many gamblers out there so we must really control ourselves when playing gambling because we must prevents the big lose that can attract us to become emotional. To be wise when playing gambling is necessary and that will be a must thing that we must do because we can't risks big money to playing gambling. That can only gives more losses to us and once we gets some losses, that can triggers our feelings becomes emotional and sooner or later that can makes us playing gambling excessively. If we feels difficult to control our emotion, we can take a break from playing gambling for some time to introspect what we need to do to have self control and have a chance to prevents the emotional.